Kobojunkie: The boy in the video is likely saying all of those things to his mother because the mother covered her husband's shame with lies that he is a providing father. Yes, tradition and religion do not mind telling women to lie through their teeth to their own children in the name of covering the husband's shame. 🥱🥱🥱
Does the boy look like an slowpoke to you? He does not know the difference between who provides and who is being covered right?
correctguy101: No na bros... This is not what you're thinking about...
Most of us adults would choose our mothers first. Even us males....
That's a fact brother....
But what this ancestor is commenting about is the way a descendant of mine would talk to his own mother. Even if he's saying the truth, I go still deal with the insolent descendant.
No descendant of mine is allowed to be that way with a woman this ancestor chose to birth them..
Its that simple to me
I get your point, I am not disputing your point. The boy is rude and insolent. And everyone is right to call him out. My point which you need to look at outside of the valid point you just made is that, of the father is in the position of the mother, majority of women will say the man deserve the treatment cos he couldn't pay fees.
correctguy101: No descendant of mine would dare treat my woman like that.
Even if I do everything, how e come use concern am? When me and my woman started whatever it is we had, was the silly kid there to know what his old man agreed to live with?
I once had a woman I simply wanted to be at home for me, she refused but I insisted and we later had a compromise. She was managing a business instead...
My child no go fit get the mind as I no dey use the women in my circle play with anybody.
See the way men are defending the integrity and respect of the mother. Let's flip the page, let's assume the child is saying the same thing about his father. No woman will condemn the boy or demand respect from him to his father. Infact, they will hail him that he has done the right thing to his irresponsible father who couldn't pay school fee.
Kobojunkie: Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?
I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.
That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.
surgical: Chagoury the man that hold his purse lives there, the man they sold lagos state owned thriving hotel, the eko Hotel, to, the man that owns hitec that builds and toll lekki Road the man in charge of eko Atlantic, the man awarded coastal road worth trillions of naira without bidding or due process, all courtesy of Tinubu The same Chagoury was sent away from Nigeria by obasanjo because of his very corrupt tendency All I can say about Tinubu is he has audacity ,he can get away with blue murder, he understands this country like the back of his hands
givedemwotowoto: Watch Venezuela become the Libya of South America? What do you think Venezuela is currently? The US of South America? An oil rich country with over 80% of its citizens in extreme poverty and facing high insecurity, with many refugees in other countries?
And bombing Venezuela will suddenly make the 80 percent rich? The Cho Cho Cho anything America does is good is a is not a general mentality, so get used to seeing people not viewing US as a messiah
And in the end Libya was not better for it, infact it was worse. Part of the aftermath is the terrorism, banditry and armed conflicts being witnessed by West Africa, especially Nigeria. Now, Trump said, we we rule Venezuela till transition is done, we will sell Venezuela oil, doesn't that already tell you the motives? Watch Venezuela become the Libya of South America, the field is now open for the armed drug cartels to operate and even send drugs to the US more. Guerilla warfare has just started, Venezuela is going down although many American soldiers and officials will go down with it as the cartels now have free hands to operate.
seunmsg: Exactly how Libyans all over the world were said to have celebrated the day Gadaffi was killed. We’ve seen this script play over and over again.
Samantha125: I'd store the food in the fridge and eat them later on, and since he wouldn't want my food, I'd start cooking only for me and the children while occasionally taking them to eat out...
Prepare to leave the house. Cos his lawyers would serve you soon
As much as this unplanned or terribly executed borrowing for no just or developmental reasons should be vehemently rejected, where was these Northern elder when Buhari was borrowing even from mad man on the street?
Now to the main matter, all these nonsense borrowing needs to stop. Where is subsidy money going into? What is the essence of the huge taxes of you still gonna borrow heavily?
shortgun: Exactly, especially the ekumeku war that lasted for over 31 years from 1881 to 1914 with the British army where they lost many soldiers and officers to Igbo warriors. The British empire swore never to ever forgive the Igbo for daring to stand up against the British empire.
This is why every Igbo person anywhere in the world carry themselves with pride and honor. Our ancestors fought subjugation, humiliation and enslavement when others submitted easily.
GloriousGbola: Well, people use the word hotel very erm freely.
I had to stay at a hotel/lodging in ikota at short notice. One night and I did not plan on spending anything big. I immediately tagged the place we got as a short time hotel/yahoo boy haven . Yes the room was clean. But it is what it is.
I spent some years in the field and sometimes you have not booked hotel ahead of time, or one time I was in Kaduna and there was NBA conference and every hotel was booked to the brim.
The place I eventually found I did not even bother to UnCloth. Na to sleep with both eyes open till dawn.
bigfoot79: The fact that you no longer work with a company does not extinguish your obligation to maintain the confidentiality of its private information. Any disclosure of internal matters to third parties—whether through conversations, social media, or any online platform—constitutes a clear breach of confidentiality, violation of privacy, and breach of any non-disclosure obligations, whether expressly stated or implied by law. Your duty of confidentiality survives your exit from the company. Do not assume that anonymity on social media or the internet shields you from liability. It does not. Any unauthorised disclosure can attract legal consequences, including civil actions and other remedies available to the company.
Even if their unwholesome practices gives people cancer and kills them slowly?
Oga STFU and park well before I get seriously angry, you wicked people.
IyaTola: 1. When you work in a hotel with no camera or CCTV, short rest (ST) money or early lodgers and early check out guest is your money 2. Production of soap, both bathing and washing soap 🧼 are same ingredients used to produce them the ONLY difference is fragrance. 3. Half of the waitresses and some receptionist are prostitute in disguise. 4. Most novice in transportation businesses always and will always loose their car, Keke or bus
Pojomojo: I once worked as a teacher. I marked a student exam script and test all together his percentage was 52%. The school instructed me to help him rewrite his exam and he must not get below 92% because his parents are one of the highest investors in that school.
God1000: You hate the Truth madam, Gaza reconstruction will be done very fast because Arabs don't engage in corrupt and fraudulent behavior like your politicians in Nigeria
Any race can be corrupt. It's the system that keeps them from it. So, keep your inferiority complex to yourself
husseinjnr: Please if your are inclined to PHD studies, please register here, do a bit of introduction and let's start. Your discipline, your Msc study and intended PHD study. I mean research area.
Good morning, I am not new to Nairaland but I am new to this PhD thread that I am lucky to find while looking for a place to find like minds to share ideas and hints with.
Let me introduce myself.
BA (Hons) History and International Studies 4.22 MA (Hons) History and Strategic Studies 4.22 PhD Peace and Security Studies (In View)
Coursework is completed and I am about to submit topic and research questions. Thank you
Mad cleric. Please our Christian brothers and sister, don't listen to these mad religious fanatics. They exist on both sides, people like righteousness. They are both mad and have lost their minds. Pls bring your Christmas chicken laps over for us to eat and enjoy in the celebration 🎊 🎉 🎊 🎉 of Christmas, God bless you.
On Christmas Day 2025, a Muslim cleric in Nigeria dropped a bold statement: 'Any Muslim who cooks, goes out, or does anything for the sake of Christmas celebration is going to h£llf!re!' Watch the full clip and see how Nigerians (Muslims and non-Muslims alike) reacted — from hilarious memes to people openly saying they're still eating Christmas rice! In Nigeria, where interfaith holidays are often celebrated together, this controversial take sparked massive debate, laughs, and zero drama. Even Saudi Arabia and UAE get festive period that is exclusively celebrated by Christians.