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 Education / Re: Unilorin 2016/2017 Post Graduate Applicants. by Holyfire1(m): 2:48pm On May 19, 2016 |
Please add my number 08160700423, I applied for biochemistry |
| Family / The Rod by Holyfire1(m): 10:35pm On May 14, 2016 |
A man said he had nothing and he was asked; "What is that in your hand? "Just a rod"; he said. He had forgotten that a rod in the right hand can do the impossible, safe the endangered and create unimaginable opportunities. A rod in your hand is the authority you possess within your jurisdiction. A rod is the evidence you need, not to introduce yourself before men know who you are. Your rod is what compel men and not coerce them to follow you. The world stands to listen to everyone who holds his rod up high. A rod doesn't necessarily need to be a long staff. A rod is what you have that makes you unique and stand out. It might look insignificant. Discover it, identify it and put it to use. Remember a pen will be useless in the hand of a farmer, so also is a hoe of no use in the hands of college professor. You are created so unique in the very image of God. © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. #BEINSPIRED |
| Education / University Of Ilorin Postgraduate by Holyfire1(m): 8:10pm On May 14, 2016 |
Please, anyone who applied or will apply for University of Ilorin postgraduate please let's create a thread for ourselves. Personally, I need there postgraduate entrance examination question. Thanks |
| Education / Re: 2016/2017 University of Ibadan Admission Thread Guide. by Holyfire1(m): 7:13pm On May 09, 2016 |
Hello, Sale of forms for the 2016/17 Academic Session Admission Exercise shall commence on Monday, May 9th, 2016 and would last for six (6) weeks. All interested candidates are therefore advised to apply through our admissions portal : http://admissions.pgschool.ui.edu.ng/adm_all_main.aspx All applicants are to apply through this admissions portal ONLY. BEWARE of FRAUDULENT people. The Postgraduate School, University of Ibadan, has NO authorized AGENT anywhere Kindly inform your friends, and other individuals who may be interested. Thank you Management Postgraduate School, UI . |
| Education / University Of Ibadan Postgraduate School by Holyfire1(m): 4:49pm On May 09, 2016 |
I GOT THIS INFO FEW DAYS AGO FROM A FRIEND SO I DECIDED TO SHARE IT TO US ALL. THOUGH THE AUTHENTICITY HAS NOT BEEN CONFIRMED YET ************ Hello, Sale of forms for the 2016/17 Academic Session Admission Exercise shall commence on Monday, May 9th, 2016 and would last for six (6) weeks. All interested candidates are therefore advised to apply through our admissions portal : http://admissions.pgschool.ui.edu.ng/adm_all_main.aspx All applicants are to apply through this admissions portal ONLY. BEWARE of FRAUDULENT people. The Postgraduate School, University of Ibadan, has NO authorized AGENT anywhere Kindly inform your friends, and other individuals who may be interested. Thank you Management Postgraduate School, UI . |
| Politics / Nigeria: The Beauty Of The Black Race by Holyfire1(m): 5:58pm On Apr 12, 2016 |
NIGERIA: THE BEAUTY OF THE BLACK RACE Peace! Peace!! Peace!!! Peace! I speak, to every stormy sea Peace is what we long to see Once more, Oh Lord! We pray thee That you send us your comforting breeze That the tide will once more blow in our direction with ease Peace we pray for, in our midst For the economy of the state now lack a yeast And the ground has refused to give us good yield People dying everyday; even in the east The innocent looking boy has now turn wild and aggressive Just to make an ends meet Peace! Peace!! Peace!!! Who says a TIV man, an Hausa man and a Yoruba man can't live together in peace Come, and I will show it to you on my street I speak ; Not as an orator but as a Spirit Carrying the message of peace I am Olawale I am a Nigerian We are the giant of Africa The beauty of the black race We can not be erased We will not disintegrate We are a three cord, which cannot be broken A fourth one, which makes it a perfect four-framed picture Peace we pray for, From the NORTH to the SOUTH Peace in the EAST and in the WEST #GODBLESSNIGERIA #PEACEINNIGERIA #SPEAKPEACE ***Feel free to share and rebroadcast, as we unanimously speak peace to Nigeria*** © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. 1 Like |
| Family / When The Mind Is Sick by Holyfire1(m): 3:56pm On Apr 10, 2016 |
