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Romance › Re: This Is What I'm Doing To Save Money — What About You? by iLegendd(op):
Everyday247:
I drink plenty water and sleep well so that i can produce a lot of blood. Then i sell my blood on the dark web for quick cash. So i worry about saving. cool
I planted this some weeks ago. They said it gives lots of blood. When I cooked it, it really looked like blood. You may try it.

Modified:

More info about it below. It's called lots of names, but the scientific name is Justicia Secunda.

Romance › Re: This Is What I'm Doing To Save Money — What About You? by iLegendd(op):
illicit:
I am glad u changed...

U don't fvck the girls before
A Man doesn't really change, he adjusts to situations because of consequences. If that situation changes and consequences removed, he readjusts.

It's worse with women. They never change or adjust — they just pretend until they're tired of pretending. cheesy This is why a woman's family's background and her past matter the most if you must be with her for life. Women don't care about consequences — it's not in their DNA. They feel they'll always be forgiven because they're women.
Romance › Re: This Is What I'm Doing To Save Money — What About You? by iLegendd(op): 5:18pm On Oct 12, 2024
proff010:
Noted in my own case,
I have sold my car that was draining my pocket,
Packed my 2 generator
Removed my gotv antenna and sold it to aboki.
Sleeping naked to avoid heat, cause I use prepaid.
No more rice and beans together.
Bag of garri to rescue my children from afternoon indomie.
We will survive
Good move! APC's regime came with lots of suffering and regrets, but the lessons people will learn in financial management, family planning, and investment from experience, no book will be able to teach them that.

In fact, when APC's reign is over, every Nigerian will become qualified authors because whatever book they write on how to survive, raise a family, invest, etc. will be based on experience—no copy and paste.

As we face this hardship, let's have journals where we write some things down before they escape our memories for future generations to read. Most of our histories as Africans are not documented. If they were, most of us will reject foreign religions because of their atrocities—just like the atrocities of APC. But, we're already deep into it, so let's just enjoy it as we find ways to wiggle out of it.

Anyway, I love your moves.
Romance › This Is What I'm Doing To Save Money — What About You? by iLegendd(op):
This Is What I'm Doing to Save Money — What About You?
1. I have uninstalled my main WhatsApp because it has become a serious money drainer. Only my business WhatsApp is available.

2. I've initiated conflicts with all my female besties, so we’re currently not in good terms = no "I don't have data or I want to come over." Coming over makes me spend on TP and food in exchange for "just sex", where I'll still be the one to do 80% of the hard work and might still end up contracting infection where I'll spend a lot to get out of it.

The day I almost killed someone's daughter because of "harder harder" was the day I promised God I won't have anything to do with women again, because there is no benefit, but few months later...

3. Due to the rise in counterfeit products causing serious health issues like kidney failure, cancer, etc. I have used it as a tangible excuse to stop purchasing 95% of factory-made goods or edibles that were preserved with chemicals.

The carton of Superpack noodles and crates of eggs that I used to buy monthly for visitors has stopped. No more visitors except the konji is unbearable—which I can also control.

4. I used to spend over ₦12,000+ every month on DStv, but I've miraculously stopped it. With the free and steady electricity here, I don't even bother turning off the lights or electronics, even during heavy thunderstorms.

Thankfully, after years of leaving my TV on, a thunderstorm finally destroyed it, and I couldn’t be happier—one liability gone.

No more Premier League, Champions League, NatGeo Wild, or music channels—I've freed myself from this addiction, and now I'm saving on the monthly subscription.

5. I no longer need to visit the hospital—I've been exercising regularly (as I have always done) and relying on natural beverages and herbs that cure almost everything. Nature and exercise hold the answers to good health.

6. The Cway water I used to buy, I filter mine myself now.

7. Dressing simple while going out and acting as if say na my own worse pass just to avoid people thinking you're their last hope. They've done it to me a lot and I no longer find it funny.

This lifestyle can still be funded if I want, but sometimes, it's not about what you want, but "what is necessary" to make sure you don't get mocked one day by those you helped.

All the money that used to go into these expenses, along with some other unmentioned ones, is now directed into more investments.

Although my 40-80GB monthly data subscription can't be stopped, it's a necessity to monitor my digital investments, enjoy YouTube tutorials and watch some comedy/football highlights when I'm bored.

Now, my focus is just on data, food, and investment (online and offline).

