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swiz123:
What intense football can you play with washed up men? Come and play football with niggas between 18 to 25 and see if they won’t rush you to hospital.

Come and play this one for 10 mins, let me see if you don't kpai. Doctors in the house will tell you what it means to burn 676 calories in 55 mins of 5-a-side football or play for 55 mins at average heart rate of 148 and max heart rate of 170. I be Ngolo Kante of Manchester

diggz:
You na SIMPle man.

afrodoc2:
Internet is telling me that Oshodi to Mangoro is 14km.

Swiz123 doesn't even know relative distances. Equating 14km to 3km shows that nigga don't do any exercise at all

swiz123:
What intense football can you play with washed up men? Come and play football with niggas between 18 to 25 and see if they won’t rush you to hospital.

Dey play. My Tuesday football is with 17 to 30 years old boys and I'm the 2nd fittest among that group. Monday football is 25 to 48 years old and I'm the fittest among that group.

Ihebu4chelsea:
Thanks so much, I have tried to get closer to her on so many occasions, but it feels totally strange. Also she's always making financial demands each time I get closer, the older is sick and needs all the financial help I could render at the moment but she still finds it difficult to ask me (though I don't even wait for her to ask). My mom's relatives are saying she has turned my attention to herself alone and they say all kinds of nasty things.

Any reconciliation that comes with billing, you should just forget it and move on

swiz123:
This argument doesn’t hold because overtime, our body weakens. Messi and Ronaldo mostly strolls all game now because that peak fitness is gone for good.

I am sure that Ibeme that won’t let us rest about how he walks the stretch of Sahara won’t survive 15 minutes of intense football.

I will be playing intense football tonight after trip to gym to lift weights shortly. The reason I stopped running on my lunch break and went back to walking is cos it started to affect my evening football performance, or sometimes I prefer a longer run in the evening and my lunch break running will cancel it.

Someone that can't walk 3km without HBP talking about intense football . You go just kpai for field

swiz123:
How is 3km a leisure stroll? Do you know how many people stand at the bus stop waiting for Keke and bus to carry them for similar distance?

If you are not trying to lose weight, what could possibly motivate you to walk 3km.

Nigga my lunch break every lunchtime is a 3.5km slow walk which lasts about 40 mins. I and many other colleagues do the same walk at lunchtime, both slim, fat, young and old. Today's own was 3.6km for 49 mins cos I was gisting on phone. 3km would take 35 mins at an easy pace. I don't understand how anyone under 75 years old would complain of a 3km walk.

swiz123:
I am simply judging from how I felt when I tried walking 3km and I am nothing close to obese. When I got home, my whole body ached and my heart beat increased.

Obese people struggle with any form of physical activity and I wonder how rapid their breathing will become if they tried that.

Later you will say you can play ball, yet can't walk 3km which is only about 35 minutes leisurely stroll

swiz123:
Obesity is dangerous and advising her to walk 10k steps will expose her to heart failure. Not assisting with small bills of edibles is less forgiving than leaving someone exposed to death because you think obesity isn’t way more dangerous than not having what to eat.

You are just trolling at this point

Kimbeast:
To my knowledge the pills are monthly. How did she plan to finance that regularly?

I think she mentioned that was 3 months supply or something, that the Hospital do 3 months supply. I wasn't listening properly TBH, I was still in shock

swiz123:
Why you dey vex?? Obesity is a serious issue and sometimes not their fault. You think it’s their fault they have a very slow metabolism?

Her metabolism is not her fault but I can't reconcile that in a country where people send you dozens of small bills looking for something to eat, another person will send huge bill for something to help them not to eat.

Ihebu4chelsea:
This is my own personal story,I am 30years old, and there is something I have been struggling with emotionally for a long time. I need the honest opinions of people here, especially those who have experienced something similar.

My biological mother abandoned me when I was just eight months old and left me in the care of an elderly woman who took me in and raised me as her own child. This woman had married my biological mother but could not have a child of her own, so she accepted the responsibility of raising me.

Today, I can confidently say that this woman gave me the love, care, and support that many people who grew up with their biological parents might never fully appreciate. She stood by me, did her best for me, and gave me a sense of belonging. Despite the challenges of life, I have never felt that she failed me in the role of a mother.

Unfortunately, she is now almost 100 years old.

My biological mother, who is still around 50, has recently been making efforts to reconnect with me. She wants to become a part of my life, and I honestly do not know how to handle the situation.

On one hand, people keep reminding me that she is the woman who gave birth to me and that I should not forget her simply because she abandoned me. On the other hand, I cannot easily erase the reality that she was absent during the years when I needed a mother the most.

The woman who actually raised me is the one who sacrificed for me, showed me love, and supported me through life. Even now, I am still hustling to establish myself financially, just like many other Nigerians, but I remain grateful for everything she has done for me.

Sometimes, I lie awake at night thinking about my biological mother, wondering what I should do and whether I am wrong for struggling to accept her back into my life.

My questions are these:

1. If you were in my position, would you forgive your biological mother after she abandoned you at just eight months old?


2. Does giving birth to a child automatically make someone more deserving of the title of mother than the person who actually raised that child?


3. Should I feel obligated to accept my biological mother simply because she gave birth to me, even though another woman made the sacrifices of motherhood?


4. Is it possible to forgive my biological mother without immediately accepting her as a mother in the same way I regard the woman who raised me?

You would at least speak to mumsie to understand what led to her absence, if only so it can stop playing on your mind.

Your mum was obviously only 20 when she had you.

The old lady you mentioned sound like my grandmum who adopted the children from almost every teenage pregnancy in the village.

