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A Harare woman, Fadzai Chimboza, has been arrested and charged with aggravated indecent assault after allegedly f0rcing herself on her lodger's 10-year-old son.



Chimboza, 24, appeared before Harare regional magistrate Tilda Mazhande and was remanded in custody until January 29.



According to court documents, the abuse began in April 2024 when the boy, who lived with his parents in a Warren Park 1 home owned by Chimboza’s family, was allegedly lured into her room after school.



“She pulled the boy into her room, undressed him, and instructed him to lie on the bed,” the prosecutor revealed in court. When the boy resisted, Chimboza allegedly told him, "NDINODA KUKUITA ZVISINA KUKWANA," which translates to "I want to do indecent things to you."



The abuse allegedly continued on several occasions before being discovered on December 19, 2024, when the boy confided in his cousin, referring to Chimboza as his "girlfriend." His mother overheard the conversation, questioned him, and he disclosed the alleged incidents, leading to a police report and Chimboza’s arrest.



During her court appearance, Chimboza was not asked to enter a plea. Magistrate Mazhande stated that “bail can only be considered by the High Court”.The boy is currently receiving counselling, and police investigations are ongoing.https://m.lindaikejisblog.com/2025/1/woman-arrested-for-f0rcing-herself-on-10-year-old-boy-in-a-hotel-2.html

Here are the new rules for the 2024-2025 English Premier League season

- *Extra Added Time*: Referees will now add time for injuries, goal celebrations, and substitutions, and pause the clock when play stops.

- *Disciplinary Action for Time Wasting*: Goalkeepers and outfield players can receive a warning, yellow card, or other penalties for time-wasting.

- *Offside Rule*: A player in an offside position can become "onside" if an opponent moves and touches the ball.

- *Goalkeeper's Action During Penalties*: Goalkeepers can be disciplined for distracting the penalty taker.

- *Technical Area*: Coaching staff cannot crowd the technical area, and only one official can be in the dotted box outside the bench.

- *Dissent*: Players may be penalized for surrounding the referee to request a card or action.

- *Foul Threshold*: Referees can allow play to continue if a free kick would waste more time.

- *Law 1: The Field of Play*: The field must be natural or meet competition rules.

- *Law 2: The Ball*: All balls must be spherical and meet quality and measurement standards.

- *Law 3: The Players*: A match is played by two teams with a maximum of 11 players per team.

- *Law 4: Players' Equipment*: Players must wear approved equipment and cannot wear anything dangerous.

- *Law 5: The Referee*: Each match is controlled by a referee with the authority to enforce the Laws of the Game.

- *Law 6: Other Match Officials*: Assistant referees and other officials assist the referee in controlling the match.

- *Law 7: Duration of the Match*: A match lasts for two equal halves of 45 minutes unless otherwise stipulated.

- *Law 8: Start and Restart of Play*: A kick-off starts both halves of a match, and the team that kicks off the first half is decided by a coin toss.

- *Law 9: Ball In and Out of Play*: The ball is out of play when it has wholly crossed the goal line or touchline or the referee has stopped play.

- *Law 10: Determining the Match*: A goal is scored when the whole of the ball has passed over the goal line.

- *Law 11: Offside*: A player is in an offside position if they are closer to the opponent's goal line than both the ball and the second-to-last opponent.

- *Law 12: Fouls and Misconduct*: Direct and indirect free kicks and penalty kicks can be awarded for offences committed when the ball is in play.

- *Law 13: Free-Kicks*: Direct and indirect free kicks are awarded for different types of fouls.

- *Law 14: The Penalty Kick*: A penalty kick is awarded if a player commits a foul inside their own penalty area.

- *Law 15: The Throw-In*: A throw-in is awarded to the opponents of the team that last touched the ball when it wholly crosses the touchline.

- *Law 16: The Goal Kick*: [/b]A goal kick is awarded when the whole of the ball has passed over the goal line and was last touched by a player from the attacking team.

- *[b]Law 17: The Corner Kick*: A corner kick is awarded when the whole of the ball has passed over the goal line and was last touched by a player from the defending team.https://www./282760873981145/permalink/1000318925558666/

The Moment controversial socialist,Reno Omokri was seen in the midst of white lions.

He captioned it "walking with lions in the Wild jungle of Zimbabwe and Zambia".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lqa_R4ediqE?si=0fb4_Udqw-SX5OSt

Sorry day. Liverpool 4 Manchester United 1

A 26 year young Nigerian girl Miss Chidimma from Ezeagu Enugu state, died in Bangladesh in Asia.
She is from Agulu Umana in Ezeagu Enugu state.

