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Business / 3 Simple Online Businesses You Can Start From Home With Little Or No Capital!! by importexpert(m): 9:38pm On May 24, 2017
In my previous article, I explained two businesses that you can engage in without spending a dime. When I wrote that article, I knew that lack of capital was one of the biggest stumbling blocks facing many Nigerians. The reactions and emails I got further solidified that fact.

Because it is still my desire to see Nigerians succeed, I have decided to once again explain three businesses you can start with from home with zero capital. Yes, you heard me; zero capital. Starting a business without capital is one of the incredible privileges that we have in the 21st century. Sadly, very few people know about this. Not to worry because you are about to leave that clique.

Business 1:

DropShipping:


This is one business that I rarely hear people talk about. This tells you it is relatively unknown. DropShipping is a type of online business whereby you operate as a store owner who receives orders for goods. However, in this case, you don’t get to have a store whereby you house the goods that you receive orders for. When you receive the orders, you can then make purchases from ecommerce stores like Alibaba or TradeKey or other stores (as applicable to your orders)

How it works

All you simply need to do is collect orders from your customers and give them a deadline that it will take for them to receive the goods based on the information from the third party. Then you may proceed to make the purchase from a third party and it is shipped to the customer directly. The third party handles everything from packaging to shipping. You do not get to pay for shipping fees as there is no need for you to even handle the goods.

Advantages

- Pressure from the business is low since you basically act like a middle man
- You can offer a wide range of products
- There is potential for high turn-over rate for hot products in the market
- There is almost no risk in the business
- You don’t have to worry about warehousing the products
- You are free from the handling, labeling and packaging

How to start

The first thing you need to do is identify good sellers. You have to look out at a number of factors like the duration for delivery, reviews from those who have used the sellers etc. Once you have verified this, you will need to know what kind of products you want to list as available for purchase by your customers. They have to be products that are in demand in the market. You also have to compare the prices of the products with what is available in the local market so you can know if you can offer a better price to your customers etc.

Business 2

Kindle Direct Publishing:


Do you enjoy writing? Then this is definitely for you. With Kindle, you can begin to publish your books. The good news about this is that your market is not restricted, it is global! You can always track the number of sales you make on each book that you publish

How it works:

When you register on the site, you are immediately eligible to commence publishing. The more the number of sales you are able to make, the more your income will increase. However, Amazon will deduct 30% of your earnings if you are not a US person or if you do not reside in countries with tax treaties with the US. You will get your earnings in US dollars 60 days after every month that you have made sales.

Advantages

- The market is global which means more chances to make sales
- Once you publish a book, you will continue earning royalties for life
- You can publish books at your own convenience or pace

How to start

Go to kdp dot amazon dot com and register. Once you have done this, you can start publishing your books. However, it is important that I state that Amazon frowns at plagiarism. They want fresh works. So, even if you do research for your books, learn to rewrite them using your own words to avoid troubles with them.

Business 3

Affiliate Marketing:


Over the last couple of weeks, I have explained the goldmine that is in affiliate marketing. What you probably don’t know is that anyone can engage in affiliate marketing, even an undergraduate and it is not time consuming. In brief, affiliate marketing is an online activity where you promote products and get paid a commission for every sale that is made through your promotion.

How it works:

Once you sign up to an affiliate program, you can then select the products that you want to market. It is important that you choose what the market needs (or what people will like to buy). Once a sale is made through you, you will get a percentage (commission) from it. How then do the companies know they made a sale through you? They know because once you sign up with the company as an affiliate marketer, you will be given a unique tracking link to use when promoting their products.

Advantages:

- You get to work at your own pace. i.e. you can determine when to work
- Unlike Fiverr where you only earn a pay for a specific work, with affiliate marketing, you can earn repeatedly from each time you work.
- Once you automate it, it can keep fetching you money without your attention for days.
- You get paid directly by the company, hence no delay
- It is less time consuming.

How to start

You sign up at an affiliate market place. There are a couple of them online such as Click Bank, Commission Junction, Share A Sale, Pay dot com etc. Once done, I will also advise that you focus on evergreen niches like health, wealth and Relationship etc. Evergreen niches are niches that regularly earn money.

In Conclusion, I maintain that there are several opportunities all around that are begging to be explored. You just have to identify them. And when you do, you have to conquer what has held many people back for years despite the knowledge they have. I am talking about procrastination. Start now!

A Chinese proverb says, “The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago. The second best time is NOW!” So, get to work now and enjoy later.

You Can Join Me And Other Few Successful Affiliate Marketers at www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html To See Exactly What We Do To Succeed In Affiliate Marketing.

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Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 2:59pm On May 05, 2017
okhiai1:

Like I said I have half of the tools to mine the gold hoping to get it soon and I will be needing your slight mentorship
Hope you would render it

By the way my whala is I don't have a laptop or a good Android phone undecided

you will get the best support you need for your success. if a cyber cafe is easily accessible in your location then you can start with it or else you will need a smart phone or p.c
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 11:04am On May 05, 2017
askmequestns:
All your points are value bro. Fears (doubts) and procrastination (indecisiveness) are the main bane of Nigerian entrepreneurs who planned to go into affiliate marketing.

