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budaatum:
To your "calm down", see below.



You don't need strong women. Weak men usually don't. And that's why I am simply not the woman for you.

Thankfully for you, there's lots of women out there for you to pick from. We after all live in a world where some women think they are a man's rib. I'm just not one of them.

budaatum:
You don't know anything about me, yet you assert what I am. And worst, you ask me who knows who I am to trust you.

Please don't you bother trusting me. Our association, what else it might be, is definitely not based on trust, but on the evidence that is before us. And it is an obvious fact that you are not in a position to derive any benefits from me not to talk of being my friend, as there's far too many decent people who'd qualify long before I consider pigs.

budaatum:
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budaatum:
So, you hide things in your phone that I can not see, but think you have the right to see what I hide in my phone, and you think I'm too dumb and can not hide things in my phone that you can not see?

Seriously, I'm glad you think I'm dumb. For while it makes it easy to swindle you, your arrogance (insult not intended) helps me justify my action.

And please note, you are benefits. I treat my friends a lot better.

budaatum:
Would I have equal access to your private phone too, or is this a one way thing?

HellVictorinho8:
stop generalizing unimaginably

i cant bliv u doing dis

Tayorshd87:
With alm the money wey Gienesss give u .
U no buy cream inside,

I'm going to explain in a simple to understand language.

If you can’t allow me access to your phone whenever I want as your man because you consider it private—thanks to destructive Western culture—then I advise you not to also allow me access to your private parts, as they are even more private and sacred than your phone.

The woke generation thinks it’s good to obey Western culture but disobey moral culture.

By denying me access to your phone, you’re hiding one of these three things:

1. You’re into illicit or illegal activities, or there’s a sickness you have but don’t want me to know about because the details are in your phone's diary. I might stumble upon them and be devastated. A clear conscience fears nothing.

2. You’re protecting somebody or a group of people, and you don’t want me to know. As I mentioned earlier, a clear conscience fears nothing.

3. You’re cheating on me or soon to (your option A) with your option B, C, D, E or F. Or perhaps you’re cheating on someone (your option A) with me (your option B, C, D, E, or F), and you don’t want me to know. A clear conscience fears no privacy with their partners.

With all these said, let's just remain friends or friends with benefits and I’ll never worry about having access to your phone. Otherwise, I must have access whenever I want.

If the Chinese police accuse you of being a drug dealer and they come to search your house, you wouldn’t panic unless you're guilty.

If you are, you’ll panic and scream, "You're invading my privacy!" When you talk about privacy, it’s not because they’re invading it, it's because you’re scared of being exposed.

One more time: a clear conscience fears no privacy, except when it comes to exposing private parts.

If those police say, "We’re searching your room," you won’t be bothered because there’s nothing incriminating. But if they say, "Take off everything you’re wearing," then you’ll surely panic, because that’s an invasion of a sacred private place.

Some men play the "Mr. Alpha male" role and say, "I’ll never check my woman’s phone; it’s a sign of insecurity and lack of trust."

Yes, you’re right—but soon, you’ll be wrong. If you love a bird, don’t cage it, allow it to fly. But if you love your spouse, cage her or else she’ll fly. Caging in this regard means ensuring she submits to your requests. This is not SIMPing or acting overprotective.

When she was a child, her disciplinary father never allowed her to stay outside past 9 PM. This same father always checked her notebooks and she never acted stubborn.

He was the man, the head, who paid the bills, took care of her and protected her. Today, her phone is her notebook, but she doesn’t want to submit it to you—the head, the man taking care of her bills, caring for her, and protecting her.

If criminals come into the house, she’d hide and expect you to fight and protect her, just as her father used to.

If a woman sees her phone as her privacy, friendzone her or turn her into a friend-with-benefits.

It’s unfortunate that some men fall in love (which a man isn’t supposed to), and this takes away their reasoning, making them to start SIMPing and sharing the masculine power God gave them as the leader of the house with a feminine creature. Yes, men are women's slave, but you're still the leader as the head.

Some "oversabi" feminists will say, "It must be 50/50."

Yes, if the man is irresponsible, poor, and lazy, it should be 50/50. But if he’s rich and responsible, it’s 99/1 or 95/5. Regina Daniels can’t ask Ned to see his phone, but Ned can ask to see hers. Why? Rich and responsible.

Conversely, if Mr. Eazi was poor, irresponsible, and lazy, he wouldn’t have the power Ned has over Regina in his relationship with Temi Otedola.

But if rich and responsible Ned had married Temi Otedola, he’d still have the same rights he has with Regina. If Temi doesn’t like it, let her find a poor, irresponsible and lazy man to marry, so she can use woke Western culture to control him like the bread seller girl that year controlled her husband.

A real man MUST have access to his woman’s phone, (girlfriend or wife). He must be a provider, a disciplinarian, and a protector—without being abusive—even though women love abusive men and the drama they bring more than the calm and peaceful men.

Don’t let Western culture turn you into a SIMP, allowing your falcon (woman) to fly freely whenever she wants. One day, you’ll discover that on one of her journeys, a vulture slept with her, and now she’s carrying the rejected bird’s baby.

