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New Scam Method!

30 minutes can financially ruin your life.

This is not an ordinary phone scam — it is far more dangerous.

The scammers don’t want your money, your password, or your trust.

They only want your kindness.

Recently, a new “help-seeking scam” has surfaced in malls, metro stations, marketplaces, and public places.

The scammers are usually well-dressed middle-aged or elderly individuals.

They may say they don’t know how to use their phone, that they need to check their pension or subsidy or that they pressed the wrong page by mistake, and they ask you to help operate their phone.


*The dangerous part:*

When you take the phone in your hand, it is often already on a video call, or screen recording and facial recognition permissions are enabled.

Someone on the other side is watching you. You think you are helping, but your biometric data is being collected.

This is not a normal scam. It is an AI biometric identity scam.

They don’t want your money. They want you.
If you touch the phone (fingerprint), read out numbers or verification codes (voice), or look at the screen while speaking or using the phone (facial movement), your three main biometric identifiers — fingerprint, voice, and face — can be stolen.
Modern AI can create a near-perfect digital clone of you.


What happens next is frightening.

Scammers can use your digital clone to apply for online loans, consumer financing, credit cash-outs, and automatically pass face and voice verification.

Within 30 minutes, all the loan amount you are eligible for could be exhausted.
When you receive bank notifications, you realize that your money hasn’t disappeared — instead, you are drowning in debt, possibly millions of nairas.

*Remember these 3 rules:*

1.Never help strangers operate their phone.

2.Do not touch, click, look at, or read anything aloud — even if they say, “Just one click.”

3.Unknown video calls: Immediately disconnect the call. Never cooperate with requests to look into the camera and speak.

Share this message with elderly people, children, and kind-hearted friends. Scammers are now targeting good people.

*Final reminder:*
Never think, “I won’t be that unlucky,” or “I am smart enough not to fall for this scam.”

That very confidence and kindness are what scammers exploit.


*Please share this message.*

One extra share means one less victim!...


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If a man and a woman both work, and the house depends on the income of the both of them to survive, then unless the activities of the home is split between them just as the bills, the woman will be doing way more than the man in that equation. Way more in a way that will sooner than later create resentment and a loss of respect and consideration.

Look at it this way:

You wake up in the morning as a man, get dressed, get served breakfast, and off you go to work. Your wife wakes up, has to prepare breakfast, get the kids ready for school, then goes to work. She runs the home shift first, then goes to work.

In the evening after a hard day's job you cant wait to get home and "rest". For most women in this working arrangement, there is no "rest" for coming home from work. They come back to the second home shift to get things to work at home. Fix dinner, sort the kids and all.

Rinse, repeat! Rinse, repeat! Gradually it saps interest in the marriage out of her as she becomes a shadow of herself.

How do we solve this?

1. The home should have no need for her income. That way, working is for just herself. So the extra burden from work, she can not in good conscience blame you or the marriage for it. The world may have shifted from this but this is the idea around the man being the sole provider. If a woman is to give her best to the home, she cant be burdened with the task of providing for the house because then she will be forced to take on two roles; a part of the man's and all of her's.

2. Just as she is supporting your role as a provider, you have to ACTIVELY support her in her responsibilities in the home front. Actively here means, this is not the support you give occasionally as you deem fit. Just as her financial support to your house is something she does even when it is uncomfortable, you will have to jettison your "African mentality" or "Alpha male" disposition and split the responsibilities of the home front too just as you split those of financial responsibility.

The problem with option 2 above is that unlike financial responsibility that can be ever so easily split between a husband and a wife, that of the home front isnt so. Certain roles in the house are biologically gender assigned. You can take on doing the dishes and cooking food, but can you take over pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and motherly care? Now imagine if a woman has to fend for the home and still be engaged in these harrowing tasks that only a woman can give!

This is why I have a hypothesis that forcing women to become providers, especially in an unfair arrangement that it usually turns out to be, steals from their femininity and moulds them to act more like men, with tough hearts that are more imposing than they are subtle. Do you know why more and more women are losing respect for men in today's world? Because they have been forced to take on the roles of men while being expected to do theirs, and they are doing both, even if imperfectly, while some men still fail at even what is left of theirs that they are expected to take.

What is even worse is the absence of acknowledgement and appreciation because some men fear that acknowledging their wife does more for the home than he does will make him lose her regards for him so he feigns ignorance.

In the end, she looks at the man who is supposed to be her husband and realises, financially he isn't up and doing, emotionally he is absent, and in some even more unfortunate cases, sexually he is also missing in action. Then she begins to wonder "what exactly am I supposed to respect"?

For starters, please don't raise sons thay will want to split bills with their wives. It is the genesis of many problems we are having today in marriage.

Abu Imrān

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Islam is a religion of peace!
Islam teaches love and kindness!
Muslims are peace loving people!

Look around you, the Muslims that surround you are the epitome of humanity, they're accommodating, loving and respectful.

The version of Islam that you read in the media is nothing but propaganda and lies.

The false narratives are coined to taint the image of Islam because they found out that the impeccable teachings of the religion do not suit their corrupt lifestyle.

Are you a Muslim?

Come on, do some bragging


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I could remember the first time I saw it happen.

A child who once listened to his parents began to ignore them. Advice that used to matter suddenly felt like noise to him. Yet the same child would sit attentively when a friend spoke, or quickly follow the influence of outsiders.

Nothing about the child changed overnight.

Something shifted in the relationship.

As a parent, you must understand this clearly.

"The fastest way to lose your child is disconnection.

And disconnection often begins in small, repeated moments.

When a child speaks and is constantly dismissed, they learn to stop coming to you. When they are only corrected but rarely understood, they begin to hide parts of themselves.
When fear replaces comfort, they start looking for safety elsewhere.

Eventually, someone else becomes the one who listens. And whoever listens, leads.

I've met parents who believe authority alone will keep their child close. It won’t. Authority without connection creates silence, not loyalty.