Nigerian youth needs more of this writeups to raise our spirits.


thanks bro. success awaits all those that makes the commitment to work towards their success in affiliate marketing and stand by their words
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:29am On May 05, 2017
feel free to ask your affiliate marketing related questions.
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:28am On May 05, 2017
helphelp:
nice piece

thanks.
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:27am On May 05, 2017
DavidEsq:
OP, u forgot the 6th one:
Village ppl


hahhh, bro if you have any real life experience/proof to back it up then i will add it to the list grin

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Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:25am On May 05, 2017
soberdrunk:
No 3 is holding over 70% of Nigerian entrepreneurs back...... angry


but no matter the odds, do not allow it to hold you down. many have succeeded without any tangible capital.
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:22am On May 05, 2017
veekid:

all of the above

if all of the above are holding you, bro you need to wake up asap and start working on them
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:18am On May 05, 2017
oloyolo:


number 3 is my only problem


yes bro, it have send a lot of colorful ideas into ruin. you just have to start no matter how little it is. online businesses are easier to start with little or no money.
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:15am On May 05, 2017
okhiai1:
Bros I have half baked resources now to start any online business in fact I bought affiliate jagaban from you and so far so good only used the fiverr niche

bro you have gold in your hands. explore the affiliate jagaban and you will thank God you did.
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:12am On May 05, 2017
kekere1:
.....wouldn't mind you introducing me to any online business.










I am ready.


i have detailed in step by step how to get started with affiliate marketing business at www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html affiliate marketing is basically about promoting other people's products and making commission out of it.
Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 10:07am On May 05, 2017
Akalia:
I was here

as a space booker ba smiley?
Romance / 7 Ways Your Relationship Ought To Make You Better by importexpert(m): 7:14am On May 04, 2017
One of the greatest gains of your relationship is not what you will get out of it but who you will become by it. Being in a relationship is a beautiful experience. But if there is no improvement in who you are, you should really question the necessity of such a relationship. Every relationship should add value to who you are.
Here are seven crucial ways your relationship ought to help you become a better person.

1. More tolerant: No matter how perfect your partner may seem at the beginning, relationship will overtime show you their weakness. Time is a true illuminator. After all the euphoria that accompanies the relationship in the first couple of weeks, reality sets in. It is perfectly natural to see flaws that will make you begin to wonder what you saw in them in the first place. Eventually, if your relationship will stand the test of time, it will teach you to be more accommodating, tolerant and forgiving.

2. More sacrificial: If you do not know how to let go of something that you want so others can be satisfied, get ready for this lesson in your relationship. Your relationship will teach you how to be sacrificial. The idea behind being sacrificial is not just giving your time, or resources. It is about choosing to give your time and resources to your relationship even when other things demand you of them. How far your relationship will go will be determined by the sacrifices you and your partner make.

3. More caring: Some people are naturally wired to stand aloof and just watch how things go with others. But when it comes to matters of the heart, get ready to be concerned about your partner. The little things that naturally wouldn’t even cause you to bat an eyelid will suddenly make you worried once you notice them in your partner. It can even get to the point that your partner will cough and your attention will fly to him/her. Should your partner mention to you that they could not eat breakfast because of loss of appetite, it gets you slightly worried. Yes, it will eventually get you to be a more caring person.

4. More generous: Love gives. That statement is brief but it is a powerful fact. When we love someone, we naturally want to give them something. There is the natural desire to do something or give something just to see that charming arc on the face of your partner. Their smile is the compensation that you derive after being generous with them. If your partner is more interested in only receiving rather than giving, it has become exploitation rather than a relationship.

5. More empathy: Love has a way of opening the heart. Your relationship will make it easy for you to relate the problems of your partner. Even if it used to be all about you before now, once you have a partner, you become someone that can be touched by the weakness and challenges of others. This is what makes people become sad because of what their partners are going through. It is as though their challenges become your challenges too. You can relate to their problems, issues and pains.

6. More determined: Have you seen someone that it seems cannot be determined to finish a task or project? Just watch that person when he is in love. The determination to make the relationship work will suddenly appear from nowhere. Anybody in a relationship will readily agree that relationships have problems on the inside and have oppositions from the outside. Sometimes, situation will present you with every opportunity to quit the relationship. It is your determination that will make you insist on making it work regardless the challenges.

7. More Silent: No matter how much of a talkative you are, you will soon learn with time the importance of keeping your mouth shut. The more public your relationship gets, the more it has the tendency to crumble. You will learn to stop complaining about your partner’s weaknesses because most people secretly hope for your relationship to fail. They may encourage you in your presence, but you will be the topic of discussion once you leave. It will teach you and your partner to talk to each other about your problems rather than talk to other people about it.