So, what changes have you also made? Mind you, this hard time or recession is not only affecting Nigeria, but lots of developed countries too.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 2:35pm On Oct 12, 2024
With the number of quotes I got, trying to read them and reply everyone will take hours of my time, so I won't even dare. Thank you all for your contributions—be it negative or positive. Whatever you said, you're right.

I no gree na him dey tear shirt, but the summary is, men, keep her only as friend with benefit if she's hiding her phone from you. There is something she's hiding and it's dangerous. If you have access to her phone, on her WhatsApp chat bar, search for the words: abortion, sex, visit, infection, travel, hotel, boyfriend, love, hate, 2k, hospital, sugar daddy, etc. These words will lead you straight to conversations where those keywords were said. Or go straight to her chat with her bestie. Even i

If you catch her or she refuses to make her phone available, it's better to still have her around as your free ashawo instead of wasting money whenever konji calls on call-girls. This is why you need to handle the dating world with zero emotions and always be ready to lose what seems like the best you found.

Since she's hiding something, she's cheating, so encourage her to double date because it's good to have options. Whine her and tell her to be free when any of these guys that like her calls her. Tell her she can visit them whenever she wants, but she needs to take permission.

She'll feel free with you and call you a real man— man who isn't insecure. A time will come when you'll just end up as her bestie-in-sex and you'll know her main guy and all her side guys. For the main guy mind, him don get girlfriend. At this point, you're not the side guys who gets all the benefits of a main guys without spending except on TP and food when she comes to visit.

So, don't chase her away, keep her as a bestie. Used great sex to hold her down while the other guys do the spending.

As long as you're good in bed and never desperate, never easily available, you won't spend on a woman — she'll be the one always trying to see you.

Sweet commodity wey scarce is always in high demand. Speaking from experience.

So, that's my last speech—let men who have ears hear.
Music/Radio › Re: Naija Throwback Music: Which Of These Albums Was Your Favourite? by iLegendd(m):
Duncan Mighty. Too unique. All songs were hits.

There rest were also good, so it's hard to choose. But worst on the list should be Wizkid.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 3:06am On Oct 12, 2024
Men, invest o! Any little cash, invest. Don't go drinking Guinness of 10k. 2 = 20k. That is about $12 which you can use to learn crypto trading. Use YouTube — all the info are there for free.

Some women have oil-wells in-between their legs and there are millions of SIMPs around the world who are eagerly waiting to pay for it. Even with all the money she has made from her oil-well, if you marry her, you'll still foot the bills. Not all women use their oil-wells for money, some have dignity, but most don't.

You're on your own. Even after you've made it, for 5-10 more years, act as if you haven't made it yet. E get why.

Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 2:28am On Oct 12, 2024
I won't lie, men are really hurting our fragile feminists. We're too wicked. We need to repent for worse. cheesy

It's always the comment section that you'll see blood. As a man, just make money (so that you don't beg), have principles (so that you don't bend) and be bad (so that you don't SIMP) with a mixture of kindness (so that you won't look totally wicked) and everything is yours.

Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op):
I saw this on Tiktok and I laughed. So true. The moment women are the ones calling you a real man, you're a gonna—a big SIMP.

Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 1:02am On Oct 12, 2024
Everyone should learn to live good and honest lives and there won't be anything to hide.

If my rich, young and stunning Asian ex allows me access to her phone, emails and account details, etc. yet I never stole her money or even thought of it (cuz a woman's money is NOTHING to me) na one Nigerian mgbeke with cheap bleaching cream go deny me access all because she wants to protect her promiscuity.

I'm outta here. Lemme go check my crypto long trade that I started when BTC was 59k and I think it's 63k now. Make I go take profit exercise, shower, watch Tiktok and sleep off.

Equality will never work in Nigeria. For the ladies, we love you all, but we'll never tolerate second class behaviour. There are SIMPs who are ready for that, not us.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:46am On Oct 12, 2024
budaatum:
All of a sudden, and just because your precious big diq is worthless to me, you have now decided I must be a lesbian, lol, and it is me that is ashamed because I don't listen to pigs?

You don't want your beautiful women to be beautiful anything, iLegendd. What you specifically want your women to be is slaves that listen to your crap and those other pointless things, and you've never considered not being crap or that some woman might appreciate your brain instead.

You might be a lost cause, though I trust I'll get through to you one day, but the good thing is that you might end up blessed with daughters.