If your child feels judged every time they open up, they will edit themselves around you. If they feel unheard, they will find someone who hears them. If they feel controlled but not understood, they will seek freedom in the voices of others.

And today, “outsiders” are not just friends. They are on phones, in videos, in social media, shaping your child’s thinking quietly.

So what keeps a child anchored to you?

Presence.

Not just being in the same house, but being available.

Listening.

Let them finish. Let them express, even when you disagree.

Respect.

Speak to them in a way that preserves their dignity.

Trust.

Guide them without making them feel like suspects.

Your child does not expect perfection from you. They expect to feel safe with you.

If they find that safety elsewhere, you will slowly lose your voice in their life.

But if they find it in you, even when the whole world speaks, your voice will still be the one that matters most.


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I pray we never marry a man who performs love before marriage but withdraws kindness after the nikah.

The man who floods you with sweet words, promises the world, and makes you feel chosen only to slowly become someone else once the door of marriage closes behind you.

A man who knew how to speak softly before marriage but forgets gentleness once you become his wife.

A man who knew how to pursue you, but never learned how to protect your heart.

Because love is not proven in the excitement of pursuit.
Love is proven in responsibility.

Real love is not the man who impresses you before marriage, it is the man who honors you after marriage.

The one who remembers that the woman beside him left her home, her comfort, and sometimes even her safety, trusting that he would be her peace.

Marriage is not where kindness should end.
Marriage is where it should begin.

A righteous man does not become colder after marriage; he becomes more mindful, more protective, more gentle because now he carries an amanah (trust) from Allah.

A woman should not feel safer before marriage than she does inside it.

A husband should not be the reason a woman's light fades.

Instead, he should be the one who guards it, nurtures it, and thanks Allah for it.

And dear sister, if Allah writes marriage for you, may it be with a man who fears Allah in how he speaks to you, how he treats you, and how he protects your heart.

A man whose character stays the same not just during the chase, but throughout the life you build together.

Because the most beautiful love is the one that grows stronger after marriage, not weaker.

May we never be deceived by temporary sweetness, and may Allah grant us spouses whose love is rooted in taqwa.

Ya Allah, grant us spouses who fear You in how they treat us.
Grant us marriages filled with mercy, gentleness, and sincerity.
Protect our hearts from those who pretend to love but harm us after commitment.
And bless us with partners who lead us closer to You, not away from You.

Ameen.

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*…He Loves Them… The Mutatohireen (Those Who Purify Themselves)*

*Day 7*

There is a principle in Islam that should humble every believer: *Allah is Pure and He only accepts what is pure(Hadith).*


And when we say pure, we are not only talking about purity of the body, clothes and places.

We are also talking about purity of the heart.

A deed may look beautiful on the outside, but if it is mixed with the impurites of the heart - insincerity, pride, arrogance, showing off, hypocrisy, or the desire for people’s praise , then its purity is already compromised.

And the amazing, yet frightening truth is this: *you cannot hide the impurities of your heart from Allah.*

People may see your worship and praise you for it.
People may admire your charity.
People may applaud your religious commitment.

But Allah sees what the heart was carrying while the deed was being done.

He sees the insincerity.
He sees the hidden pride.
He sees the subtle hypocrisy.
He sees the praise you hope people will give you.
He sees the good you do only when people are watching.

Nothing escapes Him.

In acts of worship, Islam teaches us to approach Allah with cleanliness both inwardly and outwardly.

Before we stand in prayer, our body must be pure.
Our clothes must be pure.
The place where we pray must be pure.

Why?
Because we are standing before the Lord of the worlds. It is only fitting that a servant comes before his Creator in a state of cleanliness and respect.

Islam being a complete and balanced way of life. It does not only care about rituals, it also care about the total wellbeing of the human being.

Islam teaches us to strive for purity in everything until our last breath.

Purity of the body, clothes, and environment helps us live healthy lives.
Purity of actions ensures that our deeds are accepted.
Purity of the heart determines our success in the Hereafter. Allah says in the Qur'an: “The Day when neither wealth nor children will benefit, except the one who comes to Allah with a *pure heart*.” (Qur’an 26 vs 88–89)

You can see that Purification is in every aspect of our lives and it is not a one-time act. It is a lifetime effort.

We clean our bodies again and again.
We correct our intentions again and again.
We repent from our sins and purify our heart again and again.

And Allah, in His compassion and mercy, knows how difficult this struggle is. So He honours those who make that effort.

He does not only promise them success.

He loves them.

*...and He loves those who purify themselves.” (Qur’an 2:222)*

*Sheriff Kukoyi*


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Do not alter your body your skin, your shape, or the features you were born with just to entice a man or to meet the expectations of society.

Do not let a world that is constantly changing convince you that you must change yourself in order to be worthy of love.

The truth is that the standards of beauty people chase today are not permanent. What is praised today may be mocked tomorrow. What is considered “perfect” in one generation becomes “outdated” in the next. Yet in the middle of all these shifting standards, many women quietly begin to believe that they are not enough as they are.

They are told their skin is too dark or too light.
Their body is too big or too small.
Their nose is too wide.
Their lips are too thin.
Their shape is not attractive enough.

So slowly, little by little, they begin to fight against their own reflection.

They bleach their skin.
They reshape their bodies.
They inject, cut, stretch, and change parts of themselves that were never meant to be a source of shame.

Not because they truly hate themselves but because they have been taught that love, acceptance, and admiration come only after they transform themselves into something society approves of.

But pause for a moment and ask yourself something very honestly:

If someone can only value you after you have changed the way you were created, is that truly appreciation… or quiet rejection?

Real love does not demand that you erase the very features that make you who you are.

Your skin color is not a flaw.
Your natural body is not a mistake.
Your face was not designed incorrectly.

You were created with intention, with wisdom, and with care.

The One who created mountains, oceans, stars, and galaxies also created you. And He did not make you carelessly.