In summary, all these will be spontaneous if you truly love your partner. This is why sometimes, you will look back at the things you did for a relationship and wonder if it was you. None of these are easy to do. But your love and commitment will make them possible. If your relationship is not helping you with at least four of these traits, then you are in a very poor relationship. If you have five and above, you are doing good. On the other hand, ensure your partner has these traits too, or else, you know how it will end.
So, what are your contributions? Do you think I omitted anything? Let’s talk via the comment box.

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Business / Re: Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 7:06am On May 04, 2017
See What Some Of Those That Have Learn About My Affiliate Marketing Strategies Are Saying

leppyj:
Just got the affliiate jagaban pack,from importexpert (a man with heart of gold). Importexpert is trusted and tested since the days of mini importation till now. I know he will not dissapoint as usual.

MasterRahl:
I have bought the e-book and I must say it is quite revealing. It was delivered straight to my e-mail in PDF immediately I paid for it. I shaall start practicing what I've read in it this year. Procrastination is the thief of time.
By the way, I'll contact you if I have any challenge. Good work ImportExpert. cool

echobazz:
Jagaban I really admire your e-book,The cost of acquiring the e-book is no where near the content in it.Thanks for your support.

IsaacBuchi:



A lot of people dont appreciate when they are given gold. Some people are narrow minded...some refuse to think out-of-the-box. This guy has released in his ebook all you need to use your brain. I was shocked at the powerful content of the ebook. Every Nigerian deserves to read that gaddamn book. That book has the power to take half of Nigeria's population out of poverty.


This guyz ebook is a gold for Nigerians, I can testify to it- I bought the book. His ebook kept me glued in a chair for over an hour in a stretch- I was reading non-stop...amazed at how someone in Nigeria can release such a powerful idea that alot of people want to hide (and know only themselves).


This guyz ebook saves you years of trial an error. He takes you right past through to the main things. With his ebook, I dont see what should stop anybody ever again in Nigeria from doing and succeeding in online business. He has done the thinking for you, he has done the errors for you.


This guy is a blessing from heaven...this guy is gold...this guy is more of what Nigerians need...this guy is more than a master....this guy has love in his heart (through love indeed....i can vouch for this guy, over and over and over again.)


So please dont come hear to make comment and say "he is selling books of 3000naira". How much did you expect the book to be before. The book is worth over 50,000naira. If he tells you to pay 50k, can you pay it? How much is Facebook advert? $5 (what will Zuckberg do with $5?).


You should understand that he has created something of value out of a loving heart, he definitly should get some credit or reward. He is simply making money from doing what he loves. So why the side talk?


He is simply practicing what he preach- he is making money online. Something you can not do, something you dont know how to do...and he is willing to teach you for just 3000naira and you are complaining and thinking he wants to extort from you- because he ask you to pay him what he rightly deserves (absolutely crazy kind of thinking). But you will still be the same person to go to Night Clubs and spend 20,000naira in one night (invest in the right things). Some people just sit and watch success pass them by and later the begin to wonder why they are poor.


Please, I have said enough. If you are not interested in online means of earning a living, please, and please do not discourage others from taking a right step.


No hard feelings...just trying to correct you.


wonderiyke:
I have equally gotten mine. I got it within 1hr of completing the instructions in the sale site & contacting the Jagaban on phone. The book is quite revealing. I'm doing my best to comprehend. I wish the Jagaban could also do a video that can still be affordable for us.

wonderiyke:


Wow! I'm really blown away by your passion to see people succeed. Thanks bro and may your light burn even brighter this 2017. Happy new year.

You Can See My Secret Strategies At www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html
Business / Come In: Which Of These Is Holding You Back? by importexpert(m): 7:05am On May 04, 2017
There have been so many articles hitting the front page as to how important it is to have a business of your own. Technology has made it so simple that you can operate a business with your laptop from the comfort of your home. This means you don’t have to quit your job like may assume. The benefits are enormous; time saving, energy conserving, flexibility and yes, more earnings to your account. I have been privileged to write some of these articles.

However, I have come to realize that thinking something is different from doing it. In other words, it may be easy for you to think of how nice an idea is and never do anything about it. There are several reasons (or should we refer to them as excuses?) why people never take an action concerning an idea. Some of these reasons may be genuine; others are not.
What are your own reasons for not starting a business already, especially an online business? I have listed five popular reasons. What is it that is holding you back?

1. Doubt: Doubt is what makes you have second thoughts about something being real or possible? Are you inundated with thoughts of doubts that it is absolutely impossible to make money online? Are you consumed with doubts about the legality of earning generously from an input from a few hours?

Remember: You may continue to wrongly convince yourself about a thing while facts stare at you. For instance, you can doubt that someone is male or female. But your doubts will never change the fact about that person’s gender. Like someone once said, “facts are stubborn things.” You may delude yourself that something is not real, but the facts will keep staring at you in the face. The best advice you can get is to investigate your doubts. Be certain that what you doubt is possible or impossible. But, do not wallow in doubts.