WHEN THE MIND IS SICK - Part 3 HEALING FOR THE SICK ...For you to enjoy the healing available to your mind, you must first acknowledge the fact that your mind can be sick. 1. A good treatment for the sick mind is the DETOXIFICATION of the mind. Various thought flows into the mind repeatedly. One of these is negative thinking. Negative thought flowing into the mind are toxic to the mind, which can only be removed from the mind by pure or positive thinking. This is the detoxification process of the mind, the removal of negative thoughts through positive thinking . For example, erotoxin is a toxic substance of the mind and brain, which is produced when the mind is exposed to erotic pictures. Erotoxin can therefore be removed by replacing what you feed your mind with through the channel of the eye. Most times, what the mind think is as a result of what the eyes had seen. 2. Another cure for the sick mind is being OPTIMISTIC. You just have to keep believing that something good is about to happen. Keep your mind occupied with believes in the reality of great possibilities. As much as circumstances provides you with reasons for negative emotions, don't forget to remind yourself of the HOPE you have for living. Replace the dead-rotten works of your mind with pure conscience of hope and optimism. 3. Feed your mind on HEALTHY DIET. Biographies of great mind, excellent books written by well tested and proven authors, videos that challenge the status quo and revive your passion and more, are all healthy diet good for the mind. 4. Above all, the best instrument upon which you can renew your mind is the word of God - THE BIBLE. The word of God is God's thought, think on them. "whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."-Philipians 4:8 © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Family / When The Mind Is Sick by Holyfire1(m): 5:37pm On Apr 05, 2016 |
WHEN THE MIND IS SICK - Part 2 A sick mind will lack the following; -POSSIBILITY THINKING -For an individual with a sick mind, right before he starts a project or take up a new task or even in the middle of the task, his mind is made up not to see the possibility of an excellent outcome. And as a result of this negative mindset, a barrier is placed on his mind against any possibility. A sick mind sings songs of impossibility. They rather prefer to find excuses not to do anything, than to see reasons for doing something. Such mind lacks faith; faith in God, faith in it's vision, faith in itself. -PROGRESSIVE THINKING- When the mind lacks Progressive thinking, it actually lacks the ability to THINK BIG, to see beyond the present. A mind which lacks Progressive thinking only lives on the historical trend of failure it had encounter, and not wanting to try again, after it had experienced several downturn. Such mind is incarcerated by its past. It can't recognize time and opportunities even if it present itself, because it still lives in its past . -PRODUCTIVE THINKING - Productive thinking is a result - oriented thinking. Everything we see in our world today, either natural or material, had first being concluded in the world of thought, which is in the mind, before it materialize physically. A sick mind is not like this. A sick mind will never see the possibility of a new invention, neither does it have the ability to conceive Productive ideas that would be needful and helpful in the society. HEALING FOR THE SICK For every sickness, their are causes and for every cause there is a treatment ;a balm to every fractured bone. Firstly, for you to enjoy the healing available to your mind, you must acknowledge the fact that your mind is sick. A good treatment for the sick mind is.... WHEN THE MIND IS SICK - Part 3 Stay Connected! Be Inspired! © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Family / When The Mind Is Sick by Holyfire1(m): 2:38pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
WHEN THE MIND IS SICK - Part 1 The body falls sick. So also is it with the mind. Worries, anger, jealousy, hatred, grudges, irritation, resentment, guilt, depression, lack of joy and happiness, and all other negative emotions can make the mind sick. A sick mind weakens the body and as well affect the spirit too. As growth affects every aspect of our being, so also is the mind affected too.The effectiveness of the mind is therefore based on what it had taken in, through the various channels of the eyes, ears and its imaginative power. The Holy Bible also pointed it out that for a Christian who is saved, the mind isn't new at salvation, though the spirit is. Hence, the tendency for the mind to be sick if it isn't being renewed always. A Christian whose mind is sick has not understood the fact that walking in the Spirit does not annul the mental faculty, rather it enables it for Spirituality, for productivity and for effectiveness in life. Among many aspect of our mind is the place of our THOUGHT. Our mind is not a vacuum, as influx of thought tends to flood the mind continuously. Negative thoughts are pushed our of the mind only by pure and positive thoughts. A sick mind will therefore lack the three(3) major P's of an healthy mind, which are; -Lack of Possibility Thinking -Lack of Productive Thinking -Lack of Progressive Thinking © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE Www.abaireolawale. |
| Religion / Re: When The Mind Is Sick by Holyfire1(m): 2:32pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
@peritus THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENT AND THE EYE OPENER INTO A DEEPER DIMENSION OF THIS ARTICLE. @GoldnGod Bless God, am honored by your compliment, you can also get more Inspirational an motivation articles on www.abaireolawale. |