I, buda, curse you today with my immense feminist lesbian power that you will bring them up to believe they breath fire so a real man is worthy of them and not some worthless pig.
I didn't bother reading. I have given you too much attention. Now rest.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:45am On Oct 12, 2024
Tendd:
You better live with your wife in Nigeria with this your mindset,if you expect that from your wife.However,wage disparity makes it impossible for feminism to thrive here,despite various policies for women emancipation.The dependency mindset of our women also makes it even harder.

I can understand men from the west who go to countries like Thailand, Philippines to check for foreign brides but that won't change anything in the west because women rights are deeply entrenched in western culture.



I disagree with you on videos that you say are taking down because of their stance on overweight women.No,there are many on YouTube.

All in all,guys, make money so you can determine the kind of lady you want to spend your life with.
It's recently they allowed it. YouTube used to bring them down. Tiktok, a Chinese company, doesn't care about it because they mostly think like Africans in terms of culture.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:42am On Oct 12, 2024
TheFinesseKid:
lmao. 🤣🤣 Majority of these feminist dey moomoo die. They don't even know what or whom they are fighting for/against. With them moomoo herd mentality.
Na women na. Las las, na man wey dem no dey respect go still hang their legs for up, except they're lesbians, as most of them are.

As long as a cho cho cho woman will one day humble herself and spread her legs for a man, from a gender she feels she's equal to, she has been defeated.

Only a woman that'll NEVER allow a man breed her will be considered a strong woman — the rest are just depressed noisemakers with flat yansh, tiny breast, also ugly face, etc. that men have rejected and out of anger, they started hating men.

You hardly see beautiful and endowed women hating on men except she was too full of herself because of her assets when this was younger and now men are no longer interested because of her current age.

18 to 25 or max, 27 is all we want—even men at 60. Only teen boys from 13-19 want older women for the fun and humiliation so they can brag to their friends and say, "I have knacked your aunty—you think say I be small boy?" It's just for the pride. When they grow, they'll switch to 18-25 years girls, except the old woman is tooooo rich.

If a woman can't take advantage of this age 18-25 bracket, she has 6 options left.

1. She gets lucky and a SIMP or Church member finds her worthy (all these career women think we care about their money and career — we only care about their respect and faithfulness)
2. She becomes an angry feminist
3. She switches to lesbianism
4. She adopts a child
5. She goes diabolical
6. She stays single, rich and happy (but deep down, she's not happy—make we just pretend say she dey happy for peace to reign cheesy )
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:21am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
All the follow up about money wasn’t necessary.
The point is that if you can safeguard your phone because of your financial assets, a woman can too.
You can't tell me what is necessary. You were looking for a fault, but I didn't give you room to spot any, so it pissed you off. Hahaha. Women!

No matter how educated a woman is, she can't win me in an argument that requires logic and nature. If I quit, it's just because I feel I have spoken too much already and I'm looking too available. Over availability reduces value.

Safeguard your money, I have zero interest in it, but you can't hide your social media apps from me if you want a serious relationship with me.

Anyway, have a nice day.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:14am On Oct 12, 2024
TheFinesseKid:
This one sef dey bored.
She dey try pull my legs so that she'll laugh and scream, "I gotcha, double standard."
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:13am On Oct 12, 2024
ufotunang:
..can you also allow her to have access to your own phone?
Yes. Na she go even vex return am. Na screenshots of business ideas, transactions, trading, unfinished books, investment plans, this and that and lots of boring things she go see. It seems a lot of Nigerians have too much to hide. E come be like say na only me and a few be sane person for this country.

But, let me ask you. Between Ned and Regina, who do you think has access to the other person's phone?
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 12:08am On Oct 12, 2024
cococandy:
Great

So then my first question stands. If crypto is a good reason for you to safeguard your phone from her, is she allowed to safeguard hers from you as well?
As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank account, yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 11:51pm On Oct 11, 2024
Too many SIMPs on here fighting against the truth. Giving a woman freedom is a sign that you don't care about her and you're careless.

You just want to knack and you don't care who she's knacking behind. When she comes back from her adventure, you'll still knack her raw, isn't it?

Don't worry, when you spend 1m treating infection, you'll understand too much freedom corrupts a woman. This same SIMP will be the one to abuse her and call her ashawo.

Try to know the difference between having access to her phone and being desperate/needy. That's what these Gen-Z SIMPs don't understand.

For me, if you deny me access to your phone, you'll never be upgraded to a girlfriend status let alone a wife—that thing you're hiding, keep it up and let's play the game together.

SIMPs can think otherwise, but real men don't care—there principles or rules must be obeyed, else, she's just a friend with benefits.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 11:40pm On Oct 11, 2024
cococandy:
What if she had a crypto account that she’s protecting too?

