Chei! Some Naija wives sha na wa for them! Maybe you two should talk to someone she respects, maybe a pastor or priest that will speak some senses into her and let her know the importance of respecting her partner.

If your husband is so busy with his own life that he could care less about yours or spending time with you then why aren't you looking for a life of your own? What a man can do a woman can do better. If he's ignoring you and refusing to eat your food then start ignoring him and stop cooking for two. Take on more responsibilities at work, spend time with your friends, do things that will occupy your time. When he's ready to change or sensible enough to care he will recognize that you've stopped bothering yourself with his whereabouts and then will probably wanna talk to you about it and maybe even tell you what he thinks about the marriage. Seriously, some women just enjoy taking a lot of bull55it from men when they don't have to. There is no mutual love in that marriage and your love alone cannot sustain the marriage. So, you need to start planning a life without him in it and safe your life.
His parents didn't approve of your union? Hmmm that was definetely a sign on the wall. And I'm sure his parents are in support of what he's doing to you. They probably already have another woman for him to marry.

Why are you all labeling her a liar? Do you know her personally to actually know that she was lying? Not every 19 year old girl have their mind set on a boyfriend. At 19, I didn't have a boyfriend and I wasn't sleeping around either so, I definitely can relate and understand where she's coming from.

This is so disgusting on many levels  Why would you want your man to take what you've chewed from your mouth? *yuck* some women can be disgusting! I understand taking a large piece of food eg meat or cake with your teeth (food not fully inside your mouth) then asking your partner to take a bite from the opposite side of the food that isn't yet in your mouth

Not all men are bad! There are good ones which is good news and my boyfriend is one of them
the bad news is that all the good ones are either taken or gay

poster is just a confused somebody, didn't you say in your previous postings that you don't like Black women? So, why are you f*&king one? Oh wait! She has money! You are such a gold digger! Broke a55 id1otic f00l

What an evil p3dophile so you wanna f*&k her without condom cos she's a virgin and may not give you STD? What if she gets pregnant? You think STD is the only thing that can happen without using condom? You are a big id#ot and a p3dophile like you should be locked up!
I really hope the girl's father can read your mind and know your intentions towards his daughter and deal with you accordingly. Ekwenzu odu ogologo!



Seriously, Seun What is so inappropriate with the word p3dophile that you have to censore it and call it a cradle robber? pssshhhh!

Mr-Cork:

beecuase they are gold diggers and the chop your moiney!!

oh so the men are gold diggers! hmmm interesting, makes a lot of sense

kokoye:

the poster claimed she is begging for attention and you are feeding it.

And yet here you are feeding it as well *hiss*

segzi cres:

i think the peolple around you are all lazy ppl b'cos the pple i knoware natural born hustlers and are very busy. i think you should change your circle of friends.

Sweetie, not just ppl around me, it's on the news, internet, everywhere! Natural born hustlers eh? You mean yahoo yahoo? You men are definitely natural on that! You men are hustlers when it comes to quick cash! Tell me why most Nigerian men that came abroad years ago are still party promoters with no degree yet their female counterparts that came same year as them have 2 degrees and a booming career?

Why have Nigerian men become so lazy with no jobs or career leaving all the responsibilities on their women? It's a trend now for Nigerian men abroad to go back home and marry a wife, take her oversea and force her to be a nurse so she can be the sole bread winner of the house while the man does nothing. Funny part is that the so called lazy men wouldn't wanna help in house chores, they still have the mentality that it is a woman's duty. They expect their successful women to come back home after hard day at work to cook and clean for them. And heaven forbids the woman brags about her success to her man or refuses to perform her so called wife duties, she pays for it with her life. There has been stories about Nigerian men killing their wives and most of these women are nurses!

So many anti Nigerian women threads on here so it's time for anti Nigerian men thread! Bunch of you men are lazy bums with egos larger than an elephant and nothing to show for it. Just cos the women choose to remain silent doesn't mean they have nothing against you. I am done keeping quiet! Any man on here that says crap about Nigerian women will get even more crap said about Nigerian men from yours truly.

Are unsuccessful men boring and useless? Yes!!

smanuel:


@Igbogirl There is a flaw in intelligence. Most intelligent people dont know when to stop, and thats because they are usually right even when they are wrong and in NL you see them a lot. I do not have time to waste on back and forth. Sorry dear.

How convinient!

smanuel:

B.S

That's all you could come up with? You had so much to say before but now questions have been directed at you you call it BS? LOOL You amuse me!

smanuel:


You People?? How dare you I dont give f, K how long you have lived in the States, or how blue your passport is, how many ways you change your name, how well your accent has evolved, how many american kids you have, you are still Nigerian, denounce it all you want. At the end of the day, "Nigerian-American Immigrant" will precede your name or your parents name, either way, success or failure. Believe me, this is coming from a a person whose doesn't care a hoot about African and Nigeria in particular before I visited.  (You People) that you refer to have a very strong indomitable spirit that you can not begin to imagine. In the face of such hopelessness and plenty, people are still striving and surviving. In case you are wondering, I am half Nigerian and I visit that country 3 times a year and I love it, despite its challenges. Its my believe that (YOU PEOPLE) will make that nation better. Stay in the States, Nigerian-American Igbo Girl!  

