₦airaland Forum

uchetom:
Thanks i appreciate.The main issue is that i have a child and my friend knows evry detail of what am going tru.So i wudnt even know whatf they must have discussed behind me.Because as a friend i expect her to ask despite all,and for the fact he is inviting me to their family house.cos he doesnt have a place of his own yet.So am just playing neutral,watching considering the fact i dnt ave a job and have this huge responsibility too.I need a mature and serious advice. On this one.

If u think u remotely like dis guy it's best u step up ur game like every normal girl(ur child Nd financial status should not b a handicap at all)This guy makes advances @ u ryt? Isn't it time u hv a mature discussion wit him, u talk tins thru Nd if he can't handle it, he chickens out;which is better Dan leaving u emotionally hibernated. Finally u must talk 2 ur frnd afterwards(she deserves d respect) U shldnt even hv waited 4 dem 2 bring d game 2 u. Nw they'hv prepared a meal 4 u already wen it shld hv been mutual work. But it's ok Buddy.Just don't allow a situation whr u'd hv 2 b invited over by both of them(it's best u talk 2 dem individually) If ur girl frnd cum ur sister has been a good frnd, pls Mek sure dat d relationship isn't ruined cos of dis....GOODLUCK

Laveda:
I'm way smarter than that I don't ask such questions.. Before I enter the room with you..then I know its about to go down no time for questions

SEE GUTS

uchetom:
Well thanks for ur candid advice.since she is my friend and a good sister to me,i wudnt want to thread it for anything.But am not a pretender.

I'm sorry 4 my choice of words...just couldn't find somtin mild 2 xpress mysef.See Buddy, u painted a picture of a saint already(not so cool) Mayb u shld talk 2 ur frmd cos rationally, she'll b grudging Nd pretending 2 b fine.I AM SORRY ONCE AGAIN 4 the oversight

I don't mean 2 insult u but based on a research, I'd say u re just a pretender!! Already exonerated urself 4rm prospective defaults....only fake pple do dat. I'll advice u just do what u want cos no advice frm dis forum can change ur made-up mind.Thanks

No rich dude is unromantic according 2 d Nigerian context of romance.....TAKE IT TO THE BANK!!

cheruv:
O buru na Biāfra bu obodo nwereonwe ya,ndi fulani agaghi enwe ohere ira udiri nsi a.
Ihere megbuokwa obiano,nihi na o ya nākwado nzuzu a ndi Awusa naezuzu n'ala anyi
Ihere megbuo ndi Igbo kwenyere na "otu naijiria"...nihi na ebumnuche ha gbasara ndi Igbo ozo bu ataramahuhu na mmegbu si n'aka ndi Awusa
Onye Igbo nīle kwesiri ibile ugbu a chupusia ndi a nīle dika shakris dgz naerele ala Igbo anyi!

MAN OF THE MONTH

Bonapart:
mumu which one have you create since yours can make a full country quit masturbating

lest i forgot, keep masturbating anyways

Thanks bro!!! Lesson learnt

odepacy:
may the good Lord have mercy on you

AMEN!!!

Yeah Right.....Dont forget being Independent while u re at it.

GOOD container, BAD content......Ur topic made me load dis page but I doubt if ur points can Mek a person who masturbates stop.U TRY SHA

Giv him time if u really like him like u claim.....HE'll pass!!!

Didn't they teach u d Law of Electromagnetic Field in physics?

rheether:
MaiMai.

FUNNY!!!

Kachisbarbie:
Then it's safe to say the Nigerian factor is warped and medieval. Of course I know right, but I can only speak for myself and not the 90% of guys that abuse the love of such "bold ladies".
There is no standard on how a relationship should take off, if it works for you_ fine. If it doesn't _ life goes on... we win some, we lose some.

