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I won't lie, men are really hurting our fragile feminists. We're too wicked. We need to repent for worse.

It's always the comment section that you'll see blood. As a man, just make money (so that you don't beg), have principles (so that you don't bend) and be bad (so that you don't SIMP) with a mixture of kindness (so that you won't look totally wicked) and everything is yours.

I saw this on Tiktok and I laughed. So true. The moment women are the ones calling you a real man, you're a gonna—a big SIMP.

Everyone should learn to live good and honest lives and there won't be anything to hide.

If my rich, young and stunning Asian ex allows me access to her phone, emails and account details, etc. yet I never stole her money or even thought of it (cuz a woman's money is NOTHING to me) na one Nigerian mgbeke with cheap bleaching cream go deny me access all because she wants to protect her promiscuity.

I'm outta here. Lemme go check my crypto long trade that I started when BTC was 59k and I think it's 63k now. Make I go take profit exercise, shower, watch Tiktok and sleep off.

Equality will never work in Nigeria. For the ladies, we love you all, but we'll never tolerate second class behaviour. There are SIMPs who are ready for that, not us.

budaatum:
All of a sudden, and just because your precious big diq is worthless to me, you have now decided I must be a lesbian, lol, and it is me that is ashamed because I don't listen to pigs?

You don't want your beautiful women to be beautiful anything, iLegendd. What you specifically want your women to be is slaves that listen to your crap and those other pointless things, and you've never considered not being crap or that some woman might appreciate your brain instead.

You might be a lost cause, though I trust I'll get through to you one day, but the good thing is that you might end up blessed with daughters.

I, buda, curse you today with my immense feminist lesbian power that you will bring them up to believe they breath fire so a real man is worthy of them and not some worthless pig.

I didn't bother reading. I have given you too much attention. Now rest.

Tendd:
You better live with your wife in Nigeria with this your mindset,if you expect that from your wife.However,wage disparity makes it impossible for feminism to thrive here,despite various policies for women emancipation.The dependency mindset of our women also makes it even harder.

I can understand men from the west who go to countries like Thailand, Philippines to check for foreign brides but that won't change anything in the west because women rights are deeply entrenched in western culture.



I disagree with you on videos that you say are taking down because of their stance on overweight women.No,there are many on YouTube.

All in all,guys, make money so you can determine the kind of lady you want to spend your life with.

It's recently they allowed it. YouTube used to bring them down. Tiktok, a Chinese company, doesn't care about it because they mostly think like Africans in terms of culture.

TheFinesseKid:
lmao. 🤣🤣 Majority of these feminist dey moomoo die. They don't even know what or whom they are fighting for/against. With them moomoo herd mentality.

Na women na. Las las, na man wey dem no dey respect go still hang their legs for up, except they're lesbians, as most of them are.

As long as a cho cho cho woman will one day humble herself and spread her legs for a man, from a gender she feels she's equal to, she has been defeated.

Only a woman that'll NEVER allow a man breed her will be considered a strong woman — the rest are just depressed noisemakers with flat yansh, tiny breast, also ugly face, etc. that men have rejected and out of anger, they started hating men.

You hardly see beautiful and endowed women hating on men except she was too full of herself because of her assets when this was younger and now men are no longer interested because of her current age.

18 to 25 or max, 27 is all we want—even men at 60. Only teen boys from 13-19 want older women for the fun and humiliation so they can brag to their friends and say, "I have knacked your aunty—you think say I be small boy?" It's just for the pride. When they grow, they'll switch to 18-25 years girls, except the old woman is tooooo rich.

If a woman can't take advantage of this age 18-25 bracket, she has 6 options left.

1. She gets lucky and a SIMP or Church member finds her worthy (all these career women think we care about their money and career — we only care about their respect and faithfulness)
2. She becomes an angry feminist
3. She switches to lesbianism
4. She adopts a child
5. She goes diabolical
6. She stays single, rich and happy (but deep down, she's not happy—make we just pretend say she dey happy for peace to reign )

cococandy:
All the follow up about money wasn’t necessary.
The point is that if you can safeguard your phone because of your financial assets, a woman can too.

You can't tell me what is necessary. You were looking for a fault, but I didn't give you room to spot any, so it pissed you off. Hahaha. Women!

No matter how educated a woman is, she can't win me in an argument that requires logic and nature. If I quit, it's just because I feel I have spoken too much already and I'm looking too available. Over availability reduces value.

