Romance › Re: It's seems like This Dating Is Not For Me Chai by Iamzealousman(op): 11:42am On Mar 02, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: It's seems like This Dating Is Not For Me Chai by Iamzealousman(op): 7:54am On Oct 19, 2024 |
DAramis: Na lie. Some of them use that as an excuse to show their values. (That they are not single and searching despite being single with no one).
Just try and find the one that likes you or you like and ask her out properly. From that single date, take it up from there. It's not a lie... All the responsible ladies I have approached between 20-29 are not single... The good one will let me know directly why others will shove if off my face in their status. I am just tired at this point. |
Romance › It's seems like This Dating Is Not For Me Chai by Iamzealousman(op): 11:52pm On Oct 18, 2024 |
Na WA ooo All young responsible ladies(20-30) are now engaged(in a relationship)
Every lady I talk aren't single. I usually find out they are in a relationship.
The only I would have dated and was interested in me have characters I can't tolerate!!!
Na WA ok |
Romance › Re: Is It Morally Right To Date A Lady 9years Younger Than You As A Guy by Iamzealousman(op): 5:10pm On Oct 10, 2024 |
jUeLiZ: As long as she is an adult, yes nothing is wrong with it... She is just 20 |
Romance › Is It Morally Right To Date A Lady 9years Younger Than You As A Guy by Iamzealousman(op): 4:48pm On Oct 10, 2024 |
There is this girl that's caught my attention.... She is been showing some subtle greenlights. But I feel it's not morally right though I am single. |
Politics › Re: Day 3: Lagos Protesters Are Outside Again For #EndBadGovernance by Iamzealousman: 11:36am On Aug 03, 2024 |
SisterJolade: Good. Tinubu must resign. So Obi will be president |
Romance › A Kind-hearted Person by Iamzealousman(op): 7:32am On Dec 23, 2022 |
Some of us here are not even looking to celebrate Christmas.
I am really broke as I dey.
Please a kind hearted person should help with any amount.
5842438012 FCMB |
Romance › Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 10:58am On Oct 09, 2022 |
SyrusdeHansome: There's no relationship between them. It's just a matter of girl frnd zoning a guy nd later playing on his emotion to conquer him Yea |
Romance › Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 7:22am On Oct 08, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 9:48am On Oct 07, 2022 |
detectivejones: Its obvious the girl in question loves attention, starve her of it by ignoring. When she ask for help turn her down and claim busy, ignore her calls and messages. Just find somemthing to distract from having her time. Screenshot this already |
Romance › Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 7:29am On Oct 07, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2022 |
minasu190: She likes you too, she just wants you to try more harder! I laugh when I read this.lolz So I should focus all my life on her before she knows I am trying abi |
Romance › Re: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 1:41pm On Oct 06, 2022 |
Lucrativress: Go monosyllabic  Thank me later If she calls Pick And use one one word responses and keep your tone cool Oh wow Cool I'm good Oh fine Don't ask about her, don't seem interested in knowing what's going on with her Don't care
When next she asks for a favour Say oh no You're a bit busy at the moment but you'll hit her up first thing when you're done Don't hit anything Continue like that like She'll either leave or you start being on her mind cause she becomes confused  He is here but not really here Then if she doesn't talk to you for weeks Out of the blues one day,chat her up with Hi When she responds Count 8-10 hours before responding Then still go on with the monosyllables I tried this early last year. Around may last year she just text me that she misses me. |
Romance › How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 9:13am On Oct 06, 2022 |
For more than 2 years now. There is this lady that have been manipulating me emotionally.
She knows I love her. But she has rejected my approach.
She Wants to be communicative only when she makes the move for a conversation. And this conversation will only end in can you help me with this or that. I have no problem with helping(so long as it's not financially) of which she never ask for financial assistance tho.
So...early this year I approached her again she said she can't date me because I never said I love her. I was like so I have been play since? Etc.
I ensured that I didn't communicate with her and I let her be. But she now still calls again.