Every feature you have is part of a design far deeper than the shallow measurements of beauty that society pushes onto women every day.

But society profits from insecurity.

If women are content with themselves, entire industries would collapse. If women truly believed they were already beautiful in their natural state, countless products, surgeries, and treatments would lose their power.

So the world keeps whispering the same lie over and over again:

“You are not enough… but you can become enough if you change.”

And many women carry the pain of that lie silently.

They spend money they cannot afford.
They endure procedures that damage their health.
They live with the emotional burden of constantly maintaining an image that was never truly theirs.

All for the approval of people who will forget them tomorrow.

But there is a question that every woman should ask herself in a quiet moment when no one else is around:

When the noise of society fades, when the compliments of people disappear, when the mirror reflects the truth back to you will you feel peace with yourself?

Because at the end of life, the applause of people will not matter.

The beauty people praised will not follow you.

The standards that pressured you will not stand beside you.

What will matter is how you honored the life and the body that were entrusted to you.

Your body is not a tool to gain validation from others.
It is not an object meant to be molded according to every trend.

It is a trust.

One day, when every soul stands before its Creator, no admirer will speak for you. No one who once praised your beauty will stand beside you to justify the choices you made for their approval.

You will stand alone, and you will be asked about the blessings that were entrusted to you including the body you were given.

What will you say if you harmed it simply to satisfy the eyes of people?
What will you say if you changed it just to gain temporary attention?

Will those people stand with you then?
Or will you stand alone with the choices you made?

You do not need to compete with the illusions that fill screens and magazines.

You do not need to reshape yourself to deserve affection.

You do not need to fight against the reflection you were born with.

Your value was never meant to be measured by how closely you resemble a trend.

Your value lives in your dignity, your character, your mind, your compassion, your strength, and the way you carry yourself in a world that constantly tries to make women feel small.

Do not trade your peace for approval.

Do not harm yourself for admiration.

Do not let anyone convince you that altering the creation you were given is the price of being loved.

Protect your body.
Protect your self-worth.
Protect the beauty that already exists within you.

Because the One who created you will one day ask you about it.

The One who created you does not make mistakes.


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Do not alter your body your skin, your shape, or the features you were born with just to entice a man or to meet the expectations of society.

Do not let a world that is constantly changing convince you that you must change yourself in order to be worthy of love.

The truth is that the standards of beauty people chase today are not permanent. What is praised today may be mocked tomorrow. What is considered “perfect” in one generation becomes “outdated” in the next. Yet in the middle of all these shifting standards, many women quietly begin to believe that they are not enough as they are.

They are told their skin is too dark or too light.
Their body is too big or too small.
Their nose is too wide.
Their lips are too thin.
Their shape is not attractive enough.

So slowly, little by little, they begin to fight against their own reflection.

They bleach their skin.
They reshape their bodies.
They inject, cut, stretch, and change parts of themselves that were never meant to be a source of shame.

Not because they truly hate themselves but because they have been taught that love, acceptance, and admiration come only after they transform themselves into something society approves of.

But pause for a moment and ask yourself something very honestly:

If someone can only value you after you have changed the way you were created, is that truly appreciation… or quiet rejection?

Real love does not demand that you erase the very features that make you who you are.

Your skin color is not a flaw.
Your natural body is not a mistake.
Your face was not designed incorrectly.

You were created with intention, with wisdom, and with care.

The One who created mountains, oceans, stars, and galaxies also created you. And He did not make you carelessly.

Every feature you have is part of a design far deeper than the shallow measurements of beauty that society pushes onto women every day.

But society profits from insecurity.

If women are content with themselves, entire industries would collapse. If women truly believed they were already beautiful in their natural state, countless products, surgeries, and treatments would lose their power.

So the world keeps whispering the same lie over and over again:

“You are not enough… but you can become enough if you change.”

And many women carry the pain of that lie silently.

They spend money they cannot afford.
They endure procedures that damage their health.
They live with the emotional burden of constantly maintaining an image that was never truly theirs.

All for the approval of people who will forget them tomorrow.

But there is a question that every woman should ask herself in a quiet moment when no one else is around:

When the noise of society fades, when the compliments of people disappear, when the mirror reflects the truth back to you will you feel peace with yourself?

Because at the end of life, the applause of people will not matter.

The beauty people praised will not follow you.

The standards that pressured you will not stand beside you.

What will matter is how you honored the life and the body that were entrusted to you.

Your body is not a tool to gain validation from others.
It is not an object meant to be molded according to every trend.

It is a trust.

One day, when every soul stands before its Creator, no admirer will speak for you. No one who once praised your beauty will stand beside you to justify the choices you made for their approval.

You will stand alone, and you will be asked about the blessings that were entrusted to you including the body you were given.

What will you say if you harmed it simply to satisfy the eyes of people?
What will you say if you changed it just to gain temporary attention?

Will those people stand with you then?
Or will you stand alone with the choices you made?

You do not need to compete with the illusions that fill screens and magazines.

You do not need to reshape yourself to deserve affection.

You do not need to fight against the reflection you were born with.

Your value was never meant to be measured by how closely you resemble a trend.

Your value lives in your dignity, your character, your mind, your compassion, your strength, and the way you carry yourself in a world that constantly tries to make women feel small.

Do not trade your peace for approval.

Do not harm yourself for admiration.

Do not let anyone convince you that altering the creation you were given is the price of being loved.

Protect your body.
Protect your self-worth.
Protect the beauty that already exists within you.

Because the One who created you will one day ask you about it.

The One who created you does not make mistakes.

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I shared my previous post with a dear friend and she said Shamsi From Tawakkul in ❝Al-Aleem (The All-Knowing) and Al-Hakeem (The Most Wise) to Al-Lateef!❞

ALLAH HU AKBAR!!

There is a beautiful shift in the language of Prophet Yaqub (as) and Prophet Yusuf (as) throughout Surah Yusuf that many scholars point to as a profound lesson in trusting Allah through life’s trials.

