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EducationRe: Hadiza Saddik-Mahuta Breaks Record In The UK After Bagging Distinction In Law by holyokoto(m): 9:41am On Dec 03, 2015
SHOCK7:
very silly comment!
End time comment
EducationRe: Hadiza Saddik-Mahuta Breaks Record In The UK After Bagging Distinction In Law by holyokoto(m): 10:35am On Dec 02, 2015
End time University

End time Girl
CrimeRe: Woman Burns Her Daughter With Iron In Lagos (Graphic Pic) by holyokoto(m): 10:34am On Dec 02, 2015
baddyoosha:
THEY SHOULD JUST DO SAME TO HER
Mosaic Law grin
CrimeRe: Woman Burns Her Daughter With Iron In Lagos (Graphic Pic) by holyokoto(m): 10:32am On Dec 02, 2015
End time Woman
PoliticsRe: How Dasuki Aided Importation Of Illegal Arms Into Nigeria – NATFORCE by holyokoto(m): 10:31am On Dec 02, 2015
JingoOAU:
They should let this Dasuki be jare

Afterall, he's only funding Boko Haram to kill his people in the north....

Am even amazed he's a prince...he doesn't have that royalty blood in him with all the bad dealings he has involved himself in
abi grin grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Moyo Lawal Strips To Her Underwear To Celebrate December (pic) by holyokoto(m): 4:20pm On Dec 01, 2015
pat077:
poo compartment
that poo go taste like Ice cream
CelebritiesRe: Moyo Lawal Strips To Her Underwear To Celebrate December (pic) by holyokoto(m): 4:18pm On Dec 01, 2015
Airforce1:
Her Body

Even if she nakedd for my front, my dick no go rise
Na Lie!
CelebritiesRe: Moyo Lawal Strips To Her Underwear To Celebrate December (pic) by holyokoto(m): 4:17pm On Dec 01, 2015
That boot taste like chocolate
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NDE Recruits 15000 People In The Last Four Months by holyokoto(m): 1:02pm On Dec 01, 2015
End time employment
Jokes EtcRe: See What Happens When You Mistakenly Shout Sai Baba In A Fuel Queue(pic) by holyokoto(m): 12:45pm On Dec 01, 2015
End time blow
Christianity EtcRe: T.B Joshua Absent From High Court In Lagos (Photos) by holyokoto(m): 1:40pm On Nov 30, 2015
End time Pastor
RomanceRe: Pre-wedding Shoots At Usman Dam In Bwari, Abuja by holyokoto(m): 1:35pm On Nov 30, 2015
Endtime wedding
CelebritiesRe: Moesha Boduong Denies Collapsing At Mall In Accra While Wearing 4 Waist Trainers by holyokoto(m): 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2015
Ibelong2God:
Hmmmmmm! Endtime post on FP

Nobody ever talks about what this kind of people go through when getting old. They even struggle to walk!
but the nyach make sense sha
CelebritiesRe: Moesha Boduong Denies Collapsing At Mall In Accra While Wearing 4 Waist Trainers by holyokoto(m): 12:23pm On Nov 30, 2015
Airforce1:
Her yansh no move me
who ask you?
CelebritiesRe: Moesha Boduong Denies Collapsing At Mall In Accra While Wearing 4 Waist Trainers by holyokoto(m): 12:20pm On Nov 30, 2015
this nyach taste like Vanilla ice cream
FamilyRe: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by holyokoto(m): 2:25pm On Nov 26, 2015
enstack:
I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.

When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.

Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.

I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.

If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.

I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.

I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?

Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.

Thank you all.
I have been hearing of this kind of your husband but never knew they existed. But don't loose gut, He can change with influence from friends, at least 10% . I wish am his friend, I would have bring out some manliness in him.

And your fault, you appeared not to be that Romantic
FamilyRe: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by holyokoto(m): 2:24pm On Nov 26, 2015
enstack:
I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.

When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.

Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.

I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.

If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.

I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.

I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?

Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.

