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Snakes will go extinct soon

I am always having this at the back of my mind : don't bite what you cannot swallow .

Toniaeloho:
A man in his late twenties approached me to marry him. I was not attracted to him neither was he a very friendly person. I told my mom about it and she advised me to think about it carefully.

After much thought, I decided to refuse because he seemed in hurry to marry me even when he barely knew me.

My parents got so angry with me. They said I should say agree because he is God fearing, has a good job( he owns a school) and they like him. I still refused , the man told me to marry him because he likes me and my parents like him. I tried reasoning with him but he told me that in those days girls marry men their parents approve.

My parents have threatened to not support my schooling if I refuse. I have tried to love this guy but I just can't. My parents esp my mom like him too much. I am not allowed to say a bad word against him. I am in my final year at school and 19 year old.

What should I do?

I don't think the way people think anyway. But you do have sex with a boyfriend whom you love and don't even know if you will end up together. Why not get married and have sex legally?

I heard the prophecy was deleted.

I am weary of this tip, that tip, I have formated my CV countless times. Yet I haven't received any tangible offer. It is well.

Please someone should send past questions to my email : hexzyz@gmail.com

Alright

Not everyone can be tamed.

Crap

I refuse to be any girls bestie or whatever they call it. Once I know it is what you are planning towards, making me your emotional back drop, I severe communication.

It is have been fixed.

I use D

Stupedinluv:
Women are fine with keeping male friends as friends but the guys they always end up making a fool of themselves. They cant keep simple friendship with the opp gender.

If i were you i will tell him to his face that i have no special interest in him. He can go hang himself for all you care. Life goes on

Sometimes the time and energy you invest in the friendship will want to prompt you to get something out of it. Especially in case of friends with no benefits. I have learnt not to get too close to any female friend, not to get involve in any mix up. If peradventure the closeness is getting beyond set boundaries, I quickly make the suggestion for possibility of relationship.
Your response at this time determine if I want to be close or not. The person you spend more time and share with, always have the possibility of being a partner, the attention grows more. But ladies try to deny that fact.

Konji na bastard

I wonder who want to shorten his life span all because, he wants to please someone that may not worth it. Most unmarried folks involved in this to make a point. Na dem sabi.

What about call recorder? Do you have a clue, I am trying to find it.

Many days for the thief, one day for the owner.

This kind of stuff happens when you are the one begging for love and she feels she is doing you a great favour, dating you.

Alright.

AmNotADullard:
Good day Nairalanders, the time I started writing this is 3:22am, whether am a popular NLder or not doesn't matter, but I would like to Conceal my identity. These would be a bit long, because I would want to explain all what is happening and has been happening to me concerning my education.

I am from the eastern part of Nigeria, and school somewhere in the south, part of the top 10 universities in Nigeria.
Back in my, Primary and Junior secondary school, I was extremely brilliant, always part of first 3, a lot of times I was 1st in class and best overall. Even my junior waec, I was so happy, people were happy for me.

The problem started in my secondary school, I noticed I started dropping, my 2nd term in SS1, I was 21/23 in class, same school, same class mates.
I thought maybe I had started playing to much, so I stopped all what I figured out could be the problem, yet there was no solution, my parents got me private teachers for my core subjects. Once they are with me, I would understand what they teach me, when they leave, I don't slack, I continue reading and reading, when exam comes, it would seem like I wasn't the one who read. A day before the exam, it would be fresh in my head and when I even write the exam, my mind would be like "you have killed it"
My parents would ask how it was, my reply would be: "yes, it was perfect, expecting the perfect result".

When I see my result, I would as usual fail virtually everything.
Still, I managed to go/forge ahead, I was able to pass my WASSCE in one sitting, how I did that I don't know, not that I passed outstandingly, I only had 'credit' in all the subject I was expect to have grade 'C'.

Then the hustle for Jamb came, let it be known that I wrote jamb 5 times, and the 5th time was when I got admitted to my school of choice.


