Education › Re: Hadiza Saddik-Mahuta Breaks Record In The UK After Bagging Distinction In Law by holyokoto(m): 9:41am On Dec 03, 2015 |
SHOCK7: very silly comment! End time comment |
Education › Re: Hadiza Saddik-Mahuta Breaks Record In The UK After Bagging Distinction In Law by holyokoto(m): 10:35am On Dec 02, 2015 |
End time University
End time Girl |
Crime › Re: Woman Burns Her Daughter With Iron In Lagos (Graphic Pic) by holyokoto(m): 10:34am On Dec 02, 2015 |
baddyoosha: THEY SHOULD JUST DO SAME TO HER Mosaic Law  |
Crime › Re: Woman Burns Her Daughter With Iron In Lagos (Graphic Pic) by holyokoto(m): 10:32am On Dec 02, 2015 |
End time Woman |
Politics › Re: How Dasuki Aided Importation Of Illegal Arms Into Nigeria – NATFORCE by holyokoto(m): 10:31am On Dec 02, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: Moyo Lawal Strips To Her Underwear To Celebrate December (pic) by holyokoto(m): 4:20pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
pat077: poo compartment that poo go taste like Ice cream |
Celebrities › Re: Moyo Lawal Strips To Her Underwear To Celebrate December (pic) by holyokoto(m): 4:18pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
Airforce1: Her Body
Even if she nakedd for my front, my dick no go rise Na Lie! |
Celebrities › Re: Moyo Lawal Strips To Her Underwear To Celebrate December (pic) by holyokoto(m): 4:17pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
That boot taste like chocolate |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: NDE Recruits 15000 People In The Last Four Months by holyokoto(m): 1:02pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
End time employment |
Jokes Etc › Re: See What Happens When You Mistakenly Shout Sai Baba In A Fuel Queue(pic) by holyokoto(m): 12:45pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
End time blow |
Christianity Etc › Re: T.B Joshua Absent From High Court In Lagos (Photos) by holyokoto(m): 1:40pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
End time Pastor |
Romance › Re: Pre-wedding Shoots At Usman Dam In Bwari, Abuja by holyokoto(m): 1:35pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Endtime wedding |
Celebrities › Re: Moesha Boduong Denies Collapsing At Mall In Accra While Wearing 4 Waist Trainers by holyokoto(m): 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
Ibelong2God: Hmmmmmm! Endtime post on FP
Nobody ever talks about what this kind of people go through when getting old. They even struggle to walk! but the nyach make sense sha |
Celebrities › Re: Moesha Boduong Denies Collapsing At Mall In Accra While Wearing 4 Waist Trainers by holyokoto(m): 12:23pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
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Celebrities › Re: Moesha Boduong Denies Collapsing At Mall In Accra While Wearing 4 Waist Trainers by holyokoto(m): 12:20pm On Nov 30, 2015 |
this nyach taste like Vanilla ice cream |
Family › Re: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by holyokoto(m): 2:25pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
enstack: I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.
When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.
Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.
I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.
If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.
I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.
I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?
Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.
Thank you all. I have been hearing of this kind of your husband but never knew they existed. But don't loose gut, He can change with influence from friends, at least 10% . I wish am his friend, I would have bring out some manliness in him. And your fault, you appeared not to be that Romantic |
Family › Re: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by holyokoto(m): 2:24pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
enstack: I had to create a new account just to post this as it's quite sensitive. It's quite lengthy too but I'll be brief. I need mature and friendly advice from people here.
When I first met my husband, it was in a library. We talked briefly and we became close. I have had past relationships in my life so I was careful as possible. I realised that he had no past relationship. He was a typical virgin and was new and I was his first girlfriend. So I felt comfortable with him. He was so kind and loving so I agreed to marry him.
Now it has gotten worse. Everytime he does anything I want without asking questions. At first I enjoyed it but now I'm starting to worry about him as it's getting out of hand. He does not display any act of manliness in the house. He behaves like my puppet or my foot stool. The other day he was watching the soccer game and I just jokingly mentioned how boring it was and I would prefer the faith channel. He changed the channel to the faith channel just like that. Even at work he would be calling me and texting me I am even scared he would loose his job if his employer finds out.
I have no time for myself.. he is always around. Sometimes if I say no to his advances for sex he would act like I am a wicked woman who has cheated him or rubbed him of his right. He would give me the silent treatment for weeks until I give in. On Sunday he insisted on going with me to the salon and it's now embarrassing as every Sunday my mates in the salon would gossip about how my husband is the only man amongst women making their hairs because his wife is there. I try to talk to him but he would feel so sad like I have taken smething away. I don't understand.
If I'm studying at night, he would suddenly begin to romance me and strip me of my clothing without saying anything first when he can see I'm studying. If I rebuke him, he would be very sad. Every time he must have one intimate relation with me everyday and life does not work that way. I don't know if it's immaturity or he is sick mentally. The day I returned home 11pm due to huge traffic jam, I was expecting him to be furious like any other man.. he was with all smiles even offered me water and collected my bag and books. Christ.
I need sincere help. I told his family that I'll file a divorce if this continues as I cannot live like this. It's no longer love but idolatry. I thought it's wives that are submissive.. he is the one submissive. Anything I ask... he grants even silly things. Things that a real man would query before granting.
I am sure that if I ask him to bathe in acid he would do it. I'm sick and tired of this marriage. Just a year. The last quater he gave me his ATM to spend when I went for training in Abuja. When I was spending excessively he was quiet about it until I returned and found it he was broke that i wrecked him. I was wondering what happened to him. Why didn't he talk?
