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ProgrammingRe: Why Are Backend Developers Paid More Than Frontend Developers? by ibkayee(f): 1:38pm On Jan 19, 2021
CSTRR:
Nerds like back-end. It is straight-forward.
A+B=C
Once you know A and B, you can get C.

In front-end, you have to think about how to arrange A,B, and C to get the best possible aethestics and functionality.

Front-end is harder abeg.
The little front end stuff I’ve done is very basic so maybe I just don’t have enough experience in this area

I have more experience with back end development and I found it more ‘heavy duty’, maybe the level of difficulty is situational I dunno
ProgrammingRe: Why Are Backend Developers Paid More Than Frontend Developers? by ibkayee(f): 1:25pm On Jan 19, 2021
I don’t think front end is necessarily easy, it no longer mainly comprises of just HTML and CSS like the yesteryears but I was always under the impression that back end work was ‘harder’ than front end
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 10:56am On Jan 19, 2021
bukatyne:
@bold: Nobody is stopping any woman from practicing polyandry.

All she needs are willing participants.

Now I think of it, the proverb 'what is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander' does not always ring true.

Except if that's not the full proverb and we have been misusing it like 'blood is thicker than water'.
I don't know the details of where polyandry is legal, where it's practiced, stats, how it would work, who is stopping who etc. I only brought it up to make my little point

Lol well I am applying it to this situation, just my opinion
PhonesRe: Today Is NIN-SIM Linking jDeadline; Have You Done Yours? by ibkayee(f): 10:23am On Jan 19, 2021
sod09:
No time jare....saliva is now expensive to be wasted grin grin
grin
PhonesRe: Today Is NIN-SIM Linking jDeadline; Have You Done Yours? by ibkayee(f): 10:18am On Jan 19, 2021
sod09:
Lmao that shiit right there, i dan hang up taytay
Me that i don't like talking much
Buahaha me too

I prefer text sef
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 10:07am On Jan 19, 2021
WiLdFLame:
I’m not replying any of those shitty questions you’ve down there..you’re mischievous. Go back to where you belong.
Lmao
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 10:00am On Jan 19, 2021
WiLdFLame:
I’m not the usual polygamy enthusiasts, I’m just stating the reality instead of we all pretending. We all pretend way too much. We can easily share the idea of polygamy with a woman, is there anything like unconditional love. No one gets married cos of “love” illusion anymore maybe in our forebear did. People marry for what they can gain in marriage now and this is number. The issue is people understanding loyalty even in a polygamy. Tuning it down to what could best work for us this current dispensation.
I agree that some people get married for other reasons other than love and that's fine in my opinion. Like I said, I don't see an issue with polygamy as long as these conditions are met:

By the way, I actually think our 'fore-bearers' got married for 'love' less than nowadays. But I digress, if you can stick to this list have at your polygamy grin

Don’t see anything wrong with if all participants are consenting and there’s no FORCED weird, oppressive, perverse power imbalance that ends up benefiting only the guy.

If you can find willing people without having to go about it in a problematic way e.g. threatening, coercion, springing the idea on your partner (who was given the impression by you that they would be in a monogamous union) randomly one day

If you can somehow manage it in a practical, FAIR (whatever fair is from ALL the participants’ viewpoint) way to work with all the laws/legal frameworks associated (assuming you're in a place where it's legal) for ALL parties involved and also consented to by ALL parties involved

But if you can't guarantee ALL of this then please leave pOlYgAmY alone
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 9:51am On Jan 19, 2021
bukatyne:
Men and women are different:

Polyandry is the shortest end of the stick.

Imagine a woman having a child in polygamy, snapping back and having time to live baby girl life after mastering the act of winning Oga over to her side

Versus

A woman having five children for five husbands, caring for them, providing for them, sharing her attention in addition to child care then having sex with them.

It is a nightmare.
undecided
Let's be honest. When men think about polyandry this is not where their mind is going, they only care that the woman should not be able enjoy multiple men otherwise she's an ashawo, immoral etc bla bla bla, they aren't thinking of the 'mechanics' of it like this.

