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Thank you Wenger for atleast putting yourself about and meeting the fans halfway, but a big shame on yu to all the smarmy gits at the Arsenal board. Thanks for hanging your best coach out to dry. You just confirmed how rudderless Arsenal have become under y'all and that indeed the title of a small club will not be amiss. Hope yu all burn in the pitz of hell!

A new beginning. Good thread title, good win. Can we just sign some decent first teamers now?

Can't some auto driver just hit Nasri in the leg after Arsenal has collected Manshitty's lucre

Pls can any techie in the house tell me what to do. My laptop's cursor stopped responding since yesterday. If yu move the mouse the cursor will not stir. I just hope I wont get to format the lappie cos I got sensitive things there. Can any one help? Itz an Acer aspire and not up to year old.

Gloom's the word, inescapable. Wenger and the board got careless and made mistakes, but don't anybody think they've got styupid cos they av not. Trouble builds character? Maybe it'z time for that at the Emirates, too much laissez-faire, too long complacency. The first rule in personnel Management is the application of pressure. Pressure disappeared from Arsenal all thanks to Wenger and his overprotectionism. Bendtner will coc-k up a simple chance my 9yr old neph will bury and prof will wax lyrical. Denilson will pass a ball across goal yet he'll start the next game, no reproach. Clichy? His brain has been flying at half mast for eons. I love it now that all are feeling the heat. From the ashes we can either get stronger or drop into oblivion. I've been underwhelmed by  almost all the names linked with Arsenal given the calibre of players potentially lost, but hey, I'm not a coach so I'll tarry awhile before getting hysterical. Fab deal is almost done and he's my sole regret. I'll wager Nasri'll stay. Clichy? Apart from the paltry fee he'll attrcat cos he ran down his contract, i'd feed him to the dogs. I've seen every game Arsenal played the past three seasons (again)and if there was a cog in Arsenal's highline defending it was Clichy.let him go, I'd rather live in hope.

Won't be bad to listen to the sister as there's no relationship yet, if there is she should be left alone, however,for her to be the conduit for unsavoury news is not advisable at all

v3:
Quote from @gunnerblog on twitter

Arshavin: "Cesc gave gifts to each player. I asked him, 'A parting gift?' He said nothing. It says there is something behind this silence."

Here's the full story CLICK

Well Barca are skint. They have just €40k to spend (excluding player sales) so Fab will do well to go and collect his parting gifts back!

Arsenal make contact with Lille for Eden Hazard (arseblognews)
Best news I've heard in eons. Just hpoe Nasri gets whatever it is he hankers for, then getz tossed in the next window to the highest bidder even if it is Hull City!

Glo are just goin through the motions. Same rates as MTN released eons ago. Pathetic!

ogugua88:
I heard this from a friend today. Thoughts?

They say that, just like a million and one cliches that exist and only acts as an umbrella to shelter lasciviousness in those who seek for excuses to cheat. Single indeed!

Amya:
Being in a relationship is not winning the lottery. Some women opt out of relationships sometimes because of the unpredictable nature of man and vice-versa. Not everyone in a relationship is happy. And there's no guarantee that even those in a happy perfect relationship would remain so forever. Marriages break, relationships break. So, i can't ask those women in fulfilling relationships how they got there because even them can't guarantee it would remain so forever. . .

Boils down to perception. Nobody can tell yu what you feel; you wear a shoe, you know where it pinches. That you ask around doesn't mean you should ape another 100%. Thatz why yu ar Amya and not Stella ie. Men would look at you and evaluate what you have to offer. They are so good in compartmentalising women. If you are a slut, fine. Bring it on. But you wont last for sure. Itz never a secret that men drool over women who know their self worth. Any man that derides these set of women just does so cos he can't get them, kind of sour grapes. The moment you lose your principles then you are garbage fit to be trod upon. It's not so big a deal to work on one's inner self instead of blowing hot or cold at a man's whim.

