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TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 7:04pm On Aug 18, 2022
Nozino:
We should all join the campaign for inclusion irrespective of skin colour. Dark skin isn’t beautiful and light skin isn’t ugly.
So, you are a colourist, did you tell your daughter that she is better than the dark-skinned girls and deserves to be an African queen? There is a reason why we have positive discrimination, because of colourists like yourself. All shades of black are beautiful, neither is superior to the other!

TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 7:02pm On Aug 18, 2022
Nozino:
I never see any 30 under 30 than looks better than me. There’s no one that I aspire to look like. In the entertainment industry, even I will agree that light skin privilege exists.
Thats that colourist superiority complex we have all been talking about, you were trying to hide it but you exposed yourself. , you think because you are light-skinned, you are better looking than the dark-skinned people?

You have exposed yourself as a colourist, so I take back my sympathy.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:47pm On Aug 18, 2022
safarigirl:
Dem no broke, and anybody wey broke, if you know one or two babes wey get business, you fit hustle wigs from them on agreement that after the show, you'll give them visibility.
grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:47pm On Aug 18, 2022
Nozino:
Hello, I don’t think your analysis is correct. Chichi is light skinned with strong yansh and she doesn’t have a significant fan base. Nini is mixed and her fan base wasn’t significant.

Maybe light skinned woman have it easy. For guys it’s not always rosy. Most times, you’re always targeted for no good reason. People take it on themselves to prove that you’re not good enough, not smart enough, that you’re plain and basic. But I don’t see any reason for the discrimination against light skinned people especially based on perceived privileges. Besides, why would you want to “humble” anyone?

Dark skinned people usually have very low self esteem. Why should I pay for another person’s complex?
Now I take back my sympathy.

Dark skinned people were not born with low self-esteem, Society elevated light skinned people over them and that started the insecurity. If you have not walked a mile in the shoes of the dark-skinned individual, I suggest you don't speak on the issues they face.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:44pm On Aug 18, 2022
safarigirl:
So, Amaka has this kind of nice wig in her box, and she has been choking us with that blonde and pink aberration?

She looks so nice and the wig looks beautiful
grin grin grin, she cannot show all her wares all at once na!!!

But come o, shebi they said they are all broke and we are in a recession how dey get money to buy lakefronts like this?
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin:
safarigirl:
The male counterpart Van Vicker? People wey no fit act, dem just yellow, preferably mixed. Na dem even pack full for that Asaba Nollywood sef, both the natural yellows and the chemically enhanced ones.

See, honestly, everybody wants to now be a victim, because na trend, but I will never take people of the lighter persuasion seriously when they say they are discriminated against in Africa or black nations in general, same way white discrimination does not exist in the world.

What you're going through as a lighter person is envy, there is no systematic oppression of your person, just individuals who want to cut you down to size. If your eye see discrimination for this life, you go shock.

There is a difference between someone who is generally accepted being rejected occasionally, and someone who has only ever known rejection, being accepted.

We may only be able to speak about our personal experiences in our skin for the most part, but as a lighter skinned person, I can never imagine that a darker skinned person has it better than me in this our society, maybe if we reach Europe, they may be generally more intriguing to look at, but in Africa, light will always be right.
Yes Van Vicker, he was in many movies at some point, very bad actor. Usually, they are just flash in the pan actors/actresses, they have no longevity.

A black person in the western world can never be racist, how can you be racist when systemically structures and laws have been made to protect white pipo and suppress/oppress black people?

In Nigeria where everyone is supposed to feel welcome and at home dark-skinned people are made to feel like second-class citizens? Why is Nigeria the bleaching capital of Africa? Why do girls risk cancer/kidney failure to look yellow? This yellow skin only looks decent for 1-5 years and takes a turn for the worse after that.