Please Nairalanders what is happening? I love him still and divorce would be my last resort. I need your advice and help on how to fix this because I don't know what to do anymore.
Thank you all. I have been hearing of this kind of your husband but never knew they existed. But don't loose gut, He can change with influence from friends, at least 10% . I wish am his friend, I would have bring out some manliness in him. |
Politics › Re: Fani-Kayode Writes On The ''Killing Of 105 Soldiers By Boko Haram'' by holyokoto(m): 9:40am On Nov 26, 2015 |
Guyman02: UAE lost 65 soldiers at a blow in Yemen recently when a rocket fired by the Houthis landed on their base. Have you seen the damage done by Grad rocket launchers in the Ukraine conflict? am not talking of Yemen here, many nation has lost more than hundred soldiers at a blow due to rocket invasion. I said am a 2ic platoon commander to 157 Battalion which was said lost 105 soldiers just a day. how? where were the soldiers manufactured without my knowledge. no soldier is lost even a boot is not missing. I can see most Nigerians are praying for disasters to mock Buhari. I held no Love for Buhari, but am not praying for our soldiers to die in the battle. The highest casualty recorded so far was in Bama 11 Sept 2014. Where we lost 29 ground troops, 5 military police, a commanding officer Chumba Muhammad and a captain. If you guys like keep believing and spreading folklores. |
Politics › Re: Fani-Kayode Writes On The ''Killing Of 105 Soldiers By Boko Haram'' by holyokoto(m): 10:12pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
McCarlito: www.nairaland.com/attachments/3116914_cuqppilxaaa8lrn_jpglarge_jpegea2d276c358a03bf25765452a6e37dae Soldiers died serving the the nation and the leaders are not saying anything about the lost of lives of our soldiers;Rather they are debating if they are killed or yet to be killed.. But try walking past the higher ranking officers without paying them complements and see how much job u buys.... Nigerian leaders have no respect for human lives expessially when u are not listed among the Most Influential Men/Women in Nigeria how do you come about this news, pls this is serious because am the quality control officer of 157 Battalion which was said we lost 105 soldiers which was a blatant Lie. at least you guys should reason critically if 105 soldiers could be practically killed at a blow |
Politics › Re: Audu Vomited Blood Before His Death - Daily Post by holyokoto(m): 8:49am On Nov 23, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: This Islamic rite sef 
Can't they just wait for an autopsy to be carried out??
Please let us know what really killed him before some APC e-minions say PDP murdered him. PDP will be the last to want him dead because they knew the deputy and others from APC are still there. thus The closest culprit should be from APC who want the Deputy Abiodun to become Governor |
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Sins That Lead To Self-destruction: Christians Must Avoid. by holyokoto(m): 11:34am On Nov 22, 2015 |
Jesus turned water into wine and the people drank and were MERRIE |
Crime › Re: Man Murders 86-year-old Woman Over Witchcraft by holyokoto(m): 5:12pm On Nov 19, 2015 |
African mentality, he will face the music and tell the court how the woman crawled and enters his dream. yeye man he should be sentenced to Book Haram for Bombing |
Family › Re: Husband Seeks Dissolution Of 10 Years Marriage Over Alleged DNA Result by holyokoto(m): 5:08pm On Nov 19, 2015 |
And why did you do the DNA test at the first place  |
Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Pictured Live At 100.9FM & 92.5FM Enugu Promoting Her Movie(pics by holyokoto(m): 5:41pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
baddyoosha: she's cute she only needs me in her life to be complete When it comes to snatching my Lover, I don't joke with it a bit. Jenny is my world and whoever trespass will undergo admonition |
Crime › Re: Bomb Blasts Hit Kano GSM Market, Scores Killed by holyokoto(m): 5:30pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
CR77: Buhari boys again 
Buhari = BH it may never occur to you that is human lives that are wasting. all you guys knew is agony of defeat of GEJ which is already things of the past |
Crime › Re: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 12:11pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
adesewa4uyahoo: lolz yeye sumbody.... Check my name I'm Adesewa (that is the yoruba) while adesuwa (is the edo) different tribal names how do u expect everyone to know |
Crime › Re: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 11:33am On Nov 18, 2015 |
BabaIjebuXL: You need Brighter grammar,Book 1. Too much grammar |
Crime › Re: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 11:22am On Nov 18, 2015 |
BabaIjebuXL: This defines you! GULLIBILITY is a failure of social intelligence in which a person is easily tricked or manipulated into an ill-advised course of action. It is closely related to credulity, which is the tendency to believe unlikely propositions that are unsupported by evidence.  Pardon? |
Crime › Re: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 11:21am On Nov 18, 2015 |
adesewa4uyahoo: did you read the story at all.... Adesuwa is an edo name.... And please stop this tribalism my friend Adesuwa was a yorub |
Politics › Re: Atiku Will Be Next President Of Nigeria In 2019 – Prophet by holyokoto(m): 11:13am On Nov 18, 2015 |
ishiamu: Every1 is entitled too his opinion like wise the prophecies they see, labelling all man fake cos of few people's prophecies makes no sense, he choose mbaka cos he supported buhari that's all Matthew Oshomowole predicted Buhari's victory as well the remaining predicted trash including many pastors I once respected |
Crime › Re: Female Sergeant Sells Baby Brought To Police Station-the Punch by holyokoto(m): 10:58am On Nov 18, 2015 |
The Police woman na YOLOBA |