When Prophet Yaqub (as) loses his beloved son Yusuf (as), he says:

📖 ❝He replied, “I complain of my anguish and sorrow only to Allah, and I know from Allah what you do not know.❞
{Surah Yusuf 12: Verse 86}

When we go through hardship do we also complain only to Allah? Or do we complain infront of everyone else but Allah.

The entire surah repeatedly emphasizes two Names of Allah: Al-‘Aleem (The All-Knowing) and Al-Hakeem (The Most Wise). These Names appear at key moments in the story to remind us that even when events seem chaotic, painful, or unfair, they are unfolding under Allah’s perfect knowledge and wisdom.

✦ A child is taken from his father.
✦ A brother is thrown into a well.
✦ He is sold into slavery.
✦ He is imprisoned unjustly.

At every stage, the believer is being trained to trust that Allah knows what we cannot see, and His wisdom is operating even when the plan is hidden.

But the most powerful moment comes at the end of the story, when the years of separation, grief, betrayal, and hardship finally culminate in reunion.

Pause here.
Please pause here and truly visualize this.
Close your eyes and think of this scenario.

Imagine the person you love the most.
Imagine being seperated from them for 40 years.
Imagine being reunited. 😭

When Prophet Yusuf (as) is reunited with his parents, he says:

“Indeed my Lord is Subtle in what He wills. Surely He is the All-Knowing, the All-Wise.”

Here we are introduced another beautiful Name: Al Lateef.

Al Lateef means the One who works with a subtle, gentle precision. Arranging events in ways that are hidden from human perception. The One whose plan moves quietly through the smallest details until the full picture finally appears.

Looking back, Yusuf sees that every painful step was part of a delicate divine design:

The well ➡️ led to the caravan.
The caravan ➡️ led to Egypt.
The house of the Aziz ➡️ led to prison.
The prison ➡️ led to the king.
The king ➡️ led to power.
And power ➡️ led to the saving of nations and the reunion with his family.

What once looked like TRAGEDY was actually SUBTLE MERCY unfolding step by step.

This shift teaches us something powerful about belief and faith:

When we are inside the test, we hold onto Allah as Al Aleem and Al Hakeem, trusting that He knows and that His wisdom is perfect.

But when Allah’s plan finally unfolds and we look back, we begin to recognize Him as Al Lateef the One who was quietly arranging everything all along. 😭💕

The believer may not understand the story while it is happening. But one day, when the pieces come together, the heart will say what Yusuf (as) said:

“Indeed my Lord is Subtle in fulfilling what He wills.”

🤲 May Allah allow us to trust His knowledge and wisdom during our trials, during hardships, during periods of grief and loss, and one day witness the gentle beauty of His subtle plan in our lives - ameen!

- Shamsiya Noorul Quloob

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Marry a man who wants to be a husband, not a man who only wants a wife. ♡

Read that again slowly.

There is a deep difference between the two.

A man who wants to be a husband understands that marriage is not a trophy he collects. It is a responsibility he carries. He knows that a woman is not entering his life to serve him like a maid or exist only to fulfill his desires. She is a trust placed in his care by Allah.

Such a man prepares his heart before he prepares the wedding.

He asks himself:

“Can I provide?”
“Can I protect?”
“Am I ready to be patient?”
“Am I ready to lead with mercy?”

Because he understands that being a husband means showing up every day, even when life is not easy. It means standing beside his wife when she is tired, covering her flaws instead of exposing them, and protecting her dignity even in her absence.

A man who wants to be a husband does not only think about what he will receive, but what he must give.

His love is not just in words.
It is in responsibility.
It is in sacrifice.
It is in effort.

But a man who only wants a wife thinks differently.

He thinks about what she can cook.
How she can please him.
How she can serve him.
How she can make his life comfortable.

He wants the benefits of marriage, but not the burden of leadership.

He wants the title without the duty.
The wife without the responsibility of being a husband.

And that is why many women today enter marriages thinking they found a partner, only to realize they married a man who only wanted a helper, not a companion.

Marriage was never meant to be one person taking while the other keeps giving.

A righteous marriage is built when both hearts understand their responsibilities before demanding their rights.

Men are everywhere today saying they want to get married.

But the real question is not:

"Do you want a wife?"

The real question is:

"Are you ready to be a husband?"

Because marriage does not just need a man who is ready for a wedding.

It needs a man who is ready for the weight of a woman’s trust.

And that kind of man is rare.

But when you find one, you will not only see it in his promises…

You will see it in his character. ♡

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BlackfireX:
i hope you know muslims will first be in hell



yes in Hell

where there is pain and suffering


till a jew and christain becomes there ransome

Think about your life

You mean, you'll be in hell

Scorching hot;

Except you accept Islam as the one true religion, Allah the one true God, and Muhammad (peace be upon him) as the messenger of Allah just like Moses (Musa), Isah (Jesus) and Abraham (Ibrahim) etc peace be upon all .

Otherwise eternal agony, pain, regret in hell is your portion.

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𝗞𝗵𝗮𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗿𝗮𝗵 (40)

What Do You Gain If Your Child Is Ruined Because of Your Duʿā?

Sheikh 'Abdurrazaq Al-Badr hafidhahullah says:
A soldier who was assigned to stand near the Black Stone [relates the following story]. May Allah reward him for what he did and bless his actions. What he did was truly remarkable.

He had just started working in that place. He said, “I heard the sound of intense crying. The crying caught my attention, so I listened carefully to what the man was praying for. The man kept saying in his supplication: ‘O Lord, people have children, but I have no child. Give me a child.’

He kept repeating these words and crying deeply.

The soldier said, “It was the beginning of my work there, and the sound of his voice stayed in my memory.”

He continued, “SubhanAllah, after 18 or 20 years, I was still working in the same place. Suddenly I heard the same voice near the Multazam. I remembered the man. I looked at him and realised it was the same face. He was praying with the same intensity and crying just as before.