Wait before you answer. Are women allowed to invest in crypto? Or does she need your permission to do that too?
I have never met a woman with a crypto account — I'm always the one that introduce them.

I teach every woman close to me, who's interested in crypto, everything they need to know about crypto for free and I fund their accounts with my money incase they lose it, they won't blame me.

I give what I can lose without regrets. Even though I'm being dogmatic towards them, I'm still the kindest, without a skeleton in my cupboard, most of them have probably met and that's why I have never asked for a woman's password or details to access her phone and she said no. I appear trustworthy because I am.

So, no, you don't need permission and yes, women are allowed to invest in crypto. You're trying to pull leg, but I got you.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 11:26pm On Oct 11, 2024
Haydens:
Well said.

Who gives a flying fvck about women and their stupid thinking?

A man has himself and that is more than enough.
So, with that, you should know that me being dramatic tonight doesn't define me, but my energy based on her energy.

She might engage me two hours later and I won't even notice her, so I just wanted to give her the attention as e dey hot.

These women just love drama, so it's not everytime you keep quiet just to maintain steez to be regarded as alpha.

If you keep maintaining steez to your woman or a woman, you're automatically boring to her.

No be every argument women bring up na him you suppose avoid. Roll on the dirty with them once in a while. This is a secret most men don't know. Make them happy by doing a little Cho Cho Cho. They may never have the opportunity again or might only be lucky after some years to see you engage in another Cho Cho Cho.

Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 11:08pm On Oct 11, 2024
Livelystone01:
Lol, story of my life bro. My wallets are hidden far from anything.
The wallet I use as my first page on trust is also one with just $500, the main ones with real USDT are not exposed. My security code is my finger print.

My exchanges are also hidden too.

A y other app you need that's not money related is open for the the public.

My reason is the police or wicked people.
Exactly what I was trying to explain to her, but she wouldn't listen. She's a woman ready to fight men, so every loophole looks like an opportunity to attack a man.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 11:04pm On Oct 11, 2024
Haydens:
Ilegend, see the way a woman is just playing with you because you want to prove yourself because of a pussy.

See as she dey use you dey mop floor.

Your post doesn't even depict an atom of you.
Calm down and take a deep breath. I'm ahead, except you want to take a swipe at me, then continue. Aren't you being entertained? Some people will have to pay for this entertainment.

Too much ego is the reason some men are introverts. They don't want to banter to avoid looking stupid or tagged "talkative or cho cho cho." That is what men fear the most.

People like us don't focus on what people think.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 10:59pm On Oct 11, 2024
Haydens:
Mr man you are very weak by bragging and arguing with a woman back and forth.

You made a nice write up but you don't portray it in character.
You won't understand. I get your point. Sometimes, you need to stoop. Even Falana that we respect is jumping from one Interview to another talking too much. Sometimes, you need to lose respect to pass your message across.

What if I want to turn everything to a book? Don't you know this serves as a public writing pad? I'm an author, so don't worry too much about me. I'm always 10 steps ahead of her, trust me.

I appreciate your concern, though.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 10:58pm On Oct 11, 2024
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 10:53pm On Oct 11, 2024
budaatum:
I have never ever asked anyone for anything, though I don't expect you to believe me. I'm the sort who is asked for things instead. I was brought up to be self sufficient you see, and even if I don't have enough, and not when, since I have always been content with whatever I have, I'd rather do without than go begging or letting your sort benefit so I can have.

That's perhaps why your sort have no value as far as I am concerned. Nothing you have appeals to me, as I'm far more interested in the value you place in the brain in your head than the value you place in the diq in your pants, which is valueless if you asked me, since you can't possibly be the only person with a diq worth bragging about, and which some, no doubt, know to use better than you can imagine in your wildest dreams.

Up your game dude, and value yourself more. It might make you more deserving of more than the 2k girls you currently associate with, and bring you into the realm of women who would add value to you.
Most women would rather turn transgender than to admit the truth, so I don't expect honesty from you. You're so fixated on the dick I mentioned, yet you're acting disgusted by it because you're a lesbian hiding under feminism. Alright, e don do. Enjoy. Deceive and convert all the women. We know you people's agenda.

Shame dey catch me say I dey exchange words back and forth with you, a lesbian feminist that would rather die than to listen to a man.

