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Falzdbadtguy: my hand nor dey that one.i think Claremont suggested petrofac..have been looking into it,if for nothing at least for the kids |
Ralphlauren:I was being sarcastic ..Don't know.why people love all these comparing and contrasting.. Things are just so different, different challenges too. Besides all the money is for a deposit and related costs so in reality savings zero. |
aje33:Yes,with 400k and above you will be better off than most folks in uk |
Ralphlauren:Yes,we have considered it all ,spoken with friends etc and this is the better option for us.Many of our friends in similar professions have moved to england.Will port back for free uni when the kids are older. ![]() We tried on the tier 2 and were rejected so didn't bother again,just started storing up money,lol. |
Falzdbadtguy:You are being ripped off and exploited!! I'm soo sorry about that.If you were working directly under the NHS,then at least you know that's the usual pay. I'm just year 2 and our pay is similar,chaii..don't worry your escape is near |
Falzdbadtguy:How can you earn £10 an hour as an RMO? Habba!!! You are doing very well,you've taken the first steps and it will pay off! Just keep your eye on the ball.Buy house asap when you can.. |
Ranchhoddas:Why not? A budget shows you where your money is going..we like seeing what we spend on,all financial gurus always advice a budget listing even the minutest thing. Hasn't done me much good though |
Ralphlauren:Right. Husband was in england to start with,things were very tough for DH then,so he moved about a bit. i finished school l,joined him and was jobless for years because I didnt have the right visa to begin foundation year-was a tier 2 dependant and did not do housejob after med school (meaning I must not locum but had to start with their own graduates.)then delay of GMC to approve qualification (took a year!) We have been moving about so much,time flew so fast,we could not get a mortgage because we were tier 2 visa,we gave up.Got ilr,almost bought last year but due to ir35 issues we are moving again as Scotland pay is poor in comparison, definitely will be worse off if adding their tax rises.So we are moving where we can earn more,so even with higher taxes can keep more due to more earning potential. It's a long story,very long and scary to have money lying about but can't get a house due to so much instability. Hopefully 2018 won't pass us by. |
Falzdbadtguy:Unfortunately,I know nothing about England,just lived there for a bit then we moved up north,sorry. Maybe dupyshoo can help? I'll be keeping tab too cos we haven't chosen our final destination ![]() You are doing a lot of shifts Im still junior& salary is poor,so bear in mind that you get a hefty pay cut if you decide to train,max 6 years if core medical,but 3-4 years for Gp. |
UKmigrant:Not even close..all we want is a good middle class area,low crime rate,good schools,decent quiet way of life,that's all.Having kids kind of narrows down areas you can live as you need to consider a lot of things for their sake. |
Falzdbadtguy:I don't blame him ..life has to be enjoyed,no point stashing so much money & not enjoying small small pleasures.im pretty sure he can afford it so why not? |
UKmigrant:It's because you are so busy..the days fly by. |
Beautyaddy:Very very fair assessment,thank you. I have looked over this list many times to cut down and the victims will be the close cousin for starters and reduction in help for sibling. For fees,this one there's no choice as not paying it would be a burden on parents who I'm also giving money for maintenance.The part gateman salary is split between siblings,parents don't work so who will pay? If I give parents money ,is it now grandparents I'll ignore?who will care for them? It's heavy ,but I expect school fees to lighten in the next 5-6 years for the ones in uni.then 18 years for the one in primary ![]() We actually save 10% of our combined income or slightly less if something comes up & also put £800 in investments.I agree it could be more but for now we are stuck til we shave off some expenses. Eg: childcare will reduce once the kids are in primary Rent will change to mortgage,gas&electricity hopefully,then money sent to Nigeria too. There's hope. |
dupyshoo:We are on it..next year asap once we choose a permanent base for the next phase of my training. Your posts have been very helpful,thank you |
Falzdbadtguy:Complicated..we were moving around a lot,one final move and we will buy.to buy in a place with good schools will cost over 400k |
Falzdbadtguy:Remember this is a family of 4 ,5 peeps.when we add the extra person who helps with childcare Have been here almost 8 years,target is 100k ,most will go to deposit for house ..you saved 11k in one year,if you continue this way you will save much more as long as you don't throw in kids to the mix. However your income will increase with time,if your partner works and you keep expenses down,you will save more. |
dupyshoo:Hahahaha at the football & retiring...I wish That £58is just one person &council run. We did the council swimming but the child was just not concentrating and would be busy playing about so we pulled out and went private,it was £58 for one block(council) Thanks for your suggestions..I will definitely shop and switch for electricity & life insurance.. Not much to do today so lounging at work and Nairaland |