That's why I brought it up to see if he was just another one of those who only likes the concept of multiple spouses when it benefits the guy

No matter how much it is a 'nightmare', let the woman decide. What's good for the goose should be good for the gander
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 9:31am On Jan 19, 2021
iamyemiakins:
Lol,
Have you been sleeping since Christmas and just woke up to post this?
Lol I was just being silly
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 9:29am On Jan 19, 2021
bukatyne:
The very arrangement of polygamy benefits the man.

The women are competing for the man's resources: attention, time, money, sex, influence etc. etc.

Polygamy cannot be 'FAIR' to women.

However, a woman's needs to have her man's resources to herself might be less than her reason for joining a polygamous marriage.
Yeah I know it isn't a realistic achievement, I said it intentionally. The point of most of what I listed was for OP to come to terms with how impractical it is since he just sounded like one of the usual self serving polygamy enthusiasts

But then I also added this point "(whatever fair is from ALL the participants’ viewpoint)" to account for the unconventional people who aren't necessarily after conventional things from the marriage, in their cases 'fair' will be more subjective
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 9:11am On Jan 19, 2021
WiLdFLame:
Your slight support to mindlog narrative gave you out. You’re here prolly fronting polygamy marriage is bad cos the western shit and religion told you that. You never did your own research, rebrand it and make It work.
I supported the fact that she/he said your stats on population size were questionable.

What has that got to do with everything else I said?
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 8:58am On Jan 19, 2021
WiLdFLame:
Polygamy is fun!! You’ve two or more female to please you and carry out your fantasy which might be having both or everyone of them make out with each other; it’s a fact that only women knows how to best to please themselves. Everyone is satisfied at this threshold, other things being equal. You guys have no concrete argument to reason why Polygamy is bad!!
But I didn't say Polygamy was bad

I actually said I don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's done a certain way
TravelRe: Calabar's Monorail Shows A Glimpse Of Nigeria's Intracity Public Transit System by ibkayee(f): 8:47am On Jan 19, 2021
Nigeria celebrating mediocrity and basic amenities in the 21st century again, oh wow a choo choo train

Has it been implemented yet or these are just the designs?

Some of those pictures are giving me anxiety
PhonesRe: Today Is NIN-SIM Linking jDeadline; Have You Done Yours? by ibkayee(f): 7:25am On Jan 19, 2021
sad

FamilyRe: Nigerian Married Women Are The Higher Cheater In The World. by ibkayee(f): 5:07am On Jan 19, 2021
Reussite:
That's not fair sad
Not you obviously dearest one
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f): 4:53am On Jan 19, 2021
Mindlog:
Enough of this misrepresentation on the population of women to men.

OP, please post the link to any United Nations or any other globally recognized institution's data on population distribution that shows the total female population is 4 times of men (80% to 20%) because imaginary statistics is FAKE NEWS!

Even the 2006 census proves otherwise. Going by your statistics of 4:1, if Nigeria's present population is 200 million it then means we now have 160 million female to 40 million males.......such faulty reasoning! angry

Misuse of statistics is needed to push narratives that are not evidenced based.
aroundtheearth:
1. God created Adam and Eve; not Adam, Eve, and Yves.

2. Your claim that, "demographic statistics, population had shown the population of women are 4x higher than the men’s population" is totally false. There are more men out there than there are women in the world, and Nigeria is no exception.
They will cling to those beer parlour statistics till the end of time lol don’t mind them
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 4:31am On Jan 19, 2021
FamilyRe: I think Polygamy Is The Best Form Of Marriage by ibkayee(f):
What of polyandry?

Anyway let me just stick to what you've said:

Don’t see anything wrong with if all participants are consenting and there’s no FORCED weird, oppressive, perverse power imbalance that ends up benefiting only the guy.