Oh well their body, their choice.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:24pm On Aug 18, 2022
kowema:
After the last 5mins call biggie made before the task.
I quickly ran into the Bathroom to have a post work bath. Quickly made noddles while boiling two eggs on the side.
Guys, I'm done and eating now and task never start.
Biggie just rushed me
Efficiency cheesy
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:21pm On Aug 18, 2022
Olatara:
Even in BB's house, people were expecting mixed-race or light skinned Rachael, they were disappointed when 'plain Rachael' was on the stage.
Yes, the picture that was leaked of Racheal was the picture of a biracial/multiracial girl and people were excited. We have not moved forward in this country. A black country that puts Biracial/Multiracial people on a pedestal. These colonial masters really damaged the Black man's/woman's psyche.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:19pm On Aug 18, 2022
safarigirl:
LOL. This has to be sarcasm.

If you come to BBNaija, once you are light-skinned, normally, fanbase sure for you, especially if you now have yansh.

Mixed race? Haba....always always dem dey get support, no matter how awful they are.

Light skinned is even a marriage requirement for many men, it is their standard of beauty.

A lot of these privileges are thanks to colonialism and the general perception by colonized people that lighter is better. It traverses nations, because even in India, and South Asia as a whole, they still have discrimination of the darker skinned folks.

Light skin privilege is as good as having pretty privilege.


The backlash lighter people face today, is akin to the backlash white people face today- people who think that demographic has benefitted a lot from society's biases are fighting back. It does not take away their privilege in the slightest, it is just a backlash from people who wish to 'humble' otherwise elevated people.

But aside modelling abroad, I doubt there is any other job opportunity that darker folks have over lighter ones.

If you sit in any female hostel and hear the different experiences of ladies of different complexions for work, you would laugh at this your statement

It's like when Eku Edewor came to the same documentary Diana Yekini was in, to complain about skin discrimination in Nollywood. The difference in their experiences was amusing at best, but everyone is allowed to feel discriminated.
Everyone wants to be a victim; it would seem even white pipo are complaining of discrimination. How can you be discriminated against when
the world is built on global racism that benefits white pipo?

Nollywood is built on colourism that benefits light-skinned/biracial people (Nadia Buhari was one of them, beautiful girl but very bad actress but she was almost in all the movies at one point). There is the male counterpart, cannot think of his name but he looked like a younger Ramsey Noah, very good-looking man but very poor actor.

Even on this Big brother forum some elements were saying all the girls were ugly because there was no light skinned/biracial girl with big booty.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:08pm On Aug 18, 2022
Sweetpink:
You are very observant!
If Beauty was in level one,I doubt if she’d have been disqualified!
As for phyna,her breakfast will be served cold…let Chomzy enter that house firstgrin
Kunle aggressively stepped to Shegs, he threw table etc, he was more aggressive than Beauty but he got no warnings and strikes why? Because his housemates protected him.

Oh my Gawd let that happen, I hope Groovy jumps ship and boards the boat with Chomzy. Phyna how you get them is how you lose them,

RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 6:02pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-You don't need men. Just love yourself like other modern women do with flashy shinny toys. wink
grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 6:01pm On Aug 18, 2022
Olatara:
Hehehe...
No be only discrimination.
Light skin girls are favoured before any other skin colour in Nigeria.

Outside Nigeria, no one gives a shit, please allow dark skin girls like me to shine small nah.
I agree with the above.

We know the severe discrimination dark-skinned girls face in this country. That is why they sell skin-lightening agents like Caro-white and fair and beautiful and we see women in their 40s/50s/60s/70s with bleach damaged skin.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 5:54pm On Aug 18, 2022
safarigirl:
Why Modella hair dey like dem electrocute her? undecided
It is a work of art, really, never seen anything like that before.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 5:51pm On Aug 18, 2022
Eeghe:
Maybe you said fresher and I used the wrong word then… butti, either way you were trying to prove he is a BB novice, which he decidedly isn’t

