₦airaland Forum

irunoko:
Bloggers una no go mind your buisnness?

Datboredberry:
What necessitated this comment? I made it clear I'm here to vent... But everything it okay now...

He and I didn't break up!

We're going to have a heart-to-heart conversation soon... It's needed.

endsarrrs:
The country is backward like your backyard and finish like your backyard in the photo

mtcheeeeew

onelovenigeria:
ok thanks for your view...noted

ngwababe:
E tire me jari.

onelovenigeria:
thought so too...but any idea about best location for this in lagos ....

umehaam:
I will be concise and as straight to the point as possible and will appreciate people’s advice or suggestions especially married folks.
I got married first week of August this year. This is just three months of marriage.
We didn’t have long courtship because she’s based in a different location and hardly visits.
Now we are married, I’ve started seeing things I don’t really like and is giving me concern. I’ve called her to have a close heart to heart talk but each time I do that it normally ends in quarrels.

These are the issues, I’m a neat person and even before marriage I do my chores myself. I hardly eat outside because I cook all type of food and store in deep freezer and I’m the type that likes things to be neat and environment tidy.
But my wife is the opposite. My wife hardly wash dishes. If she does it she will be feeling like she has done one big job or so. For the past three months we got married I have been the one washing dishes most of the time. Plates will fill the sink she will ignore it until I wash and clean everywhere. Hardly will you see her sweep the room or even mob. I do cleaning of the room and the last time it was mob I was the one.
I made sure I got her stuffs she needs to be comfortable. I got her a washing machine but I will still be the one to load clothes in the washer and even when she does that, she will keep them for me to go downstairs and hang after washing and still bring them back when completely dried.
I do those things without complaining but recently it has turned to be my duty that even when I’m not around and she wash, she will keep them for me to come home and hang them downstairs.
For three weeks our room has not been swept. Just this night I felt really bad seeing many plates in the kitchen sink and she just ignored all.

Not as if she’s working. We are planning on securing a shop for her because she is a business person and still does business online currently and most of her reason according to her why she doesn’t do most chores is because she said she’s always talking to customers on chat. I’ve asked her what of people that manages several business so they don’t have time for their family? I’m just being skeptical starting up a business for her because since she’s doing this way when she has not started a full blown business, how will she do when she’s now managing big business.

I do cook well and most often she relegate cooking to me. Is either she cook one and beg me to cook the other. I’ve been so down and that’s not what I bargained for.

I complained bitterly about her action this night and she’s threatening me with divorce. We are just married for three months and the way it is going now I don’t think I can’t bear this going forward.
She got angry this evening because I told her that the way she keeps house untidy that just very soon my coming back here will be to just come home and sleep and leave the next morning because I’m tired. She got angry and started moving her things from our room to the visitors room with a threat of divorce. I don’t know what to do.

ozoebuka1:
Who scored him

samuel051:
What a tragedy..did she die??

ngwababe:
Is this what you understood from the story?

chatinent:
Why use her toothpaste! Students hate to manage their property...always using someone else’s property.


I had a roommate who never bought matches, toothpaste, salt, and every minor thing! So me buying them is a goat naw. Inasmuch as I dont support what the infuriated girl did, it is very annoying to have a roommate or neighbour who hates to survive with his properties alone.

Don't be surprised they may have a relationship... neighbour-to-neighbour broloshoism cos the way they were meeting themselves at doorposts was mutual. Dem don get hidden kasala. Maybe the huncle is perching on many other girls and it's annoying hanty... so the hanty decided and used a transferred aggression to hibernate his penisula.

Sth is telling me the girl is still proud of what she did! She will be like “I will come out from this station but I have given you an everlasting mark e ragbokwa onwegi. Anytime you see the sign, you'll know Owerri girls don't take nonsense.”

That penis is now like Nigeria economy for life!


Ewwwh! Penis dike a naaaaa! Penis nwa Dee Chike a naaa!


Penis, adieu, nna, till we meet to part no more.


Well, I am still available for research writing services that is Turnitin friendly.

PeaceJoyLove:
Bitterex,

Did you consult anyone before you started praying? Did you ask anyone on nairaland before you decided to pray?

There is a reason you prayed. Deliverance is spiritual. Do not take any meaning to it. Just continue praying and leave this worm issue. It is an experience for you. What you need to do is to start observing issues around you and keep praying. Do not even talk about any worm to any one.

No one can tell you if the worm is spiritual or not. Whatever anyone says about the worm here is a lie. Spiritual things are not meant for canals minds. You can only learn from experience. No one teaches anyone. Just like how many things are strange to a toddler, exactly how baby christians start growing. You learn from mistakes and experiences.

If that worm is spiritual and you start discussing it with a spiritually dead person here, do not open the gate for the evil to return. Just focus on your prayer and yourself. Concentrate on your mission and achieve your goals. Do not attach anything to the worm, but take note of it. If it is just an ordinary worm, you will know. And if it is a spiritual worm which came out of you....you will know too. Time will say it as it is.

There is a lady here I read her diary who was asking how children can be witch or wizard. Lol. When she does not understand spiritual matters, she is dead spiritually. Well, that someone is a witch in the spirit realm is wrong for people to brutalize the person physically. This is where the devil is making Nigerians lose it. If there is reincarnation, then, the person will know that a child can be a witch or what Nigerians call "ogbanje". Is it not in the white man's land the person is? When I was in the white man's land too, I didnt believe those things. But when I came to Nigeria, and I started seeing unbelievable things, my eyes cleared. I went to the village to do rural development projects. Mehn! Things dey happen oooo.