I'm from a complete home, so we don't add bitterness to our lives — we just want our beautiful women to be women-like and not depressed lesbian feminists who think equality has a room in a real man's life.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 10:13pm On Oct 11, 2024
budaatum:
Show where I asked you for 2k please, so people know I'm poor. Everything else you said na story.

The pint of Guinness I have in my hand alone as I type this is like 10k, and its my second, all bought by myself plus the 2 I've already brought for my girlfriends who are with me. By the time I'm done, I alone would have spent 50k and they too would have brought rounds, and that's not adding the 30k entry fee for one to the venue.

Its not about being better than you with your small tiny ego you see, but about value. And its obvious that the only thing you think is worth anything about you is between your legs and not in any way what's between your ears.

Up your game dude. You are flailing here like a limp diq.
You don't read to comprehend, you read to reply. There is no way ever since you started using a phone that you haven't asked a man, woman or family member for card or urgent 2k. I haven't. I didn't say you asked me — I'm refering to women in general.

I don't consider you a woman anymore — you're a man like us, a strong man for that matter. Bobrisky saw the hardship men face and ran away but you want chook head. cheesy

Talking about the price of what you're drinking, you get money pass me na. grin You na big man.

All my money has been invested. Also, with the rise of fake products causing kidney problems, I have stopped consuming 95% of things that have gone through a factory — soft drink, alcohol, energy drink, etc. I hardly take them in the first place, but I have total stopped or 99.99% stopped.

I mostly exercise and consume home-made beverages. If I want to get high like you, I'll get fresh marijuana and slice them into my meal. It's a vegetable and it's medicinal.

For your girlfriends? Hmmm. 90% of women have lesbian tendencies and girl-to-girl always turn them on. Speaking from experience. But since you want to be a man, I trust you, you won't do anything to your "girlfriends" after getting high. 🙄

You're bragging about clubbing, drinking and spending 50-100k. Wow! You're a big girl o. I lost almost a million in crypto some days ago and I wasn't even bothered. Though, I have made the money back.

While I'm busy focusing on multiplying my money, you're busy spending. You know why? The bills is always on a man, us, so we have to invest more than we spend. There are even nice guys in that club that'll be ready to pay for you girls, but I had to carry my own weight.

When I was a student, I used to spend lavishly too and club's gate fee wat $50-$100 for the men and if you want to enter VIP section, you pay thousands of $. This $50 (85k) is just for entrance and not the drinks I'll buy.

You're being abusive towards the end. Don't go there, please, I'm violent with words.

Now, let's talk about how you made that money you spent. Can you tell us? You can lie about it if you want to, but I'd love if you're sincere.

See woman dey brag about clubbing and alcohol—not to talk of the substances she'll smoke or inhale in that place. We're doomed—the female gender is gone. America, look at what you've done to our women. And you want us to take you seriously? You're already a man like us, so allow us look for feminine women.

They want to do what men do, but when fight broke out between Ukraine and Russia, the Ukrainian government said all women and children should be moved to safety and all the men forward for war and not a single Ukrainian feminist said, "Objection my Lord, all the women must join the men in this this war." 98% of these women ran to safety in other countries and 98% of the men refused to run—just to defend their country.


You see? So, how did you make the money you spent? Is it legit? The company you work for, is it owned by a man or a woman? Be honest and not abusive.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 8:39pm On Oct 11, 2024
ObalendeCMS:
RESPEK!!!!

Just trying to pull that dumbo's pants, sorry legs.
I have even modified your first post to add extra info.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 8:32pm On Oct 11, 2024
ObalendeCMS:
I won't be surprised if those two up there, going back & forth, end up smashing!
With the rate of infections and careless expenses on transportation, you think I'd stoop so low? No, Brother, I won't.

Men are investing in assets that'll appreciate in value in 5 years, not on a smelly vagina of an infected or frustrated feminist.

Most frustrated feminists have cats, dogs, and other animals as pet and they sleep with these animals because men don't want them and when they contract diseases from these animals, they become born again and look for a naive Church member or a good guy to infect and spread it.

They just hate men and want every man dead, but we, as men, don't hate women — we just hate how they lie, cheat, become disrespectful and still want equality in a world where 98% of what they enjoy, including their dil*dos and phones are built by men.

Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 8:26pm On Oct 11, 2024
budaatum:
But your worth is of no importance nor of any relevance to me. It's not as if I'm trying to sell myself to you now is it, and nor do I need to rely on you for my daily bread.

There's lots of starving girls out there for you to go derive benefits from. Girls who are very interested in your worth and would willingly sell their benefits to you.

