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Blackmoran:
Respect is the key, the word love is just a chemical reaction .....

Lol... chemical kwa

Non... when 2 people find long lasting happiness it's not because they love each other but, because they're good people."

donbachi:
Niggar hiding under a she facebook account...by next week he will be like:

Facebookbabe:Hello sweetheart.u look sweet.

Mumu u: wow!.u just made my day.

Facebookbabe: baby pls,i need like 5k to travel home to see my mum,she's really down.may GOD richly bless u.

Mumu u: ok.send details.

Lol

I really appreciate all your responses and advises. Means alot to me that some people will take their time and try to help.

I will work towards your advises cuz, now I know I need to work on focusing on other things and set a guard on my heart.

I'm still going back and forth through your comments and they really are good thoughtful comments.

Thanks y'all

So, I am what people call "MUMU" and this crosses across all genders. But since I would not marry a dude I'd talk about my relationship with girls.

Whichever girl comes my way we get talking and if she just seems to be very nice I fall in love immediately. Now before you start saying it's infatuation blah blah... I know what I feel and whenever they end it I get hurt. Not hurt for 1 week. I am still hurt by girls that broke up with me 10 years back.
Whenever they come, whatever problem they have I get so worried and try to source out money to get them out (yea, almost all of them). I always want them to be comfortable.
When they wrong me I say sorry, when I wrong them I say sorry.
I dont get too protective, I give them their freedom and also call them out when they're wrong and I still end up saying sorry.

Even the ones that hurt me when they send me a message something in me just ignites and says "could they be thinking about coming back?" But, it never happens, it would be just a "hi-how've-you-been?" Like they care

I am not rich but, I try my best. As a matter of fact, I am below average financially (maybe that's the problem)

The Last girl, I emptied my account for her just cuz, I felt I am at home and she needed it more cuz she was in school. One day she stopped responding to my messages or picking my calls.

I hear girls like rough guys that dgaf, I tried that and then still ended up apologizing. Clearly that ain't my thing.

Before they break up with me I see signs but, I choose to believe I'm just being too sensitive and then, it happens.

I've tried with high class girls and lowclass girls but, they all act thesame way towards me and I'm like "wtf is wrong with my emotional life?"

God knows I am good looking, educated, tall, not dark, smart, creative... the only thing I feel I lack is ability to socialize (clubs, bars, football, FB, Twitter etc), money, job and the ability to be a douché.

I'm above 30, so yes, I'm old enough.

So, I want to know if anyone has any clue to stop loving girls totally. Cuz, maybe I'm a sacrifice on earth, cursed not to ever be loved.
I hear girls don't like people who apologize, who are sincere, who are nice and seriously I can't be anything else so maybe this thing ain't for me.

As my moniker says I am not a troll but, I don't wanna be stigmatized so I used a different account.
You can ask me questions and I would respond, just need to be done with this
Thank you