Being a patriarch is an African thing if we understand how our fathers did theirs. This new generation is defining patriachy as the ability for you as a man to shoulder the full financial responsibility of the family while your wife sits and enjoy your labor. Let me enlighten some of us who think like that.

Patriachy of old put man in charge of everything. So even if a man is married to a woman who’s richer than him she was still under him. Our great grand fathers had farmlands. What they did then was to share farmlands to their wives to work on. The men didn’t work, they used the children of their wives to work in the farm while those who were rich enough had maids that worked in the farm.

The wives and their children were the ones doing the work and after harvest, these women take some of the produce to the market to sell and give the money to the men. This was how it was until our fathers who thought they’re more educated and enlightened began to carry the burdens on themselves. From the beginning it was not so. I am not from delta but in the time of old, delta (Urhobo, itsekiri, ijaws) practiced true patriachy.
That’s why nowadays, an average delta lady doesn’t put their financial responsibility on their men cos their mothers where the ones going to the market, farms to bring money to take care of the men. That was how patriachy was practiced until men sold their birthright.

Now some men think patriachy means a man is qualified to be called a man by working day and night for the family while their wives stay at home doing nothing other than eating their husbands money

So as a man, if you understand the authority of a man, you can marry a billionaire woman and at the end of the month she will knee and surrender her salary to you If you want to know more about patriarchy don’t ask your educated father, ask your old grand father or great grand father to explain it to you.

In the days of old, when a child gets a job his or first salary belongs to his father but unfortunately religion has taken away that fatherly role. Now people now give their first fruits to their pastors So also it was with wives. Even if a wife is working, at the end of the month she is supposed to drop her salary with her husband. It is now at the discretion of the husband to give her back the full salary or part of it. Ask old people and they will confirm what I am saying here.

The man is the head of the woman and everything the woman has belongs to the man so stop thinking you’re right by saying “a woman’s money is hers while your money is for the family”.

Love and light

When we advice some men not to build their world around their wives and kids they’ll say you’re a sadist, misogynist etc
The day she discovers you can’t live without her is the day she will start misbehaving.

A friend of mine who was doing well got married to his wife after she hooked him down with pregnancy. Since then his life changed. After sacrificing everything he had to make her comfortable. Made her a housewife, bought a Benz for her to be doing big madam, enrolled the kids in one of the best school in the south south because there was money; Telecom money

Then things started dwindling after Chinese companies took over telecom and rubbished the industry. Had to sell his personal car as well as the car the wife was using. Every company he went into had one or two reasons to sack him. He got into problem with his previous company and he was arrested. Can you believe this his wife could not raise 5k to bail him out? He had to be remanded in prison.

After he was released, he took some loan and sent to his wife to pay up the rent instead she took the money, the kids and ran away with no trace. When the going was good she was there but when things went south she was nowhere to be found. I know some men will say NAWALT until they find themselves in that situation with nowhere else to turn to.

If you go broke today will your girlfriend/fiancée/wife that is acting all lovey dovey stay for 1 year without reminding you how a failure you are?

As you’re hustling day and night for your family, don’t forget to take care of yourself cos las las you may be all you’ve got left.

CAPSLOCKED:



LET'S NOT TALK LIKE KIDS, PLEASE.

SHE'S NOT DOING IT BECAUSE "SHE WANTS TO ENJOY HER SINGLEHOOD".

NO MATTER HOW MANY MEN SHE SLEEPS WITH A WEEK TO HER WEDDING, NOTHING WILL STOP HER FROM CONTINUING HER BANGING SPREE DURING MARRIAGE.

MEN WILL CHEAT BECAUSE THEY'RE HØRNY OR TO COUNT SCORES. FOR THIS, A MAN HAS TO PUT IN A LOT OF WORK, OR HAVE MONEY, OR HAVE GAME.
WOMEN WILL CHEAT SIMPLY BECAUSE THERE'S AN ENDLESS LIST OF MEN AVAILABLE FOR HER TO JUST "CHOOSE" FROM AT ANYTIME. SHE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO ANY WORK AT ALL.
WILL THIS IN MIND, A CARELESS WOMAN WILL ALWAYS SLEEP AROUND UNTIL HER LAST DAY ON EARTH NO MATTER HOW MUCH SEX SHE HAS HAD WHILE UNMARRIED.