Safeguard your money, I have zero interest in it, but you can't hide your social media apps from me if you want a serious relationship with me.

Anyway, have a nice day.

TheFinesseKid:
This one sef dey bored.

She dey try pull my legs so that she'll laugh and scream, "I gotcha, double standard."

ufotunang:
..can you also allow her to have access to your own phone?

Yes. Na she go even vex return am. Na screenshots of business ideas, transactions, trading, unfinished books, investment plans, this and that and lots of boring things she go see. It seems a lot of Nigerians have too much to hide. E come be like say na only me and a few be sane person for this country.

But, let me ask you. Between Ned and Regina, who do you think has access to the other person's phone?

cococandy:
Great

So then my first question stands. If crypto is a good reason for you to safeguard your phone from her, is she allowed to safeguard hers from you as well?

As long as I know what she's safeguarding is crypto or her bank account, yes. I'm never interested in a woman's money, gifts or degrees. Anything that comes from a woman, I mostly reject it. the iPhone and Rolex women bought for me was through pleading before I took them.

I always feel whatever a woman gives you now, she'll use it against you in the future, so I don't want. I want to be the one to give instead. All I want is respect and faithfulness in return.

If what she's safeguarding is her Facebook or WhatsApp chats, it's a red flag and I'll just roll with her strictly on pleasure and not commitment—that's if the pleasure is worth it.

I love honesty, but I know it's too much to ask for such from women of nowadays, hence, most men are emotionless players with zero commitment in mind.

Too many SIMPs on here fighting against the truth. Giving a woman freedom is a sign that you don't care about her and you're careless.

You just want to knack and you don't care who she's knacking behind. When she comes back from her adventure, you'll still knack her raw, isn't it?

Don't worry, when you spend 1m treating infection, you'll understand too much freedom corrupts a woman. This same SIMP will be the one to abuse her and call her ashawo.

Try to know the difference between having access to her phone and being desperate/needy. That's what these Gen-Z SIMPs don't understand.

For me, if you deny me access to your phone, you'll never be upgraded to a girlfriend status let alone a wife—that thing you're hiding, keep it up and let's play the game together.

SIMPs can think otherwise, but real men don't care—there principles or rules must be obeyed, else, she's just a friend with benefits.

cococandy:
What if she had a crypto account that she’s protecting too?

Wait before you answer. Are women allowed to invest in crypto? Or does she need your permission to do that too?

I have never met a woman with a crypto account — I'm always the one that introduce them.

I teach every woman close to me, who's interested in crypto, everything they need to know about crypto for free and I fund their accounts with my money incase they lose it, they won't blame me.

I give what I can lose without regrets. Even though I'm being dogmatic towards them, I'm still the kindest, without a skeleton in my cupboard, most of them have probably met and that's why I have never asked for a woman's password or details to access her phone and she said no. I appear trustworthy because I am.

So, no, you don't need permission and yes, women are allowed to invest in crypto. You're trying to pull leg, but I got you.

Haydens:
Well said.

Who gives a flying fvck about women and their stupid thinking?

A man has himself and that is more than enough.

So, with that, you should know that me being dramatic tonight doesn't define me, but my energy based on her energy.

She might engage me two hours later and I won't even notice her, so I just wanted to give her the attention as e dey hot.

These women just love drama, so it's not everytime you keep quiet just to maintain steez to be regarded as alpha.

If you keep maintaining steez to your woman or a woman, you're automatically boring to her.

No be every argument women bring up na him you suppose avoid. Roll on the dirty with them once in a while. This is a secret most men don't know. Make them happy by doing a little Cho Cho Cho. They may never have the opportunity again or might only be lucky after some years to see you engage in another Cho Cho Cho.

Livelystone01:
Lol, story of my life bro. My wallets are hidden far from anything.
The wallet I use as my first page on trust is also one with just $500, the main ones with real USDT are not exposed. My security code is my finger print.

My exchanges are also hidden too.

A y other app you need that's not money related is open for the the public.

My reason is the police or wicked people.

Exactly what I was trying to explain to her, but she wouldn't listen. She's a woman ready to fight men, so every loophole looks like an opportunity to attack a man.

Haydens:
Ilegend, see the way a woman is just playing with you because you want to prove yourself because of a pussy.

See as she dey use you dey mop floor.

Your post doesn't even depict an atom of you.

Calm down and take a deep breath. I'm ahead, except you want to take a swipe at me, then continue. Aren't you being entertained? Some people will have to pay for this entertainment.