So I listened to what he was asking for this time. To my surprise, he was saying:
‘O my Lord, destroy this son!’

He was begging Allah and crying, asking Him to destroy his son.”

The soldier said, “I came down from my place and asked my colleague to stand where I was. Then I took the man away from the Multazam and led him outside. I said to him (this soldier was granted success, may Allah reward him): ‘Aren’t you the same man who stood here about eighteen years ago asking Allah to give you a child?’

The man replied, ‘Yes.’

I said to him, ‘You have wronged your son twice in this very place. The first time, I heard your prayer and I memorised it. You kept saying, “Give me a child.” But you never said, “Give me a righteous child.” You never said, “My Lord, grant me a righteous child.”

And now you have come to the same place praying against him. You were not good to him the first time, and now you are not good to him again. Go back to that place and ask Allah to guide him. Cry the same way you cried before and ask Allah to guide him and change his heart.’”

The soldier said, “I explained this to him, then took him back to the Multazam. The man began crying again, but this time he prayed for his son’s guidance.”

He continued, “About a year later, the man came back with his son. He greeted me and said to his son, ‘Tell him your story.’ The son swore to me that at the very same hour when his father stood at the Multazam praying for his guidance, he suddenly got up, performed ablution, and started praying. From that moment, he swore by Allah that he changed his life and became upright.”

Before this the young man had been using drugs and had greatly harmed his parents, causing them much pain and trouble.

So pay attention to this matter. The father should not rush to pray against his child just because he becomes angry or upset by some behaviour. Some parents even choose special times when prayers are answered to pray against their children. This is wrong. A father must show mercy to his child.

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The conduct of the man becomes the silent law of the house.

Human beings learn far more through imitation than through instruction. A child observes the parent and copies what he sees long before he understands the meaning of what he is told. A woman, though "she is not a child," is still affected by the same natural law of human character.

She studies the man she lives with. She measures his seriousness, his discipline, his restraint, and his integrity. From these observations she forms her response to him.

This is why leadership in the home cannot be claimed by speech alone. Authority without character is hollow. A man may demand respect, but respect cannot be commanded into existence. It grows naturally around a person whose actions justify it.

When a man neglects the very principles he expects others to follow, he destroys the foundation upon which his authority rests.

If he is careless with truth yet demands honesty, if he is lazy yet demands effort, if he lacks discipline yet demands order, the contradiction becomes visible to everyone in the household.

Women perceive this with great clarity. They possess a keen sensitivity to inconsistency. When the words of a man conflict with his actions, his instructions lose weight in their eyes.

Now, a righteous woman may still choose to show respect. She may restrain herself because she fears Allah and because she recognizes the rights that a husband holds in Islam. But this respect will not flow from admiration. It will come from duty. And duty without admiration often carries a quiet resentment within it.

Now, why does a woman follow a man and not vice versa


Every structure that hopes to survive must possess a center of direction.

A ship cannot sail if every sailor attempts to steer it.

An army cannot win a battle if each soldier decides the strategy for himself. Even two people walking together must eventually decide who determines the path, otherwise the journey becomes a constant negotiation.

The household is no different. It is a small society.

Like every society, it requires a final point of responsibility. Someone must carry the burden of direction when decisions must be made, when danger appears, when sacrifice is required, and when the welfare of the family must be protected.

Across civilizations, this burden has historically rested upon the man.

This emerges from a combination of biological, psychological, and practical realities.

First, men are naturally built for external responsibility. The male body is structured for physical risk, confrontation, and endurance.

For thousands of years men were hunters, defenders, and providers. Their role demanded that they move outward into uncertainty while protecting those within the home.

Leadership grew naturally from this role because the one who bears the greatest risk must also possess the authority to make decisions.

Second, male psychology tends toward direction and structure.

A man is generally driven by purpose. He is inclined to organize, plan, compete, and pursue objectives. These traits make him naturally suited to setting the course of a household.

A woman, on the other hand, tends to specialize in nurturing stability within that structure. Her strengths lie in sustaining relationships, cultivating emotional depth, and building the environment in which life grows.

Leadership in a family is not primarily about power. It is about accountability.

Allah says:

الرِّجَالُ قَوَّامُونَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ

“Men are caretakers and maintainers over women.”

The word qawwam means one who stands constantly responsible for the welfare of another.

It is the language of duty.

A woman follows because the structure of the family assigns final responsibility to the man.

Yet this arrangement only functions properly when the man is worthy of being followed.

A foolish man destroys the harmony of this system.

When a man lacks discipline, integrity, and foresight, a wise woman finds it difficult to trust his direction.

Her instincts begin to resist his leadership, not out of rebellion, but out of concern for stability.

This is similar to parenting as well.

If your father decides that everyone is practicing Sunnah today, you'll all comply

Your mother will also comply because she trusts his position.

By that way, you and your mother are in the same position under your father's leadership and your mother can't eat no.

Not because she can't but because she's wired to.

You're your father's child but it doesn't mean you'll like everything he says.

There are things you'll not like but still do it regardless just to respect him. Same way your mother will cook what your dad loves first.

Take care y'all

Peace ✌️

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You were fasting, alone… thirsty.

You could have drunk water. No one was there to see you.
But you didn’t.

That is faith and Taqwa.

Taqwa is in those quiet moments when no one is watching.
When your throat is dry, nobody is in the kitchen, and the glass of water is right there… but your heart remembers Allah.

So you walk away.

Not because someone would catch you.
But because you know Allah sees you.

This is the beauty of Taqwa and Faith…
The choices you make when it’s just you and your Lord.

If you can stay thirsty all day for the sake of Allah, then you are capable of so much more for His sake.
You can hold your tongue when you’re angry.
You can forgive when it’s hard.
You can choose what is right, even when it’s difficult.

Ramadan reminds us that faith is not loud.
Sometimes it’s simply a quiet “no” to something you could have done… but didn’t, because Allah matters more.