AS LONG AS THERE'S AN ENDLESS SUPPLY OF TOASTERS WHO WILL EVEN PAY HER AND SHOWER HER GIFTS AND PRAISES JUST FOR HER TIME, SHE CAN'T GIVE YOU ANY LOYALTY. FORGET IT.

Note that not every lady has an endless list of men around them and this set of ladies still cheat. In that context, I stated the reason why some girls cheat more when they’re engaged; because someone has hooked himself to them already.

During the weekend I went to visit my elder sister. As I sat down to watch movies, my little niece of 10 years old came to me and asked me to please help her draw some things for her assignment. I refused and told her to do it herself. The next thing this little girl did was to start crying hoping to manipulate me to help her

I was shocked cos as little as she is she already knows how to manipulate emotionally. I got angry and told her to shut up. To my amazement she stopped crying, picked up her pen and began to draw. She stopped crying cos she knew that her manipulation couldn’t work on me.

Apart from some men falling prey to women manipulation, they also fall prey to their kids manipulation which is why a lot of father are under the control of their kids. This generation will keep churning out irresponsible children cos parents (mostly fathers) have lost grip and control over their children.

When men slept, women came and sow tares in the heart of their children against their fathers. Wake up fathers and take charge.

Love & Light

If you don’t want to stumble in life, always look life through the eyes of the redpill

Girlfriend gives award to his boyfriend
https://www.nairaland.com/6820797/rsust-sug-official-awards-boyfriend

This is how it’s supposed to be. Men are the prize

A lot of men can stand their girlfriend cheat but not their wives. Inasmuch as some married men don’t care if their wives cheat (which is becoming a trend now) some others do cos they’ve trusted their wives to the extent of exposing their weakness to them.

I believe knowing how and why women cheat will arm us as men not to simp for our wives or believe every of their manipulations. Someone also wrote that women do not need reasons to cheat, they just cheat. It may sound true to the ears but it’s not. Everyone needs a reason to cheat even tho some reasons may sound foolish but it’s still a reason. That’s why when a married woman meets a single guy that she plans to cheat with, the first thing she does is to discredit her husband or share reasons why she wants to cheat on her husband.

Let’s stop being emotional, sit and learn from people who have insights and first hand experiences cos experiences shapes people and never leave them the way they were.

To those of us who believe those in the LGBT community should be allowed to practice whatever they want thinking they were born that way, I am going to share with you my experiences with the LGBT community in Abuja and why most people go into it.

NB: I have gay friends and have engage in sexual escapades with lesbians and I will share my experiences later.
Please note that the redpill is a yoke breaker and it has the power to break us free from every facet of our lives; relationship, religion, career, business, marriage, etc

Love & light

I am not encouraging guys to start sleeping with married women neither am I discouraging guys from getting married even though it may take divine intervention for me to get married due to what I have seen and experienced. Even if we decide to discourage guys on this thread from sleeping with your wife that won’t stop other guys not on this thread from going ahead.

As you’re getting angry that guys are sleeping with married women I hope you as a married man is not sleeping with single ladies cos those ladies are some guys “serious girlfriends”, fiancée and bethroted?

What my posts is all about is to teach some married men how to know if the wife is cheating on them and know how to put them in check from the place of my experience. But just like some men, blue pill men are emotional and illogical when it concerns the love of their life

I believe the redpill speaks from the place of logic while the female gender operate using emotions and an emotional man will always fall prey to the manipulation of women.

My knowledge in life is not just on women manipulation but on life itself cos I’ve been opportune by nature to have experienced life the hard way and that has armed me with life lessons that I’ve been using to defend myself against the attack of enemies.

Love & Light

Even if you love a girl and would love to spend the rest of your life with her please don’t ever make the mistake of letting her know. Don’t get too emotional with your girl by putting a ring on her finger because you want to keep her to yourself when you know you’re not financially capable Enough to do the wedding. Once you engage a girl or make Her know that she’s your one and only, you give her the right to engage in sexual adventures with other guys cos she knows she has a “serious boyfriend” that is waiting to wife her.

