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Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:49pm On Jun 01, 2017
beardlessdude:
start

kindly check my thread of how i made 317k from affiliate marketing and my website. you do not know is different from it does not exist. please grow up.
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:47pm On Jun 01, 2017
Wiseandtrue:
Ok

welcome onboared chairman of space bookers association wink
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:46pm On Jun 01, 2017
minexpo:
am in to learn ...want to know if it requires lots of capital to start


most online businesses can be started with next to no capital.
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:44pm On Jun 01, 2017
luscioustrish:
Thanks a lot for this.

you are most welcome sister.

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Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:41pm On Jun 01, 2017
beardlessdude:
sister, no thank anybody. This information won't bring you 1 naira! Believe me, I've been there.
Nothing like online money, na to go real work in the real world get salary ooh


bro please educate yourself on what you do not know and stop displaying ignor****
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:38pm On Jun 01, 2017
shumuel:
Okay grin

space booker how is work wink?
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:37pm On Jun 01, 2017
beardlessdude:
I can see you finally changed it from the normal "how to start a business with NO capital" that you usually post before. Good thing you're now telling people the truth and not giving people false hopes. Because i still cannot comprehend how someone go start business with no capital, bikonu na yahoo yahoo he wan do?



you are in-charge of your reasoning.
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:34pm On Jun 01, 2017
tunjex2006:
Some people had forgotten that everyone has one or two ideas but where is the capital to make the ideas come into existence? No capital, no idea. I keep wondering where this country is heading to. Is being a graduate still useful and important in this country?

bro either graduate or no graduate if you do not think outside the box you will surely suffer. do not wait for anybody to perform miracle on your life. take charge of your life and make that miracle happen no matter what it takes.
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:31pm On Jun 01, 2017
your affiliate marketing related questions are most welcome.
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:29pm On Jun 01, 2017
MEGGATRON:
Oga most of us have this idea......you get capital to give people?

Wait for somebody to help you determine your success by giving you capital

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Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 5:27pm On Jun 01, 2017
Agbgift:
I am in to learn.

you are most welcome
Business / Re: Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 3:52pm On Jun 01, 2017
See What Some Of Those That Have Learn About My Affiliate Marketing Strategies Are Saying

leppyj:
Just got the affliiate jagaban pack,from importexpert (a man with heart of gold). Importexpert is trusted and tested since the days of mini importation till now. I know he will not dissapoint as usual.

MasterRahl:
I have bought the e-book and I must say it is quite revealing. It was delivered straight to my e-mail in PDF immediately I paid for it. I shaall start practicing what I've read in it this year. Procrastination is the thief of time.
By the way, I'll contact you if I have any challenge. Good work ImportExpert. cool

echobazz:
Jagaban I really admire your e-book,The cost of acquiring the e-book is no where near the content in it.Thanks for your support.

IsaacBuchi:



A lot of people dont appreciate when they are given gold. Some people are narrow minded...some refuse to think out-of-the-box. This guy has released in his ebook all you need to use your brain. I was shocked at the powerful content of the ebook. Every Nigerian deserves to read that gaddamn book. That book has the power to take half of Nigeria's population out of poverty.


This guyz ebook is a gold for Nigerians, I can testify to it- I bought the book. His ebook kept me glued in a chair for over an hour in a stretch- I was reading non-stop...amazed at how someone in Nigeria can release such a powerful idea that alot of people want to hide (and know only themselves).


This guyz ebook saves you years of trial an error. He takes you right past through to the main things. With his ebook, I dont see what should stop anybody ever again in Nigeria from doing and succeeding in online business. He has done the thinking for you, he has done the errors for you.


This guy is a blessing from heaven...this guy is gold...this guy is more of what Nigerians need...this guy is more than a master....this guy has love in his heart (through love indeed....i can vouch for this guy, over and over and over again.)


So please dont come hear to make comment and say "he is selling books of 3000naira". How much did you expect the book to be before. The book is worth over 50,000naira. If he tells you to pay 50k, can you pay it? How much is Facebook advert? $5 (what will Zuckberg do with $5?).


