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pinkstar: I am not doubting ur points & besides,i am certain over the arguement....loving wholeheartedly could be risky & judging from two major experiences of this individuals i learnt that loving whole heartedly is risky,but all depends on God's say & presence in every marriage.thanks....

Waking up every morning is a risk as well because we do not know how the day will end. We have to take risks (wisely) and hope for the best. If it fails then life goes on, we become stronger and smarter individuals by these lessons. Good luck.

[quote author=Kevin_II]Good sex and money is all any girl ever needed. You will not find another 9.2 incher anywhere! For the last time do you love me or not?!!![/quote]Those inches must have taken you places thereby giving you this myopic view. Mcheeewwww!

[quote author=Kevin_II]I am famously 9.2 inches long. You will not have a dull day in the bedroom in your whole life. now do you love me or not? Just answer the kweshon dammit woman![/quote]I'm not having it dull AT ALL! I'm sorry when you have it right then i'll tell you!

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Gawddammit!

Why are you so wicked? [/color]

Boss

Looks like this guy needs to be mentored too!

[quote author=Kevin_II]Ijebabe, I have a masters degree, I live in an furnished apartment in an upscale neighborhood in obodo oyinbo. I drive a 2011 model car. Now do you love me or not? [/quote]Is that all you have Ah, I can buy you then! So what else do you have to offer?

[quote author=Kevin_II]ijebabe answer the kweshon nah, haba. na so people dey take fail jamb o. how did 'do you love me?' translate into how much space i have in my bedroom? [/quote]You expect me to take you seriously. Talking about jamb seems like you're still trying to pass urs. Heya, one year at a time ok?

[quote author=Kevin_II]ijebabe, do you love me?[/quote]Kevin ur just a waste of space honestly

pinkstar: Yes dear u're right,but do u know there is loving from ur heart & loving with ur whole heart,these two have their meanings.Yes everyone loves from the heart,when it begins to grow,but the aspect of whole is where the complications lies,4 it involves,you the lover,your Emotions & Life.Will u jeopardise any incidence that will involve ur life...........this is the reason i asked,if loving with our whole heart is wise.

This is very subjective. In the case of dating, opening your heart to this stranger is a gradual process and should not be rushed into. People fall head over heels in love and still end up heart broken. With your life partner then girl you have to love with you whole heart! The moment you know this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with then why not? I can't imagine giving even a per cent less of the love i feel for my man and for him its the same. This is when you know that life without that person will never ever be the same. Its better to know what this type of love feels like (at least once in your life) than never experiencing it at all .

Is this the Vanity Contest section?

Poster, Its the weekend if you are looking for a moral boost then look in the mirror!

I tried to piece your post together because it wasn't very clear. If you don't love with your whole heart then what do you call that? Do you still call it love. There are no degrees in love just different forms of it. Loving a person clouds your judgement and makes you overlook the other persons flaws. There is nothing wrong with that because we are not perfect beings. The problem lies in when the love you give is not reciprocated no matter how hard you try. This is when you SHOULD realise your wasted efforts and move on. How that is handled is left to each person.

OP, pls provide more information on what happened afterwards as Ifyalways said.
I totally understand that she wants to move out of her home. Right now she can't bear to look him in the face let alone live in the same house. She needs to sort out her thoughts on what her marriage has turned into. The husband is obviously a nutcase, that goes without saying but I would not advise her to divorce him straight away as there are kids involved.
Its hard to rebuild trust after this episode but she has to decide if she can live with that cheating idiot for the rest of her life. I feel for the kids as well and hope they survive this with minimum damage.

Skii: [size=13pt]You know what they say naa, first cut is the deepest

its not like that,

killz is an old timer, you need young fresh blood like mine[/size]

Too late to apologise, Killz did not waste any time accepting my terms. Its been signed and stamped. Move on

[quote author=~Killz~] [/quote]Don't get used to this o!

[quote author=~Killz~] [/quote]Signing out

Time: 0500, 27 Apr 2012

Skii: [size=13pt]*noise coming from the master bedroom* *"OH",,,,"AH",,,,"UH",,,,"OH",,,,"AH"*

I hope I am not disturbing somebodys sleep in the children's bedroom [/size]

Adding insult on betrayal! SMH!

Skii: [size=13pt]@ Ijebabe

Backstabber!!

I knew it!!

After you made that mistake "you people want to "killz" me", i knew it, i knew i couldn't trust you

kai,,,,,push me go front small, only for me to want to lean back, she comot my back,,,,GBAM!! Na so I land floor!!

MEANWHILE, BADOSKY, YES I DO

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All the sudden fame entered your head and you forgot ur number 1, taking too much time to think. U r the betrayer. This is the kind of thing that starts wars!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Who cares? He deserves no mentoralizationology(Damn It! )[/color][/quote]LMFAO!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]I even gave him fonts! Pls say "nobody" again. . . i like it when you say it. Embolden it i beg you! [/color][/quote]NOBODY

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Gbammed and Signed! Skii is discombobulated. Do you still think he needs classes?[/color]https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/39.gif[/quote]Ah! Not anymore, he deserves no mentorage (is that even a word )

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]What Impetus! [/color][/quote]Can you imagine? He forgot he was a nobody until PAGE 6!!!

sexkillz: [color=#000030][size=19pt]Ijebabe! [/size][/color]

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