Few months ago, I saw a lady on Instagram and started chatting with her. She’s the kind of girl that posts her fiancé pictures on her WhatsApp and social media. She even went as far as wearing engagement ring everywhere she went. As a redpiller I knew she was going to be an easy prey to feast on. Mind you, this girl is a 3 star police officer.

My brothers, this girl f*cks like mad cos she’s not bothered about getting married cos she has a blue pill man that has put a ring on her finger thinking that will make her behave well.

A neighbor of mine once met a lady that has a fiancé in another state while she was wh*ring with my neighbor. She actually told my guy she doesn’t want a relationship but just sex with benefits cos she’s engaged. Few days before she left to her village for traditional wedding, this lady stayed with my neighbor wh*ring around. She did what she did cos she needed to enjoy her singlehood cos someone somewhere has already made her believe that he’s nothing without her.

Be wise

Why you are happy that your “good wife” has accepted to do family planning, also be watchful cos majority of cheating wives are those on birth control cos no matter how many dicks they f*ck they can’t get pregnant

Most Married women who doesn’t care to f*ck a sidecock raw or allow him cum inside her are those on birth control.
While birth control is helping you to prevent having too many kids you can’t cater for, birth control also helps the women to f*ck around without getting pregnant. If not for DNA test some men wouldn’t have known that their wives cheated or is cheating on him

Good night all.
It’s time to trade and earn some money.

Love and light✌️

Once your wife starts disrespecting you and disgracing you in public, check it, she has probably started cheating on you cos most women don’t know how to share their attention to two men at the same time.

A pastor friend of mine shared his story with me sometime ago and I later experienced it first hand when I went to visit him. This pastor’s wife would leave the church while the husband is preaching and go collect Dick from her sidecock and she usually return home in the evening after everyone in church has gone home. This woman would disgrace him and call him a useless man and fake pastor even while he’s preaching and this made the man to lose a lot of his members.

This woman even stopped having sex with him using the remark that she can’t waste a sex with him.

After seeking my opinion about his situation, I told him to stop doing what he does and behave like a bad boy while at home cos it seemed the disrespect stemmed from his sexual performance. So one night, the pastor after luring her with gifts and sweet talks gave her head for the first time and rough sex. According to him, while he was pounding her, she started shouting that she will never cheat on him again. That was when he knew that she was cheating.

The truth is, the woman loves rough sex while the pastor was someone that believe that sex shouldn’t be more than missionary style. This made the wife to look for a guy who f*cks her roughly and makes her his LovePeddler.

Another reason the wife disrespect him shamelessly was cos she knew that the man is a pastor and shame may not allow the man to tell the world that their mummy GO is cheating on daddy GO. Never let a woman know that you hate divorce cos she will take advantage of it. Always let her know that if you ever perceive she’s cheating on you, you will kill her and the guy involved. This will put fear in her until she realize you’re joking.

If you’re a good husband and mr nice man who doesn’t want to hurt his wife during sex, be rest assured that your wife desires someone who will use her like a slut.

I once asked a woman her sexual fantasy and she said she wants to be used, roughly f*cked and pissed on. Stop pitying your “good wife” in the bedroom cos you’ll be shocked what her sexual fantasy is.

If you hear married women sexual fantasy you’ll know why some married women cheat with broke guys

Whenever I see men celebrating after so many years of “waiting on the lord” and the wife suddenly gives birth I laugh

Unfortunately, most of the kids does not belong to their husbands. On the street, some married women look for guys that looks like their husbands to cheat with or pay to impregnate them. So the child may look like you doesn’t mean it’s yours, only a DNA test can confirm.

Some married women will never allow you to f*ck them without a condom while some will even ask you to f*ck them without a condom and even cum inside of them. Some women are now engaging in anal cos their husbands will know if they their sidecock f*cks their p*ssy but unfortunately these men don’t check their wives asses. That woman that doesn’t allow you to have anal sex with her may be keeping that area for their sidecock.

Then how do you know if your wife/fiancée engages in anal sex without having it with her? Just push a finger in her ass during sex and check if it’s tight. A virgin ass is always tight while a disvirgined ass will always have a lose flesh at the top. Something like a clitoris.