Buddy, I believe this is one of the ills of civilization.There is much joy and comfort in any position God/culture had given anyone.We
only create problems when we choose 2 derail due 2 dissatisfaction(especially when we tread without caution) For instance, women originally were made 2 b helps;the west re propagating feminism Nd sme folks choose 2 swallow it hook, line Nd sinker(yet we wonder y divorce is the order of d day). The West doesn't pride in culture/value like we do, therefore we must find a balance between their seeming wise ideologies Nd ours(to maintain equilibrium) Back 2 the topic, Men naturally are adventurers. We take pride in airing our prey out. In case of a turntable, Nd we bcom d hunted, natures equilibrium is distorted Nd there might b consequences.Talking 4rm experience Bud... Can't give further details.

Kachisbarbie:
Some ladies expect guys to know when they are in the mood to be wooed, if they are his level or not... like he is psychic _ yet they can't do same.
Guys get turned down everyday, and they are not dead.

You don't go about approaching every random guy, those signs you expect a young man to watch out for, you should be smart enough to watch out for same signs.

Observing a guy closely (especially when you guys have established a reasonable degree of familiarity), you would notice if he is into you but has issues expressing himself probably for fear of being turned down too. That's the time to strike...

Wise words buddy, but d Nigerian factor doesn't respect wisdom. 90 percent or more of guys in relationships birthed that way take the girls concerned 4 granted.U know better!!

Karlovich:
So amaechi and fashola are not corrupt? We all expected Dullardinhho to appoint saints but he still chose recycled theives.

maybe he meant to say "THEY ARE BORN AGAIN" I have a dream; Soon we will realize the essence of GEJ's Goat and Yam theory. Seriously the only feasible solution to corruption is to build a SYSTEM (technologically, etc) against it. We re up 4 surprises. I can only sit tight and watch!!!

There is no FATE but what we MAKE 4 ourselves

There is no FATE but what we MAKE ourselves

jurjur:
Plz if I may ask, what is your own definition of maturity?

I'm ardent follower of mr Bruce Nd I must say dat I don't really agree wit som of his opinions Nd comments.Did u hear him suggest dat illegal refineries be legalized without due justification? His fight wit Sahara Reporters could have been beta handled. Replying dis hater wasn't even necessary...Silence can be golden sometimes!!! That said, I realize he Is also human Nd Is entitled to his opinion like I am 2 mine.MERRY XMAS!!!

THANK GOD

MissGdope:
oga she's in need of a car, not land.

LOL!!! Some guys Nd their opinion sha...SMH!!!

It's a two faced coin, tho one is a lesser evil. My advice; get mobile if necessary.U won't want a guy dealing with complex issues as ur man in d 1st place, would u?

I'm with Mr Bruce Regardless. WHO IS DAVID MIKE ND STELLA ODUDUWA?

referandum:
i really didnt see anything immature there - he didnt abuse the guy

Silence is golden sometimes bro...Bruce is a rare politician Nd a model 2 many(myself inclusive);some comments re totally not necessary.Didn't u hear his comment bout legalizing illegal/bunkering refineries without a sound justification? The fight with sahara Reporters could have been beta dealt with, etc.Bro, Mr Bruce isn't as tact as he shld be(MY OPINION THO)

dmater:
The use of Nnamdi Kanu to buttress his points is totally out of sync.
And it is in fact no crime if at this time Kanu have chosen to champion the cause of his people.

It is becoming sickening that some people can't seem to complete their writeups without trying to cast stones on Kanu or the right of his people to self-determination.

I sense wisdom....Nothin Less. GBU

Ramos16:
He is a politician, which politician do you think sounds or act mature, take hint from Donald Trump..... or our own Oshiomole, and other senators, as far as I am concerned, Ben Bruce is much mature than most of them. I will vote him anytime he decides to run for president.

U re right bro...He has my vote any day too.Just concerned he never might get 2 his well deserved spot due 2 some very controversial comments.He really can do better.

I like u Bruce, but u don't always sound mature

Even skibii beta get sense pass Wisa...smh!!

DeviIhimself:
apc is a useless corrupt party
Buhari is a corrupt bastard - omojuwa

G, ur signature + moniker got me cracking.Thumbs up 4 d guts

Nice one bro... Just scared I might get 2 d rendezvous only 2 meet sme1 who hs been taking shots @ me here......The shit might just get real!!