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iamVirus:
wait! I thought you were a robot?

do you still think i am a robot? if yes then am beginning to think you are a robot coz humans generally think smarter

ClassCaptain:
why did u chk my dp ?

i was wondering when NL started having class captains only to check to see that its a copper that is not tired of being class captain

iamVirus:
.The footwear is true!
Most girls tell me that a lot

Psychologically that is one of the first thing anybody observes about you. so dont dull about that

donbenedict:
Importexpert will be viewing this topic till thy kingdom come until lala moves it to sambisa

hahhhhh i will port to do other things and be back when we finally arrive sambisa

ClassCaptain:
Okay

bro you dey serve and dey do class captain at the same time . you dey try oh

RoyalBlak007:
spot on..

[color=#AB56BA]I used to think you was ah robot...or something[/color]

thank God you now think otherwise

MUVA:
This guy is steady loving the romance section

in my earlier post today, i said i will diversify. my next post might be in agriculture. updates about my farm

Let us have a look at some of the basic things a girl will look for in a guy whenever they see him. these are common factors that can disqualify dangote and qualify me !!! They are as follows:

1. Whether the guy is hot: The very first thing that every girl actually notices in a guy is how much hot the guy is. When you ask any girl, they can never ever deny this fact.

2. The way of his dressing: Without any doubt, this is the next thing that each and every girl will definitely notice. They will observe you and will be eager to understand the way of your dressing.

3. Manners: This is one of the things that every girl notices in a guy. She observes the manners that the guy possesses. Sober and nice manners will obviously attract more and more girls towards a guy.

4. Grooming: Well, the most interesting fact is that women are generally more attracted to a well groomed guy rather than a shabby guy. And this is one of the things that every woman notices in a guy she comes across.

5.Confidence: It is the confidence level in a guy that strongly attracts a woman just like a magnet does. One of the most attractive characteristics of a man is his confidence level.

6.His company: This is another thing that a girl will observe when she sees a man. If he is with a girl, they will think he is taken and if he is with a group he is really social .

7. How A Guy smells: Many factors may qualify you but this factor will surely cripple you when you smell bad. use your roll on, body spray and have a perfume that smells nice. for me it is a combo of "bleu de chanel and paco Rabnne Invictus".

8. Personal hygiene: Hygiene is the most important fact that actually is a major factor that every girl will watch out for. always have your teeth thoroughly brushed

9. Footwear: The girls generally also observe the type of footwear the guy wears. After all, your shoe will say a lot. A shabby footwear will definitely have a very bad impression on the ladies.

10. How good you listen: Every girl actually notices how good a listener her guy is. All girls actually want their men to listen to them properly and not just hear what they say. my fiancee is a kind of person that takes 30 minutes to deliver 2minutes gist . even when it is not interesting bro na listening i dey oh . Often those gist are just too important to ladies no matter how irrelevant they may seem to u

11. Frequency of smile: Girls generally also look out to observe how often the guy smiles. Smile is a good indication of the personality of the guy.

12. Flat stomach: Girls generally love those 6 packs or 8 packs and generally observe whether a guy has a flat tummy.

THe last but not the least

13. The Guy's Pocket: a lot of people opened this thread to see this at number 1, the post is not in serial order or according to first observed so calm down . ladies add much relevance to the state of a guy's pocket. bro if you drive benz and i drive ferrari she is willing to upgrade because ferrari provides more comfort. so hustle harder bro . ladies abi i lie?

Marissacooper:
Nice article. Writing down one's feeling and remembering the person's good side helps a lot. Leaving in denial makes you hurt for long, I was in this situation few weeks ago thanks to some nairalanders who helped me out.

Nice. the best part is that moving on helps you to learn a lot more than staying down

Mememan:
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Gibberish

for taking your time to comment, thank you !

Princepoint:
now nl mod re on track this type of post we want not


COSSY GOES BRALESS

you know this is an open forum with different people and diversified needs. it is the duty of the mods to satisfy such information needs. some users sees Nl as boring without such post. so do not blame the mods

MUVA:
I thought they said this guy was some sort of programme seun created to spy on us?

they said, who said ? who is the bot, me or someone else ?

JeffreyJamez:
He speaks....

yes. i have been speaking. you can look through my profile

bollify:
importexpert please answer my call.

bro try to reload the page. the button is on the site boldly. check around the bank account details just somewhere under it. if you bank with gtb you can use *737*. you can also reach me via my digits. its on my profile. www.importsng.com

Eminembuz:
Obviously, if the regret is that you didn't win an olympic 400m gold medal, because you gave up athletic at 14 its not going to happen if you're now 34....therefore forgiveness is not a sure thing so we should always try to cultivate, multiple and motivate these good and cosy remorse of forgiveness before the resentment and hatred turn into our future resentment and severe retribution....hatred is cancerous, love and forgiveness is the only cure and God is love! Nice one @ OPS.!!

thanks. lovely comment.

njiasi30:
Apologizing does nt mean u re wrong and d other person is right, it means u value ur relationship more Dan ur "EGO" and it shows how matured u re... Although heartbreak hurts but with time.... I always free my mind, move on and b happy life is 2 short to waste on grudges. Apologize when I should and let go of what I can't change.