Most times when she call I don't pick etc.
I have not found another person yet but I know she doesn't love.
I want to move on from her so I can focus of myself |
Politics › Re: APC Woman Leader, Betta Edu Leads Women Solidarity Walk For Tinubu in Borno by Iamzealousman: 2:28pm On Sep 08, 2022 |
SHINJA: Poverty...
No sensible individual will vote for tinubu...
God bless Southsouth and Southwest
One brothers
Curse be upon APC Lol � |
Romance › Re: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 2:33pm On Aug 30, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 5:54am On Aug 16, 2022 |
Jeromejnr: Then how did you ask a girl out confidently on your earlier thread? Lol. It was a mishap. They girl rejected me because I asked her out through text |
Romance › Re: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 5:05am On Aug 16, 2022 |
Nozino: Try learn when to use “Been” and “Being” It's kinda intentional. I really want to it to be a past tense and not a part of me |
Romance › Re: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 6:39pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Adeling: You're definitely an introvert that's for sure.
The fact that you're shy doesn't give you enough latitude to do the things you do. You need to work on that.
I'm a shy person my self and barely talk to people in real life. There're billionaires who are shy too and would do anything to avoid the crowd.
Turn your shyness to sth positive But I am lost opportunities and relationships due to this |
Romance › What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 6:39am On Aug 13, 2022 |
The subject has been heating me up for a long long long time.
Been shy as made me like a sub human.
Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc.
Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and sometimes i visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money for no reason oo. Just to ensure I overcome been bored
Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc.
Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions.
Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant!
Been shy as made me careless
Been shy as put me into debt
Been shy has made me broke.
Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS
Been shy is BAD.
Been shy really is BAD.
How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good.
Guys please I need help.
I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own.
I have lost good job because of this Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this.
It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts. |
Romance › Re: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Iamzealousman: 1:25pm On Jul 11, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: Lol I have met a guy that's actually too too shy for my liking, I couldn't date him when he asked me out. Am an introvert and also shy but kind of hot tempered and somehow harsh so most the guys I usually come across are cool headed guys but this one own dey excess he is not lively, doesn't talk and I became scared na so I leave am oooo. My point is too much of everything is bad op try and work on yourself go out make some friends pls. You can go to him and get him to talk. |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 5:37pm On Feb 08, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 1:17pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Qatar2022: Quite that mission she will use you if you continue pressuring her I have stopped |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 10:15am On Feb 05, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: All you've been doing is asking her out, while she has been declining. Of course yes |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 4:31pm On Feb 04, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 10:17am On Feb 04, 2022 |
I might not be giving her positive vibes |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 10:12am On Feb 04, 2022*. Modified: 10:15am On Feb 05, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: All you've been doing is asking her out, while she has been declining. |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 6:40am On Feb 04, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 11:20pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Tmberwolf1: You are a SIMP! You fell for the oldest trick in the book. The "you are immature for blocking me" trick. Want she wants is an admirer, a fan. If blocking her was your way of recaliberating your emotional meter, please do it without any apologies. Hmmmm. |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 9:02pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Freestainworld: good, just follow her with I don care attitude, soonest she will be running after you, but meanwhile try and meet her in person, she may feel you are scared of her, reason for you asking her out through WhatsApp. She might be with another man already. Yea she feels so. She knows I am REAL shy guy |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 9:01pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
Freestainworld: good, just follow her with I don care attitude, soonest she will be running after you, but meanwhile try and meet her in person, she may feel you are scared of her, reason for you asking her out through WhatsApp. Hmm |
Romance › Re: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 7:39pm On Feb 03, 2022*. Modified: 8:04pm On Feb 03, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1: CONGRATULATION...."now", you are ready and able to seek for a female mate. dont blame this babe because she didnt want to date a man with misplaced priorities. But she led me ON. I never wanted to even communicate with her. Because I know myself. I really love her. That's why I distanced myself from her totally. Till she came back. Telling she misses me, Doing things I least expect |