How dare me? LMFAO!!! If you don't give a f*#k then what the f*#k was your ranting all about?
Yes! I said "you people" meaning Nigerians living in Nigeria! What is your emotional rant all about? If you want Nigerians living abroad to come home then make Nigeria favorable for them. Fix Nigeria up and welcome them back home properly. Don't ask them to come home where they can't find a job or fight for jobs with those who's been living in Nigeria. If Nigerians in Nigeria can't even change Nigeria for the better while living there for how many years what makes them think those returning home can? Unless you people think Nigerians abroad are better equipped to develop Nigeria than Nigerians in Nigeria?
What is there to come back home to? Come back to kidnappings, bad roads, arm robberies, lack of electricity, lack of good healthcare, constant strikes by university professors and healthcare professionals due to govt refusing to pay them? When Nigeria is fixed and changed for the better trust me Nigerians abroad will not wait to be asked to return home.

You can be mixed with anything, half Nigeria half Chinese or whatever I could care less cos I don't see the relevance! If you visit 3 times a year, what contributions have you made so far? What schools, hospitals, roads etc have you helped to reconstruct? What jobs have you created? Why visit 3 times a year, why not just go and live there?

I can tell you though that while living abroad I have helped to reconstruct a school and sending necessary school supplies. My next project is healthcare and I will be here enjoying all the fabulous opportunities in America while causing a change in Nigeria. I don't need to return home and live in Nigeria to help make Nigeria better. I can do it from here and do it better than those living in Nigeria.

Tink_sh:

White women, like black women, have a lot more to offer than papers!   If you want to insult the poster go for it but try not to use another race to do it!! Colour is supposed to mean nothing!! Each to there own.

why are u being all emotional over what i said? are u fat and ugly? where u used for papers? if your answer to these questions are no then i dont get why you are catching feelings.

i speak from what i've seen and noticed around me. Nigerian men that i've come across that married white women (the fat and ugly ones) did it for papers! it's a trend among Nigerian men.

Tink_sh:

Im just so tired of the 'fat, ugly, white woman' crap. It would be like me saying 'gold digging black woman', i would never fall to that crap. So tired of it and even more surprised it came from a woman.

you already think of saying 'gold digging black woman' u probably get the urge to say it sometimes but u just dont have the guts. but hey knock urself out and it wont even bother me, u know why? cos i aint no gold digger!

Why are some Nigerians living in Nigeria saying Nigerians abroad should come home and cause the change they want? Seriously, if you people living in Nigeria can't even cause any change what makes yall think those returning home will?

How about yall back home make Nigeria better with jobs, good roads and electricity that way Nigerians abroad will have a reason to return home?

another lame thread by a lame naija boy.
if u have a phobia of committing to naija girls then sucks for u i bet they have a phobia of committing to u too. in case yall naija men dont know, naija women are now dating outside our race.

u've only been in the country for a year, which country, Nigeria? did u come back solely to find a wife? allow me to laugh in french. naija girls probably noticed that some of u men only come home to marry them and take them abroad so that they will study nursing and become the sole bread winner of the house and God forbids she brags about making all the money, she will pay for it with her life.

go back to where u are from, naija women no want u!

why does it have to be guys giving money to their girlfriends? what about girlfriends giving money to their boyfriends? men aren't the only ones making money you know.
most women are now the bread winners of their homes while the men sit at home and watch tv/play video games all day.
some men are liabilities!

you spent only almost 35pounds and you are here making noise about black women being materialistic? boy, are you stupid? are you a member of broke phi broke? i dont see a reason why a woman shd give u a kiss just cos u managed to spend a chicken change of 35pounds on them. i bet all that money wasnt even spent entirely on her

oh really poster? so what do u want us to do now? give u milk and cookie? *nonsense* i bet you are still a virgin!

oh please poster, cut the crap, will ya? the only reason Nigerian men go after white women is for papers! funny thing is yall always go for the fat ugly white women *tufiakwa*

190:

Ibo girl say no to this,

whatever you say oh Mr. Monkey-No-Fine-But-Him-Mama-and-Girlfriend-Like-Am

190,

why you come dey vex for me na becos I talk say centD fine pass you? if you're satisfied with only your mom and gf's opinion about ur look then why are you acting a little sensitive over what I said? It is my opinion that the poster of this thread is finer than you, some girls on NL already think that you're not cute so why my own come dey vex you pass? see me see trouble ooo!

Ileke-IdI:

He IS NOT a cutie. I've seen better on a rainy day, abeg.
I need to know who you girls be looking at. . . . let's reclassify "cute", my sistas. OP is in 190's league, not cute.

If he isn't a cutie then what is he? You can't call him ugly, I've seen a lot of ugly on NL and he doesn't come close. Like I said he may not be the cutest but he is cute.

I just checked out 190's pic and I must say poster looks better than 190! Chei!! Let's be honest, shall we?

He really is a cutie! The boys in here saying otherwise are just hating. Girls, say the truth and shame the devil, he may not be the cutest on here in your opinions but he is definitely cute