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LordReed:
My broda, I greet you. Good morning and have the best of a day!

thanks sire, have a blissful day ahead and more mouth watering contracts, amen

HFOG:
Haha. No give me too much laugh this early morning o. I come online almost daily you know, but I rarely have anything to say. As to gathering everyone, no worries just watch and see how grand this homecoming's gonna be.

home coming, hahaha, cool mummy, laugh it out dear, but You can't say for 21 days, you didn't have something to say, hahaha, i do come online but I don't sign in, just read front page and run away, if I sign in, I'll be tempted to comment before you know it 30mins is gone , special thanks to specialist900 who have been keeping the house busy once in awhile

Lordreed, hmmmmm so I checked your dp, is that my DD of yesterday, just few months ago posing like a big girl … kikikikiii really lovely …

mumsy hfog, have you seen DD recently? how's DB, your Lord and work?

HFOG:
Many thanks sir and God bless you more.

sweet mummy, even you, your last comment before now was on 4th October, hahaha, gather your children ooo December don de reach

Hahaha very funny to see how the house was empty this month, it is well, hopefully we should hold a get together soon, God bless you all, miss you all plenty plenty. I love you alll


lordreed, specialist900, evina, bejeria102, elantraceey, mizmycoli, kabonnic, breezyrita, hfog, beamborla, luxanne, and the host of other neighbors

akp202:
does it take this long before they invite people for interview?

The information I have says 2weeks, but it could be reviewed depending on other circumstances

PunkyVeer:
Lol, ewww. Maybe she has sinusitis (sinus infection).

its far from sinusitis, hers is just allergies, hives specifically

Ginaz:
me too, in fact mine is worse. I cough, sneeze and cry whenever am cooking anything that has to do with frying. its a blessing I have a boyfriend that likes cooking, he helps me with the fries and I continue from there.

I've tried everything to contain this issue but to no avail. well, at least I take comfort in knowing I'm not the only one suffering from this.

o.p if you really love her, you should help her with frying and she will continue the cooking after.

yours is minor, do you have swollen faces too


Btw, lucky you, your boo is a cooker hehehe,

temitopede:
thanks for your advice, will do that asap

how pal, how's your guy's bae doing abi na your own

Check list of food that can also cause swollen faces

Sea foods, nuts, chocolate, fish, tomatoes, eggs, fresh berries, soy, wheat, and milk.

Chemicals from processed g/oils and some can foods

ivyT:
Bestest advice so far
Op keep calm and follow this

Thanks deae, some guys de form lover boy, when they see small challenge they want to run.

temitopede:
Narialanders, please I need your advice as regards this issue. I am currently in love with a girl I plan to settle down with, but the issue is whenever she cooks, her eyes get swollen and she develop cold(sneezing and cartarh) which always turn me off from eating her food. I love her so much and need mature advice about this.

Allergies, see a doctor asap.

For sneezing, She's allergic to heat, fumes, water vapour.

And for the swollen face, she's allergic to any contaminant, possible rodents or cockroach has made contact with some utensils in the kitchen, some spices and ingredients can also cause swollen faces.

Am not a medic, but You can practice the following,

1. Ensure your apartment is well ventilated
2. Clean all Windows and floors neatly.
3. Get rid of dust
4. Support her anytime she's doing anything stranous
5. See a consultant.
6. Your love can heal her, yes it is possible


More grace

Modified,

7. She should wash her hands often with clean water

Specialist900:
Happy sunday guys. Hope you guys are well

Good morning Bro, God bless you, imma go off for awhile, incase you miss me seun is not charging for pm

Cc: the whole house and New neighbors

May God's spirit guide you always, you are fruitful and blessed, of the increase of your abilities there is no end.

I love you all **kisses****

Aareonakakanfo:
Lmaooooo funny enough i didn't get it at first. bro you don enter yawa . ideology,politics,government,buhari. if you have these words as monikers then you should get as much as 100 mentions per day

my dear, from religious and political threads is worst, hahaha

Aareonakakanfo:
You don go find trouble for religion section now you want seun to change your moniker.

https://i.memeful.com/media/post/kRQBBOd_700wa_0.gif


No mbanu! stick with ideology

nope am not a religious dude the word is just often used that's all

Aareonakakanfo:
Yeah right way to go.abeg i want to change my moniker ooo

hahaha who send you, hahaha

Seun me too modify mine, i get too many mentions from religious and political threads
Kikikikikikikik

Maybe something like Id£ology will suffice

Orikinla:
Is Lagos State Too Big for Ambode?

