SultanOfPuna:
Fubara bleeped up big time.

You should never bite the hand that feeds you

Even when the hand won comot ur tongue?

Addme:

https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/fire-guts-small-doctors-house/

It’s ironic how Nigerians spend millions to build a structure but can’t use less to install fire suppression systems. They rather use church stickers to gum their entrance door than get fire extinguishers

sulaak:
Buhari government really destroyed Nigeria and should be investigated




https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2023-11-17/how-lakshmi-mittal-s-younger-brother-got-a-massive-nigerian-bailout?srnd=premium-africa

This man took over DSC and it was run to the ground. Thousands of people lost their jobs then. Within the next 6yrs, old staffs started dying from depression or something. Go to Delta Steel plant at Aladja now managed by Premium Steel Ltd, you will shed tears.


When will we start holding these politicians accountable?

You guys keep voting for thieves just because you rather have your tribe ruling than another than an igbo man. Some Yoruba people rather trek daily to work in Lagos than have an igbo man rule them.


I remember how Obj took from our treasury to fund DSC but Atiku used Asian firms to kill everything. Obj landed that day in DSC and sacked all the managers.


Should we talk about our refineries? The level of corruption in this country should be in Guinness Book of Records.


They took away subsidy in the name of using the funds to fund development projects yet they are still borrowing budgeting money for private yacht from Budget student loans…


Gullible Nigerians. You would rather vote a thief than someone who is accountable because you want your tribe to rule. Modern day Slavery

UnproudLife:
So it happened that at this certain time, I was running a lucrative business that had so much cashflow., to the tune of about 2-4m monthly and I married my long-time girlfriend whom I disvirgined and had been dating for 7 years.

The moment we married and started the family journey, I tried making conversations about having a core family standard that would make harmony stand the test of time. Note that I am a man who is disciplined and goal-oriented. So first I approached my wife with a conversation on how to both make meaningful contributions in getting the family from point A to B at all times, to be more detailed, one of the conversations we had was about our finances because I also mentored her in the same business and she was raking in cash as well and was profitable.

I asked her that we make it a habit of both of us making contributions, having a certain joint account where we drop in cash from a certain amount we make sure we get paid monthly from our businesses. This was because while I was a reasonable spender who knows that if I go broke nobody got my back in the whole wide world. I'm the kinda person who when I spend, let's say for example, 200k just knows I'm worth times 30 of that but even with that I didn't have a concrete structure in business, I just spend money or do things as though my business was an extension of me, which the same was my wife's as well. And this was the reason I wanted us to make the conversation and also do things together. So I told her when we get paid monthly from our businesses we send a certain percentage of it to a joint account to run the family and if I was doing let's say 70k she should do like 30k because, with all honesty, I valued her business at if not half of mine or slightly above it was close at the time. And this was immediately we got married oh.

I was met with strong refusal, as she told me I married her and it was my duty to cater for everything, but as a patient person that I am in not making my judgement rashly I kept trying to convince her. I did till when it dawned on me that we was stern with her objection. And then this created in me a sense of deep selfishness from my wife and also note that I wasn't ever nosey about her income and even though I had a way to access her accounts to monitor Everything I wasn't interested and I was being the sole provider in the family while I watched my wife spend her money how she liked, making decisions that should involve me with her sister and calling some things to surprise me, and I don't mean it negatively.

It happened that i started a project in building a house 3years before we married which I'd credit to her sisters's advice and by the time we married we were already done with the roofing, remaining plastering and the rest. We were living at a very moderate house in town but had this project at a suburb in lagos which we all know that as a lagosian is still Lagos but only that the area would be less expensive. So at a time we were planning moving to a better apartment in town when her sister and her friend advised we pour money in completing our own place to move in. After much convincing I agreed and God blessed the most during this period in business so I had a dream house kind of finishing to the interior and we moved in.

During this time we were managing living at our business place because I was still accommodating her in my business space and we lived there and went home ones or twice in 2 weeks as it was easier with my driving. We then had a certain disagreement that made my wife without my agreement move her business and everything to that house and the area sighting her sister advicing it be done. I winked at it for peace to reign and because I wasn't a fool. Sorry without having to correct what I typed up there, this was the real account of what happened. When we had our first child she moved directly there and I went home weekends while running both businesses with me just directing her staffs and guiding them with discipline. We all know when you leave business for strangers it's OYO but all that doesn't mean I was also having access to her money, the money went to her while I managed the business.

