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duro4chang:Some of you seem to assume that everyone was raised with the same dysfunctional values and mentality. Let me make one thing clear: I was raised properly. I was taught to take full responsibility for my actions, inactions, words, and deeds. I DO NOT REGRET MY WORDS OR ACTIONS. Given the same circumstances and having made the same judgment, I would stand by my decisions and do the same things again. Nothing I said or did was without thought or consideration. I knew what I was saying, understood the implications, and was prepared to stand by my position. I have absolutely no regrets about my past actions or words. Unlike those who deny their own conduct, rewrite history, and desperately try to portray themselves as saints, I have the courage to own my decisions. When I make a mistake, I acknowledge it and accept responsibility. But taking responsibility does not mean I must regret every decision I have made simply because it offends someone or goes against popular opinion. I OWN MY WORDS. I OWN MY ACTIONS. AND I STAND BY MY CONVICTIONS. As for Nairaland, I have already left. I am simply waiting for my request for the deletion of my account and personal data to be addressed. I have said what I needed to say, and I have no intention of revisiting my decision. To those who remain, enjoy whatever is left of the platform. As for me, I have moved on. Goodbye! |
duro4chang:Calling something “not objective” simply because it does not fit your narrative or align with your personal views is a display of intellectual laziness. Neither you nor any of your keyboard warriors has been able to debunk a single one of the points you dismissed as “not objective.” That alone speaks volumes about your level of comprehension and reasoning. I have no interest in engaging with people who substitute baseless dismissals for logical arguments. I prefer discussions with people capable of critical thinking, sound reasoning, and intellectual honesty. I DO NOT make empty threats or issue idle warnings. When I say I’m done, I mean it! You and your fellow defenders can keep the platform. I have no interest in remaining where I am neither valued nor respected. This platform is simply not where someone like me belongs, and I have made up my mind to move on. |
I no longer care if you continue deleting my comments. That is the kind of moderation Nairaland has become known for, and I am done with this platform. My request is simple: permanently delete my account or clearly explain the procedure for doing so. I should not have to keep asking for something as straightforward as account deletion. I sincerely hope this matter will not require legal intervention before my request is taken seriously. Let me make my position absolutely clear: I have made up my mind, I no longer wish to remain on Nairaland, and I want my account deleted. @Seun @Moderators, please treat this as my formal and final request. I expect a clear response on how to proceed. |
kpankpangolo:I don’t fight with a pig. Fulfillment isn’t measured by the number of comments. |
I have been on this forum for a while, but I must confess that I am increasingly disappointed by what Nairaland has become. What was once a platform where people could exchange ideas, debate issues, and learn from one another is gradually becoming, in my opinion, a breeding ground for religious bigotry, tribalism, selective censorship, and double standards. One of my biggest concerns is the apparent imbalance in how religious discussions are handled. It is particularly disturbing that, from my experience, participating in discussions concerning Islam appears to come with restrictions or conditions, while discussions about Christianity, especially the Catholic Church, can be hijacked by people who make sweeping allegations, spread unverified claims, and promote religious prejudice with little apparent restraint. How can a platform claim to encourage open discussion when the rules appear to be applied differently depending on the religion being discussed? If restrictions are necessary to prevent religious provocation, they should apply equally to everyone. If people are allowed to question, criticise, or debate the beliefs and practices of one religion, the same standard should apply to every other religion. Fairness cannot be selective. Unfortunately, this concern is not limited to religious discussions. Over the years, Nairaland users have repeatedly raised complaints about alleged moderator bias, unjustified bans, deleted posts, inconsistent enforcement of forum rules, and the promotion of inflammatory topics over constructive discussions. Others have complained about tribal attacks, political partisanship, provocative headlines, and the apparent failure to hold certain users accountable for the same behaviour that gets others sanctioned. These are recurring complaints that deserve serious attention, not simply dismissal. There are also concerns about the quality of discussions on the platform. Too often, sensationalism, personal attacks, tribal rivalry, and religious antagonism seem to attract more attention than meaningful contributions. Rather than encouraging informed debate, some