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If she/he has not made it abroad. He wouldn't be resigning to return to our dear country to help develop things

You wanted to sound patriotic but going through your profile and previous threads show precisely the tribalistic nature of your personality

Total waste of time engaging you

Bolt458:
I am not writing this for religious people to come with their funny talks, I am just putting this out here to hear from people who might have tried this methods or who heard about this methods and still proceeded or did not. I want to hear your experience. I have been dating someone for 5 years now, it happened that I began to see her as someone I would want to spend my life with. Last year we did our genotype test and we were both AS. Now , I know some of you will say this should be the first thing you ask when you meet someone but c’mon, would you say people in university that are dating now, would ask their sef that question? That theory is only feasible when you are single and ready to get married and want to start a new relationship, then you can always ask, but we all know some of our relationships started when we no Dey even see marriage in the nearest future, all of a sudden you just see them as the right person and you take the bold step. Now, I had to meet my family doctor here in Canada, I explained to him my current situation and he referred me to a GENETIC COUNSELOR. I am trying to take the necessary steps cause I am not ready to bring in a child with Sickle cell to this world, and I am not leaving anything to faith. A fone appointment was set with the counselor and we spoke at length. She told me that in every foetus, there is a 25% chance that we can get an SS child. Now , how do we mitigate this percentage to the barest minimum I asked as I am not even ready to bring in a sickler to this world. She gave me three options, I would rather say two because the last involves test when the baby comes, and that is out of the question.

Option 1:
A) CVS: They take a sample of the fluid in the womb through her vagina, at 12 weeks to test, if it’s good then fine, if not we have to terminate.

OR

B) At 16 weeks, they take the fluid using a needle directly from her womb, and if it’s SS , they terminate. Both procedures are cover by the government and we don’t need to pay a dime.

Now, she assured me that abortion is a very safe procedure if done properly, and it is even a bigger risk that one can die from a penicillin injection or carrying a pregnancy to term than any harm during an abortion.I know many people would come here and say abortion is this and that but let us be frank to ourselves. If you were told that the child in your womb would have cerebral palsy, or Down syndrome or a neurological disorder, would you still keep that pregnancy? Is there a 100% assurance that two AA people would give birth to a healthy baby? I have come to a realization that pregnancy is just a risk that people take, cus you really don’t know how your child would turn out.


Option 2:
PGD. This is just like IVF, where they would select the genotype before they insert back to the womb. She told me the government doesn’t cover this, and it could cost between $10K- $40k. However she mentioned, just like IVf, it is not guaranteed as it can fail and your money is gone.

I discussed this with my girl in Nigeria and she said she was fine with option 1a. I then asked her, that if the first, second are SS would she still remove it. She accepted. I would not lie to you, this girl is everything I want in a woman. I am not just looking at just love because I know love fades with time, but she is a really nice person, and has a good character. She has always been like this from my days in Nigeria because I was with her before I moved outside. Now after finding out our genotype, I tried to get into a relationship with AA. The first one Dey nigeria, she is a nice person, beautiful, but I just didn’t like her or feel attracted to her. She got tire and we just free ourselves, the second one is here in Canada, I just don’t like this one . Please note, I never slept with any of these ladies because I feel it’s not fair.


Now my question is for those who knew all this and still proceeded, how did it work out for you?

I repeat, don’t come here to tell me about how abortion is this and dat. Cus I know if they tell any of you that your child would be abnormal, 90% of you will go for the abortion

Continuous abortions will take a toll on her psychologically.

SS is not a joke by any means, it is better imagined

Go for tech skills anyone that best suits you

Murphy870:
Help, I’m a call member serving in Ibadan, i want to learn a skill but I’m confused about the type of skill to
lean and I don’t waste the whole year..All suggestions would be appreciated!

Disability especially in third world countries as ours is a great menace. It is not only unfair that the government neglect them and are only reactionary in their efforts towards them but also despicable that citizen refer to them in mean languages and some even make skits out of them.


https://dailytrust.com/being-disabled-in-nigeria-is-tortuous-gbenga-daniels-son/

Buhari's name excluded or is he not also a former head of state?

Urchins and their headline

Okay

Thank you sir

thorpido:
Okay.The pay will be good.The downside may just be the environment.....might be boring to you.

I am still at the documents processing stage

thorpido:
You have a job offer already or just want to go and look for one?

Hello nairaland community

What is your thought on traveling to Kuwait as a physiotherapist. I am currently thinking of taking up an opportunity to go and practice there.

I look forward to hearing the downsides, possibly interesting facts and all

Thank you

Trying too hard to give bad name to the easterners. The train abduction was by unknown gunmen but the gruesome killing was by identified ipob/esn who they failed to capture but they keep negotiating with the unknown gunmen who abducted people from the train and have raised no cause for alarm nor arrested them

I think anybody wise enough should be using the full faculties of his/her cerebral capabilities by now or simply understand he/she is brain dead if unable to rationally read between the lines

Kwanza:
https://www.facebook.com/354312648014400/posts/4755955024516785/

Why don't you set him free?

It is more than appalling supposed elites have time to paint conspiracies of all the challenges the country is passing through

Try staying in confinement without mobility and exercises for a while and know the implication

PrinceOfLagos:
Kanu is really looking good under DSS custody and from his appearance today at the court for continuation of his trial, Everyone can see that Kanu has added so much weight and even growing pot belly and fresher like never before all thanks to TAX PAYERS MONEY.

I would like to see if Sunday Igboho is enjoying the same treatment in Benin Republic Prison that Kanu is enjoying here in Nigeria . **LOOKS AWAY**

GOD BLESS NIGERIA

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omohayek:
Where exactly in SE London can one find these "£450/month all-inclusive" rooms you mention? And what kind of work would this wannabe "hustler" be doing in London for his or her workplace to be close to such a cheap room? And since when has earning £2,000 a month translated into £30,000 a year? Are you using some other sort of arithmetic than the one I'm familiar with, according to which the right figure should be £24,000?

Stop peddling lies and impossible dreams to the OP: London is one of the most expensive cities in the world, where even natural-born British citizens with decent jobs as policemen and teachers have real difficulty getting by, even when they've moved to the far outskirts of the city. Sums like £120 a day or £2,000 a month can seem like a lot to a Nigerian who is only thinking in terms of raw exchange rates, but once the cost of living in London is factored in, they turn out to be peanuts, not enough to sustain anything more than a barebones existence. For an unskilled wannabe illegal immigrant like the OP - with all the talk of "hustling" - even such low sums will be out of reach, and in the meantime there will be the constant strain from having to dodge authorities on the watch for, while working the sh*ttiest, low-prestige jobs where one's self-esteem will take a daily sustained battering. The notion that London is any sort of El-Dorado for someone who doesn't have in-demand skills is pure delusion.

To the OP, I'll say this much: if you aren't a qualified nurse or doctor, don't have strong programming skills, and aren't an engineer or accountant with years of experience at international firms like Shell and PWC, don't bother setting out for London, as all you are likely to find - if you ever even make it into the country in the first place - is suffering, humiliation and constant fear, living life at the very bottom rung of society. There are many "hustlers" in the UK who would love to return to what they had in Nigeria, but are unable to do so out of fear of losing face to all the people back home they've been feeding false tales of prosperity over the years.

Please enlighten me. I am a physiotherapists-to-be with a year of study to go in Nigeria and additional 2years of internship and youth service. Please what is my prospect in a country like UK in terms of getting a good job and quality of life generally sir? I would sure like to work outside Nigeria

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