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After rolling endlessly on the bed, I decided to review my life, since sleep has refuse to whisk me away. The truth is, my heart was racing at its fastest. Reality had just done on me, the woman I have become was staring at me in the face and some of her actions are beginning to question my old self…(you might say that’s probably an early sympthom of personality disorder, *Na too much book dey worry u*)

My first ever boyfriend, I called him my Magic man, we had beautiful memories, wishes, dreams and all that crazy teenage talk of living *lives that only exist in fantasies and imaginations* we really did love each other and we carried on strongly till reality came knocking at the door, I was the first to get admitted into university and that made our once perfect love story get into a very crazy pothole.[that kain pothole wey fit break windscreen]

His admission did not come through till after two solid years, I was already looking at the bigger picture, while he was still in the business of taking matriculation pictures, our goals changed, we saw life at different views I knew I had to move on but did not know how and yes he was getting frisky with girls in his league, That really upset me but I loved him and I felt this magnet keeping me attached to him.

I started [permit me to use the word] *friending* this dude, he was two years ahead of me, always propelled me to aspire higher, we were fond of each other though I kept hinting the “I have a boyfriend” line. I knew I was cheating and was as guilty as my magic man even though I had no sexual relationship with Jude.(or should I have added *YET* at the end of that sentence. *eyes rolling* plix don’t judge me)

Service year went by and erm…. Myself and Jude were posted to the same Primary Place of assignment and yes we crossed the friendship line while I was still dating my magic man (you can start judging me now…don’t be too hard sha) I really did not feel guilty because I knew my magic man was cheating too. My only issue was how not to make Jude find out I was drinking water from two different pots.

Just when I had perfected my break up lines to call it quit with my magic man and stick with Jude, his parents decided to send him abroad for his masters. I wept my eyes out and once again I became the faithful girl friend of my magic man. On one of my trips to Delta, I met this UK returnee, we bonded and yeswe started dating. He gave me gifts, love and most of all drew me closer to God, neither of my two boyfriends take religion seriously, I was definitely keeping this one.

The busy schedule of my UK returnee gave me enough space to hangout with my colleagues every Friday night, Jude has reduced our calls to midnight due to time difference, my magic man was obeying the clarion call and am sure getting busy with the girls, the truth is I really can’t marry him, he”s not ambitious and mediocrity is not something I intend to nibble on. NO NEVER!!!!! If only he could be more serious, and realise life is more than partying and drinking… The height of his unseriousness could kill an already dead man. Mschew

On one of our Friday night escapades, I had not the faintest idea, that the dude I was busy dancing my life out with is the son of a very famous oil magnet whose net worth increases on an hourly basis.

We started hooking up regularly and on this occasion (sincerely I no no wetin we dey celebrate) he got me the car of my dreams!!!!! (And yes he became my fourth boyfriend)
I already began scheming on how to send his previous lovers, one night stands, side chicks etc away and then I realised that I have deviated from the standards I once set for myself. I wonder how I have managed to keep all this men without getting caught. I had to make it right even though I had no idea how? I”ll start by confessing to my three best friends. I know they would kill me and probably send me off to deliverance school especially Funke and Gbemi maybe Queen would understand she’s still single. I really need to stop acquiring men they are not assets!!!!

We decided to celebrate Funke”s birthday (my first ever bestie) though on a very low key since her husband was away on his business trip. My second bestie is Gbemi who’s engaged to a very vibrant pastor in the making and Queen who is not exactly committed to anyone, I decided to surprise Gbemi, by picking her up in my expensive toy(wink) her house keeper informed me she was still in bed and I boldly ascended the stairs, on getting closer to her room, I began hearing voices and I decided to eavesdrop, I couldn’t exactly make out what was going on and when I was about to open the door

I heard Gbemi say!!! I”ll love you forever and the reply was, I”ll only believe you when you return the ring and let’s start our journey.I couldn’t believe Gbemi was cheating, like seriously she is freaking engaged with that curiosity I knocked hard she opened the door almost staggered, I greeted the gentle man he replied and left she excused herself and returned and then I accused her with my straightest face ever and she said I can explain…. Please hear me out first…..before casting a stone. (the 2nd part of why women cheat would be on the blog by the next post by God”s grace…. Please follow the blog, comment and share thanks. Love you all muah)

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1. Be honest.
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2. Keep your word.
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3. Admit your mistakes.
Failure is an inevitable aspect of business. Though mistakes happen, successful managers and entrepreneurs understand how important it is to focus on solutions rather than obsess over problems.

