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Family / Re: The Biggest Mistake In Marriage Right Now For A Woman by Hombhoi: 5:11pm On May 23, 2020
Gbam .. YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD DIRECTLY

Coborona:


I was expecting something better than this

Entitled man?

Come on... It's the other way round

I'm not disputing that there are entitled men..

But more women act entitled

Right from dating... Most Naija ladies to be specific start asking for money to fix hair, to buy phone...
Money that they can't ask their fathers
They were not there when he was hustling, just toasting a Naija babe alone. She starts feeling entitled... I need money for subscription....I want to fix this.... If you shut her down... She starts giving you attitude

I laff, is this is the best counter thread y'all can come up with? this thread is a failure at best, like shooting yourself in the leg or scoring an own goal grin grin

Dead on arrival

Spits*
Romance / Re: I Have A Serious Problem Concerning My Relationship With Women. by Hombhoi: 11:43am On May 16, 2020
You need special prayers and deliverance .. Your problem no be from this side of the world

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.
Politics / Re: Interstate Lockdown: Ugwuanyi Monitors Enugu-Ebonyi Boundary (Pictures) by Hombhoi: 7:13am On May 11, 2020
ignis:
Monitoring of state boundaries have become the job of hypocritical governors.

No serious hard working governor have done this.

I swear .. Scam
Politics / Re: Orji Kalu Set To Resume At Senate Tomorrow After 5 Months In Prison by Hombhoi: 7:09am On May 11, 2020
Naija my country.. I hail thee
Romance / Re: If You Think Your Partner Is Trustworthy Then Do This. by Hombhoi: 2:54pm On May 09, 2020
I don't know why some immature people find joy doing things that will later leave them crying.. Una go come carry una yeye problem come NL to confirm your height and level of stupidity ..
Romance / Re: My Boss' Girlfriend Is In Love With Me by Hombhoi: 12:46am On Mar 22, 2020
Onisekuse ni e
Culture / Re: Masquerades Seen Giving A Man Change After The Man Offered Them Money by Hombhoi: 1:46am On Jan 11, 2020
Mad oo �

Nostradamus1:
it is all about the hustle and its reward
Igbo masquerade will soon start using POS

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