Thank you all.
I have been hearing of this kind of your husband but never knew they existed. But don't loose gut, He can change with influence from friends, at least 10% . I wish am his friend, I would have bring out some manliness in him.
PoliticsRe: Fani-Kayode Writes On The ''Killing Of 105 Soldiers By Boko Haram'' by holyokoto(m): 9:40am On Nov 26, 2015
Guyman02:
UAE lost 65 soldiers at a blow in Yemen recently when a rocket fired by the Houthis landed on their base. Have you seen the damage done by Grad rocket launchers in the Ukraine conflict?
am not talking of Yemen here, many nation has lost more than hundred soldiers at a blow due to rocket invasion. I said am a 2ic platoon commander to 157 Battalion which was said lost 105 soldiers just a day. how? where were the soldiers manufactured without my knowledge. no soldier is lost even a boot is not missing. I can see most Nigerians are praying for disasters to mock Buhari. I held no Love for Buhari, but am not praying for our soldiers to die in the battle. The highest casualty recorded so far was in Bama 11 Sept 2014. Where we lost 29 ground troops, 5 military police, a commanding officer Chumba Muhammad and a captain. If you guys like keep believing and spreading folklores.
PoliticsRe: Fani-Kayode Writes On The ''Killing Of 105 Soldiers By Boko Haram'' by holyokoto(m): 10:12pm On Nov 25, 2015
McCarlito:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/3116914_cuqppilxaaa8lrn_jpglarge_jpegea2d276c358a03bf25765452a6e37dae
Soldiers died serving the the nation and the leaders are not saying anything about the lost of lives of our soldiers;Rather they are debating if they are killed or yet to be killed.. But try walking past the higher ranking officers without paying them complements and see how much job u buys.... Nigerian leaders have no respect for human lives expessially when u are not listed among the Most Influential Men/Women in Nigeria
how do you come about this news, pls this is serious because am the quality control officer of 157 Battalion which was said we lost 105 soldiers which was a blatant Lie. at least you guys should reason critically if 105 soldiers could be practically killed at a blow
PoliticsRe: Audu Vomited Blood Before His Death - Daily Post by holyokoto(m): 8:49am On Nov 23, 2015
SeverusSnape:
This Islamic rite sef undecided

Can't they just wait for an autopsy to be carried out??

Please let us know what really killed him before some APC e-minions say PDP murdered him.
PDP will be the last to want him dead because they knew the deputy and others from APC are still there. thus The closest culprit should be from APC who want the Deputy Abiodun to become Governor
Christianity EtcRe: 7 Sins That Lead To Self-destruction: Christians Must Avoid. by holyokoto(m): 11:34am On Nov 22, 2015
Jesus turned water into wine and the people drank and were MERRIE
CrimeRe: Man Murders 86-year-old Woman Over Witchcraft by holyokoto(m): 5:12pm On Nov 19, 2015
African mentality, he will face the music and tell the court how the woman crawled and enters his dream. yeye man he should be sentenced to Book Haram for Bombing
FamilyRe: Husband Seeks Dissolution Of 10 Years Marriage Over Alleged DNA Result by holyokoto(m): 5:08pm On Nov 19, 2015
And why did you do the DNA test at the first placehuh
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji Pictured Live At 100.9FM & 92.5FM Enugu Promoting Her Movie(pics by holyokoto(m): 5:41pm On Nov 18, 2015
baddyoosha:
she's cute she only needs me in her life to be complete
When it comes to snatching my Lover, I don't joke with it a bit. Jenny is my world and whoever trespass will undergo admonition
CrimeRe: Bomb Blasts Hit Kano GSM Market, Scores Killed by holyokoto(m): 5:30pm On Nov 18, 2015
CR77:
Buhari boys again huh

Buhari = BH
it may never occur to you that is human lives that are wasting. all you guys knew is agony of defeat of GEJ which is already things of the past
CrimeRe: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 12:11pm On Nov 18, 2015
adesewa4uyahoo:
lolz yeye sumbody.... Check my name I'm Adesewa (that is the yoruba) while adesuwa (is the edo) different tribal names
how do u expect everyone to know
CrimeRe: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 11:33am On Nov 18, 2015
BabaIjebuXL:
You need Brighter grammar,Book 1.
Too much grammar
CrimeRe: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 11:22am On Nov 18, 2015
BabaIjebuXL:
This defines you! GULLIBILITY is a failure of social intelligence in which a
person is easily tricked or manipulated into an ill-advised
course of action. It is closely related to credulity, which is
the tendency to believe unlikely propositions that are
unsupported by evidence. grin
Pardon?
CrimeRe: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 11:21am On Nov 18, 2015
adesewa4uyahoo:
did you read the story at all.... Adesuwa is an edo name.... And please stop this tribalism
my friend Adesuwa was a yorub
PoliticsRe: Atiku Will Be Next President Of Nigeria In 2019 – Prophet by holyokoto(m): 11:13am On Nov 18, 2015
ishiamu:
Every1 is entitled too his opinion like wise the prophecies they see, labelling all man fake cos of few people's prophecies makes no sense, he choose mbaka cos he supported buhari that's all
Matthew Oshomowole predicted Buhari's victory as well the remaining predicted trash including many pastors I once respected
CrimeRe: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 10:58am On Nov 18, 2015
The Police woman na YOLOBA

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