You should understand that he has created something of value out of a loving heart, he definitly should get some credit or reward. He is simply making money from doing what he loves. So why the side talk?


He is simply practicing what he preach- he is making money online. Something you can not do, something you dont know how to do...and he is willing to teach you for just 3000naira and you are complaining and thinking he wants to extort from you- because he ask you to pay him what he rightly deserves (absolutely crazy kind of thinking). But you will still be the same person to go to Night Clubs and spend 20,000naira in one night (invest in the right things). Some people just sit and watch success pass them by and later the begin to wonder why they are poor.


Please, I have said enough. If you are not interested in online means of earning a living, please, and please do not discourage others from taking a right step.


No hard feelings...just trying to correct you.


wonderiyke:
I have equally gotten mine. I got it within 1hr of completing the instructions in the sale site & contacting the Jagaban on phone. The book is quite revealing. I'm doing my best to comprehend. I wish the Jagaban could also do a video that can still be affordable for us.

wonderiyke:


Wow! I'm really blown away by your passion to see people succeed. Thanks bro and may your light burn even brighter this 2017. Happy new year.

You Can See My Secret Strategies At www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html
Business / Do It Yourself: How To Start Your Online Business From Scratch With Little Capit by importexpert(m): 3:52pm On Jun 01, 2017
Having an online business has many advantages over offline business. It offers greater time flexibility, great output for little efforts, can be automated to work in your absence, less expensive to run; unlimited potentials for growth and profit generation. Many people are discovering these facts and are taking advantage of the opportunity. Another interesting thing is that virtually anybody can start an online business. Your academic qualifications do not count. If you can learn and think like any rational human, you can run an online business.

While many people know the immense benefits of starting an online business, they run into a brick of wall whenever they think of starting one. If you desire to start an online business but it seems you can’t wrap your head around where to start, this article is for you. You will learn simple tips to get started. Without much ado, here are the steps below.

1. Decide what type of business you want to run: There are numerous opportunities online that are up for grabs. The first mistake many people make is trying to run two or three at the same time. As a hunter, if you try to hunt two animals at the same time, you will lose both. It is better to focus on one and give it all your energies. You may then try another when you have attained substantial success in the first one. When you set out to search for online businesses, you will find opportunities like Freelancing, Affiliate Marketing, Kindle Direct Publishing, Blogging, Dropshipping etc. You can make a choice from all the options.

2. Investigate the business: It is at this point that you carry out research about what you are about to step into. Most businesses crash quickly due to insufficient information about the business. You need to know the dynamics of the business and how to make profit in it. You need to know how to generate traffic because traffic is king in online business. You need to know how to brand your business in that niche you have chosen. And so on. Don’t make the mistake of thinking that all you need is to start a business and every other thing will fall in place. If you do, everything may fall but not in place; because they will fall to crash.

3. Seek a coach or a group of people doing what you are doing: No matter what you read from books and internet links, it will never substitute for what you can personally glean from someone in the game. A coach or mentor is someone who has achieved a certain kind of success in the business you want to step in to. A group of people who are in the same business can also help too. You will find direct motivation from the successes of others and learn the pitfalls you should avoid. From my perspective, taking this step increases your chances of success by over 50%. Don’t try to be an island. You will only make it difficult for yourself to succeed. Get a coach.

4. Get to work: This is one of the most vital steps. Get to work! Stop thinking about the business. Stop accumulating too much information about it. Instead, make the move and start something immediately. . It will astonish you to know many people stop at this juncture. Nobody ever succeeded by thinking of how pleasant it is to do something. Success comes from doing what you learnt and not thinking about it.

5. Stick to what is working: Most times, it is better to stick to what others have proven to work. The moon that shines in one country is the same moon that shines in another. When you are starting out, it is not time to start experimenting on some principles that are untested. First, you need to gain grounds. So, stick to what has been proven to be effective. You may try other methods if you so desire after you have recorded some successes.