Earlier before her demise, she was a prisoner in Bangladesh but was killed with lethal injection after she complained of cold and fever.

Please, if you know her family members kindly contact them so they will help to carry her corpse back to Nigeria.

Rip omalichaa nwaa.
For further report kindly call this no for assistance +91 91786 99890. Please share 😭 . So painful.
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No one o. Though i have my ATM pin , pension login details, banks app password, phone pattern and social media passwords all written on a paper . They are all kept inside my untouched documents file because no be we get life na God get am.

Chemical they have been using for ages. Anyway, is very common in Lagos and i haven't heard about any ugly incidence of the consumption on people because of the chemical effect.

One of the richest skit comedians, Mark Angel has finally granted Emmanuella and Success freedom to manage their finances with an independent agency.

Recall that months back, Denis Igwe exposed how Emmanuella and Success finances were managed by Mark Angel sighting ugly incidence of overbearing attitude towards the kids comedians.
Though, the comedian claims their is no correlation between Dennis Igwe's allegations with his current decision. https://youtube.com/shorts/ryA_Kc_ALYk?si=1XIXOtjfzdWlSX7a

nice one from the Presidency

Masquerade named "FEARLESS" terrorising innocent women and passers-by in the South East has been apprehended by soldiers after several distress calls by the victims.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gG0LQTr72pg?si=hrxAB6Uv92kfhCxA

nnachukz:
What is wrong with this city? My money is on you guys no burn my ticket o.

Be calming down. Your 3 point is 100% certain.
No go dey bet next if you no get mind.

God1000:
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GEJ cannot control the cabals

Man city will win this.
Man U will win or it will end in draw.

jmoore:
I wanted to transfer 10,000 naira into one of my accounts, I decided to make it 9,999 naira. Timlubu don jam nwa aba.

Ha. Oil dey your head. I don learn new thing

Have observed it since yesterday on my Palmpay account.
élĕyi ló far.

Zonefree:
One harmattan period, I unplugged our evil fridge to plug this demonic boiler cos I been wan bath hot water. I ignorantly put hand inside the bucket of water to check if it's hot enough, na so this wicked boiler knack me for ground.

I stood up and unplugged the boiling ring and plug the fridge, na so the fridge also knack me for ground.

I was on the ground for over five minutes observing the fridge and the boiler. Na that day I conclude say na electric shock kill me for my former life.

Comedians plenty for this nairaland . Una no go kill me with laugh

Homeboiy:
1997 e throw me down cos I put hand inside a boiling water

You no well aje. You're so funny

Very interesting

“We know the power of the president. I’m a system man; I respect him.

“If the president wants to use his power to pass the tax bill, he may have his way, but it has its consequences for the people.”

They are truly having sleepless night

Women by nature are very manipulative. For ages women have used various weapons to bring great men up or down including the likes of, Solomon, Samson and the rest.
However, studies have shown that women possess these tactics when they're faced with challenges and in most cases comes out victorious in such situations.

1. The emotional victim trap

She has mastered the art of emotional manipulation by positioning herself as the perpetual victim.

Every argument, every disagreement - somehow it always comes back to her pain, her suffering, and how you're responsible for it. It's a subtle but powerful tactic that plays on your empathy.

She knows that by presenting herself as the innocent party, you'll feel guilty enough to give in to her demands or neglect your own feelings. It's a method designed to handcuff you emotionally and make you doubt your actions while she quietly pulls the strings.

What makes this tactic so effective is the way she encourages you to become her emotional guardian. She doesn't need to ask you directly to do things for her; instead, she creates a narrative in which you feel obliged to meet her needs because she's been through so much.

You become the fixer, constantly trying to repair her emotional state while she sits back and reaps the benefits. This is manipulation, but it disguises it as vulnerability, making it hard to spot unless you're really paying attention.

2. The silent treatment

Sometimes the most powerful words are the ones you don't say. Women who use the silent treatment know exactly what they're doing.

By ceasing to communicate with you and leaving you in the dark, they create a psychological storm that leaves you uncomfortable, uncertain and desperate for a solution.

This tactic plays on your natural desire for harmony and stability in relationships. When she falls silent, you begin to question yourself, rethinking every conversation, wondering where you went wrong.

It's a deliberate maneuver to take control without uttering a single word. This silence can last for hours, even days, until you go back, trying to make things right - and that's exactly what she wants.

The more you try to bridge the gap, the more she takes control of the situation. It's all about making you uncomfortable enough to come to her on her terms, even if she's the one who caused the problem in the first place.