ROFL!, Moaning, moanful!!. When people are not intelligent enough to be perceptive what do they do? Moan! Some women are runaway successes wiv men no matter who the men are. Are they magicians? Asking what a man wants is akin to asking the direction the wind blows. It is subject to much vagaries and only the perceptive will know. It is not a man's fault that beyond sexuality a lotta women do not believe they have anything to offer in a relationship. So what they offer, the guy's take and mock them
Unless women do not believe some of their folks enjoy mutually enjoyable, respectful and fulfilling relationships with the menfolk, it will be wise to ask these women how it is they do it. Leave the men outta it. I do not have to ask my girlfriend why, attimes, she is hysterical and unreasonable. I find out. So yu babes find out!

Blazay:
Hell no!!
I can't stand 'yellow' peh-nises!
They are waaaaaaaay too soft too and get red with the slightest 'blowing'!
Twa!

Straight cut! No pulling punches at all!!

i get the feeling it's not a mutual decision for you guys not to roll in the hay yet. The guy's just 'power playing', trying to break you down psychologically so you'll give in. If you know absolutely there is no unresolved issue between you, just let him be. Once he gets tired of playin lil games he open up. Not before accusing you of bein insensitive and uncaring, Just watch out. He's carrying out the final part of 'breakin down a stubborn girl'

you'd end up a complete knob if at the end of the day all she wanted was your 'product'

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=667649.msg8324013#msg8324013 date=1305446185]ignorance is worse than leprosy just because you think male birth control pills don't exist does not make it true. so before you sow the seed of breakup in your friend, make sure it is for the right reason[/quote]All that needed said. . .

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8304806#msg8304806 date=1305196591]
Sweetie, there is no such thing as traditional rȧpe. Rȧpe has always been around regardless of the gender of the victim and victimizer. Once again, please go do your research before you say such things.

[/quote]Dunno if our problem here is just semantics. Even the origin of rape points to male against female. As near as 2002 The WHO defined rape as ' physically forced or otherwise coerced penetration of the vulva or anus using a penis, other body partz or objects. Now the technical descrptn is penetration. So tell me how it is rape if a guy was not penetrated. Mind, some countries still define rape as 'penile penetration of the vulva' only.if they wake up tomorrow and decide to amend their statutes to include female-male rape, does that not make the initial law traditional? This ambiguities are wrought by changes in law but then we know the origin that why i say, man vs woman rape's traditional

where else should they be?!

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8304292#msg8304292 date=1305192044]
There's no such thing as "traditional" rȧpe so please get that thought out of your mind.[/quote]There is. Female rape is traditional, male rape is more recent[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8304292#msg8304292 date=1305192044][size=12pt][font=times]
Generally, its not documented because a lot of victims don't come forward and the few that come forward aren't taken seriously. They are either ridiculed, made to feel ashamed, or ignored because of social perceptions.[/quote]how come we 'know' so much of this when it's not even documented? Folklore or pillowtalk?[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8304292#msg8304292 date=1305192044]
They are either ridiculed, made to feel ashamed, or ignored because of social perceptions, [/quote]women are subjected to the same harrowing experience at least in 9ja. I've been in court where a female rape victim was treated as if she was horse turd, yet women keep reporting and documenting rape. Are men scadey cats for shying away from doin there's or they just feel itz no biggie?

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8304184#msg8304184 date=1305190416]
Good, continue not believing that's entirely up to you. The facts still remain though.[/quote]There's always a 'fact' when one digs enough. However, are the probability ratio of this enough to warrant being discussed in the same breath as traditional rape.Itz an aberration. Do not think I misunderstand you. I don't. It might have happened but believe me, a lot has happened in life that are not documented. Why? Cos they aint worth a second thought! So is this. Men, by nature are not built to be raaped.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8304026#msg8304026 date=1305188118]
Ummmm maybe because people like you choose not to believe it does happen. Have you ever thought of that?!?![/quote]Yea sure. The more I think about it, the less likely it seems. Very remote possibility. But then we have to pander to Legal mumbo jumbo and their attempt to cry wolf where there's none. The only possibility of rape lies in some quaint legal documentation gathering dust somewhere waitin for a day to be unleashed on some innocent victim

