₦airaland Forum

RevolverOcelot:
Lool. Thanks for making me laugh this dry harmattan morning. You surely jest

Thanks sir

Beloved4:
I have only one moniker on nairaland and that is this one. I am not affiliated with any Holumhidey or any other moniker.
I should not take responsibility for anyone else's actions please. Kindly let's be guided.
If I told you I understand what this is all about I would be lying.

Mr Holumhidey, whatever it is with you and Magnol**** please keep me out of your schenanighans. Thank you as you comply.


Cheers.

Magnoliaa:
Boya, you should start modifying your posts on this account again.

Did I not tell you or not to stay in your lane?!

What is it with the obsession? God! What kind of a human are you??

Magnoliaa:
Stories. I don't care. You can't command me to stay out of your mentions when you no put charm for mouth.

You don't know me, ke? And you know my name, my mother's history, that I'm also from Benin and a student? Abegg o. I'm someone that is very organized and painstaking, Olumide. We must finish and settle this matter.

Magnoliaa:
No. Are you kidding me?? Seriously?? This again?? Wow. Lmao. In 2 months time again, you begin this by trolling me, try to get on my nerves, send 2,000 emails apologising and claim it's not your style or try to make it seem as if I'm doing too much?

You can shove your faux-apology up your rectum. I'm not buying it this time. And I'm not letting shit go. You should have known better
than tp start it with me and then turn around to pretend like you're one mature and sensible person? If you didn't know before, I don't care, nor for how anybody sees me, and like you said, until Sèun invents a block button, you deal with anybody quoting you. I don't care if you choose to ignore me henceforth as well. Shey you're Olumide/Holumhidey or whatever?? All of your idiosyncrasies and absurb comments and contradictory split persona are evident on that monicker - which you confirmed was you and then subsequently sent me a mail with, too. Your 'I don't do this or feel this' is all wash! When you're fond of calling women bishes and slut-shaming them.

I'm not done with you. Until I'm satisfied. Shey you've kukuma called me a vindictive person?

I've never had a problem being an odd, lone-player, anyway.

Ciao.

Magnoliaa:
Okay. Thank youu.

Chimeluv:
This one na horror film abi

Tolu181:
Fool

Hintona:
Aren't you Yoruba?

Magnoliaa:
Is showing up the best we can and bringing out the best in our partners not a part of unconditional love? I believe it is a part of it, and one does not necessarily preclude the other.

Love is important. Yes, the feelings, tingly kind I believe. One that makes your heart race and feel good just thinking about them, I believe. No, that is not all there is to it.
Dont worry I'll shower you with love when we get married

But unconditional love has imbued in it the works, the efforts, the commitment and the blindness as well.

To the usefulness of such advice, I feel it paints a dreary picture of marriage that I don't want to look forward to. Sounds drudgery. Like I must do things for my partner, just because. Not cheerily. Are there likely going to be times I feel that way? Possibly. But haba, for the most of the time and my marriage life?

I don't want that kind of organic, fulfilling-a-duty or filling-in-a-space love, tenkio.

Hintona:
I was confused on whether to post this here or in the culture section. But I finally decided to post it here.



Does this mean ancient ibos were incapable of love or they didn't place much value on it? I also read somewhere that they valued friendship more than romantic love.