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geraldinai:
Nairalanders, this is a long post but please read till the end.

My bf just broke up with me over what he termed incompatibility. This guy and I have been together for two years and we both loved each other. It was a long-distance relationship, he stays in Lagos while I schooled in another town in the west. I had no problem with the distance because I'm not the attention-craving type and I like my space.

He's a complete extrovert, while I'm an introvert(not to the extreme though) and this has been an issue most of the time. He complains that I'm too quiet and not on the same social level as him. I don't do social media like that while he's uploading new pictures every minute. I also didn't like the fact that he relates too well with girls; he had a lot of female friends and easily socializes with new ones. Well, I blended with that so well as I didn't see any trace of unfaithfulness in him.

Fast forward to late last year, there was a breakdown in our communication, he stopped calling and chatting as he used to, I asked him what the matter was but he said there's nothing. I was a bit scared if something went wrong with him and I asked again after some days, that was when he said he would tell me when the time comes, so I stopped asking. With all the signs he showed me, my mind was telling me he wanted a breakup but I didn't ask him further as I was preparing for my final exam and him breaking up with me that period would leave me devastated so I focused on my exam with the hope that after then, we would talk about it.

After my exam, I sent him a text apologizing and asked us to continue as we were but he didn't reply. He invited me over to his place and that was when he told me he's no longer interested in the relationship, that he has no feelings for me again. He gave one thousand and one reasons for us not to be together anymore. He said I'm less expressive, I agree with anything he says and does and that during the break in our communication, I didn't make efforts to find out why he did so and challenge him. Funnily enough, I didn't react when he told me, I just said it's all right as I envisaged it earlier. With the reasons he gave me, my heart was broken and felt there was no need to push further. He was surprised with how calm I was when he told me, personally, I don't believe in forcing someone to love me.

I moved on well but after a week when I was alone and reflecting, the feeling of guilt overwhelmed me that I probably pushed him away with my seemingly “not too caring” attitude. I see myself with him and I never thought we could separate. I showed love and care in my how way and in the best way, I know-how. I did love him wholeheartedly and he knew it but he seemed unable to cope with my private/ less emotional lifestyle.
Nairalanders, did I actually push him away?

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LALASTICLALA WHY IS THIS NEWS NOT ON THE FRONT PAGE

sotall:

YOU NEVER EXPERED IT RIGHT

Imam Tawhid, a popular Australian Muslim Scholar Imam Tawhidi, has alleged that Nigerian Government harbours all forms of terrorist organizations.

Tawhidi is a Muslim influencer, who claims to be a reformist Imam. Some of his teaching is believed to be against Islamic terrorism, he is indeed a good teacher of Islam, who takes his teaching to his Twitter and IG page.

According to Tawhidi, Boko Haram terrorists are allowed to operate with little or no effort to tackle them because of corruption in Nigeria.

He took to his twitter handle and wrote:

“We have ignored Nigeria in the discussion about terrorism. Nigeria is the most corrupt country in Africa. It is home to a terrorist government that harbours terrorists just like the government of Pakistan. Boko Haram were given the green light in their early stages. We Remember.

Now all of a sudden Nigeria wants to lead the war against terror.

Indeed, “my enemy is also my sword, I shall use him to kill with and then break the sword”.

You can recall that the Nigerian government only send captured terrorists to Rehab and have them re-integrated into the society.

http://news-af.feednews.com/news/detail/88a3d590d7ced141f23441e6c5e0e0ca?client=news

LOOL

WITH HER YANGRIWA LEG

matex97:
This MURIC man is an embodiment of idiocy, foolishness and callousness.
He will sit in his small cubicle at Iyana Iba and start typing rubbish.

HES ON A MISSION TO START A RELIGIOUS WAR IN THE SOUTH-WEST

OH DEAR

LOVERS OF TERRORIST

THAT ONE NA TORY

THEY ARE COMING

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LegendaryLover:
@OP, when asking a question in English language, you use present tense, not past. e.g how much did u buy...? not how much did u bought...


So correct the title of the thread to "where did u 'spend'..." not 'spent'.


just my little contribution. we're all learning.

TWITTER SORRY NAIRALAND POLICE

SURELY, THEY WILL NOT LIKE THIS NEWS

Katty42:
The MOD slept off, he go update the score later this morning

UPDATED

FULL TIME BURNLEY 0:2 MANCHESTER UNITED

ThIS MOD IS HIGH ON CONDENSED MILK

nairalee:
Why not?

God chose Moses to convince a stubborn Pharoah (Stammerer Moses)
God chose Abraham to be the father of nations (Menopausal Abraham)
God chose David as the successor to Saul (Herdsmen David)
God chose even Rahab to help the Israelites (Prostitute Rahab)
God chose Paul to teach us (Persecutor Saul)

(words in bracket are what critics will tag them as)

Jesus chose fishermen, dined with tax collector and even mostly criticized the rich and "holiest" in the society


Infact from experience God uses the most unexpected. The God who uses the basket to fetch water to the disappointment of the bucket. That's the God I serve.

No matter your situation, God will still choose you to greatness.

PAUL OR WHATEVER YOU CALL HIM IS NOT A HOLY ONE OF GOD. HE IS AN ANT-CHRIST

IMASTEX:
For that purpose she was born & preserved to function.

END OF DISCUSSION

SPOT ON

I WAS JAILED BY ONE ANTI-IGBO MOD FOR COMPLETE ONE YEAR

I HEREBY VOLUNTEER TO HELP THAT MOD WITH HIS NEW YEAR RESOLUTION. YOU ARE GOING TO REMAIN A NAIRALAND MODERATOR FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE CAN SOMEONE SAY A BIG AMEN TO THIS WONDERFUL PRAYER

Abeladvert:
THE LAGOS NIGERIA AIRPORT MURITALA MUHAMMED INTERNATIONAL AIRPORT SECURITY DEPARTMENT HAVE SEPARATED LOT OF LEGAL FAMILY TILL DATE BECAUSE OF JEALOUSY OR OTHER REASON, THEY ACT LIKE GOD & THEY DO NOT STAND FOR THEIR DUTIES, THEY STAND FOR THEIR AGE & HAVE PUT JUSTICE IN THEIR HANDS BY WORKING FOR THEM SELF WITH SELF AND PERSONAL IDEA (ITS A GOVERNMENT DUTY) THEY HAVE DISGRACE & EMBARRASSES LOT OF PEOPLE WITHOUT INVESTIGATION, THEY HAVE BULLY & LOCK PEOPLE IN THE AIRPORT SELL WITHOUT INVESTIGATION...THEIR LEVEL OF CORRUPTION IS 100%...THE FEDRAL GOVERNMENT, FEDERAL HIGH COURT OF JUSTICE, U.S INTERNATIONAL F.B.I, MILITARILY & POLICE SHOULD LOOK INTO THIS FOR JUSTICE FOR THE CITIZENS!

I WOULD LOVE TO TRY YOUR BRAND OF WEED

SURGICALLY REMOVE YOUR BRAIN AND REPLACE IT WITH AL-QURAN, THEN YOU ARE A MUSLIM

WHAT A RARE GEM! BUT WHY WOULD A SAGE LIKE BABA AWOLOWO PREFER TO END HIS LIFE BY DRINKING OTA PIA PIA