| Religion / When The Mind Is Sick by Holyfire1(m): 1:10pm On Apr 02, 2016 |
WHEN THE MIND IS SICK - Part 1 The body falls sick. So also is it with the mind. Worries, anger, jealousy, hatred, grudges, irritation, resentment, guilt, depression, lack of joy and happiness, and all other negative emotions can make the mind sick. A sick mind weakens the body and as well affect the spirit too. As growth affects every aspect of our being, so also is the mind affected too.The effectiveness of the mind is therefore based on what it had taken in, through the various channels of the eyes, ears and its imaginative power. The Holy Bible also pointed it out that for a Christian who is saved, the mind isn't new at salvation, though the spirit is. Hence, the tendency for the mind to be sick if it isn't being renewed always. A Christian whose mind is sick has not understood the fact that walking in the Spirit does not annul the mental faculty, rather it enables it for Spirituality, for productivity and for effectiveness in life. Among many aspect of our mind is the place of our THOUGHT. Our mind is not a vacuum, as influx of thought tends to flood the mind continuously. Negative thoughts are pushed our of the mind only by pure and positive thoughts. A sick mind will therefore lack the three(3) major P's of an healthy mind, which are; -Lack of Possibility Thinking -Lack of Productive Thinking -Lack of Progressive Thinking © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE Www.abaireolawale. |
| Romance / My New Better Half by Holyfire1(m): 7:46pm On Mar 24, 2016 |
Let's Talk Relationship... MY NEW BETTER HALF What if as a lady, you found better qualities for a spouse in another man, of which you have seen a lesser version of such qualities in your present spouse. Will you leave your spouse and go for this "new better half", Seeing that he has better qualities you desire in a man than those you've found in your present spouse? Mind you, every lady wants their own MR RIGHT. I will like to first establish a fact.Either as a lady or a guy, as long as you progress in life and career, you will always get acquainted to ladies who looks prettier, guys who talks better and people whose character seems appropriate for you, for a spouse. For example, I once heard a pastor saying that even though he is married, some other ladies still looks attractive to him. Now, some religious persons might say this pastor is promiscuous. No, he is not. "If other ladies looks attractive to me, that doesn't give me the leverage to womanize" He said. love-vendor MY RIDE For the fact that new models of cars are being produced yearly, that doesn't make the existing model unless. You can always make the existing ones look new. This is the phenomenon employed in one popular TV show called love-vendor MY RIDE. In this show, old cars are being refurbished. You can get the exact taste of what you desire for your car without necessarily buying a new one. This phenomenon is also applicable for a marital relationship to be successful. Human has the ability to learn and unlearn new things. Whatever you desire in your spouse, make it available to him or her. You can always talk out such things too. This is why communication is very vital in every relationship. You don't have to jump around from one failing relationship into another frustrating one . DO I NEED GOD'S CONSENT? Dear sister, any man will want you because of what he sees and loves about you. Who wouldn't want a lady because of what he loves about her. But know this, not only because of what a man loves in his woman, that keep other women from being attractive to him. The in-depth conviction you've got about him, not the beeping of your emotions alone and the fact that you've got God's backing in your marital relationship is all that will keep you going in that relationship. This is why God's consent is vital about your relationship. Does God knows about your marital relationship? How much does He know? www.abaireolawale. |
| Literature / My Mistakes by Holyfire1(m): 11:57am On Mar 19, 2016 |
IF YOU ASPIRE FOR A BETTER TOMORROW, THIS ARTICLE WAS INSPIRED FOR YOU MY MISTAKES... I haven't found a successful man who hasn't make mistakes. But, I have seen many a great man who had transform mistakes into great success. MISTAKES, NOT FAILURE Making mistakes is not equivalent to being a failure. Your mistakes shows that you have the potentials to do a task better, just because you have learnt another new way to do it well. When you make mistakes, it shows you have an unbending desperation for success and excellence, which demands just two things from you: -Taking one more step, and -Using a new strategy Failure on the other hand is repeating the same mistake with the same strategy and expecting a new result. MISTAKES ARE REQUISITES FOR SUCCESS What gives us happiness and fulfilment after the completion of a task, is not the