The rate at which married women cheat nowadays is alarming cos most married men believe that they married the best and most loyal wife after eve

For those guys asking me to hook them up with married women sorry I don’t do that cos I don’t have married women on my contact

How can a man put a woman in check...

I met a woman on a dating site some time ago. This woman always looks for an opportunity to rubbish and talk trash about her husband. But as a redpiller I knew she was just manifesting her female nature. This woman happens to be married to a high court judge in Nigeria but it seems her husband knows about her so he puts her in check. The man makes sure she moves around with police escort and stops her from traveling in the guise of visiting her mom or attending an event.

The only freedom he gave her was allowing her use her mobile phone and access the internet which unfortunately was his biggest mistake cos this woman sends nudes and flirt with guys online. But despite her flirting she can’t travel to visit a man and a man can’t travel to visit her cos of the police escort everywhere. But I’m sure she may have a way of knacking in her state of residence or probably settle for the house help or gateman or driver.

Recently, the woman was able to manipulate her husband friends and senior colleague who allowed her to visit Abuja where she slept in her married ex house cos I wasn’t in Abuja at that time. She tells me things that scares me sometimes. I am very sure if she has a way or the right motivation she will poison the man just for her to be free but it seems the man is a “strong man”.

Freedom is the undoing of many nations and sometimes freedom is a trap itself. Check countries that gives women so much freedom, those are countries where women are in control. You never can tell the kind of wife you married until you allow her to explore. You will be surprised you married a wh*re.

The problem with most guys is that they are too real with women. If you tell a girl that you don’t drink or smoke she will tell you she doesn’t meanwhile she smokes weed and drink spirit with her sidecock who knows how to bring out the slut in her. Even if you don’t drink pretend as if you do and order for a beer and you will be shocked that your babe drinks. She might even finish 3 big stout in your presence.

One way I use to bring out the slut in women is to invite them for Netflix and chill with vodka and weed and most of them always like that. They may not be indulged in it but it’s part of their fantasy.

Because she’s using your picture as her profile picture or her family picture as her profile picture doesn’t mean she is not cheating.

Some time ago I met a lady on nairaland. My intention towards her was just to connect with people that lives in Abuja and not for sexual purpose. So I sent her an email and she responded, later on we shifted to WhatsApp. This is someone that has her husband as her profile picture. We chatted normally and she would always reply my WhatsApp status with preaching or reprimand me for being too naughty or raw. After enquiring about where I stay in Abuja she called me surprisingly one morning and told me she was coming to my place ah!! I was shocked but decided to maintain frame. Then she drove to my place in a flashy SUV after I had given her directions.

When she came she made comments about me not getting married despite the fact that I live alone in a two bedroom apartment and even offered to hook me up with her single friend which I agreed. Unexpectedly, while I was showing her around my apartment, she hugged me and started kissing me. She told me of how her husband doesn’t satisfy her bla bla!!! She promised me heaven and earth and even offered to buy me a car. She was shocked I turned her down cos I have learned to saw no to women. She later apologized after I told her to give me some time with the promise of giving her a life time sex next time.

She told me of how guys have impregnated her severally and she has aborted them and how the husband doesn’t cum inside her cos he suspects her. The way she spoke of the husband I knew he was a weak man.

Few days after, while in the office I got a text message from a strange number accusing me of sleeping with his wife ah!! After investigating I discovered it was the woman’s husband. The man even suspect that his wife was cheating so I think he started monitoring her WhatsApp conversation or put a tracker on her car. Few days later the man came to my apartment with some soldiers

Well we had to settle it like men after I told him I didn’t sleep with his wife and with the intervention of a friend who happens to be a senior military officer. Despite that incident I was expecting the man to either divorce her or probably send her back to her father’s house to teach her some sense but he didn’t. Which proves that she knows her husband is weak man which is why she keeps frolicking around.

Once a woman stops fearing you then she will start cheating on you and disrespecting you. Never be scared to put a woman in check cos once you give her the freedom she requires, she will fly away like a bird out of your reach.

Never take a lady serious that takes social media serious. Facebook is the largest dating site unknown to blue pill men. If you want to die young then secretly join the groups that your wife belongs to and watch the comments she drop on those groups.