Too much ego is the reason some men are introverts. They don't want to banter to avoid looking stupid or tagged "talkative or cho cho cho." That is what men fear the most.

People like us don't focus on what people think.

Haydens:
Mr man you are very weak by bragging and arguing with a woman back and forth.

You made a nice write up but you don't portray it in character.

You won't understand. I get your point. Sometimes, you need to stoop. Even Falana that we respect is jumping from one Interview to another talking too much. Sometimes, you need to lose respect to pass your message across.

What if I want to turn everything to a book? Don't you know this serves as a public writing pad? I'm an author, so don't worry too much about me. I'm always 10 steps ahead of her, trust me.

I appreciate your concern, though.

alimiadedayo1:
Hello

Hi

budaatum:
I have never ever asked anyone for anything, though I don't expect you to believe me. I'm the sort who is asked for things instead. I was brought up to be self sufficient you see, and even if I don't have enough, and not when, since I have always been content with whatever I have, I'd rather do without than go begging or letting your sort benefit so I can have.

That's perhaps why your sort have no value as far as I am concerned. Nothing you have appeals to me, as I'm far more interested in the value you place in the brain in your head than the value you place in the diq in your pants, which is valueless if you asked me, since you can't possibly be the only person with a diq worth bragging about, and which some, no doubt, know to use better than you can imagine in your wildest dreams.

Up your game dude, and value yourself more. It might make you more deserving of more than the 2k girls you currently associate with, and bring you into the realm of women who would add value to you.

Most women would rather turn transgender than to admit the truth, so I don't expect honesty from you. You're so fixated on the dick I mentioned, yet you're acting disgusted by it because you're a lesbian hiding under feminism. Alright, e don do. Enjoy. Deceive and convert all the women. We know you people's agenda.

Shame dey catch me say I dey exchange words back and forth with you, a lesbian feminist that would rather die than to listen to a man.

I'm from a complete home, so we don't add bitterness to our lives — we just want our beautiful women to be women-like and not depressed lesbian feminists who think equality has a room in a real man's life.

budaatum:
Show where I asked you for 2k please, so people know I'm poor. Everything else you said na story.

The pint of Guinness I have in my hand alone as I type this is like 10k, and its my second, all bought by myself plus the 2 I've already brought for my girlfriends who are with me. By the time I'm done, I alone would have spent 50k and they too would have brought rounds, and that's not adding the 30k entry fee for one to the venue.

Its not about being better than you with your small tiny ego you see, but about value. And its obvious that the only thing you think is worth anything about you is between your legs and not in any way what's between your ears.

Up your game dude. You are flailing here like a limp diq.

You don't read to comprehend, you read to reply. There is no way ever since you started using a phone that you haven't asked a man, woman or family member for card or urgent 2k. I haven't. I didn't say you asked me — I'm refering to women in general.

I don't consider you a woman anymore — you're a man like us, a strong man for that matter. Bobrisky saw the hardship men face and ran away but you want chook head.

Talking about the price of what you're drinking, you get money pass me na. You na big man.

All my money has been invested. Also, with the rise of fake products causing kidney problems, I have stopped consuming 95% of things that have gone through a factory — soft drink, alcohol, energy drink, etc. I hardly take them in the first place, but I have total stopped or 99.99% stopped.

I mostly exercise and consume home-made beverages. If I want to get high like you, I'll get fresh marijuana and slice them into my meal. It's a vegetable and it's medicinal.

For your girlfriends? Hmmm. 90% of women have lesbian tendencies and girl-to-girl always turn them on. Speaking from experience. But since you want to be a man, I trust you, you won't do anything to your "girlfriends" after getting high. 🙄

You're bragging about clubbing, drinking and spending 50-100k. Wow! You're a big girl o. I lost almost a million in crypto some days ago and I wasn't even bothered. Though, I have made the money back.

While I'm busy focusing on multiplying my money, you're busy spending. You know why? The bills is always on a man, us, so we have to invest more than we spend. There are even nice guys in that club that'll be ready to pay for you girls, but I had to carry my own weight.

When I was a student, I used to spend lavishly too and club's gate fee wat $50-$100 for the men and if you want to enter VIP section, you pay thousands of $. This $50 (85k) is just for entrance and not the drinks I'll buy.

You're being abusive towards the end. Don't go there, please, I'm violent with words.

Now, let's talk about how you made that money you spent. Can you tell us? You can lie about it if you want to, but I'd love if you're sincere.