2. Time constraints: Have you ever complained to yourself that you need more than twenty-fours because of the things you need to get done? Time is a really scarce commodity. You may therefore think that you do not have the time to oversee a business.

Remember: not all businesses require plenty time. If you have followed my threads, you will recall that I mentioned that there are online businesses that require just two hours of your time. And you decide which two hours out of the entire twenty fours to work. This is one marvellous opportunity that operating a business online will bring to you.

3. Lack of capital: Talk to an average Nigerian about business and they will complain about capital. And they indeed have a valid point. Even banks are not making it easy for start ups to obtain loans. For instance, where will a graduate get collateral worth five million naira for a loan of three million naira? Does that even sound sensible? The entire system looks messed up.

Remember: not all businesses require capital. You don’t have to continually hope and wait for capital to operate a business. I still emphasize it: the online platform provides you with an opportunity to earn money by almost putting nothing into it. What it requires most of you is your effort.

4. Inadequate knowledge: Maybe all the talk about making money online looks like mumbo-jumbo to you. You cannot seem to wrap your mind around the ideas you have read before and it all looks complicated to you. Or it could be that you have understood the ideas but you have no clue where to start or how to start.

Remember: knowledge is not hidden from you; you just have to search for it. It can be frustrating to know something is possible but not know how to go about it. This may lead to information overload. It is a situation where you seem to know so much but you cannot do anything useful with it. So don’t wait for it, go for knowledge. There are materials that contain all the information you need to succeed online.
5. Indecisiveness: Many people fall into this category. What is holding them back here? One word: procrastination. They have not taken the bull by the horns. Such people love the ideas that they see but convince themselves that they will do it some other time. It’s been over a year and they seem not to be ready to do it still.

Remember: the more you procrastinate, the more you deprive yourself of the results you could have gotten. Procrastination is actually robbing you of the benefits that you can enjoy by acting now. It is simply post-dates your success. This does not have to be so. You may not feel like doing something. But once you realize that it has benefits in store for you, choose to ignore those feelings and do it immediately nevertheless. The best time to make that decision and act accordingly is NOW!

These are the five traits holding people back. If you discover you are yet to deal with any, you may just get dealt with by it in the nearest future. Make the adjustments where you find necessary and you will find it easy to pursue your goals in life.

I Will Reveal To Few Lucky Nairalanders My Personal Secret In Affiliate Marketing At www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html

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Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 12:36am On May 01, 2017
durentchigozie:

I just bought the ebook last month but started practicing with it last week. I av opened clickbank, registrd on aweber nd choose a yoga product to promote.
1. must i set up a squeeze page. It's really difficult. What if am there for "hit and run" as u call it.
2. can i just use my ..com domain without .com domain?


good day bro, i am happy to hear about your progress, squeeze page is not a must in affiliate marketing but it is of immense importance. you can use your but i assure you that you will not make sales. you are dealing with people from developed countries that know very well that domains are free. having a dot com will increase your chances of selling.
Romance / 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by importexpert(m): 7:06pm On Apr 30, 2017
This is specially a guys’ thread. If you believe the crap that women are the weaker sex, then you can believe that yam grows on trees. They may be weaker in terms of bodily strength, but that is all about being weak. Can we just face the truth? While a lot of guys claim to be in charge in the relationship, their woman is actually the boss but they don’t just know it. A wise man once said that: while the man is the head of the family the woman is the neck that turns the head

Right from childhood, have you not observed that compared to the boy child, it is an easy thing for a female child to request something from her dad and get it? And the mother is always pissed off by it. Why? The mother knows that even her own daughter can play her very wise dad.

Today, many guys are actually the women in the relationship but they are too blind to see it. I’ve put together in summary, seven ways women use men that most men do not realize.

1. Sexx: This has to top the list. I remember back then in school, a course mate was telling me how she got her Samsung tab. She said after going out a few times with the man, he took her to a plaza and got her a tab for almost 100k. She then proudly indicated when she got the tab, she decided to sleep with him. You get the drift? She rewarded the man with sexx. And this remains the most powerful weapon today. Women (even in marriages) have painted intimacy as what a man has to earn. So, you will see the average guy running pillar to post just to get into a girl’s pants. Yet, it is the same act that they will both enjoy! If you as a man do not learn to turn down the advances of a woman from time to time, you will still remain under her power. There is something about a man who refused to be manipulated into sexx. The woman will immediately see him as a conquest she must win. Guys, learn to say “no” too. You won’t die!

2. Being the one to ask her out: It is like a tradition, especially in Africa that a man should ask a woman out. Have you observed that once a man says he wants a relationship with a woman, she suddenly gains an influence over him? Well, there is little that can be done here. However, some guys have found their way around it. How? They simply ensure that she is way into them too that she starts to show not just green light, but all the colors of the rainbow. Guys who do not understand this are those still committed to chasing a woman for weeks stretching into months. Or better still, quit begging a woman for a relationship. They often have more to gain than give in the relationship anyway.