This also was playing out while we dated and got married in how she never likes making any expenditure in even the cost of executing her jobs, and she would rather blackmail which I don't buy and because at those times I stick to mindset in business she'd rebel and take rash decision that would later backfire. So that was how she came one day and moved her everything to the area where we built saying her sister advised it.

I was a faithful man, a born again personality who ever since I gave my life to Christ about 5years to our marriage I stopped having fornication even with her or anyone and till that point in the marriage. So as she had moved, ye little things I knew in her business started diminishing while I was running the family financially. But this lady was always making me feel less than a man because she was so so not submissive even though I married her with the us being both core Christians and born again where she was even more fired up than me so we all knew submissiveness was the watchword but she wouldn't sub to it at this point and when I was home she'd make life miserable for me shouting in an area that the voice travels far, insult my life telling me that she regretted marrying me because I was a person who just wouldn't budge and I used to say I don't "think" as in the thinking that leads to depression and I guess this was why she wasn't having it. I always found ways to channel my thoughts to things positive that gets me going and even forgiving her on time while she sometimes take days to stop keeping malice.

This lady graduated to the aspect of telling me she stooped so low marrying me and I could go out and meet other ladies that she wouldn't even give a damn, and this went on for a long time. Without exaggeration, I myself was someone that in her words she feel for initially because of my looks although I was 5"7 and she like 5"6 in height which isn't that short for a man. I knew how young in thought and look I was when I start taking care of myself and dressing nice again and without a doubt an handsome man, so it got to a point I said to myself I've had enough. At this time I was already lusting at my spec in ladies out there in which I married her like but she refused to remain at. I brushed off and even while being in my early 30s I had several ladies saying I looked 23-26 in age and I started meeting ladies and having affairs with multiple through platforms and it was mind-blowing to me because they were telling me I looked better in person even though the profile pictures I had were compelling themselves. So I had several young ladies wishing we were dating for real but u didn't want that and wouldn't lie to get them laid with promises but the only lie I told was that I wasn't married neither with kids which some weren't even suspecting not to talk of asking such. But something was just not clicking with the way guys if this age behave when I relate with them and this is when we have more deeper relations and then they start sensing the nature of responsibility which makes them ask if I was married.

So at this point I said to myself, I was separated from my wife and I told her in several occasions because I wasn't going home as often as before she noticed all the changes in my looks but cared less. I was so far gone in having other ladies that I didn't even know what could ever make me wanna get back with her again. But in all these I was still a man who doesn't believe in divorce, which is what I always tell her made her misbehave. Then lemme note this. I was so far gone playing churchy Al these years I never knew the age had turned around and ladies were now so much for sale, I could remember hearing the word hookup for the first time 2 years ago when I had started contemplating cheating and I turned so many girls down on those platforms when I understood what hookup meant. I mostly kept them friends online for whining and all and I went off without meeting anyone until last year, that same last year by almost the middle of the year I had my first encounter with a lady who was almost begging I had s*X with her right in my car as the car was tinted at the back, and this was while being friends. I refused and explained I had never done it before. But a month later I started getting in the act until miraculously this year at mid year I had been longing for a change in lifestyle when I got the gift of repentance right in church and I just at this moment didn't care what my wife had ever done to me, I just forgave her in my heart, asked for forgiveness from God. Then it has been happening lately by then that she had been begging me and her sister was saying she in the person of my wife was already fed up and wanted to beg back in good terms with me but you know basking in the love of flesh I wasn't into it and knowing she was the kind that goes back to her vomit. But at this point I determined to make her come where I was and then we reconcile. But shortly after I did restitution with her and told her all I had done and what she made be go into but to my surprise she was so disappointed crying and telling me all sorts which was surprising to me because I expected this woman should have already seen the writing on the wall because I don't know how to pretend at all but she said she never suspected that she knew I was a Christian. Although I played a clean game but was was obvious was the fact that I changed in looks and all and shouldn't that be glaring. And now she only sober occasionally when the thoughts kicks in

My main problem now is that, while my first child is a copy of me, I started seeing the looks of my sister in law's last born in my last kid, which my mum has vaguely noted and I seconded. We can't even nurture the thought as we just said it. But personally each day I now stay with the kid I keep looking the semblance and thinking what if my bro in law which is my sister in law's hobby fathered this child. You see that would have out the child conception at about 3 months before I ever started having affairs outside marriage. I just wish to know what you guys think because I haven't even been able to ask any question relating to that as my wife just seem to off to ever fall into such.

