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Leiylau:
it's simple as explained by ma'am in charge overhere.


Those without Religion in their mind [brains ] tend to dream of jumping skyscrapers and mountains which sisterfir said is teleporting and on the other hand those with Religion dreams always when they descend lower even in grave during Attacks in their various dreams . When you are little u have no Religion in ur head that's y u are superman in dream .

Well said, though now I wouldn't say I'm religious because I just do religious things because of my family. I remember one year I avoided church for more than a year

Sojourner2000:
Welcome here fam.
About your dream, I have been having similar dreams for a long while where there seems to be danger or monsters around and in my efforts to escape them I climb up or reach for the tallest height of a building. Sometimes, though I am not being chased at all I still find myself avoiding low grounds.

I believe your inner self seeks freedom from conditionings and programmings because you are in some way not just a regular guy. It's an indication that your soul needs freedom from a lot of craps that you have been so accustomed to

Yes. I also avoid low grounds and was fun back then. But I've lost this ability now. Though not being chased anymore.
Thanks for your reply

[quote author=SisterFire post=114214154]So u are part of those unknown guest



OK, when I saw you in my dream I just knew it was you. Same description.

Yes, the attack was in the dream. About 7 years ago. Just like your example, Chichi was my ex who snatched me from Amaka. Amaka is the religious type.



OK, Sojourner2000 is also trying in this regard to pen down his experience



. True talk and thanks for the explanation.

I have been following this thread for some time now. Its expository and eye opening. I can relate to it too because I feel there is so much more left unexplained in religion however it is.
I dreamt of you Sisterfire. I don't know you nor have I met you before. But in that dream you're tall and light skinned and slim. I saw three ladies. My wife, my ex and you. In the dream I was with my wife then my ex came around, I moved towards her leaving my wife. This my ex has some should I say ogbanje? She's not so religious and she has attacked one of my girlfriend back then about 7yrs ago. She actually fought her way into my life because she loved me and wanted us to get married. This my ex according to my girlfriend then attacked her in the dream and drained her blood. She woke up and became sick immediately for weeks. She sworn not to have anything to do with me anymore. The thing is, I also loved this my ex and started dating her after my girlfriend was scared off. Back to the dream: I saw her and was glad in my dream, I moved towards her and stood by her side. My wife was staring at me then you came around also at that instant. When I saw you I knew it was you Sisterfire. I left my ex and moved towards you. It seems I went towards where I can have peace in that dream.
I woke and couldn't remember more details in the dream. I don't know what to make of the dream.

Another one, when I was younger I see myself jumping so high over obstacles and jumping to fly to avoid being caught by monsters or people chasing me. As I grow older, I lost that but no more being chased in the dream.
I also have the ability of continuing from a dream I had dreamt maybe the previous night if I am not pleased with the previous outcome I can either go back to sleep to correct the situation or wait till the next night to take revenge. That also I'm beginning to loose it.

I come from a religious home and there was a time I really devoted myself to Jesus and his teachings. I would go into the wilderness as early as 6am to read the Bible and pray. But I noticed this anger and resentment towards the person of Jesus. I became afraid what's wrong with me. Weather in normal or not. Why should I be hating Jesuse I actually forced myself to love him but deep down I don't regard him.

With all these I've said, what do you think is going on with me. How do I trace my path to reach this state of awareness.
Thanks

Kriss216:
If this is her only offence, then, I think you're been insecured and unnecessarily naive.

Whenever we are having a discussion she always have a way of bringing him in the picture.
I personally ask her to block the guy on her phone that got missing. Now I got her another phone. She keeps watching the guy's status, and even replied his chat.
This was the same person we blocked.
What height of insult is that?

A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Darius990BC:
Tell her u don't like those jokes. If she no gree comot body. I wonder why nice men of nowadays like getting trampled on by some desperately unworthy women just because their brains are being clouded by emotions. Be logical for once and see how unwell she mean for you

Actually she wants the Best for me. From the way she carry herself anytime we're walking to things she buys for the house though it's my money not like she's spending hers. But I can tell she mean well

Zzor:
you want to carry a load bigger than you,go on but be prepared for the outcome.You better wake up,don't come and add your own to the increased number of divorce rate.

I don't pray for divorce but if need be I'll go for it. Can't die before my time.

XXXXTENTACION:
Bad advice


women can play jokes at times and its left for you to either take it serious or take it as what it is.



marriage and tolerance is like 5 and 6


if can't learn to tolerate people then you are not yet ready for marriage.

Nobody is perfect everybody has flaws and errors you just have to pick what suits you.

True. I can actually tell she loves me.
Like today I have not spoken to her since morning cos she offended me but she still dished my food, we ate together no talking but she still calls the usual 'honey', heat water for my bath and tea. But I didn't talk since morning. She's sleeping soundly beside me right now

Bennysam:
Run before it's too late, a woman that love you can't use those word , I'm telling you

And she's not far from crying. I remembered she offended one time and I threatened to break up, come see cry that day. I even pity her that day

Collinsemegreat:
Though she's a little older but am not looking at that, I just want to settle down this year


A likely cause...


don't rush pray about it and listen to God

Thanks

Sometimes marriage need to be by force.
She may be a blessing later on.

Greetings, It's been a while.
Recently met a lady and having my mind fix on marrying her not more than this year, no time anymore. She claims she loves me but am not convinced because she sometimes uses disrespectful words on me like : 'this boy self', 'where is your sense', 'its not my duty to wash your clothes'. I have warned her against using such words as I never even bother to impose my house choirs on her. Even before meeting her I normally take my clothes for laundry and I don't cook, I eat out and my room is always clean cos I give the keys to my neighbor who's my friend to relax whenever he feels like, he's the landlord's brother. Every month I give her money for food and her personal stuff though she earns hers as well.
Am cool with her hard-working and neatness but she undermines me even though am the one providing for us.
Am just thinking what if am not capable that means she'll do worst right?
Though she's a little older but am not looking at that, I just want to settle down this year.
Thanks

I don't know why a post with tribal debate should be made to grace fp. Such post adds nothing to our life rather it brings resentment.
Mods should know this.

Good day fellow nlders.
I've read how some good advice has helped a lot of folks here. I know I can pick one or two of same here.
I met this lady during my service year which I completed at a state in the north. Though she grew up in the northwestern part she's from somewhere down south. I am from the north central part of this country.
She was the only bae I had during service, we even lived together 3 months to our passing out. She's matured, womanly and beautiful. I never thought our relationship would extend beyond our service days. To me it was for the fun. All through the months I always remind her that she's due for marriage and if there's any reasonable suitor she should'not hesitate to embrace. Though she always profess her love for me but we never settled it to be together. After our service year she went back to her parents where she's managing somewhere in a hospital and I also am building my life with a power sector. Its been 2 years now after our service. I stopped talking to her all through last year due to the fact that I wanted her to forget me and be focus. But she keeps calling, texting and even said she's seeing me in her dreams and prophetically am her husband. I for one have not thought of settling down soon, not for the 3 or 4 years. I didn't want to keep her waiting for me because she's matured already. I have used a girl I had a fling with to come between us. They always quarrel on chats. But still, this lady want me as her husband. She knows I have had sexual affairs because she's prophetic in nature, but she still loves me and texts me. She told me other rich guys have come to her for marriage but God said am the one. And I've not really checked the prophetic realm to know if she's for me. My fear is not to waste her time. Pls I need your advice. Thanks