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buJu-234:
Re: I'm 28 Desperate To Settle Down. by rokiatu(f): 16 hours & 35 minutes
Damn another marriage thread, I am beginning to worry. What is happening to our young men?

You telling me they are all turning gay?[s][/s]

my dear; its jst cash that is holding many Nigerian matured men...

and also u ladies dont help matters too;

a friend got married to this lady who told him that she will manage with him; after 1yr..
the wife started:-
this house is too small
i can stay in this kind of area any more (sango-ota)
how can i b using 150k per mth for chop money abeg its too small
my mother needs some cash (HOW MUCH? 300k)
i need to change my wardrope;(BUT U JST DID 2mths ago?)

etc etc etc

meanwhile; my friend boss is planning to downsize because of the economy; come and see this bobo now;;; thinking wan kill d guy

so when single guys see people like this... o boy its better that that lady remain a single woman
in her father`s house than to come and give me High BP...

You have said it all

basking4me: 30M is really little money though you dont have it yet, but then when you do, you realise, it aint just enough to cover your expenses not to talk of investments.

If one is not prudent with it, it will be gone in a jiffy. 30M naira is not enough security, it will only get one through for a while. It doesnt even put you in the league of big boys in town. there has to be repepeative/residual income, more like you have a money farm behind your backyard.

whatever business you do with 30M, will only get you by considering cost of running the business itself.

The real security lies in the Brains and ones ability to earnest it continously while doin legal runs.

I know these things!

You are right

Tonto you notice this too late

Anything can be possible in Naija, a remember an incident that happened to good friend of mine in 1992,we just them finished our waec exam then and he decided to travelled to Lagos by night bus and he was kinapped by Ritualists on his way to Lagos and they drove them and were kept in a house in Calabar. The head of Ritualist told him that he is useless and cannot fit in for their purpose of kinapping him while others were sacrified and they dropped him on the road and was discovered by a good Samaritan
After a week the man helped returned my friend to his village and pastors were called to pray for him, because he lost his proper senses but he died

Susan comments are ill and have showed the kind of person she is
however, i will advise Linda to ignore her leave it to God