Please ignore any typo as it was long and I'm trying to get by with a new course and it'll be hard to go through what I've written again. Pardon me

One thing I noticed in the Bible was that women where the end of many men .


Firstly, if you doubt your paternity in any child, move in silence and do a DNA test.

I always tell my friends that, dem no dey die put. The day you die another man will replace you. No matter how much you think your wife likes you.

My guy, use discretion

faceLAGOS:
I will choose a Yorùbá lady over an igbo woman 1 million times.

It’s ur choice na. But you would agree that Yoruba lady will not be clean in that 1 million times

suzzyboss:
Nigerian number one actress..
Consistent communication is the key not crying

True. But how many people
Know how to communicate?

illicit:
I no go lie

Even though I am Yoruba

Open defecation worse for Ibadan

So many homeless immigrants therein

Shit for roadside kerb, shit for underbridge, ontop bridge, motorpark
Shit everywhere

Too many people in Ibadan, half of them homeless

🥴

They should just rename the town to land of the shits na

iwaeda:


https://dailytrust.com/breaking-driver-evading-lastma-raid-crushes-street-cleaners-to-death-in-lagos/

“Raid”? When did LASTMA starting raiding like SWAT or Police?

The other time it was at ago palace.

Farfalla:


Do girls lose their virginity through scanty dressing?

Oga nobody who is not sexually active will dress and use tape to cover her nipples. Leaving everything for Kid and David to see.

DyshApp:
A disturbed young man has taken to social media to lament his marital plight as he contemplates getting a divorce.

The individual in question expressed his difficulties maintaining harmony in his home in an anonymous email sent to a relationship counsellor.

According to his narration, his wife agreed to marry him with the condition that his mother would live with them.

However, his wife turned his mother into her worst adversary by accusing her of being a witch, even after they moved his mother to another apartment.

Read the post below,

“When I met my wife I told her my mum is leaving with me I’m her only son. I last my dad when I was 12 yrs my mum may sure I went to university to become a graduate. I ask her hope she will be friend with my mum? She said yes. I married her.

It all started after she gave birth to my son. She started giving my mum attitude. I rush my second house and completed the 4 flat in same compound, I rented 3 out and furnishes 1 flat I moved my mum there to leave the duplex for my wife.

My wife is a full house wife. I bought her a car and beg her to be greeting my mum yet she refused . I invited my auntie and my mother inlaw to reconcile my wife and my mum. My mum said my wife didn’t offend her and she believes she didn’t offend my wife but she don’t no why my wife hate her. I told my wife to express herself since her mother is here.

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What did I just read? My head don full. Wait oh! You had only your mother from 12yrs of age. Now you are married and you wife forced you into moving your Mom to another apartment. Then you beg you Wife to greet your mother? Then she told you not to eat your Mom’s food. The same woman’s food that you ate from birth until you go married? Your wife told you that your Mom is a witch and she is still in your house? You even had to call a meeting to plead with your wife?


It’s either that you’re a simp or the story is not complete. How long do you think your Mom would live?

And if you check well your wife’s mother has free access to your house. Your wife doesn’t need to inform you self that her mother would be coming…

You are just a simp. Don’t come at me with all those alpha male story….



Jesus Christ.


Guy, even if my mother is witch…. I would still love her and do my best to please her. I might not always agree with my Mom because we have different perspectives but no woman can call my Mom a witch…

Discovery4today:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRFYJeHt11s?si=bo_utGijrzFGsJ8O
NIGERIANS IN SHOCK OVER ILLEBAYE OUTFIT ON HER MEETING WITH DAVIDO IN LAGOS, IN THE VIDEO SHE WORE A CLOTH THAT REVEALED HER FULL BREAST

And she said she is a Virgin? With these much body exposure?

ednut1:
Why are some Nigerians always wanting to play smart or cut corners. The bill from the hospital will be nothing less than 70k Cad to 100k Cad.
https://www.instagram.com/p/CzUA-Ytuxvi/?igshid=ZTdwdzNqeHpvZTh4

Who goes on vacation when the baby is almost due? And you came for vacation but scared of deportation?

Odewaleadesoye:


DAILY POST

Once an Okpetu talks, you must know. Even a fool is considers wise when he keeps his mouth shut.

