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AlBaqir:
# It is Sistani, not "sista mi".

# You have to read through the line. I asked for "references" generally.

# Pointing out Ayatullah Sistani is for two reasons:

1. He has an official websites easily accessible to all sundry. If a book is quoted, majority might not have access to the books, and indeed how many do have the resources to verify?!

2. At least 55% of Shia world follows the taqlid of Ayatullah al-Uzma Sistani. 40% follow Ayatullah Ali Khameini. So, whatever these two says count a lot.


# NB: Lastly, Shia do not follow a dead mar'ja in fiqh related issues. So, quoting a dead mar'ja do not hold water unless the living (success) continue holding same view as him (the dead).

so you want to tell us if fatwa of one of your dead scholar favours you, and a living one condemn it, you won't use it.

habeebatstore:
Nothing beats the joy that comes with a family that prays together. Wake your husband for qiyam lail, pray together and discuss together at those hours when Allah send his blessings to his slaves. Be open to sharing your fears with him though be careful not to do it in a way that makes him feel unwanted. Then most of all pray to Allah to grant you a way out of this situation. Our hearts and prayers are with you sis. Wallahu'l musta'an

jazakillahu kaeran, I really appreciate your support. thanks a lot.

tintingz:
You don't know what her husband did for her to say that statement, she hasn't given any good reasons for her doubts and you gave a fallacious conclusion that running away is not an option? Are you the one in the marriage?

OP, it is better you tell us what is wrong or you discuss it with anyone close to you or a marraige counselor, I don't think you can find solutions here.

i don't know if you are a Muslim, but sincerely you are a good person, thank you so much. may God be with you.

slimtoney:
Stop being suspicious of him
Trust him.
Don't snoop around looking for faults. Stay away from his phone.
Discuss with him, if u think there is something he is not doing right call him a appropriate time and talk to him about it with humility. Running away should not be an option.
Forgive him sincerely, and free ur mind of all misgivings.

jazakumullahu kaeran, I sincerely appreciate your contribution,wallahi you just gave me an hint to save my self from heartbreaking.

madridguy:
There must be a reason for this. May be your husband is treating you badly or so.

it happens whenever I have doubts about our relationship.

Salam aleykum,

believe this idiot at your own risk. ;Dbelieve this idiot at your own risk.

Jman06:
Igbos have always been attacked up north since time immemorial. The fact that they have not been retaliating is the reason for the continued attacks on them by the hausas.

This is the time when tit for tat is the best solution. FYI, many hausas are also living and doing business in the east.

Ode ni e, but ko kan mi,continue showing off your foolishness.

Iykmann:
Where did they mention Igbo in this report

He is just trying to analyze the fact on ground, you don't need to be angry even if you can't decipher what may follow all this killing in East.

wolesmile:
Can you just listen to yourself? Are we talking Boko Haram here? We are talking about fighting a violence that could lead to senseless killings in the name of civil war, you're talking about Boko Haram. Despite the number of casualties during the Nigerian civil war, did Nigeria broke up? Though the war was declared "NO VICTOR, NO VANQUISHED." We all know better. Igbos know they were defeated. Senselessly sacrificed on the alter of one man's ambition. Are we allowing history to repeat itself?
Despite the mass genocide between the Hutus and the Tutsis, Rwanda is still one. The great American civil war failed to achieve its aim of secession. America rose up stronger afterwards. Liberia, is still Liberia. Sierra Leone did not break up. I could go on and on. But how about the millions who died in the course of the struggle? THEY ALL DIED FOR NOTHING!!!
Why is it that man never learn? I just hope we realize on time that this is all for nothing before it is too late.

you have really made my day with this, but some people will not be able to get the fact.

deepwater:
my people
Always beautiful

i don't even know if you understand the meaning of beautiful,your matter tire me o.

iamgenius:
Welcomd please ister, may I PM you?

please can I know if you schooled in polytechnic Ibadan. nd what's ur full name.

Asalam aleykum, my name is Rohmotallah R S. am glad to be here.