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RomanceRe: It's seems like This Dating Is Not For Me Chai by Iamzealousman(op): 11:42am On Mar 02, 2025
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RomanceRe: It's seems like This Dating Is Not For Me Chai by Iamzealousman(op): 7:54am On Oct 19, 2024
DAramis:
Na lie. Some of them use that as an excuse to show their values. (That they are not single and searching despite being single with no one).

Just try and find the one that likes you or you like and ask her out properly. From that single date, take it up from there.
It's not a lie...

All the responsible ladies I have approached between 20-29 are not single...
The good one will let me know directly why others will shove if off my face in their status.

I am just tired at this point.
RomanceIt's seems like This Dating Is Not For Me Chai by Iamzealousman(op): 11:52pm On Oct 18, 2024
Na WA ooo
All young responsible ladies(20-30) are now engaged(in a relationship)


Every lady I talk aren't single. I usually find out they are in a relationship.

The only I would have dated and was interested in me have characters I can't tolerate!!!

Na WA ok
RomanceRe: Is It Morally Right To Date A Lady 9years Younger Than You As A Guy by Iamzealousman(op): 5:10pm On Oct 10, 2024
jUeLiZ:
As long as she is an adult, yes nothing is wrong with it...
She is just 20
RomanceIs It Morally Right To Date A Lady 9years Younger Than You As A Guy by Iamzealousman(op): 4:48pm On Oct 10, 2024
There is this girl that's caught my attention.... She is been showing some subtle greenlights. But I feel it's not morally right though I am single.
PoliticsRe: Day 3: Lagos Protesters Are Outside Again For #EndBadGovernance by Iamzealousman: 11:36am On Aug 03, 2024
SisterJolade:
Good. Tinubu must resign.
So Obi will be president
RomanceA Kind-hearted Person by Iamzealousman(op): 7:32am On Dec 23, 2022
Some of us here are not even looking to celebrate Christmas.

I am really broke as I dey.

Please a kind hearted person should help with any amount.

5842438012 FCMB
RomanceRe: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 10:58am On Oct 09, 2022
SyrusdeHansome:
There's no relationship between them. It's just a matter of girl frnd zoning a guy nd later playing on his emotion to conquer him
Yea
RomanceRe: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 7:22am On Oct 08, 2022
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RomanceRe: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 9:48am On Oct 07, 2022
detectivejones:
Its obvious the girl in question loves attention, starve her of it by ignoring. When she ask for help turn her down and claim busy, ignore her calls and messages. Just find somemthing to distract from having her time.
Screenshot this already
RomanceRe: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 7:29am On Oct 07, 2022
Sweetplum:
Relationship is give n take
As in
RomanceRe: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 8:55pm On Oct 06, 2022
minasu190:
She likes you too, she just wants you to try more harder!
I laugh when I read this.lolz
So I should focus all my life on her before she knows I am trying abi
RomanceRe: How Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 1:41pm On Oct 06, 2022
Lucrativress:
Go monosyllabic
grin
Thank me later
If she calls
Pick
And use one one word responses and keep your tone cool
Oh wow
Cool
I'm good
Oh fine
Don't ask about her, don't seem interested in knowing what's going on with her
Don't care

When next she asks for a favour
Say oh no
You're a bit busy at the moment but you'll hit her up first thing when you're done
Don't hit anything
Continue like that like
She'll either leave or you start being on her mind cause she becomes confused grin
He is here but not really here
Then if she doesn't talk to you for weeks
Out of the blues one day,chat her up with Hi
When she responds
Count 8-10 hours before responding
Then still go on with the monosyllables
I tried this early last year.

Around may last year she just text me that she misses me.
RomanceHow Can I Let Go Of This Manipulative Lady by Iamzealousman(op): 9:13am On Oct 06, 2022
For more than 2 years now. There is this lady that have been manipulating me emotionally.

She knows I love her. But she has rejected my approach.

She Wants to be communicative only when she makes the move for a conversation. And this conversation will only end in can you help me with this or that. I have no problem with helping(so long as it's not financially) of which she never ask for financial assistance tho.

So...early this year I approached her again she said she can't date me because I never said I love her. I was like so I have been play since? Etc.

I ensured that I didn't communicate with her and I let her be. But she now still calls again.

Most times when she call I don't pick etc.

I have not found another person yet but I know she doesn't love.

I want to move on from her so I can focus of myself
PoliticsRe: APC Woman Leader, Betta Edu Leads Women Solidarity Walk For Tinubu in Borno by Iamzealousman: 2:28pm On Sep 08, 2022
SHINJA:
Poverty...

No sensible individual will vote for tinubu...