Currently in my 200level, we resumed a new session about 2months ago. Now to what caused dis write up.

My first semester of 100level result: C, F, A, D, D.

A terrible result for someone in 100level, yes, I know. I felt too relaxed first semester, played a lot.
I determined that 2nd semester would be better, not that I was expecting all A's but I didn't want any F.
So my whole 2nd semester was reading all through, I read to the extent that I started feeling sure I should have A's in at least 3 out of 6 courses.

But when the result came in, it was worse than my first semester without me playing or getting distracted,
My 2nd semester of 100level result: C, F, C, E, C,F

And now 200level has kicked off, but something is happening to me.

I don't think I can survive this anymore,
My parents don't have money, my dad is struggling to send us to school.
None of my siblings work,
I have been contemplating different means of ending my life,
I move about with shame, I don't sleep anymore, I can't get my head straight, I would stay awake all night crying and praying for a change in my academic life.

I have done all what I think I can humanly do, hence why the thought of taking my life,
I know I can't create a life, but of what use is one that doesn't seem to make people happy?
But then, I decided to come on here, to ask if there is something else in reading I am not doing apart from, reading.... I have applied all the reading techniques applicable, jot while reading, revise, ask myself questions, and all. But still after exam, I don't seem to have that desired result, I have prayed countless times.

By my side is a chemical I got when I discovered I had 2f's. Education, they say is the best legacy. But in my case it isn't sure if it would be, I am a business oriented person, but no money to even establish myself, so that's not an option, please Nairalanders, I don't wish to Take my life, please is there anything you can suggest to me other than suicide and constant reading and prayers. I am 22years of age.

God bless.

Don't worry, put your trust in God. Give your life to Jesus and things will take a change.

I have similar experience with you, it was as if you were narrating my own story. I was the best student in my secondary school, wrote ssce thrice and jamb twice, before I got admitted into my choice course of study. It was engineering, I had a very bad results and even probated in my 100 level, my gpa was 1.91. I began 200 level after serving my one year of probation through thick and thin, I have high hopes and was very studious believing things will change, I even became fervent with religious activities. At the end I got a 3.05 gpa, I was devastated, I couldn't eat well, sleep well and stop going to church, I wanted to turn an atheist. My background is not a rich one and my dad is an advocate for academic excellence.
At the beginning of 300 level, I heard my inner self telling me that without God I can do nothing and seeing my background, I dusted myself and made up my mind to do my best and let God have his way, I prayed for forgiveness and I continued with my faith. At the end of the session I made a 3.54 gpa. To cut the story short, I graduated with a second class upper and everyone was happy, I went for my nysc and completed it, I have not gotten a proper job but I am doing fine, and hoping God will lift me up to greater heights.
I pray that God will grant you academic excellence in Jesus name. And I come against any strong hold fighting your life right now in the name of Jesus. God bless you. And please don't think of committing suicide.

With 1000 naira, I can get a new bible, but that amount can't get me a new phone, I will save my phone first.

Just bore her out. She will understand the language. When giving someone attention, there is always the tendency of feeling they interest you. Don't pick calls, don't reply message. Be nice and don't discuss anything outside academics.

Well that don't stop me from using the network to browse. And as long as tariffs are friendly, I will still a loyal customer.

Scientists and research.

Nokia 2626, one chinco phone like that, Nokia x2 slim, tecno N3 and L3, currently infinix hot note.

Mtchew!! Sound fictional

Try this site and you lost ownership of your Facebook account.

I don't trust police reports. They always exaggerate stories. And I do wonder if they think people are that dumb.

The stupid thing is that most people know their spouse, what they are capable of doing before making the commitment about marriage . But they think love will solve everything. To me love is not enough, the fear of God in the life of a spouse is the ultimate.

Then let's use our beans, fish and palms oil to feed the nation. So many hungry people in the country. Kidding anyway.