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Mmadu2:
O boy how old are you really. I checked your previous thread and it reeks of deep level of immaturity. You just spoke to a girl and she needs time to think about it and just one week later you're asking about moving on.

arthurwillia:
All that one na scam

arthurwillia:
Ofcourse humans are not easy understood but then no need to act like this, ask her out, worse thing is, no we can’t date and you move on..

I wish guys can get Mind like me sha..

When I was serving there was this girl that was doing I can’t date anyone but she’s always all over me indoors, I just asked her straight are you dating me or not, she said no and I knew we can’t date, so I continue just cuddling with her since that’s what she wants
No time

arthurwillia:
Why you Dey do like pikin ask her out again know what’s up

boxer022:
What can you not be certain of? I told you to give it a try to convince yourself that she really loves you. You wrote initially that she took it upon herself to look for a job for you when you told her your lost the one you were employed in, which girl who does not love or have feelings for a man or a guy will do a thing like that? It is really scarce to see such a lady, instead of helping you, they will rather insult you and move on to others. The ball is in your court, if I was in your shoe I would have done what I am telling you.

donbachi:
Stop feeling insecure.

Every breast started as a nipple.

boxer022:
You asked her out initially and she refused, now she developed feelings for you and is now fond of you but you on the other hand is not willing to be with her due to your financial situation. My question to you is that did she ever complain to you concerning your not being financially buoyant? She truly likes you and is willing to be around you, why not give it a try to see if it will last or if it will not.

OloshoMan:
You need to change that mentality, there really isn't nothing wrong with her earning more money than you do... Men and their ego

Jeremani:
How come a guy can date and unemployed girl and feel comfortable and still can't feel comfortable if it was the other way round?

Don't let ur current unemployment status to discourage u.

But try and make sure u don't ask her for anything financial assistance.

More so, try and ask her out once again, to know her stand. Maybe she refused bc of this church stuff.

AfroKnight:
Better control yourself before you’d do something that would lead to massive embarrassment. Ask her what she wants. Friendship or relationship? Ask in plain terms once and for all. If she says she doesn’t know, my brother, run for your life. Don’t let woman play with you like a puppet on strings. It won’t be funny o.

Just avoid her. She knows your feelings and she is enjoying the attention while denying you what you want. You are the one experiencing heartbreak even before entering a relationship. Better break free bro. Avoid her.

AfroKnight:
Iamzealousman, she said “no” to your advances. She said you should stop walking together so people wouldn’t think you were dating. These are major pointers.

You need to ask her what exactly she wants from you. But bear in mind that it won’t be a relationship.

You cannot continue filling the void of friendship for her while you yearn for something more. That is emotional torture.

You should not punish yourself cos my guy, she will always tell you no. Continue ignoring her. She will get tired and leave you alone. You should stop checking her status or anything that would trigger the frustrated affection you have for her.

Maybe later, you may become friends, but for now, it is impossible as you are already emotionally invested in a one-sided “situationship”. There are other women around. Forget this one. She will just use you for one-sided companionship.

Pumpumking:
ok so u meet babe last year august & u ain't fok her yet coz she work 2 job?...correct?...brother u disapoint every men!!!(no oofensece)

Cerebellum:
The lady does not want you for any relationship, she only wants to be a friend, don't you understand?
Some niggars are just naturally dumbb!

You can turn her Into FWB which is up to you.

Truvelisback:
1. Money, u no get.
2. Job, u no get. A lady knowing ur critical state yet is giving u a full green. U come still dey form. Na who u dey form for? How many Naija ladies would do this? See ehn, If i be ur papa, i tear u hot slap, truth.

HRHQueenPhil:
Continue to maintain that friendship with her, but begin to check her out mentally, mature wise, spiritually, supportive wise
She is a good woman if she informs u of job vacancies and calls u knowing u are very rich right now so don't lose her
She is also looking at u and other men , that's why she doesn't want pple assuming two of u are dating
Attend Shiloh starting December 7..
Congratulations u will get that job and more miracles...

oladosuphemmy:
Okay,

This is just my personal opinion, and I know I will get alot of sticks for this.

We all know that a lot of things are economically wrong in Nigeria.
Prices of good and services have skyrocketed over the past few years.
The government is partly to blame for this as their policies, actions and inactions has led us to this point we are in.
Insecurity in all regions of the country as also had it's adverse effects on the economy. The continued bokoharam terroristic attacks, kidnapping, triballistic feud are one of the major reasons the country's economy is going down really bad.
The global pandemic has also affected the economy negatively.

However, with these points in mind and maybe other factors, I feel the country's economy is also suffering because of the fraudsters(YAHOO BOYS AND GIRLS).

These set of highly intelligent people actually have reasons to engage in such act of fraud.
They are actually amongst the richest in the society, they get whatever they want at any rate the desire.
I know of a friend who officially has no source of income and he recently purchased a house in lekki at the rate of 75million naira.
They spend money with reckless abandon. At a night party they could purchase drinks worth millions of naira.
Even the youngster fraudsters YAHOO BOYS AND GIRLS are also involved in theses extravaganza.
Some of these repentant fraudsters. Will end up working with the government, how? Government jobs are on sale!
Only someone who doesn't know the value of money will purchase a job for 5million Naira.
This set of people have made life more expensive and harder to come by for the legitimate hustlers.
They are one of the major factors affecting the prices of goods and services. Their lavish lifestyle, extravaganzas
have made the prices of goods and services disobey the law of gravity

And until their activities are nipped in the bud. We'd remain where we are

realman42:
It's self esteem problem.when you get richer it will disapper.ur subconscious believes you r low value right now because you have high standards to tins.im sure u can talk to ugly gals more boldly than fine gals lol

Shellsploit:
First things first...
1. Do u have palpitations of the heart...?
2. Are u are chronic masturbator?
3. Do u have any history of STD's that lead to the infection of the heart...?
4. Whats your medical history..?
5. Do you have cosdonchodritis / severe pain in chest..?


Lastly, lemme call Lalasticlala!

SenecaTheYonger:
Because you're literally not even breathing properly. Check your breathing right now, you only take shallow breaths that's why you feel all that. Practice proper diaphragmic breathing techniques so that oxygen can enter your brain and blood very well. It'll do wonders for your mental health.