success of that task itself. We thank God for the success of every endeavor, that is true. But we are happy and we feel fulfilled whenever we make mistakes; mistakes which eventually leads to great success. This is the brain reward mechanism; a way the brain appreciates itself over accumulated efforts, in the form of mistakes, which are requisites for success. BE POSITIVE When you make mistakes, don't say to yourself; I am not just good. I am a dullard. I don't have any skill. I am not better. I am less than my colleagues. Rather, remind yourself of who you truly are and what you carry inside of you; I am God's own image. The Spirit of wisdom is upon me. I can do all things. I am better than the rest. I know who I am. Stay hopeful for the greater days ahead of you. Be Positive. Have faith. You are closer to your breakthrough than you least expect. The test of your faith and the extent of your trust on God shouldn't be your end. God loves all His Children and He desires to trust all too. Trust in itself, says; "give me some time." I used to think I make mistakes often, not until I realize that my mistakes were even part of God's plans. You may not realize it now, but believe this, they are working for your betterment. Everything (including your past faults, your errors, your mistakes) are all working for your own good. Greater days lie ahead. © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE Www.abaireolawale. #BEINSPIRED |
| Literature / A Father's Heart Cry For His Baby by Holyfire1(m): 6:26pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
A FATHER'S HEART CRY FOR HIS BABY GIRL (A POEM) Rare among her peers Highly intelligent for her years Gifted in art, craft and in handling the shear Her creativity is so rare Hope! My dear Hope! You are my heir You are indeed our only hope even in mere Suddenly, just at the wake of one morning; a day of doom The birds cease to hum The sky seems not to be in a good mood It Wears a dark face and a sand look The faces of the elders fill with gloom The wise men began to wonder as they look I stood in utmost surprise in my room What Sign could this be? I recount;while I clean my room with a broom Oh! Our dear Hope has given up what used to be her pride Her virginity which used to be her pride Her passion and her drive She had lost sight of her dream; to be exceptional woman and wife All that Hope had, has suddenly been lost in the wild She has become like one of them TO BE CONTINUED... Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE http://www.abaireolawale. |
| Romance / A Father's Heart Cry For His Baby Girl by Holyfire1(m): 6:13pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
A FATHER'S HEART CRY FOR HIS BABY GIRL (A POEM) Rare among her peers Highly intelligent for her years Gifted in art, craft and in handling the shear Her creativity is so rare Hope! My dear Hope! You are my heir You are indeed our only hope even in mere Suddenly, just at the wake of one morning; a day of doom The birds cease to hum The sky seems not to be in a good mood It Wears a dark face and a sand look The faces of the elders fill with gloom The wise men began to wonder as they look I stood in utmost surprise in my room What Sign could this be? I recount;while I clean my room with a broom Oh! Our dear Hope has given up what used to be her pride Her virginity which used to be her pride Her passion and her drive She had lost sight of her dream; to be exceptional woman and wife All that Hope had, has suddenly been lost in the wild She has become like one of them TO BE CONTINUED... Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE http://www.abaireolawale. |
| Religion / God Is Never Caught Unaware by Holyfire1(m): 12:09am On Mar 11, 2016 |
GOD IS NEVER CAUGHT UNAWARE - We might think we had made mistakes. Remember this, even our so called mistakes are part of His MASTER PLAN for us. Our mistakes never caught Him unaware, He knew we would make such. However, All things work together for the good of those that love God. Even our so called mistakes . Just keep loving Him as He keeps doing what He knows How to do best; transforming lives, blessing men, changing their status, raising men, anointing men, directing them and leading them into fulfillment in life. God bless you and have a good night rest. © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE |
| Education / Repeat It Once Again by Holyfire1(m): 4:48pm On Mar 08, 2016 |
The process of repeating an act over and over again is the process that brings you two steps closer to being a master of such act. This is why we do well and improve greatly, on acts we've once pull before. The message is: "Never give up on your passion". Rather, fire it up by your continous engagement in it. For very soon, your days, months or even years of rehearsals will soon open up to you doors to the main show. God is not ignorant of your "repeated doing", He only wants to see how steadfast you are in doing what He had placed in your heart before He can trust you to handle it well. #BeInspired © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Education / Re: Have I Lost Everything? by Holyfire1(m): 2:08pm On Mar 06, 2016 |