May Allah grant us this same sincerity in everything we do. in the words we speak, the actions we take, and the choices we make when no one else is around.
May He make our faith strong in the hidden moments just as it is in the visible ones.

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Christianity is dead in UK, Dead in Spain, death in Netherlands, dead in Scandinavian countries, dead in the US.

Churches are been sold and converted to mosque.

In the 90s, reinard bonke intensified propaganda in Nigeria, yet people fled Christianity.
CAN and its foot soldiers so called evangelist walk from schools to school sharing bible, insult muslims and called Muhammad unprintable names, so they can make the average young Muslim ashamed of his Islam.

Yet they failed woefully.

In 2001, Christian intensified propaganda using 9/11 as an avenue yet people saw it as an avenue to research about islam and fled Christianity.

In 2012, 2015, ISIS and boko haram pave way for another round of propaganda against Islam, still people found out the truth and fled Christianity.

They said Islam was spread by the sword, then the inquisitive mind decided to study Islam from reputable sources and found out christianity was actually spread by the sword.

They call Muhammad all sort of names and the inquisitive mind decided to read the life of Muhammad and took his shahada.

They said Islam is terrorism, the inquisitive minds decided to study and found out christianity history is purely a definition of terrorism, and they abandoned christianity.
Till date people are leaving Christianity in multitude, christianity has been into propaganda since a long time yet, people run away.

The anti Islamic messages you are seeing today was once used in the 90s, it backfired and failed woefully.
They are so frustrated, they realised their usual rage bait by calling Muhammad unprintable names doesn't work again, they have resulted to insulting Allah, the God of Abraham, Moses, Jesus and Muhammad peace be upon them all.

They are basically doing free dawah!!!

We are just laughing at them, this round of propaganda is just a kick of a dying horse.
“And you see the people entering the religion of Allah in multitudes.”
— Qur’an 110:2

In the next 50years, christianity will seize to exist, it will be so exposed and appalling that humans will not want to be associated with it.

Infact, people will rather become atheist or African traditional worshipper than to be christians.

“They want to extinguish the light of Allah with their mouths, but Allah refuses except to perfect His light, even though the disbelievers dislike it.”
— (Qur’an 9:32 / 61:

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1. Salman Al Farsi came from one of the wealthiest families of his time.

He had comfort, status, and a life mapped out for him.

Then one day, he skipped his routine visit to the garden and wandered into a church.

Something stirred inside him.
2. When his father found out he was drawn to Christianity, he chained him.

But chains couldn't contain what had awakened in him.

From captivity, he contacted local Christians asking about their faith.

They pointed him to Syria.

So he broke free and left everything behind.
3. In Syria, he moved from monastery to monastery.

But something felt incomplete.

Just as disappointment began to settle in, an elderly monk shared news of a final messenger yet to come.

It reignited him.
4. He set off again, chasing that prophecy across lands.

And then he was tricked.

Captured.

Sold into slavery and taken to Madinah
‎5. Think about that for a moment.

‎Every person who had heard about the final messenger eventually made their way to his ﷺ land.

‎Salman had no choice in the matter!

‎He could have been taken anywhere in the world but was taken to Madinah!

‎That is Qadr.
6. Look back at his life & you'll see every moment was pushing him towards one destination:

The skipped garden visit

The church

The chains

The monks.

The caravan that deceived him.

The slave market that delivered him.

None of it looked like a blessing.

Yet All of it was!
7. He didn't give up in chains at home.

He didn't give up monastery to monastery.

He didn't give up as a slave.

He kept moving.
8. Some of his steps were chosen like the escape to Syria.

Others were forced upon him like being sold into slavery.

But every step, chosen or imposed, was moving him towards his Qadr
9. Maybe you made a decision that upended your life.

Maybe something was done to you that you never asked for.

Maybe you too feel as if chained, or in the monastery, or in the slave market; and like Salman none of it makes sense yet.

But it's pushing you towards your Qadr.
10. Sabr. InShaAllah Khair

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By Umme Faatimah (B.Dietetics Univ. of Pretoria) 

The modern world has swept us off our feet in so many ways… our dressing, our lifestyles and most noticeably our eating habits. We have so casually adapted the western culture of unhealthy eating, moving further and further away from the Noble teachings of the Quraan and Sunnah of The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him).

Yet, the newest nutritional research continues to discover the benefits of certain foods, labelled as "Super Foods". They have also unravelled the great benefits of certain eating habits, such as washing the hands before and after meals, eating with the hands, drinking in 3 sips…just to mention a few. However, all of this has already been outlined in the Holy Qur'an and Sunnah more than 1400 years ago.

We are certainly the losers if we do not make an effort to practice upon the Sunnah in our homes and kitchens. What better time to bring about these changes than now? Our beautiful Deen offers us the opportunity during the beautiful month of Ramadhaan, to bring about positive changes in our lives- changes that benefit us mentally, physically and spiritually which Insha Allah (Allah Willing) can be sustained for the future.

Physically, fasting gives the digestive system a much needed rest. Energy normally used for digestion is now directed to body detoxification, tissue repair and system healing.
 
With that in mind I have chosen to highlight just a few of the favourite foods of our Noble Messenger (Peace be upon him). With the special month of Ramadhaan here already, we can all ensure we have these foods on our shopping lists.

InshaAllah, by us adopting the lifestyle of The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) we will be rewarded enormously.

*DATES*
"Dates _(and more so the date palm - editor)_ are the most mentioned fruit in the Quran.".  They are high in energy, fibre, iron, vitamins and minerals. The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) said: " *The home with no dates is like the home with no food* ".(Hadith- Sahih Muslim)

The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him)used to break his fast with fresh dates and a few sips of water. If he did not find fresh dates, he would use dried dates. He (Peace be upon him) said: " *When one of you breaks the fast let him do so with dates, for they are a blessing and if he cannot find dates then with water for it is a purification* " (Hadith-Tirmidhi)

He often consumed dates with cucumber, butter, cream or bread. A dessert called "Haisa" made with ghee (butter), dates, cheese and yoghurt was also prepared.