wonlasewonimi:Yes council tax here is £250 massive increase from what it was. Freeview children channel limited. Dh even has Netflix ontop I forgot to add that one,he insisted on Netflix for himself We are a family of 4,plus nanny or family(2 people sometimes),so sometimes we re 6 people so grocery bills is high We go give offering naa-its not tithe I no get wig,hair sometimes can be once in 6 weeks or 2 months. We are two people -one person drives to work,the other takes a train..our jobs are in different places. We have to look into cutting hair ourselves Will have to find a better deal on the sky or something,I'm just hoping to settle down properly and start cutting down bills heavily.Im so ashamed of our expenditure but they all seem like necessary evils for now..have tried many times to cut down but it seems we are getting worse. We don't have any debts though ,don't use credit cards much except to do small purchases to boost our credit ratings ,we pay back immediately. |
wonlasewonimi:Thanks ..this is definitely what we will do.hope to buy 2018 for sure so we can rest. |
Bills Rent-£1k Council tax-£250 Electricity&gas-130 Fuel-£300(distance to work is far) Train(£250) Life insurance-105 Income protection- £40 TV license-12 Grocery-400( could be more) Swimming class -105 for 5 lessons Football(child)-58 for a block Nursery-500( when family around) ISA for kids-£100 Stocks for kids-£200 TV& internet- 44 Nanny-£800 when family not around Haircut-£30 My own hair-£60-100 plus manicure&pedicure Eating out-£100 (depends on what's happening) Outings -£100(soft play,zoo & co) Church offerings-£100-200 Charity foodbank-£50 Miscellaneous just incase of wahala-£100 Pocket money-300(150 for each of us) Saving up for holiday-£100-200 Investment -£500pcm Nigeria maintenance-xpcm Saving-10% of income. MOt,servicing,car tax, insurance- once a year I know there are areas to cut down though before wahala bursts. We both combine our income and work from one pot. |
DisGuy:We have saved up an ok amount (over 80k) for deposit.so we now want to leave it and then focus on building in Nigeria. To be honest we are confused(just like my name).Feels like we are in a huge spin with no concrete plan. Whether to keep on saving and focus on buying this year or to just split our money and do the 2.The pressure is intolerable |
Lexusgs430:Once we settle in,will definitely look into this. For now it's family doing shifts for us.No regrets at all as we can go to work without fear. |
otokx:Which other options are there? Parents maintenance, grandparents maintenance Siblings fees Uni Close cousins who need cash as they are job hunting Money to help out siblings in a jam Staff with parents salaries Jobless close friends cash once in a while Repairs at home where parents live It is endless..is there really a choice?? |
Bills from Nigeria 150k pcm for both families School fees for family -550k pa 120kpa part salary gatemans Cousins,siblings money.by the side -cannot even calculate this one. So it mounts up like crazy.. We have decided to arrange our finances to allow us make our own investments if not we keep giving out and end up having nothing. Have landed property,not many.We have decided to build in 2018..so will have to lock up Just ordinary visit ran into hundreds of thousands cos the things to do to keep our families comfortable were too much..we were so relieved when our holiday ended. I'm grateful that we are not poor and are able to manage ourselves and keep family happy but the bills are back breaking.. I wonder how other people cope and are able to build so fast and have tonnes of investment. We have arranged meeting with financial adviser in January . Is there a thread here for people with families..my problems will seem wierd for a single person. |
We got from an agency in London ,she didn't come from Nigeria,lives in the uk.she was horrendous.once we move into our own house will start trying aupairs. |
People with families should speak up as well.Would be great to see how others get by especially bill wise. Childcare is the real money eater..eases up slightly when child is 3,weight off at 5 depending on schooling preferences. Currently blow thousands on plane tickets flying in family for childcare as agencies here are not reliable and had a horrible experience with a Nigerian nanny. Have not bought a house yet due to some circumstances,spending 1k pcm on rent.Nice area,good schools.Will buy next year God willing.Have managed to save a good amount for deposit. Bills 2-4k pcm with nursery fees,council tax, grocery,life insurance,income protection,hair cut and do,children's ISA,childrens extracurricular,eating out,money sent to Nigeria for family,mobiles,fuel etc My salary is 2.4k, foundation doctor.husband higher earner. Once we settle,we expect to save way more and reduce bills |
Ukmigrant, 100 likes so you need to live up to your word and show the payslips. Or say you decided to go back on your word by choosing not to show it again.. ![]() |
sorry op,deleted |
justwise:Thanks |
Tfree:Thank you.Hopefully it gets sorted ASAP.We were advised for her to apply with my mother to make her application have more substance,since she's in final year etc.. I believe with all the documents you used,it should go well. Good luck |
Elly91:Standard |
thisisposh22:Hiya,yes they did some days after the biometrics,something about their application being prepared for the clearance officer |
my hand nor dey that one.i think Claremont suggested petrofac..have been looking into it,if for nothing at least for the kids


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