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hasyak:
@igbogirl,

am sure u dont mean what u say about women and money, infact the most people wit this habit r u

confirmed

And the most people with your habit of always making noise about money are the ones that have few nairas or dollars in their bank account.

You men are really desperate to have girls depend on you for money! In case you haven't realized women are the ones making the money this days and even bringing the bacon home. So yall should stop yarning that dust about using money to get a girl. How much do you or any of the guys making noise about money have that can make a girl weak?

The only girls that will lower themselves to depend on a man financially are the lazy ones with no ambition and no self worth. And lets not also forget about the lazy Nigerian men

ezme:
Thats why your sisters from your end of 9ja over here go about forming big girls. Wanting to go to places they won't take themselves to on their own.
no be for here you take dey list designers,your comment doesn't confirm that you have them.The fact you know about them does not mean you have some in your closet

Oh waoh! Really? Good observation!

ezme:
Don't come here and talk about things you only see on TV,
prada nii Gucci ko

The fact that you've never been in contact with a designer anything doesn't mean others are like you.

rhymz:
@Poster,
Whoever taught U english shouldt be short dead.
I have never heard the word "pregnated" let alone "to pregnated"
which market did U attend as school?

I really hope you are not trying to criticize him for his grammatical errors because yours is bad as well.

ob2ce:
So how do you explain girls that are richer than the guys they are with still wanting the guy to provide for them financially. Some girls can't help being dependent!!

Girls richer than guys only want the guys to provide for them just to know that the guy can actually stand up to the occassion. Rich girls don't depend on guys all the time and besides, i don't call it depending if the girl can actually afford whatever it is she wants the guy to get for her. Being dependent is when you totally rely on a guy and having no means to provide for yourself financially.
You men ride on this dependent bus way too often that your logics have been clouded.

Some of you women are really sensitive. He was her boyfriend, he could have said that to her as just an observation, he probably didn't intend to insult her. If your boobs have sagged then they have why get mad when someone notices and points it out to you especially your boyfriend? Outsiders don't notice cos you wear bra but your boyfriend will notice and I see nothing wrong with it if he points it out just once, it's not like he will forever point it out to you or make fun of you cos of it.

Some of us women need to be proud of our bodies and stop being too sensitive over harmless remarks.
If the girl was proud of her sagged boobs and comfortable with her naked body I bet you she would have replied with something like this "oh yeah they have, it's all part of female body development especially with age but don't mention it again I might get uncomfortable"

Anyway, @ Poster, just move on with your life cos that girl obviously didn't love you enough.

Miss EZ:
igbogirl de vex sha


but seriously guys get over urself. money isnt everything.

LOL

It gets annoying when these guys refer to money gazillion times like we don't make our own money.

You mean sagging your jeans? No grown man should sag his jeans!

Nope I can't do without handbags! They are my favorite accessories!

Why do most of you Nigerian men always bring up the issue of money when dealing with girls, talking about using money to get a girl? Which money will yall use to woo a girl? Your tuition money? Or your rent money? Some of you making this bogus claims about money are probably still in school, so where is that money you have that can make a girl fall for u? If you have a career then good but how much is your salary? Do you men really think you can afford a girl's expenses?

Seriously, some of you Nigerian men need to think twice before making claims about money. Can you buy gucci, christian louboutin, prada, yves saint laurent etc for a girl? With that chicken change some of you are making as your salaries I doubt that. Taking a girl out to a restaurant does not qualify as spending money on a girl. Besides, what gives you men the impression that yall have more money than us women?

I don't know how the girls in Nigeria are acting but some of us Nigerian girls abroad do not give a damn about your money. None of you can afford my shoes muchless the handbags I carry and I don't rely on a man to buy them for me.

Radiant:
OK guys let's get it straight.

The topic that actually made me start this thread was https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-332394.0.html. The guy was simply expressing his likeness for Somali girls. The rest is history.

I don't believe any people/race is better than the other. If someone prefers a person from outside his race/people let's respect that. Marrying a Nigerian is no guarantee for a happy married life and same goes to marrying outside your people.

Let's learn to respect other people's preference and choices without feeling inferior. That's what makes you superior instead. One person's opinion does not equal a fact. It's a mere opinion. Let's learn to be unprejudiced.

This story ain't true and the posts I made were just to get y'all talking and speak you mind.
Sorry if I hit nerves and I apologise for any wrong words I used. It was just a way to get everyone talking and it's amazing how unpredictable people are.