6. Create a work schedule: Working online does not require your presence like 8am-4pm jobs. Once you are done with setting up the business, the business can run with a daily input of two to three hours. You need to create a work schedule that will be convenient for you. Doing this will help you create a routine which will be difficult for you to miss. It will help you be consistent in working daily.

7. Don’t give up: You will face challenges in the course of running the business. The most difficult challenges will come when you just set up the business. Don’t fret; it is natural. You are entering unfamiliar grounds and it is normal for everything to look weird at first. Like a wise man once said. “Everything is first difficult before it becomes easy.” Keep asking questions when you seem lost and be persistent. With time, you will become really good in that niche.

Summary

Don’t let anybody confuse you that there is any difficulty in running an online business. Anyone can run one – even a toddler. If you follow these simple steps, you will have very little issues in running your business. Now that you have read this far, you can decide to make this knowledge useful by taking actions.

You Can Join Me And Other Few Successful Affiliate Marketers at www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html To See Exactly What We Do To Succeed In Affiliate Marketing.

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Romance / Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by importexpert(m): 11:35am On Jun 01, 2017
When you read some articles online, they give a lot of dos and don’ts about relationships that are bigger than our Nigerian constitution. These codes are so many that trying to keep all of them can turn a full blooded human to a robot. The point is: while some of the dos and don’ts are valid, they are not always necessary. What works in one relationship may not work in another. This results in partial success and partial failure.
But some things are so essential that you should not overlook them. They form the core of every true relationship. You may refer to them as the engine a successful relationship. Among a plethora of such things, three qualities stand out the most. If they are present in you and your partners, your relationship will weather any storm irrespective of the do’s and don’ts that have been set by others. You can find them below.

1. Teachable: Webster dictionary defines “teachable” as being ‘able and willing to learn’. This is by far the most vital quality. No matter how horrible your partner may be, if they have this one quality, there is still hope. Nobody enters into a relationship being perfect. We must all have a deficit in one way or the other. The ability to be open to learn and change for the happiness of another person is what counts. If your partner does not know how to show love, how to cook, how to tidy up a home or any other thing but is willing to learn, you have a treasure. Too many people will instead just say “That is the way I am and I can’t change for anybody. Deal with it.” It takes a lot of gut and humility to admit that you are doing something wrong and have the desire to learn to do it right. If your partner is rigid and is not willing to learn, you had better think twice.

2. Devotion: You may substitute this word for “commitment.” Love is easy; commitment is difficult. Love is a feeling that comes and goes; commitment remains whether the feeling is present or not. Devotion is what makes someone want to keep a relationship even it is not convenient. It is what makes a partner continually watch out for the interest of another even when they do not feel like it. It is the quality of sticking to someone no matter the challenges. It is what keeps your partner by your side even if they find someone more attractive than you. You would want a partner that would remain committed to you even when they do not feel they love you. It is from this quality that other things like sacrifice spring up. If you doubt your partner’s commitment to you and your relationship, you should have a second thought. Many dating relationships and marriages crash because one partner did not learn how to be devoted during the ups and down of life.

3. Tolerance: If your partner has a quick temper, there is a problem. If your partner is fond of flaring up at the slightest provocation, your relationship is sitting on a time bomb. You need someone who is tolerant when they see your flaws. You will make mistakes. You will commit unimaginable blunders. You will say things you never mean. You will do things that you never really planned to do. You will hurt your partner even without knowing. If you want to argue the previous statements, you need to come to terms with your humanity. Face the truth: you are not perfect. To err is human. But in all, your partner needs to be someone who can forgive and be accommodating of your flaws. And this is why tolerance is crucial. A successful relationship is one where the partners have mastered the art of forgiveness and tolerance.

In conclusion, you will notice that love does not make the list. The reason is because this list is Reality 101. While love is important, it is not a quality a partner can possess. Rather, it is what is felt between two people and the feeling can be erratic. A durable relationship needs more than just love; it needs more of teachability, commitment, and tolerance.