To maintain a professional reputation as someone who is reliable and trustworthy, own up to mistakes as soon as they occur. Don’t attempt to cover up, ignore or minimize your errors or those of your business. Instead, take responsibility and find a solution. Always learn from your mistakes and then move on.

4. Be punctual.
Clients will evaluate you in part on your dependability. Most people will choose to work with someone who consistently delivers projects on time and on budget over someone who is talented but unreliable. Manage your time carefully to ensure that you never miss a meeting, deadline or commitment.

When meeting with clients or associates, arrive a few minutes early. Give yourself a buffer for travel to account for any traffic delays, inclement weather or difficulty with parking. If you arrive with plenty of time to spare, take a few moments to go to the restroom and gain your composure. Take advantage of your punctuality and build rapport with others who have arrived early. If something unavoidable happens to delay you, don’t make up an excuse. Instead, simply apologize.

5. Don’t use foul language.
Choose your words carefully. What you say and how you say it can deeply impact how others perceive you. Using profanity and foul language in public can send the message that you are immature, impatient and lack self-control. Swearing in a professional setting will never command the respect of those around you. Instead, a foul mouth will isolate and alienate you from others. Don’t give clients, co-workers and customers an excuse to not work with you. If you find yourself so angry or upset that you start to lose your temper, walk away. It’s much better to excuse yourself to another room than direct your anger at someone else.

6. Handle conflict gracefully.
There will be times when you don’t agree with your clients, colleagues or partners. The potential for arguments and disagreements will always be a part of doing business. But how you handle difficult situations will reveal your character. If a client tests your patience or questions your authority, don’t allow the situation to ruffle your feathers. Try not to react with anger or take frustrations out on someone else. Instead, work with the client to find a compromise. When you’re wrong, yield with grace.

7. Don’t burn bridges.
The business world is tumultuous. Never speak negatively of a past client or business relationship. Your adversary today could be your ally tomorrow. In 1992, I lost my job to a department-wide layoff. Though it would have been easy to lose touch, I kept in contact with my former director. Two years later, when I was interviewing for a public relations position at the Breakers Hotel in Palm Beach, Fla., she was happy to give me a good reference. Her recommendation helped me get the job.

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39 ANCIENT WISDOM TIPS FOR SINGLES ON MARRIAGE
By D.K. Olukoya G.O MFM

1. Wedding is a day but marriage is a lifetime .
2. A stingy man who is single will still be stingy when married.
3. Silence can never be misquoted.
4. If you want what no one has had, you must do what no one has done.
5. When God wants to bless you, He puts a person in your life. When Satan wants to destroy you, he puts a person in your life.
6. It is better to be single and alone than to be married to the wrong person.
7. Avoid a contentious woman.
8. 3 men to avoid:
a. A hot tempered man.
b. A womanizer.
c. A drunkard.
9. Marrying a comedian does not guarantee a happy marriage.
10. Never be yoked to anyone who will not be yoked to Christ.
11. 3 words that echo peace in a marriage:
a. I love you .
b. I am sorry .
c. Thank you.
12. Don't waste your time meditating or dwelling on your singleness.
13. Cohabitation is a recipe for marital failure .
14. Deal with anti marriage dreams.
15. Masturbation is destruction.
16. Marriage without friendship is like a sky without the sun.
17. If you rush into marriage, you may end up with someone who will bury your destiny.
18. A successful marriage is always a triangle : God, A man and a woman.
19. Why you marry is as important as who you marry.
20. Much happiness in life depends on your marital choice.
21. A man needs divine wisdom from God in choosing who to marry.
22. Do not place your priority on good looks ; no woman is ugly, she just needs rebranding.
23. 3 major characteristics to look for in a woman :
a. Fear of God.
b. Wisdom.
c. Discretion (beauty is vanity ).
24. The best way to enslave a woman is to show her love excessively - as a rule, women don't run away from where they're pampered.
25. Love is not blind ; infatuation and lust are blind.
26. Love puts God first, lust puts sex first.
27. Test every love with your peace of mind, if it is absent, God is not there.
28. If you are a true friend, you will attract true friends.
29. Caring hearts never lack caring hands.
30. Desperation leads to frustration.
31. Bad marriages can be avoided before they begin.
32. Keep your self pure and your bed undefiled.
33. It is spiritual insanity to plan to convert someone so you can marry the person.
34. Wage war against the devil that fought your parents' marriage.
35. Marriage is a covenant, always look before you leap.
36. It is better to be single and believing God to be married than to be married and believing in God to be single.
37. A broken courtship is better than a failed marriage.
38. Do not marry money or property, marry a person.
39. Be presentable. Pls forward it to d singles in or contact.
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Am sorry but I just need to remain anonymous on this issue, am one of the current Corp member serving in Enugu, I meet my boyfriend 2month before the call for NYSC Oct 2015, we were madly in love that I felt my whole world has change. He calls me like am his reason he still breath not until the hell had me in mind. one faithful day just few days we left the camp that was on the 22nd of Nov 2015 after I had report to my place of primary assignment and I already secure a place of mine where I got an apartment. My so called boyfriend called me that he is coming down to Enugu I was so happy because I can't just wait to set my eye on him again. I tried to convince him to hold on till I get back to Porthacourt but he insist that since I have gotten a place of mine its no big deal but with the how much I missed him I couldn't push further. The day of his arrival finally here I went to pick him from the park because its not far from my place, I set my eyes on him with so much joy that I couldn't wait for us to get home all the same I held myself till we got home, we so much love and not seeing each other for some weeks we couldn't do any other thing than to have sex. We hard more and more about three round till we felt a little bit satisfied. After we had so much fun. I decided to go to the market to get some stuff to cook then I heard a knock on the door, hold and behold it was shade. Shade was a friend I meet in camp we were so close that God added more blessings to our friendship by posting us to the same local government. we greeted and I introduced her to my boyfriend we talked for a while and later asked her to excuse me let me get something in the market, and I left on getting back after an hour plus I came inside and what I saw was heartbreaking my so called boyfriend and my camp best friend whom I thought was a gift from God. I caught them having sex, ooh my God I felt like dying, without shame my boyfriend still insist they continue having the sex I went out of the room to cry my life out. Later he came out to me apologize that he's sorry and I asked him why? all he could say was that babe I don't mind dating both of you. Can u imaging the irritating word coming out of his mouth. To cut the story short my so called boyfriend is now dating my friend but still insist and pleading we continue the relationship can u imaging I have never heard or seen such in my whole life. Please friends what should I do this is a guy I love and till now I can't get him out of my mind please I need your advice .........

