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No flip phone there or those mini phones


This video is a joke

Welcome to Nigeria where crime thrives

It's for people that have ATM card


As for me , I won't get and I'll never have an ATM card

Instead I'll do transfer to a nearby POS agent and collect my money


If my phone's stolen , I have already keyed it to automatically erase itself and put itself in hard reset( you can't flash the phone) , the phone's useless


My sim is also locked , so premium tears for the thief .

That's what you get when you live in a corrupt shit hole with low iq bigots and a meth kingpin for a president


When my grandfather was a teacher , a village head master he lived large back in the day with a house given to him by the state colonial government also given to other teachers
In the house you'll get a good running water and electricity
He was earning 1500 as his salary back then


Nigeria isn't what it used to be and it'll be never

The way bad news trends pass


One would wonder


I see why social medias waste no time in pushing bad news and propagandas

FG will exploit this to get more funds and give the inventors agbado

Quintopia:
Some things never change. Ancient Igbos (Hebrews) being led into captivity by Assyrians.
Note identical outfit with the men in white in the OP pictures.

https://www.ancientreplicas.com/jewish-prisoners-from-lachish.jpg

Ancient igbos are not Hebrews


That is faux


One of the major reasons why history should be brought back to the nigerian curriculum so that low iq bigots like you don't end up being a seed waste

Kobojunkie:
Spoken like the typical preprogrammed Nigerian you are after all is said and done. You judge and cast down ideas even before experiencing or learning them.

What's there to experience in a mental institution other than daily dosage of drugs??


It's not like they'll hook you up with someone

Kobojunkie:
Ofcourse I would send him out to get mental health treatment so he can develop the necessary social and emotional skills to aid in better relating in life. Why would I wish instead to force him on others when I know that clearly he is lacking? That would be like throwing him out to the wolves without making certain he is mentally equipped to handle them.

You'd make a bad mother.

Mental rehabilitation won't solve emotional and social ineptness

being:
Are u not an engineering student ? Logical reasoning... It is not as bad meaning it is still bad.. so why would you consider it? Just for you to know asians are far more racist than whites to blacks.
China has no democracy meaning anything can happen to you at anytime as some supreme leader deems fit.
I pity u.

Not all Asians are racist

Koreans are the only racists in asian and some part of inlands in China are racists too

I've friends in China and they're doing okay attending school there


Most blacks have been whitewashed into thinking every asian is racist

Kobojunkie:
1. What you said of lover's isn't entirely true. True loners are not socially and emotionally inept at all. They simply prefer being alone and to themselves that being around others. What you continue to describe ring instead of behavioral problems.

2. You seem to have excuses for why you shouldn't be expected to make real efforts to connect with people and maybe even find the right ones while you are at it.

You said you work. Given your attitude so far towards stepping out of yourself to make necessary changes for your own life, the best advice I can think of is suggesting you save up to get yourself a plastic doll. Maybe until you become mature enough for adult relationships and are sick and tired of staying in yourself.

I prefer solitude sometimes. Instead of psychoanalyse me and telling me to seek mental rehabilitation

What would you have done if your son was experiencing this problem as I have??

Would you have sent him to a mental clinic or find a way to connect him with people??

Kobojunkie:
So you do in fact have places around that you can go then to hang out of people watch. You just do not want to.

2. If you are indeed a loner, then why are you complaining that you don't have friends?

3. Mental therapy is only for the rich yet the vast majority who frequent mental health clinics even in Nigeria are not even rich?

4. You refuse to make any effort to make friends yet you feel a gal should come and cuddle you? Why not buy yourself a plastic doll or something and you can have that all while remaining as you are.

Being outside is not my thing unless it's something interesting or I enjoy doing like writing or chess

2. A loner will need someone or at least something

3. Those are not mental health clinics , those ones are clinics for mad people

4. I've made efforts to get friends but I'm quite selective in having friends, not everyone I like being friends with

Plastic doll cost , perhaps you should get me one

Kobojunkie:
You can't drive or take Okada or Keke?

2. All the people you went to school with are equally all dead or what?

3. Mental rehabilitation is for those obviously not doing well coping or function and your responses continue to point to that being the case here.

Okada is expensive here . The only reasonable place one can go to is a church and restaurant

I was a loner in school, not much people around me

3. Mental rehabilitation is expensive , it's for only rich folks and I can't afford it


I just want a girl that'll cuddle me that's all

Kobojunkie:
1. Then drive to q Park or library or government office once, park and walk around.