Do you agree with Me cheesy?

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Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:43pm On May 31, 2017
your affiliate marketing related questions are highly welcome
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:08pm On May 31, 2017
post your affiliate marketing related questions lets deal with them.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:07pm On May 31, 2017
Abiagirl777:
I .

please carry your bags and baggages and bagout. as if anybody is begging you to come and view the thread or comment. Na only you waka com.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:05pm On May 31, 2017
Singlecliq:
Lovely piece

thanks.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:04pm On May 31, 2017
justmi1:
I am interested

importexpert:


i concluded with affiliate marketing. you can refer to www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html to get started.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:03pm On May 31, 2017
feel free to ask your affiliate marketing related questions.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:02pm On May 31, 2017
akp202:
Ok....ona for still dey give examples of d online business when dey pay na.... Too much theory

importexpert:


i concluded with affiliate marketing. you can refer to www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html to get started.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 6:01pm On May 31, 2017
feel free to ask your affiliate marketing questions.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 5:57pm On May 31, 2017
sweetkisses:
Ok this is nice. Although you didnt conclude by giving us example of online businesses we can start from home and how to go about them

i concluded with affiliate marketing. you can refer to www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html to get started.
Business / Re: 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 4:52pm On May 31, 2017
See What Some Of Those That Have Learn About My Affiliate Marketing Strategies Are Saying

leppyj:
Just got the affliiate jagaban pack,from importexpert (a man with heart of gold). Importexpert is trusted and tested since the days of mini importation till now. I know he will not dissapoint as usual.

MasterRahl:
I have bought the e-book and I must say it is quite revealing. It was delivered straight to my e-mail in PDF immediately I paid for it. I shaall start practicing what I've read in it this year. Procrastination is the thief of time.
By the way, I'll contact you if I have any challenge. Good work ImportExpert. cool

echobazz:
Jagaban I really admire your e-book,The cost of acquiring the e-book is no where near the content in it.Thanks for your support.

IsaacBuchi:



A lot of people dont appreciate when they are given gold. Some people are narrow minded...some refuse to think out-of-the-box. This guy has released in his ebook all you need to use your brain. I was shocked at the powerful content of the ebook. Every Nigerian deserves to read that gaddamn book. That book has the power to take half of Nigeria's population out of poverty.


This guyz ebook is a gold for Nigerians, I can testify to it- I bought the book. His ebook kept me glued in a chair for over an hour in a stretch- I was reading non-stop...amazed at how someone in Nigeria can release such a powerful idea that alot of people want to hide (and know only themselves).


This guyz ebook saves you years of trial an error. He takes you right past through to the main things. With his ebook, I dont see what should stop anybody ever again in Nigeria from doing and succeeding in online business. He has done the thinking for you, he has done the errors for you.


This guy is a blessing from heaven...this guy is gold...this guy is more of what Nigerians need...this guy is more than a master....this guy has love in his heart (through love indeed....i can vouch for this guy, over and over and over again.)


So please dont come hear to make comment and say "he is selling books of 3000naira". How much did you expect the book to be before. The book is worth over 50,000naira. If he tells you to pay 50k, can you pay it? How much is Facebook advert? $5 (what will Zuckberg do with $5?).


You should understand that he has created something of value out of a loving heart, he definitly should get some credit or reward. He is simply making money from doing what he loves. So why the side talk?


He is simply practicing what he preach- he is making money online. Something you can not do, something you dont know how to do...and he is willing to teach you for just 3000naira and you are complaining and thinking he wants to extort from you- because he ask you to pay him what he rightly deserves (absolutely crazy kind of thinking). But you will still be the same person to go to Night Clubs and spend 20,000naira in one night (invest in the right things). Some people just sit and watch success pass them by and later the begin to wonder why they are poor.


Please, I have said enough. If you are not interested in online means of earning a living, please, and please do not discourage others from taking a right step.