Please nairalander, the piece I wrote was not to cause religious argument. Far from it. The above piece; HAVE I LOST EVERYTHING? was aimed at encouraging all and sundry that there is still hope for a better tomorrow as long as you are alive. Please, enough of the argument. |
| Education / Have I Lost Everything? by Holyfire1(m): 8:22am On Mar 04, 2016 |
If a man thinks he has lost IT, I got a good news for such a man. He might have lost IT, but the best part is, he hasn't lost EVERYTHING. The reason why you have lost IT but not EVERYTHING is because, IT was just a prerequisite; a means to your destination not your destination. IT, was just a stepping stone by the way to where God is taking you. IT, is What MUST COME, TO PASS. EVERYTHING is what is needed and you've got EVERYTHING. The life of God in you is everything you need. You are alive today because you've got EVERYTHING that is required to keep you alive and to see a glorious tomorrow. JESUS! IS MADE EVERYTHING TO YOU #BEINSPIRED #THANKYOUJESUS #GRACE #TGIF #LETHOPERISE © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Literature / The Tragedy: Comfort Greater Than Passion by Holyfire1(m): 9:38pm On Feb 19, 2016 |
THE TRAGEDY:COMFORT GREATER THAN PASSION There is a tragedy in the world today. A tragedy which has rendered the old ones among us useless, the youth among us frustrated and now, it is eating deep into the future of our generation. This deadly and sadden situation is the tragedy of Comfort being preferred above passion. Passion is a drive imputed into everyone of us to help us live our life in peace, satisfaction and fulfilment. The passion in us is to make us see how life feels good when we do what we love doing with our time, mind, energy and resources. Moreso, the key that opens the door to fulfilment and impact is the master key called passion. Many who has the latter, only wished for the former, but they love to stay in the "comfort zone", rather than paying the price for what they wished for. For our passion to produce result, it is always accompanied by a price to pay. Here is a list that tells us we might be in tragedy of the comfort zone rather than paying the price for passion; 1. When your past achievement appears more glorious to you than the present. 2. When you no longer ask questions: result-oriented questions. 3. When you start seeing yourself as though you have arrived at your final destination at every slight accomplishment. 4. When what fires up the passion in you seems to have died out; things which use to motivate you no longer has meaning to you. 5. When you keep believing that God will DO EVERYTHING FOR YOU, without you doing anything. 6.When your attention is shifted from people oriented goals and generational impact, to Self materialization and self gratification. 7. When people who surrounds you are people who encourages your relaxed and complacent state. Friends, make up your mind today to live your life with passion, with enthusiasm, believing that you are not to add up to the world number but to multiply yourself in everyone through impact, motivated by passion. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Literature / The Best Way To Speak by Holyfire1(m): 10:05pm On Feb 17, 2016 |
THE BEST WAY TO SPEAK Dave and Smith are two friends with widely spaced behavioural differences. Dave appears to be the responsible and God fearing guy. His Godly behavior is in contrast to Smith rugged life style. Smith is a womanizer and an alcoholic. But Smith has a strength in disguise. He has a weak emotion and he is easily moved by the oppression and suffering of the needy. Smith has a kind heart. Two weeks after resumption into the University, Smith decides to pay a visit to Dave in his hostel but he was shocked at what he saw. Smith caught his friend in a sex romp and was so shocked that he struggles to mutter these words to his friend. Smith said; "Dave! You are the best thing that has ever happened to me. I had always wanted to live my life with so much organization, direction, peace and Godliness, as yours. But I couldn't help myself because I had become so addicted. I had been hoping that one day, as our friendship progresses, heaven will smile at me and things will become better for me. But why? " Dave responded without any feeling of remorse, as he said: "I had always longed to live my life like this. Enjoying the sweetest of the sweetest; sex. I was only held bound by the shackles of religion which my Pastor father had kept me. But now am free, free like a bird. " Friends, Dave and Smith scenario might be quite different from yours. However, the message remains the same. We are all life teachers, who teaches unconsciously by the way we live our life. No man is entirely bad. Every "bad" man you see has an iota of goodness in him. Many of them are dissatisfy with their life style and longs for something better. Therefore, Let your life preach the better life that everyone tagged "bad", desires. Live your life continously with the hope of a better tomorrow, never allow negativity. Have faith. Live your life as though other people's life are anchor on yours, you can't afford to ruin their life by your negligence. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Romance / Valentine Special - A Message To My Lover by Holyfire1(m): 8:24pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
