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Monicasque: say nothing to her. Do not even let her know that u know coz you guys might end up fighting. just keep your distance form her.Even if it means whenever she wana hangout u just come up with some excuse just not to be with her. do not be funny or rude. if u bump into her still be nice but do not talk about yourself or anything that relates to you. do not dump the guy , your relationship is still new and u r yet to know each other well, who knows maybe u might even end up married one day.

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NEVER EVER EVER EVER DISCUSS YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH FRIENDS. NOMATTER HOW CLOSE YOL R

sexytabhi: hehehhe,am not ur friend na

sexytabhi: Why not plan for a three*some hehehehehehe,it will be fun you know

AnodaIT: Friend of 5 years vs a punny hunter? of 1 month.
What if the girl thought that you are not serious with the guy.
What if you have had flings like that and always told your friend about them and your friend thought this one was just like one of your flings inspite of you telling her it is real.
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My 2 kobo
Give a dog a good name to save him. I treasure my loyal long term friends so much that if they mess up. I give them a second chance to realy mess up before I 'destroy' them.
Tell your friend, you found out that she n ur guy have been communicating (from the guy call logs of course). Assure her that since that you have been friends for long, you would not expect her to disappoint you in any way.
That should send her to a long rethink and give her enough rope to hang herself if she still go ahead.
Anyway, it depends on the persona you have. I am a Libra and hate confrontations, but if you disappoint me twice, I wont still confront you, I will harm you physically, emotional, socially, financially.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Yes. Confront her. She has betrayed you. There is no guarantee of you finally settling with the guy, but then, boundaries exist amongst friends, and should be respected. Even if she ends up dating that boy, let her know that you valued her friendship over a boy you met less than a month ago and that it is sad she decided to do this to you. She'll beg you for forgiveness, DO NOT forgive her immediately. Let her really feel remorse over what she has done, and even when you do forgive her, never ever ever tell her such things again.

This is life and an experience. You don't buy experience in the market. After this episode, you'd have learnt a thing or two. Dont be caught unawares next time.

It's pointless setting her up. Your boyfriend has proved he is loyal even though the relationship is still in it's early stages. No need taking it that far as to him touching her and you catching them red handed cos he is human as well. Emotions can flare, and again, he may realize his "opportunity" after the girl must have told him he "fuckedup" for telling you. When that happens, he may finally fall to her wiles and the ministry will continue without you knowing.

You've found out. Confront her and end it there. No need for the red handed stuff.

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Mynd_44: Interesting

2s£xy:
OP, this is what you get when you tell your friend how wonderful and nice your boyfriend is. Girls get jealous of themselves. So, be warned.

My current girlfriend is just like you and her friend almost did same thing to me but she cleaned up the mess without my girfriend knowing about it.

It's not something I cant prove and I can't even tell my girlfriend something that has no prove but honestly, I knew where she was going.

And do you know what she did? She quickly went to my girlfriend and told her her side of the story. Since they have been friends since childhood, my girlfriend believed her and when I tried to explain to her(my gf) and possibly tell her to be careful of that girl and not tell her things about me, my girlfriend just said she has been gisted what happened.

How did it happened and how did God intervened?

Honestly, I never knew they were friends. She added me on whatsapp and we got talking. All along, things went well until I asked for her name,which she gave. That name rang a bell in my head. So, I told her she just reminded me of someone. So, I asked her if she knew any so and so name. She said no but that there is one that is like a sister to her. I gave a describtion of whom I know and she gave hers. Gbam... It was same person.

The sad part is that my girlfriend often talked about a certain person with that name(the friend's name). That is to tell you how she loved and trusted her friend.

When it started, she said she was looking for a long time friend whose number is 08055555555 but my number is 07055555555...

So, una my people, how person go dey look for owner of 08055555555 and whatsapp go carry am go meet 07055555555? Is that ever possible? I leave you to do the math.

Just be careful of what you tell your fellow girls, they are willing to take your place.

I remember a woman did same to her friend, snatch her boyfriend and even had a child for the man. He was our neighbour and had money... They went on to marry and have more kids.

Be careful what you tell your female friends...

Itoroetti :
They are killing the economy,killing small scale biz and killing the motivational factor young for small scale entrepreneur.
Interms of employment,how much do u think the pay their staff?
Their goods are mostly over priced.
I don't see any positive gains apart from the fact that its an avenue for our young girls to there and be snapping pictures and uploading them on social medias.
Na God go bless you