Let me give you an instance. I went to visit a friend in Lagos around Akoka after University of Lagos. And there was this old house there, and a lady was selling roasted corn and coconut in front of the house. I was the one who told the guy that I wanted it cos I know newly harvested corn (they are very sweet when cooked or roasted the same day they are harvested). We just dey chill. And then, there was one old woman we greeted who was at the door of the entrance to the main house (face me, I face you house). Na so we dey wait for my corn, and this man just came from no where, crossed the road from the other end, and went straight to the old woman. Slapped the old woman by the leg, and started yelling at her. I wanted to go punch the man by the face, but my friend held me back. He said that old woman is a trouble maker in the house, and I dont need to do anything, that she will fight back. Low and behold, the woman was calm and did nothing. She was even on her knees begging. I was more furious, but my friend held me back that I should just wait. See eh! I started looking at everyone there cos the people in the house came out. And I couldn't believe their face expression. The man started talking loudly, and more people came out. I was still furious that no one did anytning. That was when the corn seller voiced out that... "mama, this is unusual oooo, why are you silent?". That was how everyone too said... "mama, this is not you oooo...we know you can fight your fight". In short, the man said she has three legs and the third leg she had crossed the way into the house, before he slapped her. I couldn't understand it then. I said still furious, but everyone started saying that it is true that the woman made that spot her sitting area. That was how the man said he will cut the third leg spiritually there...right away, and he asked them to go buy eggs and some things. When the old woman heard eggs, if you see how she was rolling on the floor begging for her life. I was like...what is the correlation btw eggs and cutting of a spiritual unseen third leg? If you see how she was begging that they should leave her third leg and that she will pack out of the house. Na so I heard some said... "ladylady who own house wan pack out?". Apparently, she is the owner of the house. That was when I thanked my God for not interfering in what did not concern me. The old woman ran inside and started packing oooo. I was shocked.

I just left the place and didnt even buy the corn again cos I said, what they might have even done to the corn sef. I waka away gently. About a month later, my friend and I met again, and the topic came on board in the presence of about 5 other friends of ours. That was how they said one guy got a job in Chevron the following week oooo that incident happened, that the guy had been struggling despite having a first class in chemical engineering. What could be the correlation there? Really, I do not have any proof, but things dey happen.

In my later years, I realised that the man saw the whole thing in the spirit. The warfare we fight is not cabals, but spiritual. Only the experienced can fight it. And cos many are inexperienced, that's why pastors chained many and turned them to their ATM. And there are different lies about children been "ogbanje". Some are, while many aren't. When you cannot see in the spirit, how can you know? Pastors, Muslim clerics, ot traditional priests control many people because they are powerless.

These things are there. The question is how can you know the real and the fake? If you think visiting pastors, Muslim clerics and traditionalist is the solution, that's a big mistake cos many of them are there to scam you. Many dont see anything, but they just brainwash many.

If God speaks to His people, and you believe there is devil, dont you think the devil too speaks to his people? So, when they say somethings, how do you check if they are true or false, or if from God or from the devil? If you cannot get into the spirit, you cannot know.

Soul travelling is something deep also. So, you think cos the person is a toddler, if is not possible for such to travel in the spirit? If soul traveling is possible, anyone can as long as the person fulfils the conditions which guide it. As long as reincarnation is true (some do not believe in it, but I have seen oooo), a toddler can be evil in the spirit realm, but one should not brutalize rhe kid. In fact, as long as the kid is under the parents, they can use parental authority to deliver the toddler. Yes, very possible. But people donnot know these things and they listen to fake pastors to brutalize the kids. Meanwhile, many kids are innocent. Simple. Some kids are advance in age in the spirit realm, while many adults are babies in the spirit realm also.

Oga, go and develop yourself spiritually, and stop asking these kind of questions NL.

Goodluck!

MrScribe:
I want to invest some amount of money, but I don't know where.

But sometime last year, I read that the porn industry is lucrative. I wanted to start my own channel on Xvideos and recruit like one or two girls of opposite physiques, and pump like 1 million naira into my first few videos and marketing. But I am hesitant because as if I am not yet sure that the porn industry is lucrative.

Mind you, I am not a sex freak. I just want to make money. Although I have always liked film production, but my capital is not enough to make the kind of movies I will really like to make as I don't like substandard videos.

I have read that the porn industry is lucrative, but how lucrative?

Capital with me is 3.5 million. This is too small to make any crisp movie in Nigeria.

But I am sure that with 1 million, and just myself and two girls, I can make 5 short sex videos, and promote them on Xvideos.

My driving force is quick money. I want to double that money within a year. And stay around for a few years, so that I can have enough money to give Kunle Afolayan a run for his money.

Other businesses I have in mind include:

I) Habib Yoghurt franchise. (But I need 1.5 million more to open a Habib Yoghurt franchise.

II) Primary School (I am not sure if 3.5 million will be enough as I am a person who likes to start big, with big standard).

Iii) Sport Betting Site (My capital is obviously too small).

What do you think?