discussions degenerate into competitions over which ethnic group, religion, or political camp can insult the other most aggressively. What makes the situation even more disturbing is that an unscrupulous individual who appears to know very little about the Catholic faith was not only allowed to publish a post attacking the Church but also had the audacity to present numerous unverified claims about a religion he seemingly does not understand. (https://www.nairaland.com/8763705/why-onyaikens-suspension-governor-alia) There is a difference between genuine criticism based on facts and deliberately spreading allegations about a faith without sufficient knowledge or evidence. Yet, when such posts are allowed to circulate without adequate scrutiny, while discussions concerning other religious interests appear to face restrictions, it raises serious questions about the fairness and consistency of Nairaland’s moderation. If this is the standard Nairaland has chosen to subject itself to, then I must honestly admit that I no longer fit into the kind of community this platform appears to be becoming. I refuse to spend my time in an environment where religious prejudice can masquerade as informed discussion and where the rules of engagement seem to depend on whose faith is being discussed. I understand that no online forum can be completely free of bias, disagreement, or controversial opinions. Moderators are human, and mistakes can happen. However, the responsibility of those managing a platform is to ensure that rules are applied consistently, complaints are handled transparently, and no group feels that it enjoys special privileges while another is treated as a convenient target. I am not demanding that anyone agree with my opinions or that Christianity, Catholicism, or any other religion be shielded from legitimate criticism. Criticism is part of free expression. What I object to is the apparent double standard that allows legitimate criticism to become religious hostility, unverified allegations to be presented as facts, and discussions to become platforms for prejudice. A forum that accommodates criticism of every religion, ethnicity, and political group under the same rules can encourage understanding. A forum that appears to protect some interests while leaving others exposed to unchecked hostility risks losing the trust of its members. I have reached a point where I no longer find the experience worthwhile. I would rather spend my time in spaces where meaningful conversations, mutual respect, and fairness are valued than continue participating in an environment that increasingly leaves me frustrated and disappointed. Perhaps the management will reflect on these concerns and take them seriously. Nairaland has built a significant community over the years, but its long-term value depends not merely on the number of registered members or daily discussions, but also on the quality of conversations, the fairness of its moderation, and the trust it inspires among its users. @Seun and any moderator, please let me know how I can permanently delete my account. If account deletion is not available, kindly explain the procedure for deactivating it or having it removed. I have made my decision. I am done here. I wish everyone who genuinely seeks knowledge, meaningful discussion, and mutual respect all the best. I hope Nairaland can one day become the platform many of us believed it could be. |
seunmsg:It’s amazing how you shamelessly defend this government. So, Atiku’s promise to restore fuel subsidy has suddenly thrown you people into panic mode? The same subsidy you defended its removal over and over again is now becoming a problem because an opposition figure has proposed an alternative? Wasn’t this the same Tinubu whose government’s response to Nigerians’ suffering was essentially that there was little or nothing he could do? The statement commonly attributed to him was along the lines of, “How I wish there was something I could do, but there is nothing I can do.” But here is the real question: if the government now has options to intervene and cushion the impact of rising petrol prices, why did it take an opposition proposal to bring those options to the forefront? For millions of Nigerians, the consequences of subsidy removal have been devastating. Families have struggled with rising transport fares, food prices and the general cost of living. Yet, the government has repeatedly asked them to endure the hardship in the name of economic reforms. Now that a proposal to ease that hardship has emerged from the opposition, the government is suddenly explaining what can and cannot be done. So, was there genuinely no alternative, or were Nigerians simply expected to bear the pain while the government stood by? And if these interventions were possible all along, why did ordinary Nigerians have to endure so much hardship before the government began discussing them? The question is not whether Atiku’s proposal is perfect. The question is why affordable living conditions suddenly become a political priority only when an opposition figure proposes a solution. What a shame! |
