₦airaland Forum

M M M: Who re dey

Are dey from 9ja or ghana

ZUBY77: Anyone who faces the truth becomes a sabo. Np wonder black man never grows.

8ogoegbunam: I am not against any religion, most of the people I admire are not even christians nor anglicans.I fullfilled all the promises I made to her, why can't she keep the promise she made to me.

Revolva: Well una get time dey pay bride price when I nak d babe give am belle - emergency wedding haha nau dey reign o -then we go settle marriage any year in d future wey I don bouyant

ttlabi: I am very grateful to all of you who have taken time to encourage me and offer me advices & suggestions including some of you who took time to mail me.

I have learnt a lot from your suggestions & advices and with many of your advices here, I have decided to wait few more months, make some more money and dispose off some of my disposable assets in other to increase my capital.

I will come back to Nigeria hopefully before the end of the year and I will make use of a number of your advices here and consult more.

I hope in few months or years from now, I will revisit this page and tell you of my happier ending.

You are all wonderful. I am proud of my people.

maasoap: They asked you whose money she spent? You intentionally ignored the question.

don blacky: Lolz....i been wan talk º˚˚˚°H ,ßυt fear no let me.
Mak oshio children no run enter m̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ life spoil smtin inside

manugbo: women ar the ones not happy in their marriages.


im married, i give all that marraiage requires of me, but my husband does'nt


because, he loves keeping girl friends. but its very hard for me to keep male friend. i cant
and its ssssssssooooo painful.

he is cheating on me seriously. i dont know what to do.
although , i ve told him that we need to go for court wedding, which he has refused to do over 6 years now.
Keep praying for change and God will definitly hear you and you should also have in remember that it a nature of most men,so when crying do not crying so much not to hurt yourself



Howevr, it has been my desire to serve my God, because all are varnity upon varnity.

i just want to have a good relationship with my God, but my husband attitude towards me is very very bad.

if he dies today, will i mourn for him? i dont think so, rather i will thank God for removing such A PROBLEM FOR ME.


ITS SO PAINFUUUULL

WHat i desire in my life is not what im getting in this marriage.

MY GOD IS GREATER THAN HIM

IM IN BONDAGE, GOD HELP ME

I TRY AS MUCH AS I CAN TO CONSOLE MYSELF, BUT SOMETIMES I LOOSE IT.

ismhab: DANA OR DANO OR WHAT EVER IT NAME IS CALLED IS THE WORST AIRPLANE SO FAR IN NIGERIA, SOME TIMES THEY USE TO FLY WITH THEIR DOOR OPEN DUE TO LACK OF AC OR EVEN FLY WITH ONLY ONE FUNCTIONAL ENGINE.

ofio2011: Life is too short!!!
The rich people on that plane didn't know it would be their last.
The sexy babes didn't know it was their last as they posed for pictures and paste it on their dp and Fb wall.
The ones who were fortunate to be boarding a plane for the first time in their lives didn't know it would be their first and the last time.
Where is that guy thinking of how to make ends meet?
Where is that babe who wants to get married soon?
Where are the singles who are worried about tying the knots?
Where are the men whose thought is on how to return to work tomorrow and sign that contracts that would fetch them millions?
Where are those ones who own houses in Abuja?
Where are those who took a girlfriend to Abuja to enjoy the weekend leaving their wives at home with the kids?
Where are those who were in Abuja for flings with their sugar daddies or sugar mommies?
And what about the innocent kids?
What about those in their homes on a Sunday afternoon after returning from church?
Spending time with their families, already ironed their clothes for tomorrows' work or school?
What about that girl or boy who went to their neighbors house to watch films?
What about those people in the church that were bombed?
What I'm saying here is this, It could have been you or me.
"LIFE IS VANITY"
The Bible admonishes us to live each day as if it was our last.
Live your today like there's no tomorrow.
Love, forgive and appreciate one another.
Those people didn't have 2 heads, neither are they more sinful or less sinful than You or Me
If someone told them they would die yesterday, they wouldn't have boarded that plane or better still found a way to right their wrongs here on earth.
I am yet to see anyone who knows tomorrow.
May the souls of the faithfully departed Rest in Peace.
" ki la fi san ju awon ti 'ku ti pa"
" Iwo lo f'owo wo wa di oni"
" Ba wa l'egberun ahon ni ko kan"
" Won kere ju lati gbo 'luwa ga".
"Halleluya Ogo ni f'olorun
A f'ijo ilu yin Olorun wa
Alaya ni o yin o bo ti ye
Halleluya, Ogo ni f'olorun".
Lord, it is by your grace.
Have a lovely week ahead.

Igbo_hater: Thank God. Operation kill all igbo's. Am loving this

atuboweke: Pls leave GEJ out of this. Is he the only player that played for Nija then? Others have moved on with their lives e.g : ben Iroha, uche okechukwu, keshi etc Why will he keep waiting for the Govt. YORUBA lazy attitude. But nevertheless; He was the best, finest, dependable and reliable striker ever. May his soul rest in perfect peace.

Zulele: Please where is the safest place to be in nigeria?
My two weeks old son cannot witness all this calamity that is happening!

Fhemmmy: Family of the woman always ought to take care of the reception . . . Not sure of how it is done in Nigeria sha,

chaircover: I totally understand the reason why "hubby" doesn't have enough money to foot the wedding. Accommodation is very important, however I dont like the statement "shebi you have money"

People should learn to speak to their partners with respect and try and put themselves in the other persons shoes and feel what the other person feels before opening their mouths or taking any actions.

He could have said "Sweetheart, we have a problem. You know how much I love you and so much look forward to getting married to you in August, but this accommodation problem has exhausted all my funds. I know that this is not the norm and it is my responsibility to provide for this wedding, however is there any way that you can help me financially please. I will really appreciate it. See it as a loan and I will return it as soon as I am in a position to.

Unless the woman is mentally unstable, if a man approaches her with the right attitude, then she will be more than willing to help. pele lako pele labo

@chinwe please dont be annoyed jare, he is just forming. Please if you know that he is the right man for you, please assist him in whatever way that you can. A good man is worth more than a couple of hundreds thousand naira and he has heaps of time to pay you back over and over again in various different ways

As regards your question on how was he expecting to pay the rent anyway, he is no different from the millions of young men out there living from hand to mouth,thanks to the crazy economic situation of our great country Nigeria. many of us start married life with aluminum spoons in our mouths. God help us all.

And another thing, please dont borrow. I dont know why Nigerians like borrow borrow; borrow for school fees, borrow for wedding, borrow for accommodation. No No No cut your clothes according to your fabric and live within your means.

fellis: Because her partner acted like he was OK with it.

fellis: I really dislike it when people start inconviniencing others just because they find it difficult to make up their mind.
Why did he act like he didn't have a problem with your completing your studies before childbirth? Why? Now he wants to inconvinience you with his sudden desire for children.
Am tired of all these marriage problems threads abeg.

rokiatu: Please how can I make my new husband understand that I am not yet ready to have kids? I have said everything under the sun, but he don't seem to understand. I luv him very much but I want to complete my study before I start having my kids. I told him that, but he insist I have atleast one, and then complete my study. And before marriage, I told him my plan i mean this has never been a secret to him. Now suddenly he have changed his mind and seem to be sticking to it. I don't want to disrespect my husband, but then again, I am not at all ready for motherhood. Please how do I make him come to term with this decision of mine?

Or if you have any other suggestion please do say.