Op, thumb up

well said sis. i love the boded .

AmNoblen:
Nice one

thanks bro

DR1SKLEF:
[color=#0799AD]Nice one, robot. [/color]

funny you. who is a robot?

IamLEGEND1:
This guy....I dey fear this guy.
Nice write up though..... no time to dey wait for proud motherfuckaz to apologise for their fùck ups.

bro i dey fear your signature . no time bro

Maxi112:
nice one brov!

thanks bro.

ladyF:
Lol importexport the nairaland bot.

Moving on is a virtue many do not possess.

well said sis. the names are much. Nairaland bot is your version

a lot of friends here on Nairaland says i have confine my contributions to this great forum to only business section and after going through my profile once again i feel they are actually saying the truth . so i have decided to diversify and contribute in all sections of the forum. lets get into the topic of discussion.

Have you ever been hurt? Have you ever waited for an apology that never came? Have you ever felt that someone needed to say "sorry" to you but they didn't do it? Let's say a friend throws a party without inviting you, or a co-worker misses a deadline that's crucial for your favorite project or your partner / spouse really hurts you. You may be gracious enough to forgive if you receive a sincere apology, but what happens if the other person refuses to say the words you long to hear?

Author Robert Brault says, "Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got." Now, it sounds like an awesome idea doesn't it? But the question is how to make the first move?

One of the things that has personally helped me a lot in situations like this is to always remind myself that the advantages of forgiveness are the same whether the other person apologizes or not. Think of pardoning others as something you do for yourself rather than for them.

1. Drop the resentment - "Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies." - Nelson Mandela. Grudges are like a heavy weight on our being. When you release your anger and disappointment, you'll free up energy that you can devote to the things you love.

2. Be Generous - Each of us makes mistakes don't we? But unfortunately, we often judge others on their actions and judge ourselves on our intentions. When you give someone a second chance, remember that you'll probably need one yourself someday.

3. Value your relationships. Family and friends are precious. Develop connections that can withstand conflicts. Resolving your disagreements can even draw you closer together when you cooperate on finding solutions.

4. Take control of your feelings. You're in charge of your own happiness. Focus on something that gives you happiness and joy instead of checking your phone to see if your partner/spouse apologized yet. "Letting go gives us freedom and freedom is the only condition for happiness." -Thich Nhat Hanh

5. Let It Go. "Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude." - Martin Luther King Jr. Most of all, a loving and forgiving heart is good for your own mental and physical health.

How to Move On Without an Apology?

Sometimes you want to forgive, but resentments still linger. These steps will help you overcome the barriers to reconciliation.

1. Everybody has a good side. "True forgiveness is when you can say, "Thank you for that experience." - Oprah Winfrey. Focus on the positive qualities of the person who has offended you. See how in the past they may have added value to you. Stay in the energy of gratitude for what they have done for you and you'll eventually start to cherish them for real once again.

2. Accept your contribution. In all likelihood, you probably played some part in the conflict. Acknowledge your actions and figure out how to make positive changes.

3. Look at it from their point of view. When someone fails to apologize, it usually has more to do with them than with you. They may feel ashamed or vulnerable. When you think about their pain, you may feel like you have more in common.

4. Resist all-or-nothing thinking. Distinguish between the human being and their actions. An action may be wrong but that doesn't make the whole human being wrong. If someone criticizes you unfairly, list the things you still like about him / her.

5. Release the negative energy. Venting your feelings in a diary or an imaginary letter helps to sort things out. You can express yourself freely without worrying about widening the divide. Write the letter and burn it to release the energy from your body onto the paper and eventually into the other. Works like magic every single time!

6. Reach out. If someone close to you has trouble apologizing, you may need to make an extra effort. Let them see how you apologize and take responsibility for your actions so they can discover more options.

7. Feel free to define your boundaries. On the other hand, you may decide to limit contact if the relationship is dragging you down. You can still have affection and respect for someone but you may need to keep them at a distance at least temporarily.

8. Nurture good feelings. The more secure you feel, the easier it is to focus on helping others rather than judging them. You'll understand that your future depends on your choices rather than real or imagined insults.

Forgiveness allows you to let go of the past and free yourself from anger and resentment. It's a decision you can make on your own regardless of whether others apologize or show little remorse. And lastly, always remember -"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." - Mahatma Gandhi

Politicalidiot:
great tips.

thanks bro

winetapper:
importexpert has always been first to comment on his thread likeeee

hahhhhhh na you sabi

saxwizard:
Nice one ....take a look at my signature

thanks.

prestige24:
informative...

thanks bro

Paulpaulpaul:
op and FTC oga o

paul, paul, paul how many times did i called you? what are you saying ?