2. You are still describing mentally illness and nothing a regular adult would say. Any one who has some level of emotional and social intelligence would have no problems making friends, even if long distance. You using your environment as excuse means there is more to this that you are probably not admitting to.

I can't drive

I had childhood friends , they are all dead now

If you had a son with the same issues as I'm , you'd tell him to get a mental rehabilitation??

Kobojunkie:
1. Market, walk around or sit at a park? Even visit a library? Or a governor office just for the sake of it. Do some people browsing, etc.

2. You described yourself as an emotionally and socially stunted shut-in, what do you think?

I live in a rural area, there are no libraries and no governor's office


Walking anywhere here is stressful because it's miles and miles even to buy bread , it's better to use a vehicle here than walk



2. emotionally and socially stunted shut-in as in no friends and gf not mentally ill

Kobojunkie:
Start by Opening the door and going outside. Start from there. If you find that hard to handle, then seek the help of a professional mental health therapist. Simple!

Go out to where ??


Mental health therapy for what


Did I tell you I've mental illness??

pansophist:
Most people's lives suck, not just you.

Just like no matter how hot water is, it will revert back to its default temperature, which is lukewarm. Human life is like that. Those that you think their life does not suck are just in a state of a boil, so the distraction kind of entertains them away to not reflecting on the fact that life sucks and they need help.

You havent engaged in that exercise, so you think there is some reward there. If you start having friends, going out, and engaging in more activities, you will see the challenges there, and you will have scars, that your solitude will later become your preferred state of being.

So you will be betrayed, maybe be introduced to money-draining addiction (eg gambling), heartbroken, nonreciprocal efforts, envy, users, waste money chasing the wind, maybe try to impress people that on a good day, want to stab you, etc.

Introverts are usually people who understand all these and just prefer not to engage much with the world because it's just more problem than it's worth. So-called extroverts are those who when they even need help, all their friends will give them the middle finger. So how are they better?

So, my guy, you are in a state of unspoiled. The only disadvantage here is that it may be boring, just like wealthy neighborhoods are dry and boring, but it's just a good way to live, otherwise, is to become rugged to your own detriment, and still return to the same place you started from.

Then boredom becomes peace, a place you will arrive at after you have been through the boil.

Solitude is hell

I have been alone and lonely for a long time now my mom tags me a weirdo because I don't leave the house , I don't have friends and no gf even at my gf. I grew up in boarding school and was tagged PK ( possessed kid ) because of I always was alone by myself

I just hope to get some kind of meaningful work so I can move away from my mom to my own place


I've been getting fulfilment from my hobbies lately but it's not enough , Man needs friends both male and female.

Day169:
This is an unofficial welcome to the "Suckers club", with an unlimited charter. But guess what, you're the only one who can exit this club by being real and true to yourself.
Start by looking at the many blessings you've already been bestowed with, which you probably don't see. You have gifts despite your situation.
Realise that you must start from where you are and the journey self improvement is a daily battle.
To be a man, there are multiple challenges you'd face and success with the opposite gender is only one of those.
Like some posters said, go out, meet people, read books, and keep hustling.
Lastly, the grass always seems greener on the other side.
So stay strong!

Meet people where

Go out to where


I read , my read book is bigger than the books in my state library

Reminderz:
you have to step out more... you still have a long life ahead of you... step out, feel the air, breathe, socialise, laugh, free your mind... with time, your anxiety will reduce and you would feel great once again... programming shouldn't make you socially blunt... it would be hard at first, but trust me, once you get used to it, there will be no turning back...

also you can exercise in your free time, meditation too can help you.. you'll feel great..

There's nothing outside except billing

I'm like a vampire, outside hurts me

Interesting especially the part where he rsped his sister and his sister moans like TF

I'm always in room all day busy with programming, I have no friends, I'm just a skinny dude, currently 22yr in my finals ( computer engineering)
I spent most of my life as a shut in, but now I don't really want to anymore, virgin and never had a girlfriend, socially and emotionally stunted
what do I do, I don't like to interact with people and I lack motivation to move around.

aigohior:
Scratch is a high-level block-based visual programming language and website aimed primarily at children as an educational tool, with a target audience of ages 8 to 16.

So

I want to move to China. My friend living there said it is not as bad as the media portrays it to be.


I heard getting a chinese visa is very hard



I want to get an entrepreneurship visa, how do I go about it??

Unity sucks ಠᴥಠ


Real men use scratch nothing else

Python is not for you

Just stick to JavaScript for now .

omoowhe:
Where did you download from

I didn't download it


I watched it on RTS , it's like Netflix but for boomers

9/10


Apart from the exorcist , no horror movie comes close