What you are finding out is, not all girls are at your shallow level, but I'm certain you know that already, hence your thread where you pitch yourself at those at your own very low level.

Now, please go ahead and try hard to show us your worth by ignoring me. I bet you'd fail.
Using psychology on me. And I'd intentionally fail it because I have my reason.

Let me lecture you — I won't abuse you.

You see the reason a lot of you are poor and always asking for urgent 2k? You had an argument with me and I used the opportunity to advertise. I said I have a friend smarter than me, but I taught him about women and lasting long in bed. All my bragging are anchors to wealth.

Some men will send me DMs and say, "Please teach me about women and how to last long in bed as you taught your friend."

I'll direct them to a site I have put everything and each copy is 20k. Selling 50 copies = 1million. You see the difference between a feminist and a wise man?

All a feminist is thinking about is "Fight, fight fight. We are better than men, we are better than men. We can do what men can do, we can do what men can do. We can do it better. We don't need men, we don't need men, etc."

It's always about screaming like a victim.

A man, an alpha male, is always thinking of how to generate money to take care of his family, his mom, his wife or girlfriend, siblings, etc., but a feminist is always about bringing him down, trying to measure up to his dreams, etc. We are not the same or equal.

We love you people feminine and submissive, but if you're too big for it because you read one big book or attended one big school, fine, we'll just use you as a sex objects or avoid you at all cost.

You're strong women, but when criminals pull out a gun, most of you starts screaming "Jesus" (a man) to come and save you or a male neighbor to come out and fight. Even rat, cockroach, snake, etc. you scream and call a man. If electric sparks in the house or it catching fire, you'll look for a man to come put it off.

Let me be honest with you, we don't take feminists seriously — na boredom dey make us engage una for debate cuz it like cruise to us.

If I write a post today that men are women's slaves, you'll see women who'll fight me that it's a lie.

If I write another post that women are men's slaves, you'll still see those same women saying women are not men's slave. You people are just confused.

I read a post on Instagram last week where someone said since Diddy's issue, Burna Boy has been quiet and that means the rumour is true, else Burna wouldn't be this quiet.

A week later, Burna arrested Akpi and this same person said: Burna is guilty that's why he arrested Akpi because his conscience is judging him and he wants to save face, else he wouldn't bother.

Can you imagine? So, no matter what a man does, a woman is ready to complain.

You're a good husband, she'll say you're boring and not fun. You're a bad boy, she'll say you're abusive, egotistic, etc.

With this, men should be men and never worry of what women think about them. Don't please that gender, but be kind, terrible, good, bad, supportive, and even abusive at the same time. Just mix it up to avoid overdose of any of them.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op):
SuperOnyi:
shocked


I feel sane when I remember there's billions out there who think like me "in default state." This is exactly what I did in my first 'situationship' with my boss's daughter. I let her believe she's in charge and also made sure she was the one to end the relationship due to distance. In reality, I already knew she was gone long before that.

Sir, with all of this woke culture, do you see yourself ever migrating permanently to the West? I notice how your perceptions of the West (although similar) has slowly shifted to the negative arrow.
I prefer some Asian countries over the West. They uphold most of African values while being more developed, organized and law abiding than Nigeria.

But, I love Nigeria for some reasons. You can evade tax easily here and I have access to real natural food unlike abroad where I had to buy everything and some are even GMOs.

Coupled with the free light in my region, good weather and close to zero natural disaster except flooding and road accident.

We are blessed in Nigeria, na just leadership and lawlessness spoil everything.
Romance › Re: Treat Her as a Friend with Benefit Until She Does This [Picture] by iLegendd(op): 7:09pm On Oct 11, 2024
budaatum:
You now sound like you are advertising yourself in hope you'd appeal to me, lol. Aren't you content with the women you already get that you now think you would appeal to me?

It's about trust you see. You don't trust me, so what makes you think I should trust you?

You are not my kind of smart, sorry. I'd even go as far as saying you are not smart enough to be my friend not to talk of one with any benefits. I definitely wouldn't bother being your friend going by the way you reason, because friendship, as far as I am concerned, is a relationship of mutual trust and benefit, and you haven't said anything to make me have either in you.
Okay, enjoy. At least you now know I don't keep friends let alone a female Nairaland feminist who can't measure up.

If I could reject beautiful, young and rich white and Asian girls, then who are you? Now rest. I have advertised myself enough already. You don't need to like it, but at least you've read it.

Stay blessed.

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