God bless Southsouth and Southwest

One brothers


Curse be upon APC
Lol �
RomanceRe: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 2:33pm On Aug 30, 2022
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RomanceRe: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 5:54am On Aug 16, 2022
Jeromejnr:
Then how did you ask a girl out confidently on your earlier thread?
Lol. It was a mishap. They girl rejected me because I asked her out through text
RomanceRe: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 5:05am On Aug 16, 2022
Nozino:
Try learn when to use “Been” and “Being”
It's kinda intentional. I really want to it to be a past tense and not a part of me
RomanceRe: What Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 6:39pm On Aug 15, 2022
Adeling:
You're definitely an introvert that's for sure.

The fact that you're shy doesn't give you enough latitude to do the things you do. You need to work on that.

I'm a shy person my self and barely talk to people in real life. There're billionaires who are shy too and would do anything to avoid the crowd.

Turn your shyness to sth positive
But I am lost opportunities and relationships due to this
RomanceWhat Do I Stand To Gain From This Life As A Shy Person by Iamzealousman(op): 6:39am On Aug 13, 2022
The subject has been heating me up for a long long long time.

Been shy as made me like a sub human.

Been shy as taking a lot of opportunities from me. I have lost jobs, friends, potential relationships etc.

Been shy as made me a regular customer with addictions e.g watching porn and masterbation and sometimes i visit betting shops losing a whole lot of money for no reason oo. Just to ensure I overcome been bored

Been shy as made me unproductive because I dwell most time on the fact that I am shy hating myself for this and not doing the right things at the right time always procrastinating etc.

Been shy as made look like a bad man even tho I have good intentions.

Been shy as taken my relationship with God to the nearest minimum. I feel so distant!

Been shy as made me careless

Been shy as put me into debt

Been shy has made me broke.

Been shy as made me hate myself AND NOT MADE ME LEAVE UP TO MY FULL POTENTIALS

Been shy is BAD.

Been shy really is BAD.

How do I stop been shy and really change my life for good.

Guys please I need help.

I do not have any friends I am most times always on my own.

I have lost good job because of this
Like I said earlier I am in debt as a result of this.

It's really sad and depressing. Sometimes at the edge of this frustration I do silly thing and have the bad thoughts.
RomanceRe: Please Help !!!!i Am Extremely Shy!!!! by Iamzealousman: 1:25pm On Jul 11, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Lol I have met a guy that's actually too too shy for my liking, I couldn't date him when he asked me out. Am an introvert and also shy but kind of hot tempered and somehow harsh so most the guys I usually come across are cool headed guys but this one own dey excess he is not lively, doesn't talk and I became scared na so I leave am oooo. My point is too much of everything is bad op try and work on yourself go out make some friends pls.
You can go to him and get him to talk.
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 5:37pm On Feb 08, 2022
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RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 1:17pm On Feb 05, 2022
Qatar2022:
Quite that mission she will use you if you continue pressuring her
I have stopped
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 10:15am On Feb 05, 2022
InTheCloudySky:
All you've been doing is asking her out, while she has been declining.
Of course yes
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 4:31pm On Feb 04, 2022
jaxxy:
How old are u?
Lol
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 10:17am On Feb 04, 2022
I might not be giving her positive vibes
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op):
InTheCloudySky:
All you've been doing is asking her out, while she has been declining.
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 6:40am On Feb 04, 2022
Rastaramsey:
Damnnnn
You asked a girl out with chats lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
You are a pussy lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Even the pussy you asked out wanna ask God in prayers lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
You all are fools abeg
She's also a shy lady.


She's never a pussy. Your mama cld be.
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 11:20pm On Feb 03, 2022
Tmberwolf1:
You are a SIMP! You fell for the oldest trick in the book. The "you are immature for blocking me" trick. Want she wants is an admirer, a fan. If blocking her was your way of recaliberating your emotional meter, please do it without any apologies.
Hmmmm.
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 9:02pm On Feb 03, 2022
Freestainworld:
good, just follow her with I don care attitude, soonest she will be running after you, but meanwhile try and meet her in person, she may feel you are scared of her, reason for you asking her out through WhatsApp.
She might be with another man already.

Yea she feels so. She knows I am REAL shy guy
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op): 9:01pm On Feb 03, 2022
Freestainworld:
good, just follow her with I don care attitude, soonest she will be running after you, but meanwhile try and meet her in person, she may feel you are scared of her, reason for you asking her out through WhatsApp.
Hmm
RomanceRe: Is by Iamzealousman(op):
MrBrownJay1:
CONGRATULATION...."now", you are ready and able to seek for a female mate. dont blame this babe because she didnt want to date a man with misplaced priorities.
But she led me ON.

I never wanted to even communicate with her. Because I know myself. I really love her. That's why I distanced myself from her totally. Till she came back. Telling she misses me, Doing things I least expect

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