See woman dey brag about clubbing and alcohol—not to talk of the substances she'll smoke or inhale in that place. We're doomed—the female gender is gone. America, look at what you've done to our women. And you want us to take you seriously? You're already a man like us, so allow us look for feminine women.

They want to do what men do, but when fight broke out between Ukraine and Russia, the Ukrainian government said all women and children should be moved to safety and all the men forward for war and not a single Ukrainian feminist said, "Objection my Lord, all the women must join the men in this this war." 98% of these women ran to safety in other countries and 98% of the men refused to run—just to defend their country.


You see? So, how did you make the money you spent? Is it legit? The company you work for, is it owned by a man or a woman? Be honest and not abusive.

ObalendeCMS:
RESPEK!!!!

Just trying to pull that dumbo's pants, sorry legs.

I have even modified your first post to add extra info.

ObalendeCMS:
I won't be surprised if those two up there, going back & forth, end up smashing!

With the rate of infections and careless expenses on transportation, you think I'd stoop so low? No, Brother, I won't.

Men are investing in assets that'll appreciate in value in 5 years, not on a smelly vagina of an infected or frustrated feminist.

Most frustrated feminists have cats, dogs, and other animals as pet and they sleep with these animals because men don't want them and when they contract diseases from these animals, they become born again and look for a naive Church member or a good guy to infect and spread it.

They just hate men and want every man dead, but we, as men, don't hate women — we just hate how they lie, cheat, become disrespectful and still want equality in a world where 98% of what they enjoy, including their dil*dos and phones are built by men.

budaatum:
But your worth is of no importance nor of any relevance to me. It's not as if I'm trying to sell myself to you now is it, and nor do I need to rely on you for my daily bread.

There's lots of starving girls out there for you to go derive benefits from. Girls who are very interested in your worth and would willingly sell their benefits to you.

What you are finding out is, not all girls are at your shallow level, but I'm certain you know that already, hence your thread where you pitch yourself at those at your own very low level.

Now, please go ahead and try hard to show us your worth by ignoring me. I bet you'd fail.

Using psychology on me. And I'd intentionally fail it because I have my reason.

Let me lecture you — I won't abuse you.

You see the reason a lot of you are poor and always asking for urgent 2k? You had an argument with me and I used the opportunity to advertise. I said I have a friend smarter than me, but I taught him about women and lasting long in bed. All my bragging are anchors to wealth.

Some men will send me DMs and say, "Please teach me about women and how to last long in bed as you taught your friend."

I'll direct them to a site I have put everything and each copy is 20k. Selling 50 copies = 1million. You see the difference between a feminist and a wise man?

All a feminist is thinking about is "Fight, fight fight. We are better than men, we are better than men. We can do what men can do, we can do what men can do. We can do it better. We don't need men, we don't need men, etc."

It's always about screaming like a victim.

A man, an alpha male, is always thinking of how to generate money to take care of his family, his mom, his wife or girlfriend, siblings, etc., but a feminist is always about bringing him down, trying to measure up to his dreams, etc. We are not the same or equal.

We love you people feminine and submissive, but if you're too big for it because you read one big book or attended one big school, fine, we'll just use you as a sex objects or avoid you at all cost.

You're strong women, but when criminals pull out a gun, most of you starts screaming "Jesus" (a man) to come and save you or a male neighbor to come out and fight. Even rat, cockroach, snake, etc. you scream and call a man. If electric sparks in the house or it catching fire, you'll look for a man to come put it off.

Let me be honest with you, we don't take feminists seriously — na boredom dey make us engage una for debate cuz it like cruise to us.

If I write a post today that men are women's slaves, you'll see women who'll fight me that it's a lie.

If I write another post that women are men's slaves, you'll still see those same women saying women are not men's slave. You people are just confused.

I read a post on Instagram last week where someone said since Diddy's issue, Burna Boy has been quiet and that means the rumour is true, else Burna wouldn't be this quiet.

A week later, Burna arrested Akpi and this same person said: Burna is guilty that's why he arrested Akpi because his conscience is judging him and he wants to save face, else he wouldn't bother.

Can you imagine? So, no matter what a man does, a woman is ready to complain.

You're a good husband, she'll say you're boring and not fun. You're a bad boy, she'll say you're abusive, egotistic, etc.

With this, men should be men and never worry of what women think about them. Don't please that gender, but be kind, terrible, good, bad, supportive, and even abusive at the same time. Just mix it up to avoid overdose of any of them.