3. Showing weakness on purpose: There is an effect on a man that comes when a woman shows him her weakness. Once she shows her seeming inability to do something, what naturally comes to your mind as a guy? To help her out, isn’t it? For instance, if she was in the sun trying to get a taxi, you may feel inclined to offer her a ride. But have you ever done that for a guy? Okay, let’s rephrase the question: have you even ever shown concern to a guy in such a situation? Of course not! But what does the society call such preferential acts? Being a gentleman. This is the reason why some guys will buy a lady a phone of 70k while their brother is using torchlight. And women have discovered this! Have you seen a woman showing her weakness to her fellow woman? Hardly! But she shows it to a guy. Why? Because she knows he will start to feel like it is his responsibility to do something about it.

4. Crying over an issue: Does this need much explanation? She knows that if you truly love her, you can’t bear to see her cry. So, when logic and all forms of persuasion prove abortive, this is the last bet. And for most guys, when they see the tears, their reasoning just goes to sleep. The point is, most of these tears are not genuine. She is simply using a weapon in her armory to achieve her goal.

5. Stirring jealousy: She may not be getting attention from you or she wants you to take notice of her. To get quick attention from you, she decides to flirt with other guys in your presence. The aim is to get you jealous, put you on your toes and make you run to her. Most women believe flirting with other guys will make their men see them as valuable and desirable by others. You may get angry for a while (yes, they know), but eventually, your girl probably knows you will start working yourself hard to keep her.

6. Petting and flattery: This is one of the most rampant, even online. This is what makes a guy to pounce on his fellow guy online simply because a female referred to him as “baby”. Seriously, guys need to grow past this! The craze to hear sweet things from a woman has made many go to surprising lengths. Beware when she suddenly is all nice to you. Beware when she flatters you. You have no idea what is about to hit you. If you do, you probably won’t be smiling sheepishly.

7. Playing the guilt card: This is reverse psychology. What happens here is that she will blame you for something to get you to try defending yourself and then getting you to do what she blamed you about. Let’s say she accused you of not loving her as a reason why you did not get her an ipad. What is the motive? To get you to explain that you love her and promise to get her an ipad in the end. You know the implication? She just stripped you of the right to complain that you will not buy her the phone. Or else, you risk proving that you don’t love her. My best advice to guys in this situation: do nothing, say nothing. Just let the accusation hang and be quiet. if must say something, tell her that she do not value the relationship that is why she weigh the level of love using material things.
Remember, this strategy is always a trap.

Women can easily spot when a fellow woman like them is using a guy’s head. Guys need to learn all these manipulations and know to come off it.
Guys, am I making sense here?

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Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 6:03pm On Apr 28, 2017
odimbannamdi:


Oga sharap! Beardlessdude is very correct!

After buying your book in February, i sent you a mail and till date u are yet to reply me. You dont offer after-sales support


i always state it clearly that the fastest and best way to reach me is via call or flash. 100s of students already enjoy the best after sale support a Nigerian can offer.
Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 6:00pm On Apr 28, 2017
beardlessdude:
thanks. I'd check it out. Yes, aweber was in d eBook, i tried aweber but was getting "we are not processing any other now" But this guy didn't say in his ebook that Nigerians aren't allowed on aweber. I confronted him and he told me to use mailchimp. That guy's ebook is figuratively empty. I had to Google search 70% of what I've done.


bro the journey to success does not happen over Night. you are already going off the rail and i assure you that you are already on the verge of wasting your time in affiliate marketing. you will not understand this now. i wish you success bro.

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Romance / 8 Things Men Want in A Relationship That Every Woman Should know by importexpert(m): 5:34pm On Apr 28, 2017
We men have always said that women are the most complex creatures God has ever created. And some of us still hold this view. But when we hear women say that they do not understand us, we get shocked! Really?! We are the simplest creatures on the earth (you may choose not to agree though). Where you women have pages of things you expect of us, our list is quite simple. I mean very simple.
Once you can understand what we want, you’ve struck gold. And yes, don’t assume to know what we want. Know it instead. When you do, you will be able to meet our needs. When you do, you will have made yourself too valuable to lose. So, here are eight things we really want in a relationship.

1. Be Independent: If you ask an average Naija guy, he would put it very bluntly thus: “stop demanding for money!” A young man cannot be trying to build his future and you keep demanding money from him incessantly. Nobody wants a leech. Be independent for yourself. Work with your own hands. Make your own money. Take care of yourself. Once you do, our attraction to you skyrockets. And when you become independent, you won’t need to beg us for money. Ask any guy around, he will give anything to a woman that does not ask him. Yes, the less you ask, the more valuable you tend to become, and the more you will eventually receive from us.

