ok...my kinkky secret is i suddenly fell in love with a female lecturer who's single by the way.....its crazy..... now I feel guilty been around my girlfriend

virgins ;Dvirgins but where can we find one?

yea I was a chronic, creepy and weird introvert i think even more than you but I made a good use of my personality and improved .....it wasn't easy in fact am still improving daily.... the thing is most introverts don't know that being an introvert it's not just a curse but also a blessing in itself...the minds of an introverts are abounding resources which if untapped or misused could be fatal....our minds are very special we think differently,we see our world from many angles some due to factors from childhood to adulthood that changed our behaviour first mentally which extend to our lives physically as we grow, check yourself ....let me share a childhood memory.....been a boy riding a bicycle was paramount cos i saw others kids riding it which I tried and fell, bruise some knees and stuff but I never stopped and was almost been good at it until the ultimate blow happened..... running my bike at max speed straight into these Lagos gutter...coming out all black and socked in my pile of shit 2 street away from mine, holding the bicycle while my mates laughed,chant and sang songs in my name from there till they got to my house..... I some how never overcame the trauma of that day and as am speaking to you I don't know how to ride a bicycle..... But the good thing was being a loner and the home alone syndrome gave me time to study about my strength and weaknesses to cover loop holes..

I was determined to put myself out there no matter what.

I was ready to fail and win and fail dusting myself up and moving on didn't give a Bleep about what people said.... they must talk and always find something weird about your life.
I remembered talking in public and communicating with girls gave me a lot of problems I was damn good in chatting ohh those glorious days of 2go, eskimi and co.... so I decided to reach further and break more grounds in calls cos talking on the phone was a weakness.... every time i was always held at gun point stammering, going gaga and stuff from one edge to the other in my room like a madman......but I moved from 1mins to later 20mins and even higher now.... going on date was worse cos I was also held at gun point but these time the gun was pointing at my fucking balls..... I started simple first with the ugly climbing to the badass

i made plans before any adventure..... getting informed, reading a lot of different things pertaining to what I want to do....

I think too much before doing things but sometimes I just do it without hesitation and it's a 50/50 chance good or bad.

back then since I can't communicate well to draw the girls I use my skill as backbone and it worked like magic....i was good in Art, singing, even my computer nerdity was a charm to some so try that

girls who understands me liked me for who I am I don't force it or pretend to be someone else...... I mingled in group of girls to boost confidence and understand them better cos before I can't even seat beside a girl for a minute without feeling very nervous especially the ones am crushing on

I looked for different ways to boost my confidence.... like dressing the way I want people to address me which really build my self confidence because people believe what they see and first impression matters

getting friends that can talk was very helpful to my mission....

use of good English with a spice of humor to blend it did a lot

people saying go for the money.... yes money is good but have seen guys with money and cars and they can't still talk to girls not to talk of asking a girl out...... asking friends for help ,when will they learn its a shame which Portrait weakness and later will later blow at there faces......

these are some of the few things I did now I can speak, sing publicly I still go back to my shell to reflect cos that's who I am but I still move out to challenge my fears in other fields of weaknesses

shit happens

Come and Swim o.... Come and Swim��

9ja 4 life... nothing we no fit du o

too bad

[/color]This[color=#990000] Holes ain't loyal..... get yourself treated... and offcus discuss the issue with your girl

Na the face of CHANGE wey Buhari dey talk about be this.

For ARSENAL mind now dem don dey win ..........Top 4 still no sure

;DThis is the CHANGE Goodluck Jonathan warned us about......