No hard feelings...just trying to correct you.


wonderiyke:
I have equally gotten mine. I got it within 1hr of completing the instructions in the sale site & contacting the Jagaban on phone. The book is quite revealing. I'm doing my best to comprehend. I wish the Jagaban could also do a video that can still be affordable for us.

wonderiyke:


Wow! I'm really blown away by your passion to see people succeed. Thanks bro and may your light burn even brighter this 2017. Happy new year.

You Can See My Secret Strategies At www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html
Business / 5 Reasons Why You Should Start Your Own Work At Home Online Business by importexpert(m): 4:52pm On May 31, 2017
We have all heard of how people start and succeeded in their online business. There are a lot of netpreneurs within our neighborhoods that are strikingly rich and that are earning every single penny legitimately from the comfort of their homes.
One unfortunate thing about the Nigerian community is that their thinking faculty is still clouded with the old mentality of all internet businesses are “yahoo yahoo”. In their own ways of thinking, any successful young person that does not go to 8-5 slavery and earns a lot of money is into “yahoo yahoo” or something illegitimate. As Long as you know you earn every single penny legitimately, jack and Jill can keep on dancing..

Below Are 5 Reasons to Start Your Own Legitimate Internet Business

1. It is an extra source of income

Most Nigerians makes a common mistake, they violate a very important principle of getting rich. The principle says “increase your ability to earn”. Most rich men always think of how to earn more, which new businesses to venture into and so on while the poor are always thinking of how to cut down cost. Example: your salary is 50k, in the next 10 years your increment will make it 65k and by then, you will have 4 kids and inflation has increased significantly.

For heaven sake if 50k can’t cater for you and your wife today how on earth do you think 65k will cater for 6 of you in 10yrs time all in the name of cutting down cost?
Mark my words: principle number 1 is to increase your ability to earn. Since the offline jobs have gone extinct, seek online alternatives.

2. It creates A sense Of Security

Today, a lot of Nigerian workers do not know their faith. They are always hoping they will not meet their dismissal letter on their table daily. As a matter of fact, I wonder if organizations in Nigeria are now competing excellence or the number of people they have sacked. This is mainly because if bank A is not sacking 4000 workers, Bank B is sacking 2800 workers or oil companies are sacking 18,000 people etc.
Having an online business gives you a sense of security. It makes you feel that when you are falling you have a sofa to fall on.

3. It Gives You More Free Time In The Long Run

Some of the most successful affiliate marketers today that work for not more than 4hours weekly use to be employees that use their day time for 8-5 slavery and part of their night for their affiliate marketing business. The fruit their labor has yielded for them is that they are very successful and have much free time as they only work about 4-5hours weekly.

4. It Gives You A Sense Of Accomplishment

Having your own successful online business gives you a sense of achievement. It makes you realize your physical and mental capacities.

5. It Serves As A Financial Shade For Your Future.

As kiyosaki said in his all-time best selling rich dad poor dad, “investment is like a seed, the earlier you sow it the earlier it will grow to create a financial shade for your future”.
Just like the investment seed, so is the internet business seed. The earlier you get started, the earlier it will grow to create a financial shade for your future.

Procrastination has ridiculed billions of extraordinary brains before now. Do not fall victim of the enemy called procrastination. You must start your affiliate marketing business at this second of this minute of this hour of this day right now.

Join us at www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html let me show you how to replicate our affiliate marketing success

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Business / Re: 5 Reasons You Don’t Have An Alternative Source Of Income And How To Solve Them by importexpert(m): 11:22am On May 31, 2017
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Business / 5 Reasons You Don’t Have An Alternative Source Of Income And How To Solve Them by importexpert(m): 11:20am On May 31, 2017
What would you do if you could double your present income? What amount of luxury and comfort would that bring? Many people dream about it, but that is all they ever get to do. The reason is that they are occupied with a job which is difficult to quit. The job at least keeps body and soul together and helps them pay their bills. A few weeks ago, a study revealed that over 75% of Nigerian graduates earn less than, fifty thousand naira monthly. That is a depressing report.
Many people have thought of having a side job that could bring in extra cash to augment their monthly pay. You may have thought about this too. But you there are a few reasons why achieving this goal seem impossible. Here are a couple of them that you may have thought about.