2. Invest in the relationship: When we want a relationship, we are not seeking to add another load to our burden, please. A woman who makes a man keep working in a relationship will soon lose him. The era of killing ourselves over a relationship is fast winding up. Buy us gifts from your own money. Call us with your own airtime. Pamper us when you see the need to. You are not the only one that wants to feel loved in a relationship; men do too! We want to see that we are really in a relationship with someone and not with ourselves.

3. Be homely: Men love beautiful women. But what is the advantage of a woman that is not homely? Or a woman that will fry plantains and serve us something that looks like coal? You visit your man’s house and notice it is ruffled; you complain about it but have never made an attempt to tidy it up. No one is asking that you perform all the roles of a wife, but we have to see that you can take care of a home. You think we want to return from work and see cobwebs everywhere? Be homely. Learn how to cook dishes rather than always pushing us to eatery. Learn how to keep a home.

4. Give us space: Yes, we may love you; but that does not mean we have to be together always. You need to hang out with your friends. But if you chose not to, don’t try to tie us around you. We don’t want a woman who will not give us space to breathe fresh air. Understand this; you cannot stop us from watching football matches. You cannot stop us from having a guys’ timeout. Relationship is not a prison. In fact, if you want your market to sell with us, encourage us to go watch the games. Come along if possible and do the shouting with us. You can even invite our friends over to play video games while you offer to make us snacks. That will be one of the most romantic thing you can do. In fact, your wife material will just increase by 200 yards instantly.

5. Don’t even think about changing us: Even our parents did not think about changing us. We love the way we are. If you know you are not happy with it, then you should never have said ‘yes’ to our proposal. If we love being indoors, don’t suddenly expect us to start going out. If we love being silent for one hour a day, don’t even imagine that you can get us to stop that routine. Kolewerk! We may have bad habits. Is that a new stuff? We may have flaws. Is that a strange ‘something’? When you agreed to be in a relationship with us, you were signing up for the full version of us. So, just hold your peace and love us like that.

6. Be faithful: While this goes both ways, it is one of the most important things we look out for. There are too many incidents of infidelity around. And it bothers us, especially if we are really interested in the relationship. Does that mean we cannot trust you? Not at all. But don’t ever give us a reason to think you are being unfaithful. I will say in my own opinion that most relationships of today get broken because of cheating than anything else. You don’t believe me? Read break up stories on nairaland. If you are sure it is a guy you want, then be true with him. If you are tired of the relationship, then walk away. It is called a ‘relationship’ not a ‘group meeting’.

7. Remain good looking: We know the usual cliché: “it takes good looks to attract a man but character will keep him.” But never forget what that we are creatures of sight. Don’t assume that you can let your physical looks go just because we are in a relationship. We want women that we can show off. Dress good. Watch your weight. Exercise if you need too. Some of us do not really fancy heavy makeup. Well, you have to know which your man is. But at all cost, please, keep looking good.

8. Support us: You have no idea how many times a guy needs encouragement. Because you see us smiling always, you now assume all is rosy? We encounter a lot of challenges. We face plenty disappointments. The responsibility to be a man can be crushing. It is real! Support us. If we are down, become our cheerleader. If things turn around negatively, stay with us. Motivate us. Let us know that you believe in us even when we do not believe in ourselves. Tell us you approve of us unconditionally. No need to nag or be contentious. Instead, be our peace! Don’t be indifferent when you notice we are down. That will be a very bad idea.

So, there we have it! Is there anything complex about this list? Of course not! We hope you women can now get along with us easily. Thank you for your cooperation.

P. S

Guys, did I omit something? Feel free to indicate in your comments. Ladies, what do you all think?

Please do not copy this article without linking back to this thread. it was confirmed from small seo plagiarism checker to be 100% unique and i am publishing it first time on NL. see image below.

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Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 9:35am On Apr 28, 2017
beardlessdude:
importexpert you told me to use mailchimp but never said that they don't allow affliate marketing.. You're a selfish idiot and God would severely punish you. since i bought that ebook, i've been going to google to find help on lots of things. Youre not a good person. And pls stop that "Your success is my pride" nonsense.


good morning bro, i assure you that the negative mindset you are carrying will do you more harm than good. as i always told you, flash or call me for instant support. if you were to have a positive mindset you will ask of mailchimp about the post you quoted. yes it is true that mailchimp in its TOS does not encourage affiliate marketing but i assure you that 100s of my students use it without any problem. you can try it and speak for yourself. it is important you make such nasty conclusions when you are unable to reach me for support via call. for now you are being very unfair to me.
Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 7:42pm On Apr 27, 2017
your affiliate marketing related questions are highly welcome
Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 5:05pm On Apr 27, 2017
All Important Questions Will Be Placed Here

question

olaolaking:
How long dd it take to make your first money?