He's waiting for instructions from Tinubu, the real governor 1999 till date

Idydarling:
what happens when a guy you've been dating seriously for some time decides to go cold on u 4 no reason?? it's getting to 2 months now since we've been apart without officially breaking up

You have not really stated if something went wrong.

but All the same, are you into a distant relationship?
How often do you meet or communicate?
what kept the relationship going all along, are you still doing it or are you just waiting for him to initiate everything??

Take the steps and initiate communication, it must not be one sided, if he doesn't respond, then it wiould need a different diagnosis

dustmalik:
So, you were there when they made such agreement? Show me proof. Show me any publication where that was stated, or keep shut. You seem to be the one learning politics here.

oya pass, I don't engage kids

atbu1983:
I know this will come up. Tambuwal disobeyed party supremacy . Yes tambuwal is guilty too. But he didn't go as far as making an opposition deputy speaker. Saraki went too far

you are still learning politics.

npdp had an agreement before they joined APC

Obj was given ministerial slots
Ameachi Vp slot, may end up a minister or ambassador
Kwakwanso - ministerial slot
Tambuwal - Governorship


Tell your party to learn how to keep aggreement else it will destroy the party, Tinubu can not be detecting everything in Nigeria, he is already moving to install his people in every state turning himself to what ever, it will destroy the party.

machi25:
Okay no problem just don't forget that am waiting,till Saturday then and Good morning

Some years ago, my mum said, anyone one of us bringing home a would-be, should ensure he/she possesses the qualities, we seek, if you want a tall or short, light or dark, fat or slim, go for what you want, so that in years to come you don't complain, that she/he is not tall or short, dark or light, pointed nose kikikikikikii

My mum will not reject any one you choose as long as that is what you want. She will even ask your would-be to look at you too and ensure that you are what they want.

Here is the point, you should be attracted to your partner, its key to building the home and keep it lively.
But Understand that the attraction here is beyond physical features, the person's real personality and character is vital.
Physical beauty is not enough, what are his\her beliefs and core values.?
How does he/she react to issues?

5 years down the line, beauty will not get things going and sustain the relationship. Even if she/he still looks good, but when real issues crop up, how will both of you cope and support each other.

After buying a beauty phone, the next thing is its utility, if it cant do what you want it to do, you dump it or sell it out.
Eg some Windows Phone Nokia produced lacks some functions and the buyers are no longer proud of what they bought.

What keeps the relationship going is attitudes/character, which is my views on attraction.
Ask yourself who is he? what is he like? how does he respond to issues? Is he abusive?

With the right attitude, the home can be in peace and full of sparks even in the face of challenges.

Am surprised when I hear people say their partners lived a fake life when they were dating, unless you were not real also. Be yourself, that way, your partner will react normally not petting hence, they will fake their reaction.

When you get married, they will not be able to fake it anymore. You may end up being maltreated just because a glass cup broke in the kitchen.

All these can be revealed in his/her use of words, very simple!!

Happy Sunday

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Modified,
Just saw this story on fp

Kindly read it up

https://www.nairaland.com/2610621/lessons-marriage

If I hear, TonyeBarcanista, lol, listen here, Tinubu is not a fool, He knows what he's doing,

PDP for now doesn't have the mercy of the masses.

Distracting saraki by nailing his wife could not work, removing him on grounds that the procedure was forged could not work, if Tinubu did not plot his graph well, he will not have continued witch hunting him. He knows how to nail others, and he's working on it before 2019, even Godswill Akpabio maybe nailed.



He knows what to do to sway others over, see what is happening to Bayelsa state

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machi25:
I perfectly understand and tanx for making me to am still waiting for the other stuff

Sorry deae for belated response, am. Still with you, ave Not forgotten, kinda tight schedule for now, hopefully, by Saturday evening, I'll get you the post.
Hope you are doing great?

2gbasky22:
Good morning. n'landers
my department is having a get together this
weekend and a way of closing the academic
session. I've been given the job of mastering the
event.... by so doing i am supposed to be
responsible for supplying the fun.

please n'landers, I need your help as to what and
what to add, to spice up the event.
thank you for your meaningful contributions

no wonder you brought it to jokes section

Demdem:
Useless man.

bad belly hahaha, grow up

Kikikik seee food, purging things

babythug:
Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

babe, you finish work, the bottom line is
[size=18pt]intimacy, begins long before bedtime [/size]

If symptoms persist after 3months, i prescribed Spanish fly,


Cc: neo25

TonyeBarcanista:
The FG have my undivided support in the prosecution of Senator Bukola Saraki. His offence is weighty and criminal in nature. He should prove his innocence to the Judge.


PS: This probably is the only area that I've come to terms with this administration since they came to power. #Power To The People.

why is it coming up now, since 2003.

He claimed he acquired the property through company A, while they are accusing him that FG sold the property to him through company X.