1. Time: The average conventional job gulps at least eight hours of your time daily. Sometimes, it stretches to as much as ten hours or even twelve hours in some extreme cases. This is Nigeria, and you can be sure that most of these jobs that demand so much time hardly give sufficient pay. So after working tirelessly all day, you are probably drained and fatigued. It is almost impossible to be productive for that day anymore. Besides, rarely would an employer hire a worker at about 4 pm that would not translate to a night shift. That means it is impossible to have two jobs; the time would be grossly inadequate.

2. Idea: This is the probably the toughest of all the reasons. The reason is that ideas do not come at will. You cannot force yourself to have a brilliant idea. Have you not noticed that your most fantastic ideas about certain things came while you were not searching for them? This is why sometimes, some people have money but do not know what to do with it. The ideas are just not coming. If you have an idea of how you can shore up your income, you have solved at least 50% of the puzzle. Remember; when we talk about an idea, we refer to something that is not obvious but is novel and can bring in profit. Most people who want to increase their earnings do not know how they can do it.

3. Capital: Business needs money to get kick-started. And the issue of capital is a big one. How on earth can someone who is struggling to make ends meet possibly raise capital for a business? One could think of taking the route of getting a loan, but once again, this is Nigeria. Getting a loan is difficult. A loan that was once advertised to be collateral-free. It required the loan seekers to get guarantors who were worth millions of naira. That’s preposterous. And it is frustrating to have an idea and not have the funds to translate it to reality. So, you have probably considered the financial implications which made you shrink back from the thought of having an alternate source of cash.

4. Information: It is easy to have a general idea of the business you want to engage in. I have met people who always have business ideas. Quiz them a bit about it and watch them fumble because they do not have the right answers. They believed they had an idea, but they did not grasp what it was about. In business, the success is not just solely about the idea, but it is in the execution. There is a certain kind of boldness that you have when you are armed with sufficient details about a business idea. It gives you the mindset that you cannot but succeed. If you have seen many business proposals but never truly understood them, then you can easily relate with this.

5. Convenience: We all love our rest. Nobody loves stress. Having a side job is stressful. It means you will have to cut down on a lot of things like your sleeping time, your personal time, time for your hobbies, time to hang out with friends, etc. Ultimately, the harder you work, the meaningless everything may seem to become. Why? Because all work and no fun can be depressing! You want an avenue where you can earn the kind of pay you desire and yet not sacrifice all your time. You want something that can add up to your monthly earnings but will not leave you stressed nor affect your health. This is an important point to take notice of.

All in All, If you truly desire to have an alternative source of income, and you hold the above points as criteria, you should consider working online. It requires less time, little or virtually no monetary input and gives you flexibility through which makes it convenient for you to work. What more, you can glean off a lot of information from experts in the field. An excellent example is Affiliate Marketing.
A journey of a thousand miles starts with a step. Take the bold step today.

I will show few lucky Nairalanders How to Succeed in Affiliate Marketing within a Month. Join The Lucky Few at www.affiliatejagaban.com/p/jagaban.html
Romance / 7 Major Causes Of Break-ups Of Today’s Relationships by importexpert(m): 10:29am On May 31, 2017
Many people once envisioned that their relationships would lead to something that would last forever. They expected that they would walk down the aisle with someone who was their partner at a point in time. Ever have this expectation too? If you did, feel at ease that many people also had the same kind of expectations.
Unfortunately, life does not just consist of roses; it has thorns too. And those thorns can be piercing and painful. Likewise, many beautiful relationships have broken up. The partners probably never saw it coming. Their friends may not have ever expected it. But it happened anyway.

Here is a list of the major causes of break-ups in our world today. They are what I have observed and analyzed from events that happen around.

