I asked a girl out almost a month now,
She said she was gonna pray about it.
I had thought since she has gone silence about what I have discussed with her over a month now... I should move on and take her silence as no.
However, she made contact with me this weekend that she hasn't forgotten,


I feel this girl is kinda playing me.

Do I need to tell to give me her answer or just play along?

In every commercial transactions, Silence means Acceptance, but, don't go and be fooling yourself over a Nigerian girl. Not worth it.

Oga this is 2022. People don't ask girls out again...that stuff is old school

When you meet a girl...you should act like a boyfriend from day 1.

Stop asking a girl out.

Abah guy ... You just gave her all the power, by placing you chances of success in under a " yes or no" response.

Free the babe and move on to another girl

Read this thread to ginger your game.

https://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see

Bros, force that babe to fix an appointment with you this weekend so she can tell you where you stand. And forget all those people that are shouting "You should be patient ; she needs times ...".

Baba, no time again for all these blood-sucking women who only delight in making you an option when they know you've made them a priority .

Lastly if she no gree , just delete her number and move on . After all, Nigeria no dey lack women like that

Iamzealousman:
I asked a girl out almost a month now,
She said she was gonna pray about it.
I had thought since she has gone silence about what I have discussed with her over a month now... I should move on and take her silence as no.
However, she made contact with me this weekend that she hasn't forgotten,


I feel this girl is kinda playing me.

Do I need to tell to give me her answer or just play along?

Wait till it complete 3 years. Na 3 years them Dey use take that kain decision

Iamzealousman:
I asked a girl out almost a month now,
She said she was gonna pray about it.
I had thought since she has gone silence about what I have discussed with her over a month now... I should move on and take her silence as no.
However, she made contact with me this weekend that she hasn't forgotten,


I feel this girl is kinda playing me.

Do I need to tell to give me her answer or just play along?

Pray about it? That sound like a church girl. It's been long I heard something like this from a lady.

This days girls don't pray they just do some stupid forming and catch feelings Las las.

Bro she told you she hasn't forgotten about it, and you didn't care to ask her what is the holy spirit saying about it. You have to be plain, tell her how you feel and if she is not ready she should free you from the circle.

I sure agree with her consulting the holy spirit but consulting the holy spirit should not be a reason to keep you waiting. Ask her weather she gat feelings for you, because if she gat none Omo just Japa but if she gat the feelings just wait a little and give her time & space. Don't act too desperate !!!

Holly Gram

U see 4 dis life



make money


IF NOT NA EXPRESS U DE GO!


WTF MAN

xxxtedyxxx:
Oga this is 2022. People don't ask girls out again...that stuff is old school

When you meet a girl...you should act like a boyfriend from day 1.

Stop asking a girl out.

Abah guy ... You just gave her all the power, by placing you chances of success in under a " yes or no" response.

Free the babe and move on to another girl

Read this thread to ginger your game.

https://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see

I have been acting like a boyfriend. We've been close but nothing more. If you can checkout my previous post you'll know what I am talking about

Iamzealousman:

I have been acting like a boyfriend. We've been close but nothing more. If you can checkout my previous post you'll know what I am talking about

Close but nothing more?

That means you have not been acting like a bf. If you have, she won't have given you that reply. You have not stirred up enough attraction in her yet.

xxxtedyxxx:
Oga this is 2022. People don't ask girls out again...that stuff is old school

When you meet a girl...you should act like a boyfriend from day 1.

Stop asking a girl out.

Abah guy ... You just gave her all the power, by placing you chances of success in under a " yes or no" response.

Free the babe and move on to another girl

Read this thread to ginger your game.

https://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see

Wetin this wan dey even talk..
Which Kain mentality this wan come carry put for head like this..
Some boys on nairaland are really confused tho..
Looks like you don't understand what love is..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Wetin this wan dey even talk..
Which Kain mentality this wan come carry put for head like this..
Some boys on nairaland are really confused tho..
Looks like you don't understand what love is..