NaijaCoverBlog:


Source: https://tribuneonlineng.com/mother-of-nine-commits-suicide-in-delta/

Which one is “Though fingers are pointing to the Evonomic hardship…”


Do you know how many people that are jumping into Lagos lagoon weekly?

coolh3ad:


A risk taker should have a "plan b" in this present Naija wey we dey.

"Most" and not all business owners are risk takers. Treat your business like an investor. You do not need to tolerate risk to start a business. Don’t buy into the myth!

Bro, all investments carry a degree of risk. Are businesses not investments?

Lordsonn:
As posted on Facebook by Khalid



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid01CHGC7oWAWBAyc2E3Pi64qMUojGH8kX4SfsgCyfAse3o7A8SxkQvtJXUWWGvJeB5l&id=100057670164901&mibextid=2JQ9oc

When Burna said “This 9ja… No love” people said he had pride…. No love in Nigeria

coolh3ad:


Normal level. Na to dey thank BABA GOD o!

But why put hand inside that kain situation wey you no fit control in the first place? Is it risk taking?? For this same Naija and man no know anybody (connection). Just asking though...

If we don’t take risk, how the hell do you expect one to get rich?


All business owners are risk takers.

CoronaVirusPro:
How do people commit suicide? What do they think about?

In my down times, the moment I think of cat-fish pepper-soup, Egusi with stock-fish, Isi-ewu and Ofe Nsala, I always have more reasons to be on Earth!

Mere knowing that their is no beer and peppered meat afterlife, is enough reason to make you want to stay on Earth.

Continue thanking God that you have not been in situations that you can’t control. Situations that you are only happy when you’re asleep. Situations that you are scared of being alone because of your thoughts. Situations that will make you question life and your God.


Depression is Real. Na person way don feel fit clear you wella

nairalanduser23:
I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.

Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.

She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.

I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.

How can I deal with this?

Ur ordeal reminds me of “Dax To be Man”


Married man are going through alot

Wawelexy:
Let's wait for the autopsy reports on her... A lot could have led to her death.

Her last meal..
Her last conversation on phone
Where she visited last
Etc...

This might not be ritual related like everyone will speculate, but her boyfriend should be thoroughly investigated too.

May her soul rest in peace

You didn’t read where the Police went to her place and found foam coming out from her mouth and also an insecticide beside her?

Opanka44:
Hi Guys,
I've been so confused and worried lately. I have never met a Virgin girl in my life and I am not praying to meet any either. Been a virgin does not translate to being a good wife or girlfriend.
My girlfriend of 28yrs says she is a Virgin. But I'm finding it very difficult to believe it. Because,
She always wants me to be using my fingers on her clitoris without allowing me to use my dick to penetrate her. At times I wonder if she's a chronic masturbator. If I refuse using my fingers, she'd be angry at me. Why should I be using my fingers when I have a Dick?
Secondly, she always wants me to give her a Mouth Gig. I suck her pussy.
Thirdly, after sucking, she tells me to mount her while she closes her legs. While I mount her, she will tighten her legs and ask me to rub my pennis on her pussy. She will never open/spread her legs for me to penetrate.
I'm really fed up because it is becoming childish to be doing all these nonsense on bed. At the end of the whole thing, I see myself at the receiving end cos I begin to feel pains in my scrotum since I'm always unable to release. What she does is just to lie down like a log of wood. She doesn't reciprocate. I am not her first, second, third or fourth Guy so I can't understand why she claims to be a virgin. I have told her countless times that if she allows me to penetrate and I discover she's a Virgin like she claims, I'll respectably stop asking for sex until after our marriage but she doesn't want to grant me access. I feel I'm been played and manipulated here. I'm not a player and have never double dated. I am a man and can't continue like this anymore.

If I ever get to find out that she's not a virgin, I swear she's gone. I'll so mess her up for all the punishment she has meted out to me in almost two years of our relationship

You have gradually been reduced to a simp. It’s up to you to continue.

No let blue balls kill you.


Come out straight and clear her.

Just tell her she can’t always be at the enjoyment end. That if you wants to continually keep herself, that you are not against it but forget about anything sex. Be it pre-intimacy or mouth action. She will agree with you.


Next time you are Hot, self-service your senses back. You will be the first to make the sexual move. When you does, tell her to stop straight up.


After 1week. You go turn Makanaki

Righthussle:
E don do. Let's move on.

Sorry for your loss.