*Tips* : At iftaar (breaking fast) time, dates can also be used to prepare date milkshakes, date chutney, date desserts as well as sprinkled over salads. For sehri (pre-dawn meal), dates can be used as a softened spread over bread or added into muffins, rusks etc. 

*🫒OLIVE OIL*
Dieticians and nutritionist the world over have been advocating the use of olive oil for its excellent cardio-protective, anti-oxidant and anti-inflammatory effects. Ongoing research is revealing more and more great benefits on the consumption and application of olive oil.
The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him)said: " *Eat the olive and use it as an ointment as it comes from a blessed tree* ".(Hadith-Tirmidhi)

*Tips* : During Ramadhaan, olive oil is best used raw as a dip for breads or as a salad dressing. The lighter olive oils are well suited for cooking and baking purposes. Whole olives can be added to salads as well as de-pitted and added to breads, muffins, pies and pizzas. 

*BARLEY*
A Readers Digest article highlighted barley as one of the five healthiest foods we tend not to eat. Yet it was barley that was one of the staple foods in the diet of our The Noble Messenger (Peace be upon him). Modern research is discovering that barley has a very high soluble- fibre content. This helps to keep the arteries clear and healthy.  It has an extremely low glycaemic index (GI), which means it takes a longer time to digest, keeping one fuller for longer.
It is mentioned that The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) consumed barley in the following ways:

*SAWIQ* – a coarse broth prepared from ground wheat and barley - very much like a haleem (soup)

*THARID* – Barley bread covered in gravy cooked with meat

*TALBEENAH* – A porridge prepared using barley and milk
 
A Hadith in Mishkaat narrates that The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) never used sifted flour in his lifetime. We should take lesson from this, as we are all moving to consuming more refined and processed foods where all the beneficial nutrients have been stripped off. Allah Ta’ala mentions in the Holy Quraan grains with their husks, amongst His many gifts to us. Un-sifted flour as used by The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) contains all the valuable nutrients found in the bran and germ layers and has a lower GI.
 
*Tips* : During Ramadhaan, barley can be added to soups and broths or prepared as a drink by boiling and straining mixture. A hadith in Bukhari mentions that The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) consumed "Sawiq" at iftaar. Barley flour can be used for preparing breads and rotis. Substitute 1.5 cups barley flour for every 3 cups regular flour. Cereals containing barley flakes like muesli can be purchased, or barley flakes can be added to biscuits, muffins, breads and other cereals.

Barley can be prepared as a filling porridge for sehri -Talbeenah.  Soak 1-2 tablespoons whole barley overnight in a flask filled with rapidly boiling water. At sehri time, strain water out and prepare porridge with honey and milk.  (Store bought "pearled barley" has been polished with some of the bran layer removed). 

*🍯HONEY*
Modern research has been abuzz with the myriad of health benefits associated with honey- anti-inflammatory, immune boosting, energising tonic….to name a few. Our beautiful Deen has encouraged the use of honey 1400 years ago. The Holy Quraan mentions *"there comes forth from the bee's belly, a drink of varying colours, wherin is a healing for men".* (Qur'an 16:68-69)

The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) further said " *Make use of two cures- honey and the Quraan* "(Hadith-Ibn Majah)

The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) loved drinks that were sweet and cold and often consumed honey water.

*Tips* :  Honey can be used to sweeten items like tea, fresh juices, milk drinks and cereals etc.  Raw honey which is thicker and creamier has a lower GI, and can be mixed with cinnamon and used as a spread on toast for sehri.  
 
*🍇GRAPES AND RAISINS*
Grapes have been found to contain resveratrol- a powerful antioxidant that protects the body on a cellular level from damage.

The seeds are rich in flavonoids which lower the risk of fatty plaque accumulation on the lining of blood vessels to the heart.

The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) loved eating grapes.A hadith in Abu Dawood  mentions The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) often consumed a drink "Nabeez"- prepared from soaked raisins. Nabeez can be prepared by soaking raisins after Esha (evening) prayer in clean water covered with a plate. The following morning the water can be drunk and the soaked fruit eaten or just use the blender to obtain a beautiful cloudy Nabeez. And, if you soak in the morning, drink in the evening.  Nabeez should be consumed within twelve hours of soaking to prevent fermentation.

*Tips* : Nabeez or fresh grape juice can  be prepared as a drink after Taraweeh (evening prayer in Ramadaan). Grapes can be served as part of salad or dessert. Raisins eaten with nuts can be enjoyed as a healthy munch after taraweeh salaat.

The Sunnah way of eating is the healthy way of eating.  InshaAllah, let us all strive to revive and bring alive the Sunnahs of The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) in our homes this Ramadhaan. I have highlighted just a few. Make an intention to eat on the floor, share eating utensils and to fill a third of your stomach with water, a third with food and a third left for air.

Besides the immense health benefits outlined above our greatest rewards really lie in following the Sunnah, as it comes in Hadith mentioned by The Noble Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him):
" *The person who follows my Sunnah is the one who truly loves me, and will be with me in Jannah"*   
(Hadith-Tirmidhi)

 Allah Ta'ala said to His Messenger (Peace be upon him) " *Say (to mankind), if you love Allah, follow me – Allah will love you and forgive your sins* ." (Qur'an:3: 31)  

Wishing you all healthy eating, the Sunnah way!

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Sister Rehab elBuri passed away on Sunday 6th of March 2011 at the age of 26. She died due to cancer after fighting a courageous battle against it. A section is pasted below from her blog to reflect upon and is really worth the two minute read:

It took me about three days to accept my death. On the first day, as you read, my mind was in chaos. On the second day, I was numb. And on the third day, my husband and mother began talking sense to me, and I finally came to some important realizations

*1. We are all going to die* . The people who took the news of my disease calmly and those who panicked- they are going to die one day too. Death is one of the few realities we can be certain of in this life, and yet we somehow slip into thinking that we are exempt.

