neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

My brother, you're in luck.

Your wife's libido is not the problem. She wants to fvck you, but only when you are strong.

And you are most likely living below your potential as the leader of the house. As the man you are really meant to be.

Your wife can change to better than your pre-marriage days, but YOU have to change FIRST.

Go here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/ start with the side-bar content. Thank me later.

Adrielbradshaw:
Lemme add a tin 2 d@, Most men rush der women 4 sex, it shldnt b d@ way. play wit her, gist , joke... probably d lady always gets tired of doin it, mayb its hw d man penetrates her, n goes bout d process, am talkin 4rm experience. He shld always reassure her d@ he loves her n also get her gifts, it makes her feel special. Dnt make d sex look lyk hardwork, 1nce its lyk d@, she wld loose interest.

Na wa oh, nothing wey person no go read from this site...buy gift for my wife before intimacy? Who go buy gifts for the man for putting food on the table? Plus, is it not the same family collective purse that both of them contributes to, in order to meet daily expenses they will deduct money from go take go dey buy gift to bribe madam for intimacy each time? When time to pay rent reach or to buy new school uniform, who go complete the money?

babythug:


Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

Rubbish. because of pussssy thats my own again? Il start acting like am a teenager? Silly!

[quote author=babythug post=38028079]

Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck![Bro this are wonderful tips for you, I believe it will work! Goodluck

And what is wrong with having sex everyday? some people self

Thanks all. Hilarious thoughts..full of fresh ideas..Thanks Moderator for the front page display.

If. U dey really work u suppose tire when u reach house

Sex shd be the last thing .on ur.mind

babythug:


Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

6.EBELE!! 7. JONATHAN!!!

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

the only best way sound very stupid to people but trust me it is the only solution! I read many peoples coments and I laugh! Bible placed a very strong curse on any woman who deny her husband a sex even for just once, as far as you are pronounced husband, ur wife has no right whatsoever to say NO except you as a loving husband understands ocassionally if she's stressed or silk, aside that, she must be a foolish woman! Even when fighting, she must give you anyhow you want it, when it becomes every nit as op claim! The only best solutiuon is to look ffor a very prety lady, show her to ur wife and let her know that the young lady will be asisting her in her responsibility, if she dosnt react! Trust me she never love you. If she get angry,she'l never deny you again. All those advises will only enslave you to woman! Many of those advisers will never tolorate any folish woman like that! Note: we must show our wife love! Having done that, if my wife try that nonsence with me 2times! I will divorce her imidiately because she want me to comit adultry whre many I repeat many woman are out there looking for young man(32) like you. Warning to all the fake pastors who will qout me, all of them are adultrers! Woe to any woman who deny her husband sex for no reason! Is in the bible... Contact me for the verses and chapters

when olosho full lagos...omo enter one hotel there r many h.oes..bang taya

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

I get one sure babe for you ooooo. Call 08179640160. Na sure girl ooooo. She go treat u well well.

is marriage all about banging is life all about sex?? wonder why I dont buy this marriage idea....nonsense

KanwuliaJara:
Do like I do.
Send her a video of you playing with your "strong attention"!
Any time I want to drive my husband NUTS, I send him a pic or video of my pooohsie with a lot of juice ALL OVA IT!

Have you tried MASSAGING her clintoris with your "juice"?
It always works for moi o!

Post it on instagram.

Mr's Chima

Is it paining her?

Truckpusher:
Crap.

Op , simply tell her that marriage is called licensed Fuccking and if she isn't willing to play her role then you'll have no choice than to go for an alternative means.
Between, didn't you guys have any relationship before marriage ?

...indeed a truck pusher..

Truckpusher:
Crap.

Op , simply tell her that marriage is called licensed Fuccking and if she isn't willing to play her role then you'll have no choice than to go for an alternative means.
Between, didn't you guys have any relationship before marriage ?

GBAM!!!

Barman, abeg give this bros 1 bottle beer

Sorry to say, your wife may be fvcking someone else..keep your eyes and ears to the ground, remove all sentiments and emotions, you will see and feel the truth. Stop pestering her. She rejects you because when you are asking for se x, she is thinking of the other man's d
Dick!

story of every young couple....

Some peoeple already gave u helpful tips

stinggy:

Seconded!
If this doesn't work, then I don't know what will.

i know you will always be found in this kind of thread even u go missing but certainly not this kind of threads

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

Try and discuss this with your wife, the woman may be tired. Having sex every night is not an easy task. I do not think you are sex starved, because I guess you guy still do a minimum of twice in a week which is about the avarage in most bedroom. You can only be sex starved if you do not have sex in a month and above, a lady denied her husband sex for close to 2 years, the guy has started playing away matches and sex with his wife (who can now be referred to flat mate) does not appeal to him again.

Arrange meeting with her family members and tell them you will be returning her back if she continues to close leg. You can collect half the bride price since she don drop two kids for u.

johnsonjosbles:
the only best way sound very stupid to people but trust me it is the only solution! I read many peoples coments and I laugh! Bible placed a very strong curse on any woman who deny her husband a sex even for just once, as far as you are pronounced husband, ur wife has no right whatsoever to say NO except you as a loving husband understands ocassionally if she's stressed or silk, aside that, she must be a foolish woman! Even when fighting, she must give you anyhow you want it, when it becomes every nit as op claim! The only best solutiuon is to look ffor a very prety lady, show her to ur wife and let her know that the young lady will be asisting her in her responsibility, if she dosnt react! Trust me she never love you. If she get angry,she'l never deny you again. All those advises will only enslave you to woman! Many of those advisers will never tolorate any folish woman like that! Note: we must show our wife love! Having done that, if my wife try that nonsence with me 2times! I will divorce her imidiately because she want me to comit adultry whre many I repeat many woman are out there looking for young man(32) like you. Warning to all the fake pastors who will qout me, all of them are adultrers! Woe to any woman who deny her husband sex for no reason! Is in the bible... Contact me for the verses and chapters

1Cor 7v1-16... You try initially but later deviated. In all I like your comment.

armyofone:
Try thinking about how to make money and provide huge care for your kids and building them maximum financial security. ..it cures extreme attention and take your mind off romping

Trash.




Who told you he is broke?

Your advice is very profound! Especially the part about allowing her to sleep a bit! I've found that a little rest can re-invigorate our desires!

babythug:


Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

babythug:


Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

babe, you finish work, the bottom line is
[size=18pt]intimacy, begins long before bedtime [/size]

If symptoms persist after 3months, i prescribed Spanish fly,


Cc: neo25

Very practical advice!

bukatyne:


From experience?

@neo25

1. Everyday is NOT realistic. Find out your wife's frequency (amount of times she's naturally wants sex)

2. Check out if she is overstressed during the day

3. Buy a lubricant and compromise... know you cannot get it everyday and not every time you have sex will be bang! Sometimes will be because you want it: some times will be because she wants it. Sometimes is because you both want it and yep it's fire on the rocks

Now to the lube... when you want it and she's not in the mode and tired (no amount of pre-intimacy will make her interested...) use the lube generously and lie beside her (not ontop ) and penetrate. She might join in after a while and if she can't, you satisfy your need without her doing much work.

Goodluck.