Move on to more hardship?

koolaid87:
The real Israelites are still scattered abroad. They are still oppressed all around the world. The ashkenazis (Israelis) are the heathens from the synagogue of the satan according to Revelation 2.

Focus on Hamas, you children of perdition and stop killing innocent civilians.

I disagree with your first sentence. Jews are one of the richest people in the world. In the USA. How can oppressed people be allowed to accumulate wealth in the land of the oppressor ?

kestolove95:
Wike is stronger than Atiku and obi put together

So? To what end? How does a Governor becomes a Minister? Is that now a new low

michlins:
These ones have been sent to God for him to forgive them or judge them accordingly.


In this Buhari times, you decided to steal the sweat and blood of others.

Omo!!!!

Have u been hibernating?

atiku4President:
What is wrong in buying a presidential yacht? Fake #RevolutionNow crusader.
You believe only you can save Nigeria and every other person is a thief. We have not forgotten the same people have used you in the past, and for the fact that you have been paid off and abandoned didn't make you any different.

You must be so stupid. Just read what you wrote? You don’t know what is reduction in cost of governance? I seriously dislike who are just stupid.

alizma:

Don't say what you don't know, this is a fight between a brother and his sister and at this point, both have to shield their sword, if not for anything, they have to reconsider their positions in view of the forth coming election and in honor of our dear late king, Ado Ibrahim who had been trying to resolve the difference between the two before his sudden death.

Is that how you fight with your siblings at home? It’s either you are benefiting from Bello or you just senseless

spyder880:


This is a Federal government road that collapsed, we should be talking about what the federal ministry of works are doing.

So the state Government can’t force the hands of the Federal Government? So if it’s takes the next 6yrs for Federal to award the repair to a construction firm, the state would leave their people to continue being miserable

spyder880:
In this previous thread with the link below, we reported a bridge collapse that happened at Kilometer 1, Enugu - Port Harcourt Express road

https://www.nairaland.com/7892846/bridge-collapse-enugu-inner-city

This thread will be used to review the happenings since the bridge collapsed, the near silence from every government authorities about any planned repair, and the degradation being suffered by the inner city roads as heavy trucks invade the roads, causing damage in many parts of the roads. The pictures I showed below are the current state of the bridge as at today.

I don’t really what most Governors are doing. Go to Edo state, you will cry your eyes out…. Go to warri… to Epe … Good to some parts of Anambra. Even Kogi na die…


Nobody holds anybody accountable

paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

You want to someone to tell you she is seeing someone else? You just have to keep an open mind to see all the red flags. I hope you know once a lady knows you love her a lot, dey will manipulate you. I been dey blame Samson for Bible but once I grew up I no blame am


In as much as you love her do not be a simp. Always keep a open mind that women are smart cheaters. Trust me, even if you see something that is not strong enough and ask her. She will play the “You don’t trust me game…” become aggressive and all. If possible find someone else or something else to keep your mind and emotions in check.



One thing is I know is, as a man just enjoy the cruise while it last. Dem no dey die put for woman matter. Even after your death, another man would continue where you stop.

post=126661384:


Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/10/bolt-driver-surrenders-to-rivers-police-to-prove-his-innocence-over-missing-lady-2.html

His story seems to add up. The police can actually confirm if truely he only dropped her off and left alone.


Why are people disappearing in Lagos?

taylor88:
No long Talk here I need strong advice We’ve been friends on Facebook for over two years I never asked her for a dime you wouldn’t know she was a man before surgery we do video calls I see boobs and pussy with beautiful face sexy body till she broke the most scary news to me

I took off stopped texting or calling her for a year now she came back last month with the communication told me she likes me(God forbid me that hates the word gay) offered to make all the necessary paperwork’s and send money to me to take care of my own parts here like passports and all the rest she even connected me to a Ghanaian man who married one of her nurse friend so the guy Dey always instruct me here too

She’s 34. Black American, tall and a Registered Nurse she Bought her own house lives alone in Atlanta promised to get me a job ASAP

But I can’t even swallow the thoughts of marrying or making love to a transgender I might throw up on just a mere thought but she’s serious and u know how this country hard reach

She wants to send money down here on Monday but I need the money but don’t want to go, what do I do now on the other hand I wouldn’t want to be tagged a scammer or played her for her money

I would have given it a chance if I had a brother or married with kids but I can’t right now

Guys what do I do Monday it’s almost here please advice

Which one is she is 34? He is 34.