*2. We live this life for the next* . I was living my life as a Muslim…praying and fasting, but I had somehow allowed my real goal in life to be swallowed by buying salad plates for my next dinner party, and trying to get free shipping on my next jcrew order, and finding pillows that popped against my cream sofa. In between being a consumer and entertaining myself to death, I let what really matters in my life slip away from me. If I was truly living my life for the Hereafter, I should not be so fearful of the future I had created for myself. The Quran says, “ *And this life of the world is nothing but a sport and a play; and as for the next abode, that most surely is the life- if only they knew!”* [29.64]

*3. I am in the same boat as everyone else* . None of us are given any guarantees in life. Our health, our wealth, and our families are trusts give to us by Allah Ta'ala- and they are His to take when He, in his infinite wisdom, deems fit. We all claim to believe this, but in practice we often falter. I don’t know why I thought I could push the thought of death out of my mind for at least a good 30 or 40 years. Allah Ta’ala could claim any of us at any time. I am in the same boat as everyone else- I have no idea when my time is, but I should try to live everyday as if it is my last.

*4. Each day is a gift* . Receiving this wake up call is such a blessing in that each day Allah grants me is an opportunity to do some more good and try to make up for some of the mistakes I made in the past. For some reason, the mornings are usually a little rough for me. I think it’s just waking up from my dreams and realizing that I still have to live with this disease. But every morning I try to tell myself, “Alhamdulilah, I feel good today, what good can I do today?”

These realizations, and the support of my mother, husband, his mother, my sisters, his sisters, my father, his father, my friends, and my community have helped me not merely cope with what I’m going through, but actually seek the reward of going through this trial, and try to sincerely accept what Allah wills for me.

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The reason I thought I wanted to divorce my wife felt “simple” at the time.

The house was always messy.

I am a man who loves a clean and organized environment. But my wife? Ah… things were always here and there. Shoes not aligned. Toys scattered. Plates in the sink. It frustrated me more than I cared to admit.

So on Sunday, November 2nd, in my annoyance, I handed her divorce papers.

She didn’t shout.
She didn’t argue.
She didn’t insult me.

She quietly walked into the room, packed a few clothes, and left.

She left our four children ages 2, 4, 7, and 8 with me.

And in my pride, I told her never to come back.

Then reality visited me on Monday morning.

5:00am, I woke up to prepare the kids because I needed to be at work by 8am.

I was cooking.
Bathing one child.
Shouting at another.
Looking for socks.
Packing lunch boxes.

Before I knew it, the food had burnt.

I checked the time.

8:00am.

My heart nearly stopped.

As I was rushing everyone out, my 2-year-old said, “Daddy, poo poo.”

What kind of timing is that?

Before I could react, she had already messed herself.

As I cleaned her up, tears filled my eyes.

We finally got to school by 9am.

Then my 4-year-old calmly said,
“Daddy, my book is at home… on the chair.”

I wanted to scream.

The teacher had to calm me down.

By 5pm, the school called.

“Sir, why haven’t you come to pick your children?”

I asked, “Has their mother not come?”

They replied, “No sir. School closed by 4pm.”

That was the moment it hit me.

So this is what my wife handles every single day?

I rushed from work, picked them up, and went home secretly hoping she would be there.

She wasn’t.

Her phone was switched off.

As I stood wondering what to cook, all four children shouted at once:

“Daddy, help me with my assignment!”

Assignment?

For FOUR children?

Plates were still dirty.
Uniforms were unwashed.
The house looked worse than before.

I was shouting every two minutes:

“Stop that!”
“Leave him alone!”
“Bring that here!”
“Don’t scatter everywhere!”

I kept calling my wife.

Not even to beg her.

Just to tell her to come and carry her children.

Her number wouldn’t connect.

Tuesday was worse.

We reached school by 10am.

Their proprietress looked shocked they normally arrive before assembly.

She asked if they had done their assignments.

I kept quiet.

I had forgotten.

Completely.

I couldn’t do it anymore.

I drove to my sister’s house to drop the children temporarily.

That’s when I discovered something humbling.

She has a home lesson teacher.
A cleaner that comes every evening.
She has only three children.

And her husband still arranged help for her.

I went back home ashamed.

I called my mother-in-law.
I called her siblings.
I started begging everyone to beg her to come back.

I even lied that the divorce was a prank… a small “test.”

My lawyer laughed when I told him to cancel everything.

Only God knows how my wife does all of this daily and still shows up to work by 8am like nothing happened.

By Wednesday, the children didn’t go to school at all.

Assignments were piling up.

I was finished.

Completely finished.

Finally, both families intervened and my wife returned home.

I confessed everything.

She just laughed.

That day, my love for her didn’t just increase it multiplied beyond measure.

I immediately hired a lesson teacher to help with homework.
Anything to reduce her stress.

Those four days humbled me.

I love my wife.

God bless all mothers and wives.

Always respect your wives at every level.
What they do, you truly cannot do even if you try.

Appreciate women for their role in the home. It is not small. It is not easy.


Even the smallest things matter.

Wash the dishes.
Cut the vegetables.
Set the table.
Watch the children while she cooks.

Do not leave her to struggle alone.

The little help you offer every day will light up her heart and make her look forward to cooking again.

Husbands, cherish your wife.

She is doing more than you see.


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The gates of heaven won't be open for them

The kuffar will never enter Jannah.

"Surely those who receive our revelations with denial and arrogance, the gates of heaven will not be opened for them, nor will they enter Paradise until a camel passes through the eye of a needle. This is how We reward the wicked." Surah A'raf 7:40

The soul of kaafir will be blown away, going about till it goes back to its body.

The two angels will sit him down, they will ask who is your Lord. The kaafir that do say he's an atheist, he will regret, this day all his certificate, cloth wealth, affiliation will be gone. He has come to meet Angels where all degrees of this world are useless and can't save you.