In other words, she loves the idea of you, but not you. When that thing about you is gone, there goes the love.

Blitzking:
A woman must love something in you b4 agreeing to marry you..you looks..your wealth...your knowledge...your dreams...your goal...your family...your profession...gbola...

DELTA DL 54

You don't have to be David Hundeyi to know what to do.

Chrisrare:
source?

This is front page fodder, na. Mynd44, justwise... Do the needful.

You're a lucky man, actually. And you should say those words more often to her now that you're married. It'll do wonders.

Kingluqman:
Yes my wife did said those words to me! Funniest part is that I truly love her too but don't fancy those "I love you" stuffs


E too heavy for my mouth.. I nor dey romantic kankan

My point, exactly.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Women can marry just for employment reasons, meaning she has few life options to break out from but can see marriage as that option. Yes a woman can marry you without having any feelings for you.

An uncomfortable truth, bro.

Karleb:
This is a very good question that most Nigerian men can't answer because they bought their woman.

I'm starting to think most Nigerian marriages are glorified situationships.

LordIsaac:
It doesn’t matter…and it will not matter after marriage!

E dey pain me too say naija crash out. As soon as they scored the second one, I stopped watching and switched the channel to movies. But it's also painful that, probably, most Nigerian men never heard their wives tell them "I love you " I bet you told her you loved her and she just smiled. Again, a woman can marry you and give you children without loving you
Doing wifey duties aren't necessarily a sign of love but if responsibility and obligation. I'm not saying if she says she loves you, then she automatically does, but would she even say those words to you? It matters, bro.

kabius:

See me see wahala, she said yes to your proposal and still went ahead and marry you even have kids for you. Is it till she say I love that you will know she does. After doing the aforementioned will it matter if she says it or not since she has already proved it. I no fit sout abeg Naija loose finals.

Actually, yes, a woman can marry you without loving you. But the question remains, did she say those words to you or not?
Osetigo. 😀

kabius:
See question na. Will she marry you if she hates you?

I suppose they never did, then.

ibinaboonline:
The woman you eventually married, did she ever tell you she loved you or is in love with you while you were courting? Did she ever say those words to you?

The woman you eventually married, did she ever tell you she loved you or is in love with you while you were courting? Did she ever say those words to you?

Never! If they do, they'll say Israel has no proof. No hamas fighter was found there. It's a data center for the school. Etc, etc

Tolumiide:
I'm waiting for Al-Jazeera to broadcast it

Osetigo. Commendable, though.

buharibanjo:


Source: https://dailypost.ng/2024/02/09/hardship-niger-gov-bans-bulk-sale-of-food-items-orders-confiscation-of-trucks-carrying-foodstuff/

You're indeed wandering.

gentleg87:
Am still wandering!

How the match killed them sha….

Nah today person Dey die 🤔

Even person wey die for sleep that Wednesday will be attributed to the match, that the excitement killed him while sleeping or so…

If before the the match; the report will be like the tension before the match raised his/her BP..

Good night to the lost souls!!!

And don’t forget that we all have our bus stops tooo

Chai. This is highly commendable of them. It's very sad, and I'm glad the Eagles made time to recognize those passionate fans.

Seriously? How did they know? Just for example, do you realize how many foreigners, including Southiws, that aren't just guests but registered Nairaland users? They read everything we bash our country for. They're on our Twitter space, etc.

MADIFF:
Generator as in we no dey get light? How did they know? Those nosy bastards_!

Well, entering Cotonou proper from seme is around an hour. Typically less.

Fiver:


How much long does it take from Seme to Cotonou

Are there taxis or just bikes

Bikes won't take you into Cotonou. Too far. Gotta be taxi. 1k cfar.

stay away from watching tension-soaked Super Eagles matches.

What are you talking about? The bolded above is bullshit. "Tension-soaked" events can happen anytime, anywhere, any day. It's just sad what happened. May his soul rest in peace and his family and friends be comforted.

Nope. Not even a stamp on my passport. I guess I'm being naive here. From Badagary to seme via taxi. From seme across the border via bike. Not even a question from an officer.

Fiver:


Hi
Did the officials charge you to pass the border?


Planning a weekend next month

Back to Nigeria

noskcid:

Are you back to Nigeria or you move go Togo 🇹🇬?

I really really really messed up for not taking photos. Cotonou is beautiful. At least, the areas I hung around. I especially took notice of the quality of most of the cars on the roads. Impressive. There's no Toyota worship going on there like in Nigeria. You have your modern Suzukis, Hyundai, Kia (especially Kia. Loved the EV6s I saw), MINI, etc. I know, I know, everything is not all about cars, but I'm a car guy🙂. So, I had a safe and interesting trip. Barring the language barrier, it's really nice.

noskcid:

Those white coaster bus is 200
All the same, I wish you safe journey
Update us with photos

Now in Badagary. Currently sitting in a taxi that's supposed to take me to seme. Driver says her fare is 1k. That I'll cross the border with 2k.

ibinaboonline:
I'm doing it right now. So far so good, but the prices are higher than you estimated. From Oshodi to Mike 2 is 400 naira. I'm currently in a bus headed for Badagary; the price is 1,500 naira. I'll keep you updated with the trip. 🙂

I'm doing it right now. So far so good, but the prices are higher than you estimated. From Oshodi to Mike 2 is 400 naira. I'm currently in a bus headed for Badagary; the price is 1,500 naira. I'll keep you updated with the trip. 🙂

noskcid:
From oshodi enter mile 2 #200
From mile 2 enter badagry 1k
From badagry enter Cotonou which I’m very sure won’t be more than 10k.
Hold your passport or NIN or voters card sha

For the record, in February 2023, my little brother bought a box of day-old broiler chicks for 25k. The box has 50 chicks. Plus an extra chick , sef. He was just experimenting with poultry farming and everything went well.

Okay.

By November, a box of the same day-old broiler chicks was selling for 47K. That's right. 47K. They said it's seasonal. Right.

As I type this, the price is now 43K, although some sell for 39K. Very nice.

You haven't even considered feed, medicine, etc. Interesting days ahead.

Ah, bless your heart. Thank you very much for this tip.

noskcid:
From oshodi enter mile 2 #200
From mile 2 enter badagry 1k
From badagry enter Cotonou which I’m very sure won’t be more than 10k.
Hold your passport or NIN or voters card sha

Oh dear. In that case, I suppose the airline refers to the broomstick or something.

Sirmwill:


"Aje" means "witch" 😁

I don't even know what all that means in the first place.

Sirmwill:



Me I don't do Aje stuffs ooo 😂

I am just recommending another way for you. They are "fast and reliable" 😏

May God bless kind hearted people with kindness.

Sirmwill:


Awwwn
Kind hearted enough to type
♥️

This I must do if my only other option is 70k from Lagos to Cotonou.

lady25:
From abeokuta got to Ilara(4,000) from ilara trek to the border or take bike(300) to the motor park and enter cotonou (15,000).

Airlines ke? I still dey complain say bus come cost, you sef dey recommend airline.

Sirmwill:
Aje airlines

Contact anyone from Edo
Especially from Esan

I just sent a message to a certain transport company inquiring about the bus fare from Jibowu to Cotonou? They replied with 70K with passport. I'm dumbfounded. Like, really? For a 3-hr trip. I've never been to Cotonou, but I didn't expect the fare to be this high. Any tips?