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My name is Amos ifeoluwa,I was raised by God-fearing parents who were blessed with three girls. My father is a senior pastor of a Pentecostal church. I happened to be the last born of the family,I had my HND at federal polytechnic ado Ekiti and was posted to Imo state for my youth service.

I had given my life to Christ since my secondary school days, and I used to sing a lot, sometimes I even compose my own song. I joined the church choir when I was just twelve years old. I was posted to ministry of work and service, Owerri town for the one year service. I was given a room opposite the ministry compound at the Corper's quarters. On getting to Owerri city, I started looking for a Pentecostal church where i could be blessed, and I was able to find one.Shortly after I started worshiping in d church, I joined the choir. because of my unique voice. Whenever I sing or lead a song, the whole congregation has a way of murmuring "Huuuuunnnnn!" with a sigh of satisfaction.I met a male corper in the church,he is a batch A set while my own set is batch B,‎ His name is Abimbola,He was so gifted when it comes to instruments, there was no instrument he couldn't play. I always felt the presence of God whenever he was on keyboard.

******************After 2month of my stay in the church, me and Abimbola became a very close friend before we know we started dating, I love Abimbola so much that I allowed him to dis-flowered me just after ‎2weeks we started dating, everything was like an African magic to me.Unfortunately for me my first sex in life lead to pregnancy‎ yet my love for Abimbola didn't depreciated, having the believe that I only disappointed my parent and people that look up to me as a holy sister but I did not disappoint myself since I so much love the person I have pregnant for and I will want to be with him forever

Though Abimbola warn me several time to abort the Pregnancy but I refused because I love him so much and I don't want to commit murder "killing of the unborn child" until this faithful day Monday Jan 11 2016, Abimbola took me to his family house in Ilesha Osun state, Nigeria where his mum introduce me to 2 different ladies with kids,one with a 3years old boy and the other one with one year old little girl refers to as Abimbola children and wife....I screamed and fainted immediately when I open my eyes I was right on a hospital bed soaking tears, my whole life has been chattered, how will I face my parent and tell them I'm pregnant@the first place let alone of telling them the person I had pregnant for had two wives already....haaaaaa!!!! Abimbola you have finished me,

HOW I WISH I NEVER MET U
Please I need ur advice I don't want my unborn child to face any polygamist family issues, the only option for me is to abort the 4month pregnancy and I don't want to abort the pregnancy because I don't want to sin unto GOD....please what can I do‎??
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