Who be this one?

xxxtedyxxx:


Who be this one?

See rhetorical question..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

See rhetorical question..

Oh...this one na simple guy

LoL...no wonder.

Peace

xxxtedyxxx:


[s]Oh...this one na simple guy

LoL...no wonder.

Peace[/s]

Op this girl is just playing mind games with you Nothing much, Just ignore her . Once you're doing well in ur career she'll come back.

betcliq:
Op this girl is just playing mind games with you Nothing much, Just ignore her . Once you're doing well in ur career she'll come back.

My thought too. Though she is a Christian and I understand the fact she has to pray before getting into any relationship. But I don't understand why it's taking this long for her to make a decision

xxxtedyxxx:


Oh...this one na simple guy

LoL...no wonder.

Peace

That's Rozz aka Zzor aka Iyaebe.

Be at alert, please

Transaction in process.. pending further review... lmao

Oga, if she dey pray, shey you sef no fit pray ni?...
So later she come tell you say God agree, then you sef go agree with her abi?

Your mumu never do be that.

Iamzealousman:
I asked a girl out almost a month now,
She said she was gonna pray about it.
I had thought since she has gone silence about what I have discussed with her over a month now... I should move on and take her silence as no.
However, she made contact with me this weekend that she hasn't forgotten,


I feel this girl is kinda playing me.

Do I need to tell to give me her answer or just play along?

Lemme get this...
For a month and counting....
You've put this area of your life on hold on account of someone who may not be feeling the same way about you?? Wawu!!!

To be honest OP...
If I were in your shoes, I would've long walked away...
You've waited for 1month and still no answer and from the looks of things, you may not be getting an answer any time soon...

On the other hand, what if she tells you NO after you've waited for this long, what then??

Sha do what you think is right for you...
If you feel she's worth the wait, then wait...
But as for me...
I'm yet to meet a girl who is worth this much headache

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Wetin this wan dey even talk..
Which Kain mentality this wan come carry put for head like this..
Some boys on nairaland are really confused tho..
Looks like you don't understand what love is..

love is nothing in this country,just make the money and see them dancing to your tune!

Iamzealousman:
I asked a girl out almost a month now,
She said she was gonna pray about it.
I had thought since she has gone silence about what I have discussed with her over a month now... I should move on and take her silence as no.
However, she made contact with me this weekend that she hasn't forgotten,


I feel this girl is kinda playing me.

Do I need to tell to give me her answer or just play along?

Playing you how?
Let her pray na
Abi and you wait

arthurwillia:


Playing you how?
Let her pray na
Abi and you wait

I think she's taking too much of her time. And maybe she's using me as an option

Iamzealousman:

I think she's taking too much of her time. And maybe she's using me as an option

Patience

Hey bro,
This woman is wasting ya time. Move there other guy available

Iamzealousman:
I asked a girl out almost a month now,
She said she was gonna pray about it.
I had thought since she has gone silence about what I have discussed with her over a month now... I should move on and take her silence as no.
However, she made contact with me this weekend that she hasn't forgotten,


I feel this girl is kinda playing me.

Do I need to tell to give me her answer or just play along?

I think you should keep it as she keep it, if she come no problem, if she didn't come no problem, peach your tent another place

Cheers!!!

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


U see 4 dis life




make money



IF NOT NA EXPRESS U DE GO!



WTF MAN

Qatar2022:

I think you should keep it as she keep it, if she come no problem, if she didn't come no problem, peach your tent another place

Hmm

Iamzealousman:

I think she's taking too much of her time. And maybe she's using me as an option

No one can tell, but honestly waiting for ladies this days can lead to premium tears
From exper

arthurwillia:


No one can tell, but honestly waiting for ladies this days can lead to premium tears
From exper

I have composed a message I will send to her already. No lady will derail me in a life

Iamzealousman:

I have composed a message I will send to her already. No lady will derail me in a life

Sure don’t allow it boss

arthurwillia:


Sure don’t allow it boss

I have already told her.