You may not realize it, but during these periods of silence, she's waiting for you to take the lead, knowing that every second of silence erodes your trust.

3. The gaslighting technique

Gaslighting is one of the most insidious tactics of manipulation. It involves making you doubt your own reality, your own perceptions.

She distorts conversations, denies what she has said and manipulates situations so that you question your memory and judgment. You'll begin to wonder if you're the one who's crazy, even though you know deep down that something doesn't add up.

This tactic makes you constantly doubt yourself, which gives it the edge in every situation, because you're no longer sure what's real and what's not.

The intelligence of gaslighting lies in its subtlety. It doesn't need to lie overtly; it just needs to sow enough doubt.

It's in the little comments, the shrugging conversations, the way she brushes off your concerns as if they weren't important.

Over time, these little manipulations build up until you're questioning your own sanity, and that's when she wins. Once you've lost confidence in your own mind, she can dictate the reality of the relationship, spinning things in her favor while you struggle to make sense of it all.

You'll end up apologizing for things you didn't even do, or accepting blame for situations you know weren't your fault.

This is the ultimate goal of gaslighting: to make you doubt yourself to the point of ceding control to it, while believing that it's you who's at fault.

The longer the situation goes on, the harder it is to untangle the web of lies and regain your self-esteem.

4. Manipulating your social circle

A woman who knows how to manipulate will use your social circle against you.

She'll subtly sow doubt and discontent among your friends, family or colleagues, leading them to question your decisions, your character or even your relationship.

She may do this under the guise of worry or concern, but her aim is to isolate you from people who might support or validate your point of view.

By sowing discord in your network, she weakens your support system, making you more dependent on her for approval and affirmation.

She often starts in small ways: mentioning to your friend that you're distant, or hinting to your family that she's worried about your behavior.

It's all done with a smile and a soft voice, but the implications are powerful. Over time, you'll notice that your loved ones start to treat you differently, question your decisions, even side with her in times of conflict. And the worst part?

You may not realize it until it's too late, because his manipulation is so subtle, so well disguised, that it goes unnoticed.

5. The damsel in distress power play

The damsel in distress routine isn't about helplessness, it's about power. Women who use this tactic know that by appearing vulnerable and in need of rescuing, they can trigger your protective instincts.

You rush to help her, to solve her problems and, in doing so, you become more invested in her. The more you invest in her, the more weight she carries.

It's a classic manipulative tactic that plays on your desire to be the hero, but what you may not realize is that she's orchestrating the whole scenario to her advantage. Every time you rescue her, whether from a financial problem, an emotional crisis or a conflict with someone else, you're not just helping her; you're deepening your emotional and psychological ties with her, and she knows it.

The more you help her, the more you feel responsible for her well-being.

She's not just playing the victim; she's reinforcing your role as savior and making sure you come back, even if it's at your expense.

6. "You're overreacting" rejection.

This is a classic deflection tactic used to invalidate your feelings and prevent you from addressing the real issues. When you express your concerns or frustrations, she's quick to put a stop to them by saying you're overreacting or being too sensitive.

The aim is to make you doubt your own emotional reactions, forcing you to repress your feelings to avoid conflict.

This keeps the relationship on its terms, as your feelings are never fully acknowledged or taken into account.

Over time, this tactic can give you the impression that your emotions don't matter.

You begin to internalize the idea that your concerns are irrational and stop bringing them up.

This not only gives him greater control over the dynamics of the relationship, but also allows him to silence you, ensuring that any problems are swept under the carpet before they disrupt his control.

The longer this goes on, the more power she has over your emotional state. You're trained to minimize your own feelings and prioritize hers, even when your concerns are valid.

It's a slow erosion of your emotional autonomy and, by the time you realize it, you're already immersed in a cycle of manipulation where her feelings take precedence over everything else.

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Padipadi:
Livestream site o

Enjoy this.


Let me recommend you this application. Nice app for video matches with streaming live.

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Sossylee:
Which app or site person fit use watch this match abeg

Watch Live Football Tv Sports.. @
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Download it on playstore and watch

Lamidi Apapa nko.
Haven't heard about him for a while now

Awo ni werey. For the purpose of interpretation, what i mean is oyibo people are rich

Lordbinsmar:
Una get problem ooo

Aswear

Yourprick:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zc9A7TnR1ks?si=3Aj6fZV4XzI2B0ys

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Good news. Let the price of Fuel( diesel, kerosene and gas) start coming down.
Let there be massive reflection of refineries on the poor masses.
Nice one from the administration .