We talk about inter-tribal marriage in Nigeria, everyone goes ballistic. We talk about inter-racial marriage, everyone is on the loose. We compare black and white people and everyone gets mad.

Can't we just be ourselves and do things without being called names? Can't we all see ourselves as one or at least respect people?

Anyway, sorry it was a trick but I've enjoyed ever post here.

Y'all enjoy!

Awww I see you had a change of heart? Well, that's good.

koolchicco:
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Ma Sister e be like say u wan swear for person head 2day.

Kesikwa ogodo gi ike oo!

lool e kesiri m ogodo m ike ofuma ofuma

nene1:
well nigerian men and black men in general love to do that more than nigerian women. you guys love to talk about how east african, brazilian, asian etc, women are better looking than black women and have better attitudes. and when we respond you say we are jealous and have inferiority complex. well it's a taste of your own medicine.

uhm maybe you didn't see my name IGBOGIRL meaning I'm a girl not a man so why would i be saying east african women are better looking? the same way i'm going at Radiant is same way i go at any man that shares her crappy  mentality.

Spicyboy01:
IGBOGIRL

RADIANT RAN AWAY LIKE A MAD DOG,

MICHEALL IS HERE TO DEFEND THEIR ILLICIT TRADE IN ITALY,

lool can you imagine that girl coming in a Nigerian forum to insult Nigerian men and expecting us to applaud her. If one can't handle the heat then no need being in the kitchen. Why is she running? lol

Radiant:
Then relax naaaa

I am very relaxed. You are still yet to tell us what qualities the men in your family have. I mean you must have seen things you don't like that made you conclude the white man is better. So, please do share with us what those qualities are.

You can't make a generalization without having evidences/proofs to back it up.

Radiant:
Could you tell just a lil' bit about your father? Just a lil' bit

I am not the thread starter you are so I can't take your shine girl.

Radiant:
Calm down girl. I hope you didn't just register on NL to talk to me. Or perhaps got a new name.  

What have those questions got to do with your thread? Are you now deviating from your own topic? I thought you wanted to down play Black men and Nigerian men? I am giving you an opportunity to dish it all out and you are backing down?
Don't bite more than you can chew sweetie.

Radiant:
You should have quickly told me about you Dad's qualities to 'convince me'. D'u know your father?  

As a matter of fact I do and I have seen through my father that Nigerian men are the best fathers in the world. I see many qualities in my father that I look for in men I date. Can you say that of yours?

michelin89:
Her choice of a husband has nothing to do with her father so stop being a nuisance.

And stop being stupid!
Her choice of a husband has everything to do with her father. Maybe her father wasn't a good role model, didn't show her through the way he treated her mother that black men are just as good. Why would a girl brought up by a Nigerian father ask for the qualities of Nigerian men? Doesn't she have Nigerian men in her family that could have shown her those qualities she's asking for?

Radiant:
Lovely. . .

I've asked you guys to tell me what Nigerian men can offer and yet no one seems to have an answer I am not the horse now, you are so let me hear from your mouth

Please, what makes y'all think white men are richer than black men? Dang! And I'm marrying for money? That's the mentality an an average Nigerian

Ermm. . .waiting to hear the adorable qualities of a Nigerian man.

Give us the qualities of your father!

@ LeiLah

<<Congratulations and best of luck.  Look forward to getting your breakfast in bed! even on your day off,

As my husband says jokingly "a black man can never be a gentleman".

I bet ya you will be looked after and any cultural dfferences will work to YOUR advantage.

You can chill out and have a drink and even a smoke without being called names>>

So, you are telling us black men do not bring breakfast in bed? Don't condemn the whole apple tree just cos there are few rotten ones in it. every race have their bad men. you ladies might have been unfornate to date the wrong black men but yall have to know that most black men are good in fact most Nigerian men are good. And our men can be gentlemen so your husband needs to shut the eff up! I'm ashamed you actually agreed with him so you are saying your father was never a gentleman to your mother?
I happen to be dating a black man (an Igbo man) and he's brought breakfast to me in bed couple of times and he regularly sends me flowers. we go out on dates on a regular basis. i don't think your man or radiant's white man can be more of a gentleman than my man.
Don't expect black men to treat you ladies as queens if you people are not doing anything to deserve it. And of course you deserve to be called names if you smoke. did your mother teach u to smoke? it is not in our culture for a young woman to be smoking. you are obviously heavily influenced by the western world hence why u ladies tend to date the white men that have no culture or custom

@Radiant

I'm guessing the white men are also better than your African/Black father?

Feel free to tell us how white men are better than your brothers and the rest of the men in your family.