Reading through the story of St. Valentine, I realize Valentine didn't die for the wrong course. He died for what HE BELIEVED TO BE TRUE AND RIGHT. And what was that? Valentine believed young lovers should be allowed to be joined together in Holy matrimony without the sentimental attitude or selfish interest of any higher authority to discourage early marriages. St. Valentine demonstrated the POWER IN LOVE, FOR WHAT IT CAN GIVE UP AT ANY COST compared to what it can receive. He made young folks realize that LOVE IS A SELFLESS SACRIFICE; sacrificing your comfort, your luxury, your time, your resources and even your life, whenever the need be, just for the sake of LOVE. "THE STRONG CORD OF LOVE IS NOT MADE TIGHTER BY THE INTERWOVEN THREAD OF CASUAL SEX"-Abaire Olawale The message of ST. Valentine is so simple and well understood. It is a message of LOVE to young folks, nothingless. The strong cord of love is not made tighter by the interwoven thread of casual sex. Never! sex couldn't have been the ingredient that spice up love. If sex is love, then why shouldn't I sleep with my mum, my two beautiful sisters and my very own 'padi of life', because I love these wonderful people dearly, they mean a lot to me. Do I have to have sex with my loved ones to show how much I love them? Absolutely No! That will DEFINITELY be insane. This is what happens when you reduce love to sex; insanity. Many had relegated the power of LOVE to be built around their genitals. How can you reduce such an embodiment of Divine Strength to your below the belt faculty. LOVE IS STRONGER THAN DEATH. WHAT THEN IS SEX, COMPARED TO DEATH. Young men and women, it might shock some of us to hear that sex itself is not a demonstration of love, even in marriage. Have you not heard of men who rape there own wives, men who uses their own wife as consolidation in business for their associates and a lot more. Love is greater than sex. Sex is best enjoyed without any fear or guilt, so pleasurable and satisfying without any trouble and so much desired as often as you intend, ONLY IN MARRIAGE with the right spouse, not anywhere else, but IN HOLY MATRIMONY with your forever-life partner. Get it right and get it now. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. Feel free to rebroadcast this message without any alteration of its content. Your comments and contributions are much appreciated. You can also share some experiences too. Thanks! |
| Literature / Valentine Special - A Message To My Lover by Holyfire1(m): 7:54pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
Reading through the story of St. Valentine, I realize Valentine didn't die for the wrong course. He died for what HE BELIEVED TO BE TRUE AND RIGHT. And what was that? Valentine believed young lovers should be allowed to be joined together in Holy matrimony without the sentimental attitude or selfish interest of any higher authority to discourage early marriages. St. Valentine demonstrated the POWER IN LOVE, FOR WHAT IT CAN GIVE UP AT ANY COST compared to what it can receive. He made young folks realize that LOVE IS A SELFLESS SACRIFICE; sacrificing your comfort, your luxury, your time, your resources and even your life, whenever the need be, just for the sake of LOVE. "THE STRONG CORD OF LOVE IS NOT MADE TIGHTER BY THE INTERWOVEN THREAD OF CASUAL SEX"-Abaire Olawale The message of ST. Valentine is so simple and well understood. It is a message of LOVE to young folks, nothingless. The strong cord of love is not made tighter by the interwoven thread of casual sex. Never! sex couldn't have been the ingredient that spice up love. If sex is love, then why shouldn't I sleep with my mum, my two beautiful sisters and my very own 'padi of life', because I love these wonderful people dearly, they mean a lot to me. Do I have to have sex with my loved ones to show how much I love them? Absolutely No! That will DEFINITELY be insane. This is what happens when you reduce love to sex; insanity. Many had relegated the power of LOVE to be built around their genitals. How can you reduce such an embodiment of Divine Strength to your below the belt faculty. LOVE IS STRONGER THAN DEATH. WHAT THEN IS SEX, COMPARED TO DEATH. Young men and women, it might shock some of us to hear that sex itself is not a demonstration of love, even in marriage. Have you not heard of men who rape there own wives, men who uses their own wife as consolidation in business for their associates and a lot more. Love is greater than sex. Sex is best enjoyed without any fear or guilt, so pleasurable and satisfying without any trouble and so much desired as often as you intend, ONLY IN MARRIAGE with the right spouse, not anywhere else, but IN HOLY MATRIMONY with your forever-life partner. Get it right and get it now. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. Feel free to rebroadcast this message without any alteration of its content. Your comments and contributions are much appreciated. You can also share some experiences too. Thanks! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Literature / The Platform by Holyfire1(m): 4:16pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