Another thing I have discovered with social media is that most women that hardly make post on their timelines are the most active on social media. While some women post religious posts to deceive some people, a true gamer knows that those women are the easy catch. One way that guys seeking for married women to date do is to look for married women that are online at the odd hours of the night. Why she’s lying to you as her husband that she wasn’t online she only forgot to switch off her data, she’s actually chatting with a guy that’s bursting her head with love, attention and fantasy

Ubunja once made a post about an underground club where married women go to pick guys and some guys wanted to crucify him and I’m here to tell you that it’s real. The problem with being a married woman is that she can’t just walk up to a guy and ask him for sex or give a guy green light but she can only do this by visiting male escorts. Most cheating married women get guys from popular websites like codedruns while some get hooked up by their friends.

90% of male escorts are patronized by married women cos an average single lady with tons of guys at his beck and call will never pay a guy for sex. And most often, before the wife hooks up with the guys they first exchange nudes. So if you see a chat on your wife phone exchanging nudes and she says it was just nudes don’t believe her cos it always start from there.

I had a married woman that lives in Lagos who always look for an opportunity to send me her nudes. Married women are always quicker to send nudes than single ladies cos some of them are so deprived sexually that they seek for any opportunity to get in the mood.

The male escort industry is one of the most powerful industry in the world cos a guy who f*cks a married woman well can manipulate her to poison her husband and she will likely do it.

If only married men knows the insults their wives rain on them to their sidecock

If you believe you don’t need to know who your wife is chatting with then you may soon lose her.

Before you crucify guys who sleep with married women, know this, married women who cheat are mostly the ones that chooses the guys.

“I am going to church” is another way some married women use to go collect D*ck from their sidecock. We have become so indebted to religion and religious leaders that we find it hard to question anything that has to do with religion.

I believe the redpill isn’t just meant to break the stronghold of women on men but also the yoke of religion on men too. Some men are so weak to the extent that their wives now sleep with their pastors cos she knows that her husband can’t question religion. Women are smart that’s why a smart woman hardly marries a smarter man, they tend to settle with a less smarter man while they cheat with a smart street guy with game.

If you’re a man that values your brother too much be rest assured that your wife will prefer to f*ck your brother or cousin or nephew than f*ck an outsider cos she knows that you’re the kind that will never suspect that your own blood will f*ck your wife.

Those men shouting morality up and down should know that not everyone believes in morality and not everyone has conscience.

Your wife would prefer to cheat with someone you’re closer to than with someone outside cos men are likely to hide the story of their brother, cousin or nephew f*cking their wife and expose her if it was another man they give no sh*t about. Women know this and they use this against men.

Don’t trust your brother/cousin/nephew with your wife, don’t loose guard cos you and your bro share same DNA

I would love to share real life experiences on married women and cheating and how to know if that your holier than thou wife is cheating on you. But unfortunately many men are not prepared to know.

I share my real encounters to buttress my point cos I believe people tend to understand better with life experiences shared.

Growing up I used to hate my dad so much cos of the emotional manipulation my mom displayed. But as I grew older and began to interact with girls I discovered that I had no reason to hate my dad after all he sacrificed for us. He may not have sent us abroad to school or put us in high position in life but even the eba he fed us with daily was something cos it wasn’t easy for him too. He had an option of using all his salaries to marry more wives and satisfy his own desire but he didn’t. Unfortunately, women would never allow the kids to see the little efforts of their dad cos a woman is selfish in nature.

If your definition of a man is his ability to work his ass out, make more money inorder to cater for your loving wife and kids (who may grow up and hate you cos of the lies their mother fed them with) then you may grow old frustrated cos after you have spent your life slaving for your wife and kids without saving for your old age then you’d realize that your labor was in vain.

An uncle of mine died in 2011 and non of his children attended his burial. A retired Airforce office and a former CSO of a multinational company in Ogun state at that. He spent his life giving his children the best life to the extent he couldn’t build a house for himself in the village. A man who single handedly put his two children into the army and navy respectively. Short service o not recruit. The first son once told me that his dream was to finish medical school and travel to the USA but the dad made him join the army. He should be a colonel by now or retired.

My mom said my uncle was the one bathing and taking the kids to school when they’re young but despite everything, the wife turned all the children against to the extent of chasing him out of his house in Lagos until he had to resign from work and returned to the village where he had no house.