vivaladiva:
ohhhh but men get trumatised, u cant escape truma----u might hide it but it wld manifest its self in many other ways

i give u an example, a whole bunch of nigerian buys r fucklicants, i asked my self yyyyy----suddenly i began to see apattern emerging----about 80% of my male friends were at one point molested and violated by women---aunts, cousins, house helps even their mothers----now they grow up and think that self worth invovles sleeping with anything that crawls or walks in skirts---he feel like a sharp guy because he has shagged twenty million women n stilll counting, an average naija guy has no qualms---he can sleep wiv your sister---your friend----your aunnty----your cousin----and marriage wont stop them tooo----u begin to wonder where this sexual deviousness came from, it alll started, when he was a lil boy being forced against his will to sleep with women, althoug he didnt put up much of a fight some how it felt coool


in the crazy world that he grew up, he didnt think it was a big deal, infact most of his friends regularly got molested by their female watever---but u know wat, some negative energy has been transfered wether u see it or not and it has to manifest its self somehow----so they grow up to be sexually deviant, cant keep their dicks in one place and see sex in every possible creature-----u start to wonder

let me tell u something---the nigeria that i know---i wont  not trust my daughter wiv 80% of the men that wld come around me and i wont trust my son wiv 80% of the women tooo

Those patterns you developed are imaginary. By same account, a despoiled gurl should be a 'fucklicant' too. And given the proclivity to rape in 9ja, then half of our gurls will be 'fucklicants' no?
Guys sleeping around is rooted in primordial times so don't come with this 'na rape cause am'.cos we know it isnt.
And by the way I had experience of househelp horseplay tool. It didn't start or stop me being promiscuos more than my mates that weren't so exposed.

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8303990#msg8303990 date=1305187707]
Ummm, how many men do you know that actually talk about getting rȧped let alone report it?[/quote]Maybe they don't cos it DOESN'T happen. Thought of that?

vivaladiva:
ifedisky pls dont talk like this ooooo----your english sounds good, i think some men need to be violently ra---ped, some how u think this female despoiling wld be about sucking your ni--pples, tickling your balls and saying how much she loves you

she wld prob be punching u in the face----fu--cking angry naughty woman this one
scratching your chest and belly wiv her three inch nails
prob use blade and tear your balls or somin or stand on your balls with her stillettos
pissing all over u and pouring candle wax on your open wound

if she is an extra mean sadistic f-c-cking bitchhhhhhhhhhhh, she might proceed to cut of your balls and feed them to u
she might putt your willy in a nut cracker or get out her cheese grater and grate your cheese, alll na violation oooooo


after alll i don hear of man wey violation woman cut stick for bush beging reconstruct her punna----nnny
i don hear of man wey put knife for woman toto after e violation am finish
abi na broken bottle

people sud refrain from being entered under the ignorant boffun section----its not fair on u

Lolz All these for poor me! Hahaha. It's a muteI1 point that women always get their pata in a twist when they healr violation. How come men, who are supposedly equal victims, not as traumatized except on vicarious basis,i.e despoiling one's wife or daughter? Why is it that itz only women that moan so much. Does it say something about man-violation?
And viv don't worry I wont bite. I've been in NL long enough to know thatz how yu sail

[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=665211.msg8303705#msg8303705 date=1305184056]

Once again, rȧpe and sex are not one in the same. How many men do you see going up to a woman and asking them if they can rȧpe them? Please educate yourself on the subject of rȧpe before you go around making such statements.[/quote]I don't pay any heed to legal hoopla that aims to create a mountain out of a mole hill with their gobbledegook. They know a woman have severely limited or almost non existent capacity to raape. All those tirade is just to cover enough ground for probabilities.

And for your info there's no strict differentiation between sexx and raape as your try to show. A scene that started as violation can quickly turn into a very raunchy tryst. We'll see if itz yu that'll prevent the cuum then. People can cuum during violation. Trust me on this!

ROFL at women despoilin! Why drug and make the hombre weak when all you have to do is ask! Women rape men? in the next millenium!

If you so believe in pastors why don't you seek an independent verification now there's a crossroad between your's end hers. Not so difficult to think is it?