The similarity between two talented musicians is not in the song they sing similarly. Rather, it is in the understanding that though they might both be talented in music but they aren't meant to perform on the same platform to the same audience. STAND TALL TO STAND OUT Every talent or gift has its own unique platform; a place where they can only be appreciated and celebrated. No matter how identical our gifts/talent might look, they aren't meant for the same platform and the same audience . Whenever you stand on your own platform to perform, you naturally attract your own audience, and this invariably gives you your anticipated result. People tend to struggle when they try to be like others. You are unique as you are. You stand out gloriously whenever you stand to be your very best self. Do not just be yourself to your audience, BE YOUR VERY BEST SELF. TAKE CHARGE Never think someone is already doing fine in what you are supposed to do and then feel relaxed and complacent. Or maybe someone is doing better than you. This is a wrong mindset. NOBODY IS ALLOWED TO TAKE OVER YOUR SHOW UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM . How? When you give up on yourself and conclude you can't do anymore better than you are doing now. There is more to your gift/talent. There is more to what you are capable of doing with the talent you possess, explore it. Take charge of your show. Be skillful in the use of your gift. Your gift, your talent or your divine ability will make a way for you. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Literature / The "Do It Little" Syndrome (part 2) by Holyfire1(m): 3:06pm On Feb 05, 2016 |
THE "DO IT LITTLE" SYNDROME (PART 2) Starting small is not the issue of concern now. We had made it known in the previous part of this article that it is not unwise to start small, but it becomes foolishness to remain small. More so, it is an abuse to the Spirit of Excellence in you to remain small. Consider this illustration; A very tall ladder was seen standing on it's feet, well supported at the base with many people crowded about it, including you. Some tries to climb up but were discouraged by the height, others felt satisfied just staying at the bottom of the ladder. Alas! Until you decide to break out of the crowd, Until you dare stand out and step out in faith to climb up, you aren't better than those satisfied staying at the bottom of the ladder. Step out in faith to do the extraordinary and achieve your BIG DREAM. "Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE, the word itself says I'M POSSIBLE "-Audrey Hepburn There is no limit to what you can accomplish, as long as you can picture it and believe in its possibility. Never relegate yourself. There is no one thing great that is impossible for you to achieve. Have faith. Be courageous. Believe you can and you will. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
| Literature / The "Do It Little" Syndrome (part 2) by Holyfire1(m): 8:42pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
-Your PASSION for what your are doing -Your CONVICTION about what you are doing -Your COMMITMENT to what you are doing -Your DILIGENCE in what you are doing -GOD! In everything you are doing All fulfilled will definitely bring your desired BREAKTHROUGH, even when you least expect. In no time, you will get there. © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE Still Loading... THE "DO IT LITTLE" SYNDROME(PART 2) Visit www.abaireolawale. Stay Connected! Be Inspired! |
| Literature / The "Do It Little" Syndrome by Holyfire1(m): 4:02pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
