₦airaland Forum

EJanni:
The bond between mother and child is devine. Imagine being inside someone for 40weeks and two years of nurturing while father comes and goes. In other words mothers are always there for their children.

it is because the mothers are selfish emotional manipulators!
The child has always lived inside his father's BALLS until he borrowed the woman for just nine months!!
Women will always bad mouth the men in front of the children because the man had to go out to earn a living and take care of the WOMAN and the CHILDREN, paradoxically..
if you allow your mother to tell you your father is USELESS then you are a useless son of a useless woman because no sane woman will make her children disrespect their father... BUT MOST WOMEN DO THIS NONSENSE!
You spend your whole life sacrificing and being humilated doing whatever you have to do - menial jobs, security, insulting office jobs, labourer, farming, conductor, etc... to take care of a woman and children only for them to wake up when you are old, the idiots will tag you a Useless man!

SimplyFacts:
Won ki n fini je oye awodi, ki o ma le gbe adie. Kudos!

An insult to Presidency is an insult to Nigerians.

I'm first a Nigerian, before any other country.

Na lie you dey !
what of all the insults and disrespect from the presidency to Nigerians?
Patriotism is not loyalty to the president, IT IS LOYALTY TO THE NATION!!!!!!

This particular president no be am at all!

Vaughanlanrewaj:
Boko Haram terrorists, IPOB terrorists and ISWAP terrorists won't like this news

just say the truth and stop beibg a gay... does the useless minister's statement make sense?

Barbiturate:
Within a year, I've applied for 188 jobs on LinkedIn. Some I was called for test and interviews, some I was never called. None of them gave me a job. There are some I applied via mail, not LinkedIn "easy apply"......so it should be over 200.

The last one was with a Yoruba company in Lagos. I applied via LinkedIn. I passed through 3 interview processes. The 4th was with the MD/CEO( Yoruba aged and titled man). He practically told me I am omo ibo(ibo man) and that I don't have the passport.

I'm officially done searching for jobs!!!
I'm throwing in the towel!

I am not a motivational speaker but I will say, don't give up.
I share my story.
When I was rounding up NYSC, I knew that job search was one of my strongest options - I had an IT consultancy company registered in 200L with a friend doing hardware maintenance, software development and Networking.
But all the same, I bought a ream of paper and used the whole thing to print my CV's and prepared to apply for JOBS.
I was fortunate not to have to use any of the printed CVs as my Place of assignment offered me a job and I also got a job in a university immediately after NYSC.
I am presently self employed, doing well and happy having resigned my position with the university.
My point is to keep on keeping on and never allow disappointments define you. Think of a skill you can develop to make money because you may be a successful entrepreneur - only God knows..
But try your hands on as many things as possible. don't allow tribal bigots discourage you. for every bigoted tribalist, there are atleast five people from his tribe that are open minded
Improve your CV quality and learn how to answer interview questions - if you want to talk, send a DM, we may just gist.
Make sure you are doing something to count as work experience on your CV, even if it is side-runs. for example, learn some IT skills, public speaking skills, etc. that you can be using to hustle and you can capture as working experience because you don't want a long period of inactivity to appear on your CV.
Learn to drive and have a drivers license - if you don't already have one- because some jobs require driving skills.
May God bless and help you.

UnabashedIPOB:
A medical emergency and on his bike?

just hypothetically, if he is getting medicine for a sick child, a wife in labor, and aged parent, etc.
I doubt if such one can say these emergencies do not occur in reality.
I would have advised him to stay indoors for his personal safety. that IPOB man used cutlass to hit him... any mistake could cause him to be chopped by the cutlass.

what if he has a medical emergency?

UnabashedIPOB:
Good for his dumb ass. He was told to stay his raggedy ass home but he wanted to act stubbornly.

Hashabiah:
This is a daily occurence in the zoo so i do not see the big issue here. After all, its just another tragic tale that will be swept under the carpet as usual

but the killer is from biafra who came to the zoo to execute his biafran tendencies!

we all know that the majority of crimes in the zoo and globally are committed by higher animals from Biafra land na, abi I lie?

onye oshi

Nacoss25:
Good morning everyone. I am a young man newly married to a 22 yr old lady. our marriage is just 2 months old.

Before I met my wife in 2019, she has this male best friend who they have been best friends even before I met her though my wife is a social and jovial person always cheerful, she easily makes friends wherever she finds herself that's her nature and kind of personality.

Right now her friendship with that her male friend is what am becoming uncomfortable with right now because of the so much attention she is lavishing on him. I have complained to her that I am not comfortable with her closeness with the guy but she is seeing it that am trying to cut her off from her friends.

One interesting part of the whole thing is, since we got married the guy has been trying to distance himself from her a bit knowing too well that she is now married but my wife is even the one doing all she could to keep the friendship going the way it has been going. 2 days ago I and my wife were together she called the guy complaining bitterly how he has been distancing himself from her.

My people what do you think I should do to cut down that connection or will the friendship grow week by the day on it's own? My wife is refusing to understand that in marriage there are things u will have to let go.

Bestie is helping Bestie to shine congo!
goat and lion friendship ni ooo better get your own "bestie" for side to avoid tory wey dey pepper.

AMINDA:
Story. When Nnamdi Kanu instructed them to attack Police stations with nothing but cutlasses and hammers with a piece of rope tied around their waist in the form of Juju, what would you call that? Continue to live in denial.

I know say dem too like life na hin make me talk so

one thing I know with absolute certainty is that an igbo man can never ever commit suicide!

so I will be looking for an alternative explanation to this badly reported news item.

afroxyz:
Not everyone would agree. Ask Gay men and priests.

ha ha ha ha... let me come and be running away ooo before the matter born pikin...
Na joke I dey ooo
before pipu that woke up late come for me

afroxyz:
What is backing the dollar which is the global currency? 20% of all the dollar currently in circulation was printed last year out of thin air. No gold backing it up. And now they want to introduce dollar in digital form.

Gold has value. But that value is extrinsic.

If people gather and say this thing has value, of course it would have value till they find an alternative. Salt and silk were once precious commodities and used as store of value.

you seem to be arguing both sides of the topic.
Gold has been the most reliable store of value over history... and I see you agree that it is a store of value used as a backup for currency.
The dollar is viewed as a farce because it has nothing of tangible value backing it except for American propaganda... you also agree with that.
so what exactly is your point of deviation?

on a lighter note, only women have intrinsic value.

emmanuelewumi:
We shall continue to force them until they stop being conservative.

I can't imagine how young people will continue to avoid risk, this is the time to take all the reckless risks the experience will be a wonderful teacher

force them?
unless you are just being sarcastic- which I strongly suspect!
and that makes sense to you to force people into your line of reasoning just because you can't understand their choices?
some young people prefer to learn from the reckless risks of the foolhardy.
you dont always have to learn from your experiences, you have fools and the wise to learn from, anyways!