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I think it's time to rename that bride. The gods must be angry with the name.

This abound when you're dating.
Immature and un-serious minded people DATE, while mature and serious minded people COURT.

So in your case, permit me to say you're still immature and un-serious. If you can find a replacement of boyfriend in your department, you will find also in your church, in place of industrial training, in NYSC, in your work place when you start working.

For the mature minds, LOVE is not found, it's built.
I just hope my ense will not kill me.

RIP to the dead.

Please try as much as possible to avoid any form of argument with armed security operatives. Almost all of them are insane. They are only trained on how to pull trigger. They are mentally and psychologically unstable. They don't think. Please, as a first rule, avoid them at all cost

Romans 12:18
If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

RIP to the dead.

Please try as much as possible to avoid any form of argument with armed security operatives. Almost all of them are insane. They are only trained on how to pull trigger. They are mentally and psychologically unstable. They don't think. Please, as a first rule, avoid them at all cost.

mharyamikeola92:
Pls help me move this to front page.

I am a working class lady and I hardly demand things from whosoever I love.

There is this guy that I ave been dating for years now. I don’t know what to call his behavior, whether it is stinginess or the other way round.

I noticed that whenever he comes visiting, he doesn’t bring anything and I get to cook and takecare of him. I was forced to talk 1 day.

The last time he came visiting, he brought bread and other stuffs along which he ended up eating all by himself. I decided not to cook or do anything but I couldn't take it so we went out to buy stuffs. I needed to use POS and I forgot my phone at home. So I begged him to transfer 5k to the lady and that I was going to transfer back to him when we get home. We ended up using the money to get chicken, pepper and other stuffs.

On getting home I demanded for his account details in order to transfer the money back and to my surprise, he gave me and I transferred the money.

My major concern is that this guy has never given me common N10 and he is working. I don’t know if he's worth settling down with cos I fear for my future. Will he be able to give if he has more? This is the guy that is already telling me to come meet his mum cos she wants to see me.

Pls no insults, just advice.

See James 5:16 if you're a Christian.

Discuss it with him and help him learn it. He might not see it to be anything. At a point in everyone's life, we have to learn, re-learn and unlearn. And then take your decision from his willingness to change.

Here's not the place for the advice you're seeking.

Please is there any one here that apply for Africa Regional Centre for Information Science? Please what sup with this department in terms of admission? i dont hear anything about this department.

Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

Young girl, this is not the best place for the kind of advise you're seeking for. i would advice you go to the unmarried aged ladies in your church for this advice if you're a christian or anyone close to you before you turn your thing from National open university to Global open university. Are you from Edo?

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hmm!

[quote author=Amagite3 post=67150263]Big brother Naija 2018 winner, Miracle has admitted himself and Nina actually had sex in the house, and according to him, he's only human.

He made this known in an interview with Delphinator.

When asked if they had sex in the house, he said;

"Yeah, we were intimate"

Asked if it was a strategy, he said;

"All these strategy thing, I didn't go in with any strategy, I was Just being myself, whatever I did inside, I'd do outside. Sex is the last thing I'd use as a strategy. I am human, so I no even send those things"


Watch the interview here; https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/04/bbnaija-miracle-admits-he-had-sex-with-nina-in-the-house-video.html


wiliu kikwayet...Collins did u hear that?

Nina, Nina, Nina...

eyeview:
I have a few friends who regret till date why they didnt walk away at the altar than the hell they are passing thru in the hands of the women they married.
Its still better to abscond on wedding day than a lifetime of hell with a bad wife or husband

Bros i agree with u, but it wasn't just a day plan before it get to the alter. Why will you start what you know u'r not going to complete. He that put his hands on a plough and look back is not fit for the journey. Its a common saying that "u look before u lip" and not to lip before u look. my take anyway,

prechbills1:
she'd only provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage, I'd provide 20.

I don't know why you guys reason this way

noxide:
Please advice?

Your mum has given you enough advice yet you chose to take advice from people who know nothing about you or your family.

Better listen to your mum!

Weeks or months later you will create a new nairaland ID and start sharing stories that touch.

Hear your mama hear your papa, life go better for u

madridguy:
From your write up I think she's trying to test you and see how you will react to her dark side too. She might as well be hurt to hear the dark side of you and maybe she cooked something up to see your reaction too.

My observation though.

Honestly, Its brain draining for a girl to refuse you of sex in a relationship for whatever reasons while she bleeps around with other dude. Anyways, this is insulting to my personality. I had a similar experience back in my school days. My first ever girlfriend denied me of sex all through while i was in school, maybe because i was broke then i wouldn't know exactly. But she later got pregnant and
now had a son of about nine yes old and now she wanna do anything to have me back and guess what...?

My brother, women are different people oooo....so open ur eyes

Jeus:
A twitter user with the name, Ashleynextdoor, shared a tweet of her pictures of her boyfriend that she met at 13 and got pregnant for at 14 and their child.

She also complains about her baby pictures got into Nigerian blogs.

NEWS VIA: http://www.jamienaija.com/2017/07/lovely-photos-of-17-yr-old-girl-who-met.html

And then what?

Its so unfortunate the student in question got himself into trouble. I am not in support of the killing, but barging into an adult room in such a school environment wasn't appropriate. Do not scratch your body the way it itches, Even if the accommodation is for free, the so called landlord should have respected his privacy. He just got himself killed.....self defence...case close

training tins...

Always get a clear understanding before you pass any judgment. It seems u don't understand when u read. Please read again

Did you read at all?

The woman mentioned it during testimony that she is giving 500,000 to the church as tithe[/quote]