If you can find willing people without having to go about it in a problematic way e.g. threatening, coercion, springing the idea on your partner (who was given the impression by you that they would be in a monogamous union) randomly one day

If you can somehow manage it in a practical, FAIR (whatever fair is from ALL the participants’ viewpoint) way to work with all the laws/legal frameworks associated (assuming you're in a place where it's legal) for ALL parties involved and also consented to by ALL parties involved

But if you can't guarantee ALL of this then please leave pOlYgAmY alone
FamilyRe: Nigerian Married Women Are The Higher Cheater In The World. by ibkayee(f): 3:34am On Jan 19, 2021
FRlDAYODEH:
is it not same you that my friend bleeped and says your kpekus dey smell? or is it another ibkayeehuh
No it was definitely me lmao clown
FamilyRe: Nigerian Married Women Are The Higher Cheater In The World. by ibkayee(f): 9:09pm On Jan 18, 2021
Odunharry:
Really??
mariahAngel:
Huh!
How dare you!? grin
Acidosis:
Wow
bukatyne:
shocked

Toor!
Lol I'm kidding I'm kidding (sort of)

I don't think the good ones should suffer because of the bad ones, I feel this way towards the 'bad', but I was just trolling a bit
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 9:05pm On Jan 18, 2021
wonlasewonimi:
I'm glad you liked it...it's a typical useless naija song but very addictive especially the 'aktivated sessions'

Finally, someone understands my signature lmao.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RFX9cruEfoo&ab_channel=AktivatedTV

and she killed it...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOvO2baPmzs&ab_channel=NaijaJamzz
Haha I've gotten used to typical useless naija songs, as long as the beat is good I can manage lol

Thanks for the videos! smiley

Yeah she killed it
CelebritiesRe: Bianca Ojukwu After Winning MBGN In 1988 Vs Now In 2021 (Pictures) by ibkayee(f): 10:01am On Jan 18, 2021
Kriss216:
Bride price for slim girls shouldn't be the same with other girls. Buhari should look into this.



God bless all slim girls!
SCREAMING

Lmao behave

@Op
Stunning woman
FamilyRe: Nigerian Married Women Are The Higher Cheater In The World. by ibkayee(f): 8:01am On Jan 18, 2021
Cheating on a Nigerian man is an honourable thing in my eyes
FamilyRe: What Are We Doing Wrong? by ibkayee(f): 7:58am On Jan 18, 2021
Evolved ideologies, more options and choices (for women particularly) etc.

I see people romanticising past marriages a lot but I'd argue that they were more like business contracts than nowadays

By the way a 'longer' lasting marriage isn't necessarily proof that it is 'stable'

I'm not against divorce at all if it's the healthiest option. Peace of mind trumps all
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 7:43am On Jan 18, 2021
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by ibkayee(f): 7:40am On Jan 18, 2021
stonemind:
-0.5/10
For real? Lol I'm not even usually interested in shows like this on a normal day but I thought it was decent, though I didn't finish it
FamilyRe: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 7:37am On Jan 18, 2021
Merry Christmas everyone
PoliticsRe: Senate Kicks As Petroleum Ministry Spends ₦98.4 Million On Flyers by ibkayee(f): 7:36am On Jan 18, 2021
What makes the lies even worse is that they don't even rate Nigerians enough to bother being creative/realistic lool
Foreign AffairsRe: US Vows Action Against Election Riggers In Uganda by ibkayee(f): 7:31am On Jan 18, 2021
I don't trust anything the West do for Africa
Foreign AffairsRe: Africa’s Longest Serving Presidents by ibkayee(f): 7:24am On Jan 18, 2021
Before some of us were even born undecided

And it's not even like at the end of these long tenures they will do much of anything substantial to improve the country undecided
Music/RadioRe: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by ibkayee(f): 7:04am On Jan 18, 2021
wonlasewonimi:
If you like this then you will like kpk - Mohbad Ft rexxie. Addictive asf
Jam!

Thank you for introducing me to this, I like it A LOT smiley

P.s. I just caught a glimpse of your signature and I legit howled in laughter

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