This guy was spinning narratives and weaving in ex-housemates inside it like a veteran cheesy
He also knew viewers’ perspectives
Mba, Shegz is not it
Shegs has watched BB, he knows that a showmance would make people talk, he spoke extensively about Kidd and Erica. That is why he has railroaded Bella into this pafetic (spelt intentionally like this angry) showmance for the viewers to endure. He is killing her vibe, he is killing her style, she is not allowed to be herself or mingle. I am saying what I have said and the Shigellites cannot tell me NOTHING.

grin

TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 5:39pm On Aug 18, 2022
Sweetpink:
That’s because,she’s useless without Sheggz!
Absolutely, she sits like a Queen holding court with her subjects. Nonsense. The only reason why she was mildly interesting for 5 seconds yesterday was because of Adekunle, other than that she is just Shegs play ting.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin:
I noticed the difference between both houses, Level 1 housemates prevented Adekunle from being disqualified when he temporarily lost his head.

In Level two, they gave Beauty the fuel and flame to burn down the house. The coven members like Phyna, Amaka and Ilebaye were actively trying to stop Cyph from protecting Beauty from herself. What goes around comes back around. Phyna has now jumped on Groovy who clearly doesn't fancy her and she is losing fans...

One of the clan members from the coven Ilebaye is gone, 2 more to go.

TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 5:29pm On Aug 18, 2022
Geezeem:
A day is never complete without Sheggz drags here... grin

I pride myself with never supporting a borite... never!

E remain make him chop strike... I don't do dull or boring

I do good heart too but it must come with drama and swag

Carry on my boi

Give them something to hate on and whine... we dey here grin
You are just simping for local roadman accent. smiley
RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 5:28pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-Aww. Xx
Men are just like politicians, reciting the same lies which for some reason works every time. The best thing to do is block the noise and lies and vote for PETER OBI!!
RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 5:08pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-Ta. Do let me know on time about your next birthday, so I can order for toys for you from Harmony store. X
I am ok. No man no cry.
PoliticsRe: 2023: I Will Tell You Who To Vote For – Wike Tells Rivers Residents by IdiaofBenin: 4:55pm On Aug 18, 2022
How arrrogant of Wike, however, My campaign for the day!!!

1. Abi Suffer no dey tire you?
2. Abi Hunger no dey wire you?
3. The former ones (TINUBU, ATIKU etc..) na so-so story
4. We no go let them make dem kill us finish
5. So make we vote for a man wey go make 9ja a better place
6. Make you use your sense and VOTE PETER OBI.

PETER OBI,
VOTE PETER OBI,
PETER OBI
VOTE PETER OBI
OYA VOTE PETER OBI
VOTE PETER OBI!!
PoliticsRe: Aminu Masari: APC Won’t Find It Difficult Winning 2023 Elections by IdiaofBenin: 4:53pm On Aug 18, 2022
Okay, however, My campaign for the day!!!

1. Abi Suffer no dey tire you?
2. Abi Hunger no dey wire you?
3. The former ones (TINUBU, ATIKU etc..) na so-so story
4. We no go let them make dem kill us finish
5. So make we vote for a man wey go make 9ja a better place
6. Make you use your sense and VOTE PETER OBI.

PETER OBI,
VOTE PETER OBI,
PETER OBI
VOTE PETER OBI
OYA VOTE PETER OBI
VOTE PETER OBI!!!
RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 4:50pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-It seem that you're not a modern woman. I think you're looking for one of those boys, they call "Simp" on this Nigerian forum. The modern men have upgraded and moved to the 21st century.

-Hmmm, you are even telling a sovereign human what words/phrase to use? Do you consider yourself, a controlling woman?
#Leaves the chat#

RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 4:30pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-I'm a man, and I don't like to be chased. I like going dutch with women, cos am a 21st century man. Innit?
Men like to do the chasing and asking out or proposing. If the woman does these things, they do not respect the woman.