What is the bases of the accusations, is the problem just the name of the company, this is just pure political set up.

machi25:
well constructed dearie but we are saying the same thing. Look at it this way; if you don't have an iota of feeling for a person or thing, you won't even think of sacrificing for them. Abraham wouldn't have thought of sacrificing Isaac if he doesn't have an intense feeling towards God. He cared about everything that concerns God which shows he loves him.please tell me about the place of attraction in relationships(3)
Tank, CHEERS!

kikikikiiii, God is a spirit, you can't feel it or see it hence you can't develop feelings for something you don't see or touch.

So Abraham Never developed feelings for God, because it is not possible in the first place,


Understand that what Abraham Had with God was good communication, of course, you know communication is only complete when it is both ways. In most relationships today, only one person talks the other just wants to be a reciever
In communication, you talk, I respond, and I talk you respond.

Communication begats trust (faith), trust begats love, see the links and that's what Happened between Abraham And God, not mere feelings.

In the same way, if both of us begin to communicate effectively, over a period, you will begin to trust me and I too, with time it grows to love.

On the aspect of having feeling before you can sacrifice, well its not true, you can sacrifice for a total stranger. Am talking from experience, in fact daily experiences and the reason is simple, everyone have the capacity to love to a certain measure


As for the next discourse, you will have the response tomorrow morning,

Ask more questions on this discussion
Good evening!!

agarawu23:
your answer is above
In conclusion, there is nothing like 'spiritual' wife or Lady when it comes to wet dream, it's a natural thing

Nope, I don't enjoy focusing on negative things that is why I didn't describe it as spiritual wife.

The fact that you had to pray to Stop it, means it was not a normal phenomenon, its left for you to give it a name,

For me, no need, just tell the demon to gerraout, simple, no need glorifing it

donholy28:
Her husband is an agile mopol

Hahaha, he's also a C7, stop striker all shots on target hahaha

God bless their union, I believe they have discussed about it and they are not kids anyway

cc: Machi25

John 3:16
16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son – NLT
Notice the emboldened words, Loved, Gave, Only

Love – Gave meaning love is giving,
Love – Only, Love is Sacrifice

Love is sacrificial giving


Gen 22:1 -12 – Abraham sacrifices his only son
12, And He said, “Do not lay your hand on the lad, or do anything to him; for now I know –NKJV

[size=15pt]A lover is a giver, and it must be sacrificial giving, not giving out of abundance[/size]

Luke 21:1-4 The widows might
1 While Jesus was in the Temple, he watched the rich people putting their gifts into the collection box.
2 Then a poor widow came by and dropped in two pennies.
3 "I assure you," he said, "this poor widow has given more than all the rest of them.
4 For they have given a tiny part of their surplus, but she, poor as she is, has given everything she has." - NLT

Can you give out your last? (Time, Money and Energy) no matter how small it is…

Let’s say Lady Fx has two male friends who wooed her. On her birthday, dude F bought an item @N1000 and he is left with say N500 in his account, guy X took her for shopping spent N100k, took her for dinner and later movies.
The tendency for her to describe guy X to be in love is high, probably because of how she is configured and her level of understanding of realities (truth), hence that feeling of care you described sets in

At night, Dude F , takes N100 from his last N500 and calls her , while guy X may calls her and may also call 3, 4, 5 other ladies and tells them sweet nonsense, of course which is what ladies want to hear.
Note that, they are all giving, but one can give without loving (giving because he has to give, or to make you just feel good and get your attention) but you can’t love without giving.

But Lady FX may decide to settle for Guy X, even against sign that the guy may not be faithful, just because of financial security which she describes as Love
Also note that, No body is happy being financially down, its possible the dude F is working towards something. A little support and encouragement could make a lot of difference in Guy F life.

A know of a female nairalander who did search for job for his boo, and got a job for him, she would have said, the guy is broke , he has no job and follow another man. Today, both running businesses together while working, they got married in April.

That is love, it doesn't mean the guy was lazy. She only fulfilled the scriptures, he that finds a wife, finds a good thing ……
And another saying, behind a successful man is a woman ……

Love is a choice, you don't feel like it, but you make up your mind, hey! this is what I want

Lemme end this episode here

other topics i would love to share with you are

1. What love does
2. The dimensions of love
3. The place of attraction in relationships (so wont misunderstand me) and many others

feel free to ask questions


Prov 9:8-9
9 Teach the wise , and they will be wiser. Teach the righteous, and they will learn more. -NLT
You are blessed

machi25:
interesting points,so please define love in your own words

because of love am taking time to do a write up,
its not my words, my standard is the bible, the write up should be ready in some mins, hope you can wait,