She’ll still blame you for everything— not being man enough, not paying attention to her, not satisfying her in bed, being boring, not providing, etc.

If it’s in the U.S., you’ll still lose 50% of all you own, suffer a mental breakdown and be held responsible for your woke-ness, while still paying child support for a vulture’s child.

This is why African men should NEVER embrace Western woke culture. If she doesn’t bring home a vulture’s child, she’d at least bring a vulture’s infection because falcons and vultures always go skin-to-skin.

Yes, some SIMPs and some alphas will say, "No matter how much you police her, she'll still do what she wants."

I 100% agree with you, but at least, have access to her current "notebook" (her phone), just as her father used to have access to her notebooks. Do this without being needy and pushy, but if she refused, you don't need more red flags.

When she goes out, clear your mind and don’t bother. Let the loyalty she claims to have for you—or her secret loyalty to her personal pleasure—guide her decisions.

It’s her choice to decide whose loyalty is more important at that moment—yours as her provider or her secret sexual satisfaction from a vulture. You've done your part as a man, so leave the rest to her conscience.

Remember: Secret gay men and lesbian women in power sponsor the feminist movement to destroy heterosexual relationships within a year.

When a heterosexual relationship collapses due to financial strain, a desperate man will easily fall for rich gay billionaires who will lure him with a watery financial offer in exchange for his ass and the girl will do the same with wealthy lesbians.

In this situation, two heterosexuals ended up compromising their values for survival.

Gays and lesbians in power are pushing straight women to demand equality as a way to destroy women first and then men.

Even up-and-coming musicians, actors, etc., bend to the will of these billionaires before they can find success in their industries. It’s the desperation they've created to make humanity fall for their games.

As long as these powerful secret LGBTQ+ billionaires continue to sponsor feminists to drag men into equality debates and destroy patriarchy, heterosexual relationships will continue to fail and women will become more loose and easily accessible with money. 

The Devil won’t rest until he wins. This is the game real men are up against, and it's not easy to win unless you're rich, a strong leader and a stubborn "bad boy" who doesn’t tolerate disrespect or manipulation.

Also, it's good to know that these powerful billionaires control 90% of everything—politics, social media, schools, Churches, Mosques, the Illuminati, etc. They have their people everywhere.

Their agenda is to destroy heterosexual relationships and silence or weaken men who call themselves alphas. These men try to educate the new generation of men how to remain gallant and uncompromising to bending like women to their fellow men.

Have you noticed something?

If a pro-feminist woman creates a video encouraging women to hurt men and never settle for poor or short men, and a man, let's call him Andrew Quincy creates a video telling men not to settle for disloyal, overweight or women over 26...

Andrew's video will be taken down immediately from all social media platforms like a co-ordinated attack and he might even be arrested by the powerful LGBTQ+ gang in power. But that woman’s video won't be taken down. Why?

These powerful evil figures want every woman to be a rebellious, disobedient, "woke" woman, so heterosexual relationships won't last. This benefits their agenda, the self-service di,*do companies, don't want relationships to last. A woman destroys anything that involves emotions faster than a man can.

HERE IS THE TRUTH:

As a man, yes, your a woman's slave, at the same time the leader of the house, but make money, lead, have access to her phone and provide 80% of your food by farming.

Control 80% of your money through digital currency, and make sure you have at least 80% or more decision power in every relationship. If not, leave or turn her into a friend with benefits.

Having decision power doesn’t mean you can’t be understanding. Always listen to her side before making a final decision.

She’s human, so let her speak, but ensure the final decision is yours. If not, you’re a failure, a SIMP, and you deserve to be in the same prison as P Diddy, where he can handle you like the sissy that you truly are.

Download the image below and have it on your phone. It's important.

verdade00:
Lol what ever you do for people and make it public ,its useless and you didn't do it for GOD
so this is the between you and me . The give away i have been doing for a long time .i want to do it for you
since you say no its ok i will keep my

Baronthecelebri:
guy your chatdickted no work oh.

proff010:
So you are waiting for vdm to fight for you, sit down dey look ooo.

proff010:
We will fight for ourselves one day

verdade00:
send your account number

verdade00:
Is this your bank account ?
Mr. Governor, we have been patiently waiting. Are you having limit or bank issues?

think before you talk ..i told you to give me your account number

DrFunmisticGlow:
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DrFunmisticGlow:
For point number one. Let's agree to disagree that Menstruation is a woman's business, if you can look on apathetically as someone you claim to love or be in a romantic relationship with or Let's even say share family ties with bleeds every month and go through the pain that is comparable to a heart attack, then you either lack empathy as a human being or are yet to receive a diagnosis as a clinical sociopath. Also if a period is missed, 8 out of 10 reasons is because you as a man, or any son of Adam is the cause.