Of course, I knew it was fake news. The real question is: how many more of these are we going to see before this man finally leaves office? At this point, this government has turned us all into part-time fact-checkers. Anytime we hear “the government says…” our first response is no longer “Really?” but “Let me verify that first.” We now have to fact-check the government before we can believe the government. Imagine the irony. |
Nigeria is a country of remarkable diversity. We have hundreds of ethnic groups, hundreds of languages, different traditions, religions, cuisines, music, and ways of life. Our diversity is one of the things that makes Nigeria unique. Sadly, we can also boast of another kind of diversity, diversity in crime. From corruption and embezzlement to kidnapping, banditry, fraud, cybercrime, electoral violence, oil theft, armed robbery, abuse of public office and fake products, Nigerians have witnessed an alarming variety of ways in which the law and the people can be violated. The painful irony is that while our cultural differences sometimes divide us, crime and bad governance have no tribe. They affect us all. Perhaps the Nigeria we should be building is one where our diversity is celebrated in our culture, creativity, innovation and humanity, not in the different ways we exploit one another. Independence should mean more than remembering when the British left. It should also mean asking ourselves whether we are truly building the kind of country our independence was meant to create. Happy Independence Day, Nigeria. May the Nigeria of our dreams become the Nigeria we collectively build. |
mycar:I agree with you 100%. I have said this repeatedly: the massive increase in fuel prices is not solely a consequence of subsidy removal; the sharp depreciation and floating of the naira have played a major role. If the dollar had remained around ₦500, I find it difficult to see how petrol would be selling for anything close to today’s price, certainly not the current levels. But here is the irony: Tinubu would apparently rather risk losing the election than allow the naira to strengthen significantly, because the weak naira creates the illusion that state allocations have increased dramatically in nominal naira terms. That is the narrative being sold to the state governors. |
zenburster:Let’s stop pretending this kind of wickedness comes from nowhere. The family has to take a hard look at itself, especially the parents. A child who grows up seeing wickedness, cruelty and the deliberate destruction of other people’s lives treated as normal can easily grow into an adult who sees nothing wrong with doing the same. My children CANNOT and will NEVER be this wicked, because I know the values I am teaching them and the kind of people I am raising them to become. Charity begins at home and unfortunately, so does wickedness. If parents are the kind of people who can destroy another person’s life without remorse, manipulate others for their own benefit, or take pleasure in someone else’s suffering, they should not be surprised when their children begin to exhibit those same ugly behaviours. Children learn what they live. You cannot spend years feeding a child with wickedness, selfishness and a lack of empathy and then suddenly act shocked when the same poison comes out of them. This is why parenting matters. The character of a child is not built on social media or in school alone; it is built first and foremost at home. And honestly, looking at the kind of behaviour we see around us every day, I sometimes wonder whether Nigeria can ever truly get better when some homes are still producing people who have no regard for the lives, pain or dignity of others. |
$500,000 bribe? If this is all APC could traced to Atiku after 8yrs in office despite all the noise that is very corrupt, then Atiku is a saint. Can we see Tinubu’s book in Lagos from 1999 to 2007? |
MaziObinnaokija:And you expect this government to respond to “your” please? The same government that makes over 40% on every bag of cement sold? |
Richtaiwo:On the contrary, I find it rather insulting to waste my time responding to someone who sounds like a keyboard warrior whose only qualification is the ability to type confidently without understanding what he is typing. It is a complete waste of my valuable time. The Book of Proverbs, which is one of my favorite actually anticipated people like you. It says there are times when you should not answer a fuul, lest you descend to his level. But it also says there are times when you should answer him, lest his foolishness be mistaken for wisdom. I am responding to you for the latter reason. If you have a contrary opinion, make the argument. It is really not that difficult. You dragged up a completely different opinion I previously expressed about borrowing and somehow thought that was a rebuttal to this post about the government’s so-called revenue increase. That is not an argument. That is intellectual laziness. If you disagree with what I said about borrowing, address the borrowing argument. If you disagree with my position on revenue, address the revenue argument. If you think my figures are wrong, bring your own figures. Nobody is stopping you. And if your point is that you are questioning why a government is asking to borrow over $25 billion