Answer

bro frankly it was not easy. during those early days i was a strong believer of google has everything this was mainly because i didnt want to invest in any guide or ebooks. so i used the trial and error method and spent a year in affiliate marketing with only 3 sales. the commission per sale was 20 dollar so in other words it was a $60 year in affiliate marketing. the story all changed when i paid a successful affiliate marketer to teach me over skype the strategies he is using and since then, i have recorded many $200 day in affiliate marketing. after learning the new strategies the sales started coming in within 1 week or two.

olaolaking:

Like how much did you spend before you began to make money?

My free getresponse is expiring in 10 days time. I am not sure I will pay for it because I am not convinced that it will help me.
What should be the budget of a starter if there is any?
Thanks


budget really depends on the person that is starting. a person that has time at his disposal can get started even with zero naira. his traffic source will be free traffic. most free traffic sources requires 2-4 hours daily to make you reasonable pay. for a person that already has budget, he will need like 100usd to invest in traffic. affiliate marketing all comes down to traffic.

i focus only on the 3 evergreen niches. health, wealth and romance.

health includes niches such as: loosing weight, acne treatment, sexual performance, erectile dysfunction, dieting etc.
wealth: this include all mmo. make money online
romance: getting ex back, making you boyfriend love you, winning friends, wooing girls etc.

for auto-responder, use mailchimp forever free version till you are firm. it allows you to have up to 2000 subscribers and to send 12000 emails monthly.
Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 4:57pm On Apr 27, 2017
feel free to ask your affiliate marketing related questions.
Business / Re: 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 1:50pm On Apr 27, 2017
See What Some Of Those That Have Learn About My Affiliate Marketing Strategies Are Saying

leppyj:
Just got the affliiate jagaban pack,from importexpert (a man with heart of gold). Importexpert is trusted and tested since the days of mini importation till now. I know he will not dissapoint as usual.

MasterRahl:
I have bought the e-book and I must say it is quite revealing. It was delivered straight to my e-mail in PDF immediately I paid for it. I shaall start practicing what I've read in it this year. Procrastination is the thief of time.
By the way, I'll contact you if I have any challenge. Good work ImportExpert. cool

echobazz:
Jagaban I really admire your e-book,The cost of acquiring the e-book is no where near the content in it.Thanks for your support.

IsaacBuchi:



A lot of people dont appreciate when they are given gold. Some people are narrow minded...some refuse to think out-of-the-box. This guy has released in his ebook all you need to use your brain. I was shocked at the powerful content of the ebook. Every Nigerian deserves to read that gaddamn book. That book has the power to take half of Nigeria's population out of poverty.


This guyz ebook is a gold for Nigerians, I can testify to it- I bought the book. His ebook kept me glued in a chair for over an hour in a stretch- I was reading non-stop...amazed at how someone in Nigeria can release such a powerful idea that alot of people want to hide (and know only themselves).


This guyz ebook saves you years of trial an error. He takes you right past through to the main things. With his ebook, I dont see what should stop anybody ever again in Nigeria from doing and succeeding in online business. He has done the thinking for you, he has done the errors for you.


This guy is a blessing from heaven...this guy is gold...this guy is more of what Nigerians need...this guy is more than a master....this guy has love in his heart (through love indeed....i can vouch for this guy, over and over and over again.)


So please dont come hear to make comment and say "he is selling books of 3000naira". How much did you expect the book to be before. The book is worth over 50,000naira. If he tells you to pay 50k, can you pay it? How much is Facebook advert? $5 (what will Zuckberg do with $5?).


You should understand that he has created something of value out of a loving heart, he definitly should get some credit or reward. He is simply making money from doing what he loves. So why the side talk?


He is simply practicing what he preach- he is making money online. Something you can not do, something you dont know how to do...and he is willing to teach you for just 3000naira and you are complaining and thinking he wants to extort from you- because he ask you to pay him what he rightly deserves (absolutely crazy kind of thinking). But you will still be the same person to go to Night Clubs and spend 20,000naira in one night (invest in the right things). Some people just sit and watch success pass them by and later the begin to wonder why they are poor.


Please, I have said enough. If you are not interested in online means of earning a living, please, and please do not discourage others from taking a right step.


No hard feelings...just trying to correct you.


wonderiyke:
I have equally gotten mine. I got it within 1hr of completing the instructions in the sale site & contacting the Jagaban on phone. The book is quite revealing. I'm doing my best to comprehend. I wish the Jagaban could also do a video that can still be affordable for us.

wonderiyke:


Wow! I'm really blown away by your passion to see people succeed. Thanks bro and may your light burn even brighter this 2017. Happy new year.

You Can See My Secret Strategies At www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html
Business / 5 Secrets About Making Money Online That You Should Know by importexpert(m): 1:50pm On Apr 27, 2017
When some people see posts about making money online, they shrug their shoulders and term it wastage of time. They believe it is a step away from impossibility to earn money while working online. What they forget is that the internet has been producing money for its wise users. Check out the list of recent young billionaires of today. Many of them made their money using technology. Even in Nigeria, the internet has produced several millionaires in the last one year, thanks to the dwindling Naira.