1. Cheating: This probably deserves the front position on the list. Most relationships are caused by the infidelity of one of the partners. The infidelity may be sexual or emotional cheating. In emotional cheating, your partner gets so tied up emotionally with the opposite sex till it seems they should be in a relationship with that person and not you. It can manifest through frequent calls, chats, outings, etc. Ultimately, when the partner finds out, trust is torn to shreds. There may be begging, and forgiveness but the trust is gone. Most times, it is only a matter of time before someone calls it quit.

2. Abuse: What is the point of being in a relationship where you should find happiness, yet you are getting abused every day? Abuse is not restricted to physical aggression; it can also be verbal. And both are equally dangerous. Physical abuse can leave you deformed or even make you lose your life. Verbal abuse on the other hand tears down your confidence, self-esteem, and peace till you become weary of life. By observation, women are mostly subject to physical abuse while men are more prone to verbal abuse. Either way, people are starting to muster the courage to leave abusive relationships for good.

3. Indifference: This is one of the worst causes of break-ups. What happens here is one partner struggles to make things work while the other partner just watches on. The partner is not necessarily asking for a break-up or seeking to build the relationship. You can call it a lack of devotion or commitment to the relationship. No matter how hard you try to make such a relationship work, one day you will get tired. No matter how hard you stretch to keep the relationship, one day you will snap. The reason is that your partner’s indifference will eventually lead you to a state of frustration where you just let go everything.

4. Exploitation: When most relationships start, it begins with love as an emotion. The feeling is indescribable. At this point, you can climb mountains for your partner. Soon, the feelings would die down, and reality would set in. The feeling dies down because it is erratic. This is where you are presented with facts about that person. Once you decide to love that person irrespective of what you notice, you have entered the real phase of love. The sad thing is that: by the time most people get past the initial feelings, they realize that though they loved their partner, that partner was merely taking advantage of them. What they termed making sacrifices for love was actually exploitation. Exploitation could be in the form of sex, money, fame, power, material possessions, etc. And once this is discovered, the relationship crashes.

5. Dead feelings: Many people today dump a relationship when they cease to experience the sweet feelings they felt at the beginning. They think a relationship must always thrill them and stir their excitement. They often forget that relationship may be fun, but it is work. Real work. It may come with its excitement, but it also comes with responsibilities which are necessary to sustain it. Their challenge is that they only want the excitement and not the responsibilities. As soon as they sense the feeling is gone, they quit the relationship too.

6. Ego: This is a rapid destroyer of relationships. When someone insists they are always right and want always to have their way, it is a bad omen. Refusing to apologize or refusing to yield to the opinion of your partner shows that feelings and views do not matter to you. Someone people can bear long and hope that their partner would change. Others have a low tolerance for such egocentric fellows and prefer just to end the relationship.

7. Unsettled issues: As you probably know, no relationship is perfect. The reason is that both partners have flaws and can make mistakes. Truth is: you will get hurt in a relationship. It may be through the words or actions of your partner. But it takes wisdom to settle the score and allow it to heal. Sadly, most relationships today have wounds that are left unattended to. When one partner gets hurt and hides it rather than allow it to heal, the wound festers. It doesn’t go away; it just gets worse with time. One day, such a partner would just decide they’ve had enough already and call it quit. It is better to settle issues quickly rather than ignore them and pretend they don’t exist.

Conclusion

So, there they are! Our past experiences cease to hurt us once we learn from them. Knowing the above can help you spot a red flag in a relationship and know how to handle it when the need arises.
So, what’s your story? You probably have experienced any of these. You can share your views and experiences in the comment section.

I Remain yours: ImportExpert

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Business / Re: If You Have 5 Of These 7 Qualities, You Are Good To Start A Business by importexpert(m): 5:04pm On May 29, 2017
Boladapor:
True......and never look down on or underestimate urself.
Start from somewhere!

well said bro
Business / Re: If You Have 5 Of These 7 Qualities, You Are Good To Start A Business by importexpert(m): 5:03pm On May 29, 2017
Adonike:
I know of a man that has all these and is still looking for a local government's white collar job.



his destiny is heading for the muds

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