Can you stop saying innit after every sentence? It is very Roadman-ny. cheesy

Being a hypergamous woman, a man that tries to split the bills is a major turn off unfortunately, if you ask for the date, you pay the bills. And if you somehow manage to forget your wallet or claim your card magically stops working, then that will be the last time you see me smiley
CrimeRe: Edo Police Uncovers Ritualist Den With 20 Mummified Corpses (Graphic Pictures) by IdiaofBenin: 4:20pm On Aug 18, 2022
WE IN THE END TIMES cry cry cry

RIP.
RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 4:08pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-Hmm. Don't let the happy-sisters catch you oo. They said everyone you must upgrade their software.
Hahaha, you know how it is now, when you chase the man, he treats the girl like absolute puupuu. Men like the chase even if they dont like admit it. smiley
RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 3:52pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-It's 21st century, darling. X
I am till in the 18th century smiley
TravelRe: Police Officers Help Man With Flat Tyres On Kaduna-Abuja Expressway (Video) by IdiaofBenin: 3:09pm On Aug 18, 2022
And a camera happened to just capture this?

They know their reputation is fxxked and they want to rebrand themselves, too late.

FamilyRe: Should A Single Lady Be Friends With A Married Man? by IdiaofBenin: 3:07pm On Aug 18, 2022
This is tempting temptation in itself. lipsrsealed
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 3:03pm On Aug 18, 2022
Nozino:
Thank you. I just think we are trying to over compensate dark skin people for the preference or benefits we think light skinned people enjoy. This compensation is bordering on oppression and it isn’t healthy at all. All skin tones are beautiful.
I know what you mean, I call it white guilt or pressure after Black Lives Matter (which is a scam hustle by the way) to be inclusive, I see it and I find it disingenuous but they created the problem and they are trying to fix the problem albeit badly. Chances are that I, a dark-skinned girl would have more opportunities in Europe or America than in Nigeria, is that not problematic to you? Lupita would not be able to find work in Nollywood/Nigerian Modelling industry, you and I know that.
RomanceRe: Men Are Becoming More Lonely Because Women Are Not Settling For Less (photos) by IdiaofBenin: 2:59pm On Aug 18, 2022
PDJT:
-I guess she live a bit far in Benin, makes it a tad unrealistic as the unique man is probably over 4k miles away from the "good woman".
Well, good women like a good chase wink wink
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 2:48pm On Aug 18, 2022
Nozino:
Is the solution to skin bleaching trying to brainwash people especially children that they are less than their dark skin counterparts? My 5 year old niece wasn’t cast to play the role of an African Queen because she’s very light skinned. She cried for weeks! How’s this healthy?

Europeans are trying to be woke by casting eccentric models. We know that the very limited sample we see on tv doesn’t represent the diverse skin tone we have. Why can’t we praise all skin tone? Why is black (read dark skinned) beautiful? Is light skin ugly ?
I am sorry that your daughter was told she couldn't be an African Queen. re-read my old post, I made some corrections.

I said we must appreciate black skin in all shades and we shouldn't pressure our dark skin girls to bleach their skin to work in other to work in Nollywood/Music/Modelling industry.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2022 Live Updates Thread by IdiaofBenin: 2:26pm On Aug 18, 2022
Nozino:
It’s how you people assume any light skinned person is bleaching!! Besides, I wonder why dark skin is use to represent the whole of Africa when a significant population in sub Sahara Africa countries are light skinned. Europeans are pushing the narrative that Africans are very dark skinned, using south Sudanese models to represent an entire continent instead of showing how diverse we are, how different our skin tones are. People like you are support this bias representation and it is quite sad.
You are getting me wrong, of course I know that we have a rich array of skin tones from the dark brown to bright yellow. What I am saying is that the entertainment industry in this country encourage dark skinned girls to bleach their skin to be seen as desirable. Is that not wrong?

The same Europeans you are criticising for only using dark-skinned models also colonised Africa and Asia and enforced the white standard of beauty which is still used to this day.

Personally, we should celebrate our NATURAL skin tone in all shades.

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