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Your wife's brothers

Kerosene business is not advisable for someone with young,growing kids and just "starting and picking up" financially cos it's a high risk biz, IMO. A little spark and everything goes down.

Even Okirika/used clothes biz. No be who chop belleful dey buy clothes?

IMO,a better option would be rendering a service that is :
High demand
Brings in guaranteed DAILY sales and income
Low risk

Food stuff, groceries, household needs, teaching etc etc

pantherapardus:
Does it matter? I was searching google for how I could get help and realised nairaland was a place to get help. I had been reading threads on nairaland for some years but never registered. I didn't even know one had to register before making comments until today.

This is hilarious. You were searching google on how to get "financial help"? I never knew google works like that

Anyhoos,welcome to Nairaland.

^^ Are they visiting family in the UK or staying in a hotel?
What does the 32yrs old lady do?

Single 32yrs old traveling with a 13 yrs old might raise red flags ------ child trafficking.

Oluwa!

I hope no one died?

blizard44:
You on social media?

Dem dey count fish cray-fish still dey make noise.

Better sit your silly ass up and go meal hustling.

Lmao

alutacontinua:
Get a better lawyer!

Gbam!

That's the solution. you can also try sending a mail to Festus Keyamo.

There's always a way out. Trust Deira park boys .

beckytunde:
I think the poster has shared it all.
..

Well, I did'nt get it, unless maybe she edited part of her post.

What hapened:- she lost her job/business folded, the hubby nko, what she studied in school, what she can do etc

She does not have to respond oooo.I just asked, she can decide to ignore.

cococandy:
traditional marriage. The man doesn't have to be there. He can be represented.

Only God knows the trailer load of lies he swallowed from that yahoo boy.

Plausible. Thanks

An allegation, innocent until proven guilty.

Now, that you got the "emotional" part off your chest, can you now share your story/situation without sentiments, if you will ma'am?

You could get help from here, someone might learn one or two things.

Jblaiseboy:
Anyi? how many people una be?...una be legion?

Legion of arubas
Legion of ndi anwuru
Legion of umu asa

Infact, Legion of legions

Cheap flights maka ndi bu cheap am*

Tosh, so onodu gi a gbanwebeghi? Owu ka na apa gi dis bad? Leenu ma I ga-eso Nwa Darfur aga oru " o buru nshi" na abali

The work riiii dirty mana the £ ri crisp.

Nnenne, ndewo, nwanyi oma. Very soon, Ikomi na FromUk ga adabata,not forgetting Romeo.

Darfur, you suppose ima Nnenne anyi now. Owu Aruba from far back.

How did they " marry in Nigeria" when they've never met?

I cannot spell everything in black and white for you. Iykebethany have dropped some hints for you regarding a Nigerian "renting" an apartment in Ghana. If na school you want go for Ghana, join other students for hostel.

Na you sabi.

What help specifically do you need?

Accommodation? ---- ask Dr Obengs secretary or any of the many Francophone students in the school. They all stay in hostels around Lapaz and Abeka. Rate should be between ghs100 ( 4 in a room) per month or ghs150 (2 in a room) per month. Some hostels ask for 3 or 4 months advance payment.

As a student + Nigerian, I won't advise you to rent a room, go to a hostel! It's safer, cheaper and better for u.

rollingpoint027:
@ifyalways.....i wanna take up a 3months course there,Dr Peace is a nice woman and she has always been chatting with on whatsapp for close to a month now.....i will appreciate any help as dis is my first time of visiting ghana. wanna talk privately or on here?

Abeg ooo. Dr Peace I know is a man!
Handsome, I agree but he's a man.

@Iyke, while I agree with u that some "schools" in GH generally are over-hyped, Ambassadors college is actually a good one.
However, if the OP already has a first degree, I really can't get what he will be doing/ studying at Ambassadors. Languages maybe

@OP, is this your "Ambassadors college " the one on 2 storey building by lapaz junction?

Wow, Ambassadors college is owned by my very good family friend, Dr Peace Obeng.

@OP, are u working or schooling there? I could help, depending on your reply

Whatever they do, a hair on my "Ayew" should not be touched

Sour losers

Ayew

Equi. Guinea wo firi hen?

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Goooooo Black stars

Imo adigo nma

Bunk, I can understand but does he also pay for "mattress" every year?

Hahaha. Comic relief

looks like scam

guru01:
What are you waiting for?

We need to talk. Kindly email me via ifyalways at gmail dot com
Tried to ring you but your mobile is not reachable

Tobilastik:
still in front jhare

m putting on a pink gown

A man on a pink gown? Not nice!

Yeah right

You wouldn't trust your late BF's family with the baby but would hand her to a stranger? How would you determine the financial status of whichever stranger that comes your way?

Another story please

This script won't sell ooo. Nobody go gree market am.

mutter:
When you have nothing to live for, then you have everything to die for!

The fact that it keeps happening shows that the men are not all suddenly going mad.

A man that had worked so hard brought his much younger wife here to Germany, when they come to church the wife was so rude to the man, perhaps because she was better educated. I quickly grabbed hold of her and drew her aside. I warned her that her husband was respected in this community and if she ever tried it again where I was I would shred her to bits. Foolish girl!

These greedy bitches accept a man they do not love and are ashamed of just to get out of Nigeria and then they want to ruin the man.
Do you know that these men have worked so hard for so many years! Received all kinds of insults from society and then you bring this young girl and she gives you the final insult to let you know you are = 0.
How many of them come here with nothing and soon the man is out of his own home on the streets and having to pay maintenance.
When the study in America, they are able to do so because the man brought them there.
Nursing is not even a good paying job, like any menial job you can gather money if you work enough hours. While they are at work they cannot perform as wife`s so of what use is the work if it does not benefit the family?

No matter how educated or how much money they have a woman must humble herself and treat her husband with the utmost respect in all situations. That is not just good for the man but also for the children. The children are raised in an environment where the learn respect and manners.
That is what you get when a man that has struggled for years gets dragged into the mud in his own home. A man that has struggled and faced discrimination and abuse outside. Treat him like a king at home so that he can feel like the man he is, that will give him the strength to keep struggling.
Instead these women get rude, function like they don`t have a family, neglect the welfare of their husbands and homes and go running after the dollars.

I quite agree with some of your posts, however, nothing justifies murder.
Agreed, those men were pushed to the wall but ending the marriage as opposed to the wife's life is a better option.

Well, the ladies are the ones getting killed because of their greed. You know you don't love a man, then don't jump into marriage just so you escape poverty.

tunrybabe:
Av read all ur comments. And I agree that av been foolish, can't believe this is happening to me. Am I dreaming? I already promised God and d unborn baby that I won't commit abortion, if not d preg is just 3 weeks. Iv learnt my lesson. Thanks to all
To dose that tried to mail me, d mail addy isn't functioning now, u can get me on 0805.I need ur sincere advice plsssssssssssssssssssssss.

What's your number for? I hope this whole story is not a scam? Next thing, who's gonna adopt/ foster / buy the baby

If you are for real, are you capable of taking care of this child when s/he comes, do you want the child? It's just 3 weeks, DC is an option. . .my opinion.

Make the best decision for yourself cos you'd be the one to live and deal with it. Don't forget to buy the 12 yards each of wisdom and self respect and stuff 6 yards each in your heart and head.

All the best.