Bombblacks:
These are gaslighting tactics to force children to forgive abusive parents. All what you have listed are cheap excuses. For a child to say he/she doesn't want this or that person to do that at wedding she must have a very good reason for it. Your child doesn't owe you anything if you haven't earned it or done anything to deserve it.

That the brother thinks he deserves the handover and has done handover for the other siblings without this issue coming up shows that it's probably an overreaction from his daughter. Divorce is a messy subject but no parent deserves to have their years of sacrifice for their children poopooed because they separated from their spouse. Without knowing the details, I will say her siblings have the right of it, and she has overreacted. Very often in modern society, we see young adults mad at their fathers for divorcing their mother. Some young adults don't forgive and can't separate his duties to them as a father from his duties to their mother as a husband, I know of a few instances.

Kimbeast:
You are overthinking things. Nobody thinks about or cares about those trivial things. At this rate, you will also ask him not to let her other kids visit her because they will remind him of Maguire doing unspeakable things to her in the bedroom.

Bro the Priest in a wedding gives a lecture/prayers about the sanctity and exclusivity of marriage, and you are having such sermon delivered by someone who has entered the holy of holies hundreds of times. Same priest will now finish with "and you may kiss the bride" in the same mouth. . . . where. . . .I am trying to avoid ban for saying what he has disposed in that mouth. . .. . Nah!

Kimbeast:
But this is not just an ordinary Ex. It's Tobey Maguire and they are reportedly still friends after the divorce so am not seeing the big deal. They are co parents so they will both be seeing each other alot and for their children seek it's good thing they still have a close relationship. Their children were also In attendance at the wedding. It's not a big deal.

No bro. It's a very big deal. Someone is joining you in holy matrimony that has done unspeakable things to your wife countless of times in the bedroom. That's a big violation bruv

GloriousGbola:
Ozempic cost like that

I don't even know. I started laughing as she was calling the number and told her to start walking 10k steps per day.

Bombblacks:
That your friend is mad. Who does he think he's is to invalidate her feelings and wishes. Just look at the audacity.

Leave matter abeg. I always tell my friends who have any beef with their parents to forgive immediately because God knows how many countless thousands of hours they have spent caring for you as a child, worried sick for your health etc.

When you become a parent and start spending those hours on your children, worried to death anytime they get ill etc, you will start to reason how parents who fell out with their children must have done all this same work only for children to stop speaking to them over a trivial matter

She was out of line for that stunt. And if she had sense, she would have asked her senior brother instead of her brother-in-law, and that one would have knocked sense back in her head.

Worst request I ever got from Nigeria is an obese relative asking for help to purchase Ozempic because her obesity is leading to health complications. She said the Ozempic is N1.6m and she has N600k of it. I was too shocked to even vex

raumdeuter:
This my friend grew up in extreme poverty too but now doing very well in the US, the moment he got to US, he dedicated his earnings and life to bring up his siblings. Paid for abroad masters in Canada, bought cars for them, setup different businesses for them, Gave Proof of Fund to UK, Paid for multiple IVFs etc And today they do not speak to each other anymore, because they believed he could have done more.
My friend says if he was never successful and they all remained on the same level, they would be friends and have a better relationship today


For full disclosure, An incident happened years ago

His dad while they were growing up, married a new wife and the kids never forgave him, so when one of the sisters was getting married, she decided that her dad must not be the one to hand her over, she will rather it be her elder sisters husband, My friend didn't know about this, So on the day of the event, he was shocked to see their father sitting at the backrow at the entrance to the hall, while his brother in-law was sitting as the father of bride seat. My friend being the first son insisted that you cannot humiliate their dad like that regardless of his faults and that the father must sit in his rightful position. He confronted the brother inlaw that you too be man, what will you feel if your daughter does that to you. He got his way and the father sat as the father of the bride. The bride was on the stage, couldnt come down to dispute the changes, fumed all day and after the event laid severe curses on this my friend. That was what caused the family crisis

The father is long dead but till today they dont speak anymore

That's a madness. With age you will come to realise that siblings are just extended family. What really matters is your children and help for siblings should never impede the progress of your children substantially.

Kimbeast:
Leave his father wealth. How much is the Geoffrey Ogunlesi worth? Probably less than $20M. He is marrying into money and influence. I am surprised she even took his last name.

His father has been a billionaire for donkey years and only has 2 children. I would be surprised if he is not worth 8 figures himself, and definitely would be a billionaire when all is said and done in the future.

Leave money talk, my main issue is not their disparity in age but the fact he allowed her ex husband to officiate the wedding. That's a violation blood!

Age is not the issue as she bore him a child this year therefore fulfilling the criteria for which you would want to marry a woman of child bearing age.

@ semid4lyfe

Please release ibime last post. Thanks

Tosin should not even dream of switching Nationality to play for SE with that useless PR he paid for

If he can pay for PR for those lies, he will easily pay bribe for first team shirt and remove Benjamin Fredricks as Basseys CB partner

Tosin should be prosecuted for the lamba he was serving and throwing Maresca under the bus.

We look forward to the Nationality switch of Arthur Okonkwo the Wrexham goalkeeper imminently. Tosin should getat

Na embarrassment this John Victor use sub himself

afrodoc2:
The government of Benin requested for help nah. The Nigerian forces were sent at their government's request to save them from unconstitutional change of government. Nothing controversial about this.

Nothing controversial at all. I don't know why David Hundeyin crowd are crying all over Twitter.

Yamal walk of shame

Santos kick-started both the 2nd and 3rd goals

Santos confidence up

Delap confidence up

Now we need Gittens to arrive as a Chelsea player in this game

Let's pepper them more please

I don't want to see Andrewbaba44 here again till Ramadan

It's a GOAAAAAALLLLL!!!

I think Neto was onside and this is a legit goal

VAR checking the goal

Neto offside

So happy with Santos performance