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Zzor:
you want to carry a load bigger than you,go on but be prepared for the outcome.You better wake up,don't come and add your own to the increased number of divorce rate.

I don't pray for divorce but if need be I'll go for it. Can't die before my time.

XXXXTENTACION:
Bad advice


women can play jokes at times and its left for you to either take it serious or take it as what it is.



marriage and tolerance is like 5 and 6


if can't learn to tolerate people then you are not yet ready for marriage.

Nobody is perfect everybody has flaws and errors you just have to pick what suits you.

True. I can actually tell she loves me.
Like today I have not spoken to her since morning cos she offended me but she still dished my food, we ate together no talking but she still calls the usual 'honey', heat water for my bath and tea. But I didn't talk since morning. She's sleeping soundly beside me right now

Bennysam:
Run before it's too late, a woman that love you can't use those word , I'm telling you

And she's not far from crying. I remembered she offended one time and I threatened to break up, come see cry that day. I even pity her that day

Collinsemegreat:
Though she's a little older but am not looking at that, I just want to settle down this year


A likely cause...


don't rush pray about it and listen to God

Thanks

Sometimes marriage need to be by force.
She may be a blessing later on.

Greetings, It's been a while.
Recently met a lady and having my mind fix on marrying her not more than this year, no time anymore. She claims she loves me but am not convinced because she sometimes uses disrespectful words on me like : 'this boy self', 'where is your sense', 'its not my duty to wash your clothes'. I have warned her against using such words as I never even bother to impose my house choirs on her. Even before meeting her I normally take my clothes for laundry and I don't cook, I eat out and my room is always clean cos I give the keys to my neighbor who's my friend to relax whenever he feels like, he's the landlord's brother. Every month I give her money for food and her personal stuff though she earns hers as well.
Am cool with her hard-working and neatness but she undermines me even though am the one providing for us.
Am just thinking what if am not capable that means she'll do worst right?
Though she's a little older but am not looking at that, I just want to settle down this year.
Thanks

I don't know why a post with tribal debate should be made to grace fp. Such post adds nothing to our life rather it brings resentment.
Mods should know this.

Good day fellow nlders.
I've read how some good advice has helped a lot of folks here. I know I can pick one or two of same here.
I met this lady during my service year which I completed at a state in the north. Though she grew up in the northwestern part she's from somewhere down south. I am from the north central part of this country.
She was the only bae I had during service, we even lived together 3 months to our passing out. She's matured, womanly and beautiful. I never thought our relationship would extend beyond our service days. To me it was for the fun. All through the months I always remind her that she's due for marriage and if there's any reasonable suitor she should'not hesitate to embrace. Though she always profess her love for me but we never settled it to be together. After our service year she went back to her parents where she's managing somewhere in a hospital and I also am building my life with a power sector. Its been 2 years now after our service. I stopped talking to her all through last year due to the fact that I wanted her to forget me and be focus. But she keeps calling, texting and even said she's seeing me in her dreams and prophetically am her husband. I for one have not thought of settling down soon, not for the 3 or 4 years. I didn't want to keep her waiting for me because she's matured already. I have used a girl I had a fling with to come between us. They always quarrel on chats. But still, this lady want me as her husband. She knows I have had sexual affairs because she's prophetic in nature, but she still loves me and texts me. She told me other rich guys have come to her for marriage but God said am the one. And I've not really checked the prophetic realm to know if she's for me. My fear is not to waste her time. Pls I need your advice. Thanks