You first as the redpill says is the best approach to life as a man. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give your family the best but never give them the best at the expense of yourself and your future (old age)

azammi:
I don’t expect but I expect everyone to have morals , we’ve got a lot of girls (free ones) don’t know what you guys see in people’s wives . Pure evil and wickedness

Remember, redpill is amoral bro.

Love and light

azammi:
Well I don’t see a reason why I would accept a married woman . And I don’t see why I should be even be close to someone who does . It’s a cursed way to leave . I render die than have an affair with someone’s wife. Thanks for your explanation

That’s you bro and everyone can’t be you and don’t expect everyone to be like you.

azammi:
Why do you people take pride in sleeping with married woman?, what joy do you guys derive in it?

You can’t stop people from sleeping with married women & men what you can actually do is how to put your wife in a position where she can’t cheat on you.

Let me explain further.

Married women tend to cheat based on few reasons:

1- If she doesn’t respect you
2- if she doesn’t fear you
3- if you trust her too much
4- If you gave her too much leverage from the beginning.

Sometime ago, I and two of my neighbors were outside when we saw a man running out from the house opposite ours. Before we knew it a woman ran out after the man and started hitting him in public. The woman happens to be his wife that has two kids for him. She went further by plucking a stick and started beating the man like a child that refused to go to school.

The woman accused the man of cheating with his housemaid that shouldn’t be up to 12 years. But one thing the man didn’t know was that the wife was slutting around with some guys at the gym center. Even my unmarried neighbor had even slept with her. But inorder for the man not to bother investigating she turned the table around by accusing the man.

The man ran to where we were and begged us to help him beg his wife to stop beating him. After we had intervened, the man came to us and asked if any of us was still single. He said something that touched me, he said “Never tolerate nonsense from a woman from the beginning of dating cos she will use it against you”. Meaning never start what you can’t finish with a woman.

If you get involved into the deepest of the STREET you’ll know that married women cheat more than men. If she knows that you are going to forgive her for cheating she’s definitely going to continue cos she knows that with tears on her cheeks you can forgive her of anything.

To your question, most guys sleep with married women cos they spend on them, are not too clingy compared to single ladies, they won’t pester you with marriage, they won’t put pregnancy on the guy’s head; even if the guy impregnate them they can easily give it to their husbands, with a married woman you can carry out different sex styles and fantasies. So instead of cursing guys for sleeping with married women, we should ask ourselves; how can we stop our wives from cheating on us??

You can only know this if you’re open to knowledge and learn from guys who sleep with married women why married women go to them.

@ luminouz

Blue pill teaches you that women are the prize thus the reason why blue pill guys run after women thereby spending their hard earned cash and time cos the hunter tend to spend. While the redpill teaches us to be the prize and allow women chose and chase us.

After my simping encounter I stopped chasing women and started chasing my dreams. At first I was in the anger phase where I hated women but with time I began to understand the nature of women and knowing how not to fall into their manipulation web.

The redpill is not hatred of the female specie but an understanding of women.

LutanFyah:
Is this some kinda sexcapeds series or what?

Please, we don't need those details here, you can take it to the ashawo thread.

It’s not. I had to share it cos I read some people saying you can’t date or make a high class girl wet without money.
Money is important but we should hustle for money inorder to afford the things we need and not cos of a woman

Out of fun and adventure, I joined a group in Abuja where people (girls & men) hook up to knack their brains out. So I posted pictures of my Dick which is one thing I’m proud of. Before I knew it I started getting calls and WhatsApp messages. I discovered through that platform that most high class ladies don’t need your money or gifts; they’re more attracted to your physique, handsomeness and big Dick if you have one.

I had a lady call me via the platform after seeing my Dick and she would literally start crying whenever I refuse to pick her calls or hang up on her. I swear to God this girl can make even a pastor to backslide with her huge backside and pretty face. This is a girl that wealthy men simp over. She’s not poor cos she’s actually from one of the wealthy family in bayelsa.

When she heard I was in Lagos, she sent her cook to prepare a food tray and some designer wears and send to me. Going deep into the underground of the street opened my eyes to the knowledge that every woman has a sexual fantasy that she can’t carry out with “good guys”. Most women desire bad guys cos only with them can they fulfill their sexual fantasies. While good guys are scared to ask girls for anal or fisting, bad guys are bleeping asses and fisting girlfriends and wives of simps.