2. Yes she carried the child for 9 months and did go through hell alone for half parasite fetus that shares half your DNA. Pregnancy and its complications are most likely to kill a woman than if she is not involved with a man. She looks after 50% of your DNA because she has a responsibility to make sure that child makes it to adulthood. You have a responsibility too, but because you have less risk towards that investment you call your off-spring you feel less of a parent bond and can be prone to jealousy when her attention is shifted from you to a helpless infant or child who can't survive on his own without parental guidance. A man can just wake up say that he is no longer interested in the woman or her child(ren) and vanish without consequences,but not the woman. Simple if you want the woman and the child to pay more attention to you then invest more emotional attention to the child and relieve some of the burden of childbearing from her shoulders. That way the child will appreciate both you and the mother.

3. A woman went to the market for you and all you can say is that you gave her money and transport. Oga you can go to the market yourself and see that these food prices are not playing with anybody. 100k cannot feed a family of four for a month anymore. Trust me, most times she is most likely adding her own personal money to finance your deficit. I am not saying that all ladies are saints. But for you to say that she is adding money, is most likely paranoia. I didn't even see anything about a workmanship fee, you think it is easy to walk around haggling and bargainingat the market? If you are not satisfied with her going to the market. You can patronize these instagram vendors that do food runs and see if you won't spend more. On the claim that she will eat half of the food. A good cook tastes what he or she is cooking, but it is usually not half of the entire food she is cooking. I have more self discipline than most when cooking (I will not touch the fried chicken or plantain except an occasional designated small piece to ascertain that it is well cooked ) and most times when I try cooking without tasting the food, the taste would be off like less salt or too much salt or a certain mixing spice.

4. A good woman praying for you will increase the chance of your success. There is not truly wealthy man who doesn't have a good woman somewhere praying for him. Hardworking and determination will only make you comfortable at best. Besides having a good woman who sacrifices her dreams and life to manage the jome-front for almost free while you men pursue you careers and success is a privilege you should never look down at. If you don't like it stay single and employ housemaid and nannies to look after your children and see if you will truly be wealthy. There is a reason why widowers don't stay single for long.

5. A child will regard who invested and showed up for them as the real parent and it is the mums that do that. If all you can boast of as a child is just paying school fess and food on the table, then you are doing the bare-minimum. Afterall the single mums you men on this thread like to shit on are already doing that and are still there for their children through the ups and downs. Many Fathers don't let their children see their vulnerabilities and are hardly there when children need them. They don't make themselves approachable to their children and are only there to discipline. If you are a father can you say that your child will come to you if he/she is in trouble? Do you know the name of your children's friends? Classroom teacher? Health condition? Best subject? Can you drop you work and stay at the hospital overnight for a few days if your child is sick? Can you teach them how to fix things, deal with bullies, or how to choose a career path? Can you tell your child about gossip at work or how you are concerned about rent or school fees in a child friendly way?
It's these little things that matter to a child. These are the secrets so that your children won't abandon you in old age.

6. What you forgot was simple. A relationship with a man for a woman is a risk. She is putting her life in the hands of a man. She could die while carrying his pregnancy, she could be raped or sexually assaulted by him. She could be killed by being involved with him. She will give up her identity and dreams when she marries him and sacrifices her body to bear children for him that he might not be fully invested in. He might cheat on her and divorce her and leave her with nothing for all her troubles. All this for what? some financial gain? To feel among? For protection?I think women are getting the short end of the stick.

At time I think women should stay in their lane and maybe should not be involved with men, but when I see what is happening in the west when women say they will be childfree or the rise of bitter baby daddies like davido who weaponize their children to gain access to baby mama coochies. The rise of unproductive to society incel- men/budding school shooters/domestic terrorists with mental issues who feel like the world owes them something. The rise of feminists who are swearing off men and marriage and calling it the 4B movement. The fact that their population is decreasing. The fact that suicide rate in men is increasing when just over some decades ago, it was the opposite due to the fact that women couldn't divorce.


I think we now know who truly needs who here.

DrFunmisticGlow:
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DrFunmisticGlow:
Hopefully you discuss sensibly about where you went wrong and how to make the most out of your lives and those of your loved ones. Productivity has no enemies.

Let me leave the thread for you gentlemen. Have a lovely evening.

OlawaleBammie:
Open ur thread and write the thousands things in ur mind that u said u can use to counter...

Write it here, let discuss on it and stop bn a d!ck

DrFunmisticGlow:
what kind of incel bullshit is this?

Or is Tinubu's economy turning your brain to ogi?

It is not only men being slaves to women. Women are slaves to men too. Infact almost every bad thing that can to a woman's life can be attributed to a man. I can write an entire book to prove your statement wrong but y'all won't read it.

Baronthecelebri:
SIMPs behave like that

Peterzoom20:
In my opinion you should have just ignored you and not allow him to derail your thread. All these happen from time to time random monikers coming to your threads to try to unsettle you.

favour32:
The percentage of a man being a slave to a woman has increased over the past decades.

There are so many slave_like things our fore_fathers never did that recent men are happy to do.

Proddigeyy:
hmmm...

That dude is faker..

verdade00:
your bank Account

Reggaero:
boss abeg i fit see 1k for your hand,everywhere dry for this place, am really hungry, abeg help a brother

CaveAdullam:
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