within three years after removing or substantially altering subsidies and imposing additional burdens across fuel, education, healthcare and virtually every sector Nigerians interact with, then by all means, make that argument. I will gladly respond. But don’t come under my post, pick an unrelated argument from something I wrote previously, throw it into the conversation and pretend you have dismantled anything. You haven’t. You have merely demonstrated that you don’t understand the difference between an argument and a distraction. This particular post is about the illusion being packaged and celebrated as an increase in revenue. If you disagree, tell us precisely what is wrong with the argument. Not vibes. Not insults. Not recycled talking points. Facts. Figures. Analysis. Otherwise, kindly spare me the keyboard gymnastics. I have better things to do with my time than give free remedial lessons in basic reasoning to someone who came to the conversation without an argument in the first place. |
showboy2301:I agree with you on one point: at least you got that part right. As for the rest, you seem to have confused encountering someone on social media with knowing their circumstances, background, achievements, or intellectual capacity. You said, “I hate being a Nigerian.” Of course you’re right. I hate being a Nigerian because of people like you.” Sharing the same country with people who reason at this level can indeed be frustrating. I may have had no choice in being born in this country you seem so proud of, but I certainly have a choice about the kind of people and mentality I want my next generations to associate with. I have no intention of leaving them to share the same space with people like you. As for the second part, you who told you that I don’t have things working for me? That assumption is precisely the kind of shallow thinking I have no interest in associating with. The fact that you encountered someone on social media does not mean you know their circumstances, achievements, social standing, intellectual capacity, or anything else about their life. Access to someone’s comment section does not put you in the same social circle, social position, or intellectual league as that person. That is one distinction you people repeatedly fail to understand. I actually find it amusing that you chose to attack my intelligence while I am the one trained and experienced in the very profession that requires critical thinking, research, analysis and the ability to interrogate information. Being a journalist is a noble profession. But if your level of understanding and intelligence is this abysmally low, I guess you would need a refund from your school, if at all you went. Next time, address my comment with substance. Bring facts, evidence and a coherent argument. If you cannot do that, then spare me the personal assumptions and performative outrage. Learn how to address comment with substance not just barking like a dog. |
SamuelLoch:I agree with you 100%. The issue was never simply whether the money was available. It was about priorities and how each government chose to deploy the resources available to it. Take Osun State as a case study. Under the previous APC administrations, workers experienced situations where salaries were delayed and, at some point, the government resorted to paying half salaries. Yet when the political leadership changed, the approach to workers’ welfare changed as well. When Adeleke came into office, his administration prioritized clearing inherited salary-related obligations and addressing outstanding promotions that had accumulated under the previous administrations. That alone should teach us an important lesson: the amount of money available to a government is only part of the story. What the government chooses to prioritize is equally important. What genuinely worries me, however, is how some people defend obvious failures simply because the person involved shares their tribe, religion, or political identity. At what point do we put competence and accountability above identity? Nigeria will not move forward if our loyalty to tribe and religion becomes stronger than our commitment to truth, good governance and results. Honestly, when I read some of these arguments, I just tire for this country. |
geoworldedu:I agree with you 100%. The issue was never simply whether the money was available. It was about priorities and how each government chose to deploy the resources available to it. Take Osun State as a case study. Under the previous APC administrations, workers experienced situations where salaries were delayed and, at some point, the government resorted to paying half salaries. Yet when the political leadership changed, the approach to workers’ welfare changed as well. When Adeleke came into office, his administration prioritized clearing inherited salary-related obligations and addressing outstanding promotions that had accumulated under the previous administrations. That alone should teach us an important lesson: the amount of money available to a government is only part of the story. What the government chooses to prioritize is equally important. What genuinely worries me, however, is how some people defend obvious failures simply because the person involved shares their tribe, religion, or political identity. At what point do we put competence and accountability above identity? Nigeria will not move forward if our loyalty to tribe and religion becomes stronger than our commitment to truth, good governance and results. Honestly, when I read some of these arguments, I just tire for this country. |