A friend of mine in Abuja actually has a wife of an army colonel that he f*cks like a slut. The woman sends him nudes and even supports him financially simply because he’s available to help her bring out the wh*re in her. Even that so called church girl that you think is different from the others also have a sl*t side that she wants to explore but unfortunately she can’t explore with someone that takes her serious. While she is friendzoning the “good guys” so that she can return to them for marriage, she is also looking for a “badguy” that wants to explore and do shit with her. That’s while most ladies get turned on when you tell them how you plan to hang their legs on the ceiling and pound their puss* until they can’t walk properly.

Most financially independent women don’t need your money, infact they even get angry when you try to give them money. Some of them just want to try out new sexual styles with a bad guy while they keep a “good guy” as a serious boyfriend.

With your 6 packs, fine face, big Dick, and redpill mindset, you can actually raise the amount of money you need to set up yourself as a man cos the truth, women are more richer than men in Nigeria. You will be surprised That that small girl that is asking you for airtime or urgent 2k has more money in her bank account than you.

cigaricon:
Who here has purchased boost coin. I feel like it has a lot of potentials. Planning on buying some soon

Yes it does. I haven’t tho but I may give it a try.

During my Simping Days:

This incident made me stop chasing women and spending on them cos it made me realize that if a woman doesn’t want you all your efforts, gifts, money towards her will be taken for granted.

Some years ago I had a crush on a coursemate of mine after we had graduated. Noticed she started drawing closer to me but I wasn’t redpilled armed to know how to manage the situation so I simped. She was into modeling at that time so I took it upon myself to become her manager. I hooked her up with few modeling gigs even tho she wasn’t paid I sometimes footed her bills to attend the events. I managed her to an extent that her pictures was on some Nigerian newspapers. I did all these cos I thought doing them will buy her heart and make her love me

We became so close that we could chat and call from morning till night without being bored. She showed signs of green light but I was so foolish to think being nice to a woman will make her reciprocate my feelings towards her.

While I was doing all these I was struggling financially. I took the bull by the horn and asked her out which she rejected :- when I asked her her reason for rejecting me she said she needed someone that is a hustler and someone that can take care of her luxury desire (meaning someone that is financially capable).

As a simp I thought maybe I could stay as a friend maybe one day she would change her mind. But she never did cos I kept asking her every year for 4 years and she kept giving me the same answer. So I got angry and blocked her on all platforms. A friend of mine asked her why she rejected me cos he knows her cos we’re all course mates. Her response was that it came as a shock to her cos she has taken me as a friend and brother

Fast forward to few years later I got a job in one of the telecom companies and I noticed she started drawing closer to me. What gave me the mind to cut all ties with her then was when she posted a guy on dreadlocks and tattoos on her WhatsApp status with the writeup “MCW my padi, the only one that understands me” Hahaha. So while I was doing church boy and a good guy, she wanted a badboy with dreads and tattoos. I wasn’t surprised cos her ex was a yahoo boy in the south.

But my question was why has she started finding me attractive now that she feels I have a good job?? She was 24 then and she’s 28years now and time is no longer on her side. Now she wants to use me as her retirement plan after whoring around and giving her best years to “bad boys”. She is currently dating a guy that I’m too sure she’s the one that choose him which confirms the statement that men should allow women chose them and not the other way round. It’s really true that alpha bleeps and beta bucks.

Now I’m the one doing shakara for her. And I have noticed that whenever I reply her messages it’s as if she has found salvation ; she now calls me fine boy and Abuja big boy

I am going to share more, and how I changed from being a good boy to a redpiller after reading Ubunja posts and my sexcapade as an Abuja bachelor using he redpill

Finally I have been able to read from page 1 to 873. Wow! It’s been an amazing ride. I want to appreciate everyone that contributed to this great thread. Well done bosses


I am going to share few of my encounters with ladies both during my simping days and my redpill days

Hur1:
Have you verified then do a reset

How do I reset please?

Forthe:
keep trying u will get it... Don't panic

Okay thanks bro