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MrBrownJay1:
all you mumus who got all your life priorities messed up...you are jobless and seeking for woman INSTEAD OF FIXING YOUR LIFE AND ITS NECESSITIES FIRST!

she is right, you are NOT buoyant to be a man, go fix your life before seeking for a life mate. your main focus should be to feed, house clothe yourself, before thinking of babes.

Freestainworld:
My friend unblock her if you have not, never attach emotion to a woman who is not your wife, learn to accept what life brings at your door step each day.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
So you can't handle rejection without blocking her?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah you really acted immaturely by blocking her and it's enough reason for her to dump you..

arthurwillia:
Her response boss?

arthurwillia:
Sure don’t allow it boss

arthurwillia:
No one can tell, but honestly waiting for ladies this days can lead to premium tears
From exper

Qatar2022:
I think you should keep it as she keep it, if she come no problem, if she didn't come no problem, peach your tent another place

arthurwillia:
Playing you how?
Let her pray na
Abi and you wait

betcliq:
Op this girl is just playing mind games with you Nothing much, Just ignore her . Once you're doing well in ur career she'll come back.

xxxtedyxxx:
Oga this is 2022. People don't ask girls out again...that stuff is old school

When you meet a girl...you should act like a boyfriend from day 1.

Stop asking a girl out.

Abah guy ... You just gave her all the power, by placing you chances of success in under a " yes or no" response.

Free the babe and move on to another girl

Read this thread to ginger your game.

https://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see

Kevincal144444:
You're not supposed to be here oga. I wonder what your mission here is and why you're telling this story of yours, since you already know what to do.

Smartb0y:
It's quite obvious you're not over her

Iamzealousman:
So I have been following this thread.
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP.
Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early.
We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all.
So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no.
And later on started moving even more closer to me.
I lost my job August last year.
I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc.
Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking.
She tells me misses me and all sort.
I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship.

the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.
Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?

Abimbolafavour:
Honestly am just too tired of constant nagging .. so today I got a call from my bf that I should help him wash some of his cloths .. I politely told him i can't cause am at work .. then he said you can take it home .. this pissed me .. told him I can't again , he got angry told me to get out . and then ended the call .. Relationship of two months plus every time quarrel .. Am just unhappy and confused..

Ebubechuwku:
You already fu*ked yourself up right from the beginning and you can't expect her to agree to your proposal.

You are seeing yourself as inferior. You asked someone out, you lost your job during that period because of that you now ran away from her making yourself to look like someone of low quality... you stop calling, you stop the care and you want her to accept your proposal....tarh, is not done that way..

Now that she kept disturbing you, you now want to try your luck again... thats a big No... You are not reliable.

You are not bold.

You dont know what you want my bro.. go and get a job...

Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;

You're a very unwise and weak man. I carefully read through all your threads, and I must confess that your cognitive thinking level is really below par.

May God help you. Amen.

younglleo:
Relationship wey no even start, dem don break ur heart!
Op u be correct emotional werey!

Healthrelatedjo:
Get a job first bro

bigcee:
Oga, you need to chill and stop being childish. Don't you have other things doing.

Iamzealousman:
She hasn't called me neither has she chatted me since I spoke to her.
It's seem to me to be a [color=#990000][/color][b][/b]REDLIGHT

Adejo1:
Bro to my own point of view about women
They don't give direct answers, as long as she persist in calling you and also show concerns about you (these are greenlight). Keep cuddling her.
But the way you are behaving shows that you have not been in a relationship before and you don't really know how some women behaves