showboy2301:I’m also waiting for your comment before I will respond to the comment |
eazzzy1:The truth is, the government benefits from the removal of fuel subsidy and the people suffer. The politicians benefit from the floating of Naira and the workers are suffering from the policy. |
YouandiAllofus:I have been reading some of the comments here, and honestly, I am beginning to question the level of reasoning and economic understanding among many Nigerians. How can a country make progress when a significant number of its citizens are unwilling or unable to look beyond the surface of a headline figure? Someone sees a bigger allocation and immediately concludes that Nigeria is now doing better. But bigger numbers do not automatically mean greater wealth. A country cannot build sustainable progress on misunderstanding, poor reasoning and the inability to question what we are being told. We don’t have to agree politically. But at the very least, we should be able to ask basic economic questions before celebrating anything. No country can truly progress when its citizens stop questioning the numbers and start celebrating the illusion created by them. |
Richtaiwo:So this one believes that the removal of fuel subsidy is the reason their allocation has “increased”? Honestly, some people are being deceived by bigger looking numbers. Let’s ask the simple question: if the dollar returns to ₦500, do you think these allocations will remain at the same naira figures? Of course not. The Tinubu administration removed fuel subsidy, transferred a huge cost from government to ordinary Nigerians, and allowed the naira to depreciate significantly. Naturally, when government revenue is converted and shared in naira, the figures can become much larger. But a bigger naira allocation does not automatically mean more wealth. If you received ₦10 billion when the dollar was ₦500, and today you receive ₦20 billion when the dollar is ₦1,000, you haven’t necessarily become twice as rich. The real question is: what can that money buy? That is the illusion people need to understand. Fuel subsidy was removed. Petrol prices went up. Transport costs went up. Food prices went up. The purchasing power of Nigerians collapsed. And now we are being told to celebrate larger allocation figures? Please, don’t confuse inflation and currency depreciation with economic prosperity. I’m sure some of you would not still understand my point. Not because you can’t, but because tribal bigotry and religious sentiments would not allow your sense of reasoning to process the truth. |
helinues:No wonder you are supporting this government. Come to Nigeria and experience the hardship firsthand, I bet you wouldn’t last one month before you would change your mind |
AMINDA:Don’t mind these people. If we do a survey and ask them: fuel at N200 with queue and fuel at N1300 with no queue? I’m sure everybody would prefer N200 with queue. Even at N500 with queue |
Who told you I want to come back to this world again, especially Nigeria and Africa. Once I’m gone, nobody should pray that I should come back oh. |
ogascomax:Make it make sense! Tinubu has spent about ₦20.64 trillion in three years under the energy security expense and yet Nigerians are still buying fuel at over N1,300? Changing a name from subsidy to ESE doesn’t mean subsidy was actually gone in the real sense of it. The only difference is that the beneficiaries was changed. Are you even aware that this N20 trillion in 3yrs is far more than what Buhari government paid for subsidies in his entire tenure? |
Penguin2:Tinubu has spent about ₦20.64 trillion in three years under the energy security expense and yet Nigerians are still buying fuel at over N1,300? Changing a name from subsidy to "ESE" doesn’t mean subsidy was actually gone in the real sense of it. The only difference is that the beneficiaries was changed. Are you even aware that this N20 trillion in 3yrs is far more than what Buhari government paid for subsidies in his entire tenure? |
Thiefobi1:Make it make sense - Buhari’s 8 years cost Nigeria roughly ₦9–₦11 trillion in petrol subsidy, yet Nigerians were buying fuel for less than ₦150/litre. Tinubu’s government without subsidy has spent over ₦20 trillion for “energy security” and Nigerians are now buying petrol at around ₦1,300 per litre. |
casualobserver:The question is not where would Atiku fund the subsidy but how has Tinubu been able to spend about ₦20.64 trillion in three years under the energy security expense and yet Nigerians are still buying fuel at over N1,300? Changing a name from subsidy to ESE doesn’t mean subsidy was actually gone in the real sense of it. The only difference is that the beneficiaries was changed. Are you even aware that this N20 trillion in 3yrs is far more than what Buhari government paid for subsidies in his entire tenure? |