SuperOnyi:



I feel sane when I remember there's billions out there who think like me "in default state." This is exactly what I did in my first 'situationship' with my boss's daughter. I let her believe she's in charge and also made sure she was the one to end the relationship due to distance. In reality, I already knew she was gone long before that.

Sir, with all of this woke culture, do you see yourself ever migrating permanently to the West? I notice how your perceptions of the West (although similar) has slowly shifted to the negative arrow.

I prefer some Asian countries over the West. They uphold most of African values while being more developed, organized and law abiding than Nigeria.

But, I love Nigeria for some reasons. You can evade tax easily here and I have access to real natural food unlike abroad where I had to buy everything and some are even GMOs.

Coupled with the free light in my region, good weather and close to zero natural disaster except flooding and road accident.

We are blessed in Nigeria, na just leadership and lawlessness spoil everything.

budaatum:
You now sound like you are advertising yourself in hope you'd appeal to me, lol. Aren't you content with the women you already get that you now think you would appeal to me?

It's about trust you see. You don't trust me, so what makes you think I should trust you?

You are not my kind of smart, sorry. I'd even go as far as saying you are not smart enough to be my friend not to talk of one with any benefits. I definitely wouldn't bother being your friend going by the way you reason, because friendship, as far as I am concerned, is a relationship of mutual trust and benefit, and you haven't said anything to make me have either in you.

Okay, enjoy. At least you now know I don't keep friends let alone a female Nairaland feminist who can't measure up.

If I could reject beautiful, young and rich white and Asian girls, then who are you? Now rest. I have advertised myself enough already. You don't need to like it, but at least you've read it.

Stay blessed.

budaatum:
To your "calm down", see below.



You don't need strong women. Weak men usually don't. And that's why I am simply not the woman for you.

Thankfully for you, there's lots of women out there for you to pick from. We after all live in a world where some women think they are a man's rib. I'm just not one of them.

E be like say I go ignore you before you push me into exposing my worth.

Just know that, academically, I was top 3 in Nigeria and top 2 abroad with a distinction.

Physically, I'm muscular and healthy — I never miss exercise.

Spiritually, I'm average — deviating from religion gradually.

Financially, I don't begged for money no matter the hardship from family members or outsiders — I give (especially when I have) before people go start to dey send DM to bill me.

Intellectually, I find solutions to problems faster than most people I have ever met home and abroad. It's only my guy in Spain that finds solutions faster than me. I don't know where that one got his own brain. I'm still the one that taught him female psychology and how to get any woman and last long in bed while he taught me a lot about technology hacking, etc., which is even my field.

With my big muscle and big dick, you known no say I suppose get standard and pride? So, I choose, not you.

If you call someone like me with all the muscular and brain weak, I wonder what you'll call other men.

Feminist no really get brain and choice sha. Always attacking men toll menopause and they become bitter. For me, I like women and will always treat them well, massage them, cook for them when I'm happy, f*ck them like no one ever would, pamper them, fight with them, reconcile, f*ck them again, spend what I'm willing to lose, etc., but don't ever insult me directly or indirectly or my mom or even any of my siblings — I don't forgive or forget. I have a journal where I write everybody's offences down no matter how little it is.

So, that's a little bit of me.

budaatum:
You don't know anything about me, yet you assert what I am. And worst, you ask me who knows who I am to trust you.

Please don't you bother trusting me. Our association, what else it might be, is definitely not based on trust, but on the evidence that is before us. And it is an obvious fact that you are not in a position to derive any benefits from me not to talk of being my friend, as there's far too many decent people who'd qualify long before I consider pigs.

Lemme give you a tiny gist about myself.

Damn, me that pushes people away, even my siblings, if they misbehave wants to be your friend? All my childhood, I have only had 1 friend till this day.

I left Nigeria, came back years later, it was still him. He left my house a year or two ago to Spain for his second masters and PhD, and he's still the only friend. He's begging me to come over, but I told him abroad no dey move me again — I don enjoy before you, no nothing new. Even with the supposed hardship in Nigeria, wise people are making a killing without paying tax unlike abroad that wanted to kill me with tax.

This guy is way smarter than me. You think it's easy to find people that are way smarter than me? I'm not saying I'm the smartest, but damn.

The best in class in Nigeria and abroad. Humility is the reason I control my bragging. Dey play.

So, even if you draw close to me, I'll be the one to approve the friendship, not you because I have way more to offer, but sadly, I'll decline as I have always done all my life.