Aspirations are often desires which are far from us. We are to reach out for them. They are always far from our stand point and bigger than our present status. IF IT IS NOT BIGGER THAN YOU, THEN IT IS NOT WORTH YOUR ASPIRATION. Never stop aspiring. Keep dreaming. Do not stop thinking big. As long as you can conceive it, you can achieve it. "YOUR TALENT HAS A WORLD RECOGNITION FACTOR EMBEDDED IN IT"-Abaire Olawale Trying to break-even in life is the "Do it little " syndrome, which had killed many great dreams. Dreams which are meant to be a world class reality are shattered by this syndrome. The "Do it little" mentality says;"For myself, my family and my clan alone." It is also the mediocrity thinking of a subsistence farmer, who plants crops just for himself and his family only. Never let yourself to be infected by this syndrome. You aren't living just for yourself alone. You are created for impact; world kind of impact and not a mediocre. YOUR TALENT HAS A WORLD RECOGNITION FACTOR EMBEDDED IN IT. Then, why limiting yourself. Excellence... We are God’s most unique creature. Created in His own image and likeness. A major part of our make up is the SPIRIT OF EXCELLENCE, which we inherited from God our father and creator. Excellence is who we are. Your real "you" is the excellent "you". Anything less than that is an aberration. The excellent" "You" is the one who sees big accomplishment in every small venture. The one who sees no impossibility to what he can achieve. The one who is able to envision a beautiful ending from every small and cloudy beginning. That is who you are. Therefore, live your life to the fullness. Do not the live like the mediocre, who is always contempted with just little accomplishment. There is more you can do with your life. You are Next to be Announced... Friends, it will be needful to say; "never despite days of small beginning". They are actually evidence that you are well rooted, very grounded and well equipped to handle what is to come. Every great and true achiever you see today, started small yesterday. It is not unwise to start small, but it becomes foolishness to remain small. Every small beginner is a work in progress, an hidden treasure about to be unveil. Never give up on your dream. You are next to be announced to the world. Copyright © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. 1 Like |
| Literature / The "Do It Little" Syndrome by Holyfire1(m): 7:53pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
TEST I want you to think of something BIG you desire to achieve this year. Are you done thinking? OK. I just did likewise too. RESULT 100% certain my big thought for the year is quite different from yours. Why? My mind brings to surface what my Spirit knows I can a can achieve. However, I can't achieve your own big thought so also you can't achieve mine. This is because the strength for our individual minds to project into the future defers. CONCLUSION Whatsoever YOU can CONCEIVE, YOU can also ACHIEVE. © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE Our next edition of Be Inspired: THE "DO IT LITTLE" SYNDROME Stay Connected! www.abaireolawale. |
| Literature / Re: Wait! Let's Pause A Little by Holyfire1(m): 9:44pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
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| Literature / Wait! Let's Pause A Little by Holyfire1(m): 9:39pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
A pause is not a stop. A pause is a short break for a breakthrough which is to come. Everyone of us needs a break at one point or the other in the journey of our life. You recapture your initial vision and its passion, each time you pause, a little. Retreat but, do not Retire... A pause is an appropriate time to stay out of work times business purposely; with the aim of acquiring new skills, getting new ideas, new innovation and new strength. Each time you take a break out of your "usual activities", you come out refreshed, dynamic and energetic. The journey of life becomes more directional, more specific and less struggle. When you pause, you retreat. Many at times, people tend to interpret the word "retreat" to mean entering into your Comfort zone. No! To retreat is a time to reconnect to the power source. A time to go back to your "thinking chair" in order to strategize on laid down plans, perfectly. "Retreat" is a military term common among soldiers during battles. It is a time for them to map out new plans, a time to regroup and a time to prepare for victory ahead of them. Understanding Times and Season... Moreover, Life is a journey. Each time you take a short break for a breakthrough in the journey of life, an understanding of where you are coming from, where you had gotten to, and where you are still going dawns on you. A pause is just a perfect time to understand what is happening within and outside our life. A Moving train will soon meet its dead end if it does not pause at its appropriate station. This is why we all need a short break in the journey of life. I read about a baby locust(hopper) recently. These young bugs can't quite fly. But, they can jump up to 200 times their height. The hopper learns to fly by riding the wind. When the wind blows, the hopper catch the wind and fly in the direction of the wind. Timing is crucial for the hopper to fly. In the same manner, whenever we pause, we take a break to understand the times and seasons we are in, and we take actions accordingly. We outrun with ease those who had gone ahead of us during our breaktime. This is what men calls GRACE. Take time out to understand your times and seasons. You need a break, kindly pause a little. © 2016 ABAIRE OLAWALE www.abaireolawale. |
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