If you have been having issues with making money online, don’t doubt the fact. Instead, doubt your methods. I want to share five secrets of making money online. Those who are already doing this know it is no secrets. But if you have been having tough time, this could certainly be of help to you. So, let’s start.

1. Stick to one thing: This is the foremost advice. Don’t chase after every idea that comes your way. All you need is one idea that you can commit your time and energy to. Check out those who have not made a dime online. They hardly stay with one idea. Today, they are in blogging. Next week, they are in freelancing. Next month, they will probably jump to affiliate marketing. And the cycle never ceases to end. Stick to one thing. Treat the ideas like your spouse. You may see plenty lucrative alternatives, but ultimately choose to settle with one.

2. Give it time: This is where a lot of people lose it. They want to make huge money in a hurry. You need to understand that there is a difference between looking for easy money and building a business. Building a business may take time but it pays off on the long run. And the good thing with building an online business is that you may not get huge profit immediately, but it will yield something that is enough to keep you in it. Stick to it. With time, your knowledge and experience will increase. That will lead to a corresponding increase in your earnings.

3. Sell something: Everything you can do is a marketable product. Your ability to write, design website, edit photos, edit videos and audios is marketable. You just need to know how to get it across to those who need it. This is in the line of service marketing. On the other hand, you can equally sell products of companies online. Even if you are blogging, you can use that platform to market products and get paid a commission on every sale for you efforts. I have discussed these two points extensively in my previous threads. You may want to read them if you need more clarification.

4. Build your audience: I once had a discussion with someone who started blogging recently. He was putting up good content on his site, but that was all he was doing. Once he posts, he leaves it and expect some aliens to conjure up and give him traffic. Don’t assume that once you start an online business, people will start trooping to you as if they are under a spell. In fact, they would not know you exist. Like a saying goes, “Nobody will say ‘there you are’ if you have never said ‘here I am’”. Even if you are selling a service, be proactive in your ways of creating awareness. If you are selling products, build your email list or phone numbers. Make sure you have a base of people that you can easily reach. At all cost, build an audience.

5. Invest in education: Having an idea is one thing and knowing the idea is another. Your first response when you get an idea should not be to run off and try to work with it. It will definitely not succeed. If I tell you for instance that farming ginger is profitable and you decide to jump in to it, you do so at your own detriment. Why? Because you don’t know how the farming is done, the normal problems you will face and how to overcome them, how to meet up with those who need it and the likes. All you will end up doing is wasting your time and resources. You get the picture? An online business is built on the foundation of not just an idea, but on well researched information. Do your research. If it helps, learn from those already in it.

So, there you have it! You can now do a self-assessment and tell yourself why you have been experiencing stumbling blocks. Once you follow this advice, you should be able to find your feet in the online world of making money.

Few Lucky Nairalanders Can See How I Made N225,000 In A Single Week From Affiliate Marketing At
www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html

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Romance / Re: Guys: 7 Types Of Women That Will Give You The Greatest Headaches by importexpert(m): 10:03am On Apr 27, 2017
beardlessdude:
hello.pls answer me o

bro i added a video link of how to link godaddy domain to blogger in the guide. if you are viewing it using a mobile phone the links might not be active kindly use a pc. alternatively you can consult youtube videos on how to link a godaddy domain to blogger. for the title just use a dot because you do not need it. the domain shoud be a general name domain like premiumsolutions.com happycourses.com premiumcourses etc. this will allow you to promote a wide range of products across different niches without buying new domains for every product you want to promote. please do not reply to this post. kindly flash or call if you have further question. your success is truly my pride
Romance / Re: Guys: 7 Types Of Women That Will Give You The Greatest Headaches by importexpert(m): 8:08pm On Apr 24, 2017
beardlessdude:
importexpert i was banned in business section so am posting here. I tried registering aweber account but am getting "not processing order"

Pls help me abeg

aweber does not accept direct orders from nigeria, you will have to send them a mail that you want to create an account with them. alternatively you can use mailchimp.
Business / Re: Why You Have No Excuse To Remain Broke by importexpert(m): 2:04pm On Apr 24, 2017
beardlessdude:
bro. Pls reply me. I need to set it up immediately

good day bro, i cant find any of your unreplied post
Business / Re: How I Make Over $200 From Clickbank Everyday In Nigeria by importexpert(m): 3:46pm On Apr 23, 2017
kristian98:

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please take time to read the post you quote before you start your baseless accusations.
Business / Re: See Two Sure Ways To Earn Income Online Without Spending Money! by importexpert(m): 9:30pm On Apr 22, 2017
jbgold123:
The yeye guy with account shows Dec 2016 and his account balance shows 2millon plus at the end of the day he said we should pay 2k Chai this is pure scam guys run

congrats
Business / Re: Five Reasons Why Most People Settle For Less by importexpert(m): 5:46pm On Apr 19, 2017
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