No woman has ever dumped me—I'm the one who's never interested as they beg me to give them a chance. So, for your mind, I'll give someone like you a chance? A female Nairalander for that matter? Lol.

budaatum:
...

Calm down, I have modified the post. Re-quote me.

budaatum:
So, you hide things in your phone that I can not see, but think you have the right to see what I hide in my phone, and you think I'm too dumb and can not hide things in my phone that you can not see?

Seriously, I'm glad you think I'm dumb. For while it makes it easy to swindle you, your arrogance (insult not intended) helps me justify my action.

And please note, you are benefits. I treat my friends a lot better.

If my crypto accounts that I'm protecting is the issue, I'll show you as my girl, cuz I have nothing to hide. I put it there because of police.

You sound like an arrogant feminist from a broken home. (No insult intended). Any woman brought up by good dad and mom won't argue with me. Yes, sure you're dumb because you're an emotional creature and your emotions will always expose you. Trust me. (No insult intended, dear).

The moment I notice you're already playing a hide-and-seek "arrogant feminist" game with me, you're already a sex object to me. I'll even encourage you to call your man when I'm banging you. You're just there for my pleasure and nothing more. Once again, no insult intended — I'm just being real.

Referring to your quote, we don't need strong women, we want a feminine woman who is submissive so that we can slave our lives to provide and protect her.

budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?

All my girls have access to my phone and ATM pins. I can hide something in a phone and no living thing will see it.

My phone is like a computer. Different operating systems: Window, iOS, Ubuntu, Linux, etc. You won't even see option to switch. If you do see, you're just way to good in IT. Even after that, how do you gain access with multiple authentications?

This is just to protect my crypto accounts from everything incase I'm travelling with my phone and I get into trouble with men in uniform. I'm not hiding a crime, just protecting my money from uniform criminals.

HellVictorinho8:
stop generalizing unimaginably

i cant bliv u doing dis

I ignored your quote 2 days ago for a reason.

If I reply you now, the next thing na to beg for 5k. Even if I give you, you go still attack me as you did last time after I gave you 5k and you told me it's nothing. You requested for someone to lend you 10k and you'll pay back.

I commented and told you I don't lend money, I give for free if I have, but sadly, I don't keep Naira at the moment — all my money are in crypto, but I have 5k I'll give you for free.

Omoh, you abused me, but I still sent you the 5k. I can forget people I help, because helping is normal, but I keep record of people that abuse me. So, you're on my bad list and that's why I have been ignoring you. I don't forgive.

Money wey you go still use go gamble with. I know lots of your alternates. Even that one that promised to give me 100k, it's yours.

Tayorshd87:
With alm the money wey Gienesss give u .
U no buy cream inside,

Bleaching cream?

You make your phone private, but your private part (the one that God warned you to protect) is handed to me and other men you're cheating with freely. It's still you that'll have quotes about God in your profile while dressed so decently like a virgin. Hmmm. Continue, Mrs. Private Investor who fears God the most.

We, as men are the ones indirectly encouraging women to go into prostitution because we don't have principles or not-to-be-broken dating rules.

Being in a committed relationship where she doesn't allow you access to her phone is SIMPing and she knows it. She'll surely punish you for SIMPing and not being the leader even after you've claimed to be an alpha male.

You're trying to prove you're not insecure. Okay o. She go soon give you HIV from her sexcapade because you indirectly gave her the permission nonverbally by not checking her moves.

Not that she won't do whatever she wants to do when she goes out without you, but knowing that you have access to her phone will put fear in her.

Without fear, a woman can't love or respect a man. It's either fear of losing you or fear of you finding out. There must be fear for a woman to respect a man. For a man, there must be kindness for your fellow man to respect you.

I remember those days when my tall and beautiful mom will dress to attend a Church meeting and my dad she's a little taller than will tell her to go inside, remove those clothes and stay at home and she'll do it without saying a word.

As a kid, I see a man leading, despite his height as natural, but this generation wants to make it look like it's controling and manipulative. SIMPs everywhere.

If it's controlling and manipulative, don't ever listen to the rules of the government or your teachers and see what will happen to you.

Your pastor, doctor will tell you to go on your knees and you'll do it, but your man can't tell you anything. Okay o.

Worse, your phone repairer will as you for the password and you'll give it to him instantly. Private Investor indeed.

Modified on 14th, Oct. 2024. Here is part 2 of this post: https://www.nairaland.com/8239346/wife-misunderstanding-happened-picture