UselessBuharist: One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.
I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.
2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.
Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.
Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.
I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family
no vex but you na agba fool I swear. God forbid bad thing.
Your mumuness is on another level. Somebody like you na him them dey kill for nollywood movie
Persephone1: You all worry too much about insignificant things, you don't see women creating threads on lesbians, tomboys or trans . But you insecure lot keep worrying, wailing and crying over trans. It is how you bring women into your foolery that irks me most. We didn't ask men to identify as women, if you are pained face the trans directly afterall they remain "Men" according to you.
if you can't see a reason to address the problem then shut up and move or are you a trans person
MrBrownJay1: a man can pretend all he wants that he is a woman or even a baby baboon, but (for example) in 200yrs when they unearth his skeleton, people will say that is the skeleton/remains of a MAN!
This brings me to the very controversial question; can a man become a woman? The honest answer is no. you may be a man who identifies as a woman but that doesn’t make you a woman. What you feel or think doesn’t automatically make you a woman because being a woman is beyond what you feel or think or what people tell you. Identifying as a woman is just your words because being a woman is so deep that a man can never completely comprehend.
It’s quite unfortunate that many young women today do not even understand womanhood. Women today cannot even define a woman.
From a biological standpoint, a man cannot become a woman, as the biological differences between males and females are determined by chromosomes, hormones, and physical characteristics that are present from birth. However, it is possible for a person assigned male at birth to undergo gender transition and identify as a woman. Even after a medical transition a man is not a woman and this is because the physical characteristics that defines a woman biologically heavily influences her feminine nature and this is something a transwoman can never be.
A woman is the power house of Life, a transwoman is not