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Bluivy

I am not going to stoop low because of you, but please stay off my lane.

Thank you.

Amefrica:
I'm not haha. Why asking?

Because I think I saw a pink "f" somewhere and suddenly its a blue "m" please help me pass through this.

Dear Op

Break up with that girl asap, even if its tonight. If she's stupid, she'll do something to herself, let her cry her eyes out now while its still early. Let her have a headache, let her hate men, let her hate you.

One day, she'll understand where you were coming from, it hurts to be with someone who just likes you than loving you. From a girl's point of view, dumping her would do her some good, don't even be her friend again coz that will give her hope that you two can still fix things, let her feel the pain. She'll understand one day.

Talking from experience.

Amefrica:
I greet you oo

lol Amefrica, your confusing me, are you transgender?

Sorry but I need to know o

AlpineSnow:
Aha...of course *face palm*

It must be a British commonwealth thing then.

I think so too

Welcome to Nairaland, I thought it was only girls who fancy Nigeria as a country.

Your the first who loves it without the usual political ish most non Nigerian guys portray here.

CFCfan:
Wow. That's interesting. One of my cousins is a fed govt lawyer in Nigeria, my cousin's wife is a corporate here in San Diego. I guess I'll complete the trifecta
It's always good to pursue your passion though; do not do things for the sole reason to please others.

BTW, I'll charge in Rands

Law runs in the family I see. But its good to follow your dreams or else your going to fail, disappoint yourself, your family and the society.

Please do that, it will save me a lot of money.

CFCfan:
Law is my specialty. Gunning to be either an immigration or business attorney

I meant under the law department...well then you'll represent me but don't charge in dollars please?

My mom was a labor lawyer my sis followed in her footsteps too she's an advocate. I almost followed due to people always telling me that my arguments were fit for a lawyer but I researched on it and got bored, I love arts more than anything.

EnlightenedSoul:
Lax gun laws + heavy snow = All the most boring states (IMO) with no (or not very much) urban/city/night life. Quiet. "Country-like". Low crime. Vastly White.

1. Alaska! Very lax on guns. Ridiculously snowy. Probably your best bet.
2. Wyoming, Utah, Idaho, etc.

where you don't see the sun for six months?

EnlightenedSoul:
And here you are humble, and full of grace

I could use a little humble.

It be an honor to have some enlightenment in my soul too...

CFCfan:
Thanks.
Man shall not live by politics alone but by all other things added together.

By the way what's your speciality?

EnlightenedSoul:
Lol, no more enlightened than anyone else. My name is deceiving

Sure it is

cococandy:
i hope CFCfan won't mind

I do have a lot of nature around my area because we don't live in the heart of the city.
We live in the suburbs.

This one is last fall. The trees took on such pretty colors

very pretty and the place looks so quite. The kinda place I love, someday, when we settle down we will definately opt for places like this one. Four seasons of the year in full....I love fall but the scent from the blooming trees makes me nauseous.

I pray my future hubby proposes in the rain in fall.

@Cfcfan, this is def worthy following, its nice seeing the other side of you, aside politics.

omoharry:
Ha! Khona; I like that music a lot, especially the beat. Truly African.

Truly African indeed

zyzxx:
nice one

lol

humilitypays:
@tosyne2much, all what u said are nothing but the truth! Well done guy. A standing ovation for u. But unfortunately, ladies won't listen because they don't love to be told the truth most times

Another reason guys dump a lady after going down with her is because most ladies have no other good value to offer to a guy aside their body...hence, when a guy goes down there & realises this lady has nothing else good to offer to him aside sex, he will definitely run at any given opportunity.

Solution
Ladies try and make yourself valuavle so that u can have other positive values to offer a guy u are dating; believe me, no guy will dare leave u even after having sex with u severally

You maybe wondering what other good/positive values u can offer to a guy u are dating?

1. Try and be active in his financial growth- giving him vital job/career tip offs, secret biz tips, things he can do to increase his income, etc. Don't give him money or don't spend on him, never u try!

2. Help him cut down on his expenditure and waste. Help him save more than his spends.

3. Most men are domestically not organised; help him organise him house if u can.

4. If u know anyone that can help him get a better job, get into a better business deal, win a contract, get promoted at work, graduate with good grades, pls do.

Don't sponsor him to travel abroad if u live in Nigeria. You can only sponsor him to come meet u abroad if u live abroad too.

Avoid spending on any guy...its wrong! Help him become financially responsible not spending on him cos it will boomerang on u.

These are some of the positive values u can add to his life aside sex. If u do this for any sane guy, whether u guys have sex a million times or not, he won't ever leave u, never, except he's insane which he will sure come back to his senses some day!!

But unfortunately, majority of single ladies today believe that their only job or role in a relationship is to provide the guy with sex while the guy takes care of all their financial and material needs; now tell me why won't guys dump them after having sex with them

No man dumps a valuable lady with plenty values to offer aside sex!

Will you guys stop "high fivying" each other over this bleeping crap? Why not get into her pants at all and see if she possesses the attributes mentioned without even touching her cheek with you lips or brushing her hand?

Do you need to go under the skirt before you can scout what she's really made off Smh....biko no fighting ehn?

I like your solutions though, on point, high five.